Newbieboyz90 Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 Wanted to let today be the last time I go sauna and do thelast gay-related stuff before psychoing myselfnto go back to the "straight path". But Just met a guy at the sauna who I first time feel like gg into a rs with! I mean many guys asked me out and I reject them all, but first time I am the one who asked. Nw mind getting more and more confused. Shld I cont or nt....wah....shall try gg out with him for a while first... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 Quit confusing yourself. Ask yourself whether if you want to psych yourself into becoming straight or not. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 And I think going into a relationship with a guy you met from the sauna is not a very good timing to start with. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 GYOZAAAAA Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbieboyz90 Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 (edited) And I think going into a relationship with a guy you met from the sauna is not a very good timing to start with.Thk! I gt ur point. If doesn't work out, then just so be it. Then I will focus and psycho myself to turn striaght when I go uni. Edited May 4, 2012 by Newbieboyz90 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 Well, all the very best! Remember to enjoy your good times with him while you can but not to leave any regrets in your life.Another thing about your prospective straight life, it may be harder than you imagine.. because ultimately you need some courage to reveal your "homosexual" past to your future girlfriend in a honest way. Two outcomes will entail: she will get disgusted and decide not to see you anymore OR gladly accept you. All in all, you must be damn serious about marrying your prospective girlfriend in the future because I do not want to see more of disillusioned "closeted" married men secretively having sex with us. Regardless of whatever circumstances they are forced to marry a woman against their will, they must maintain their role as a husband and father no matter what. This is a basic expectation that is required of every married man. Of course, it is possible to get a divorce should your feelings for women go down and your wish to go back to a gay lifestyle. But this path is unnecessarily a waste of time and effort on your and her side. Date, spend a lot of $$$ on wedding & child planning, have sex, raise your child, then finally divorce. Waste of time and effort, right? So think carefully.Sorry for being long-winded, but my main point is that you need to think about maintaining a straight lifestyle in a long term, not in the short term. Since you mentioned you are going to U, I believe you are smart enough to get the gist of my post. Make a correct decision.But hey, should you confirm to go straight, remember not to shun us okay? We are also human beings with feelings okay!!! Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 4, 2012 Report Share Posted May 4, 2012 I feel like I've been really cynical the past few months and it's getting tiring. I want to believe again, even if it mean getting hurt again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted May 5, 2012 Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 Thk! I gt ur point. If doesn't work out, then just so be it. Then I will focus and psycho myself to turn striaght when I go uni.Doesn't work dude. If you're gay, you're gay. No amount of lies will change that.Quit confusing yourself. Ask yourself whether if you want to psych yourself into becoming straight or not.What the hell? That's the most rubbish advice anyone can ever give to someone. Pretending to be someone whom you're not will only lead to resentment and unhappiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted May 5, 2012 Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 I wasn't asking him to pretend that he was not. He has to decide for himself if he really want to be straight or not. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted May 5, 2012 Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 I wasn't asking him to pretend that he was not. He has to decide for himself if he really want to be straight or not.I have doubt regarding your understanding of how sexual preference are like. Can I wake up tomorrow and 'decide' to be straight? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loneslones22 Posted May 5, 2012 Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 PLEASE LAH, if your love is sooooo weida~ u wont even fall for a second guy despite u being attached, why? u need a lot of sex is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted May 5, 2012 Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 (edited) Implicit trust & indomitable faith -- How's either one achievable? Edited May 5, 2012 by The.Intrv. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atrapada Posted May 5, 2012 Author Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 i love my life, i love u mum babooshame07 1 Quote Art makes the world go round! Love is the entirety of it! blog: www.confusedfella.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 i love my life, i love u mumAwwwww babooshame07 1 Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernboi Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 (edited) scared my current bf will like or fall for my ex bf... Edited May 6, 2012 by northernboi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 scared my current bf will like or fall for my ex bf...Extrapolate please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Movie later. Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ice.ice.boy Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 rain has stop time to go starbucks and mug :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 the rain lol ugh stop Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fantapals Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 i shall stop ruminating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 scared my current bf will like or fall for my ex bf...Your insecurity and his infidelity. They're perfectly normal. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 the rain lol ugh stopStopped at West side liao./sadface Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Your insecurity and his infidelity. They're perfectly normal.they're not normal. they're perfect "relationship-ender" elements. or should i say, if you can't get over your insecurity and he can't get over his infidelity, then none of you should even be in a relationship.people these days... jump into a relationship way too easily. Stopped at West side liao. /sadface think it has subsided in central here too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 (edited) they're not normal. they're perfect "relationship-ender" elements. or should i say, if you can't get over your insecurity and he can't get over his infidelity, then none of you should even be in a relationship.people these days... jump into a relationship way too easily Alas, they're of normality in most... 'relationships' these days; flings they actually are, relationships they call it, and pseudo affections they be. Edited May 6, 2012 by The.Intrv. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babooshame07 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Can a person really be asexual? (not attracted to man, woman or transvestites) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atrapada Posted May 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Can a person really be asexual? (not attracted to man, woman or transvestites) I think it is possible.. the human mind n heart is so diverse.... and i remember watching an episode of the tyra banks show where a lady was attracted to the eiffel tower and married it... babooshame07 1 Quote Art makes the world go round! Love is the entirety of it! blog: www.confusedfella.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atrapada Posted May 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 I can't help to think of u daily, when even simple things remind me of u it gets exhausting... It will be alright, it will be ok eventually but am I really alright?? Quote Art makes the world go round! Love is the entirety of it! blog: www.confusedfella.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topLTR_93 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Need to get rid of my hot-headedness in NS. Sighhh cant resist shouting ASK YOUR GRANDMOTHER DO LUH when PS shouts "my ah ma can run faster than you" or some shit like that. shit. 3 more days Quote Sianz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frostmag Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 i wanna forget you. Quote The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loneslones22 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 I will not forgive you~ not forget about the things you have done. IN fact, BOTH OF YOU HAVE DONE TO ME~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babooshame07 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Today, Changi had over 60 trees ripped apart or fallen to ground, some cars were damaged at Changi Beach. Singapore trees are getting old, weak and dangerous, whenever there are super storms, they fall easily. Please don't park your car underneath a tree or stand/walk under a tree when you encounter a thunderstorm, it may not be a wise choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babooshame07 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 (edited) I think it is possible.. the human mind n heart is so diverse.... and i remember watching an episode of the tyra banks show where a lady was attracted to the eiffel tower and married it...Even something more absurb, I read online that Egyptian law is passing a ruling 'farewell intercourse law', this allows husbands to have sex with their dead wives. The title read 'Alleged proposals to allow Egyptian husbands to legally have sex with their dead wives for up to six hours after their death' WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THIS BIZARRE WORLD?Necrophilia, Paedopilia, Incest and Bestiality are taboos. Thou Shalt Not Touch!!! Edited May 6, 2012 by babooshame07 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loneslones22 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 why the egyptian law so funny de? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Love hurts. Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babooshame07 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Love hurts. Don't cry, it may hurt now but someday you will understand, he/she will reciprocate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 Don't cry, it may hurt now but someday you will understand, he/she will reciprocate.I need company. Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babooshame07 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 What sort of company? Companion or Setting up a business? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loneslones22 Posted May 6, 2012 Report Share Posted May 6, 2012 I need company.dont emo ba? ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 7, 2012 Report Share Posted May 7, 2012 hungry... Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiroi_Ryuu Posted May 7, 2012 Report Share Posted May 7, 2012 万念俱灰心已死，不愿再为情中人。 Quote “THINGS YOU NEVER HEAR: 'Please stop sucking my dick or I'll call the police.”Personal Blog: http://shiroiluke.wordpress.com/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radialhead Posted May 7, 2012 Report Share Posted May 7, 2012 All this warring gay group politics is so. . . deja vu. I remember being a member in one in the 2000s and I've seen them all: catfights, bitchiness, factions, dialogue, more bitchiness, uneasy truce and eventual formation of another group. Seeing all of this now made me reminisce. But I don't want to be a part of this spectacle. I know how this ends.Been there, done that.*Snap*Snap*Snap samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted May 8, 2012 Report Share Posted May 8, 2012 I can't be bothered with all this bitchiness as I'm more interested in taking constructive remedies. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted May 8, 2012 Report Share Posted May 8, 2012 Trust me, I'm an Engineer! Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torso Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 Is good to be back... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kage Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 *rolls around* Quote You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 Guess i am just too annoying for you.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ice.ice.boy Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 im slowly... distancing myself away... but sometimes u just pull me back and i keep thinking abt it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torso Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 Should i take up the offer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ice.ice.boy Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 never will be good enough for you... no no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bigbangbang Posted May 9, 2012 Report Share Posted May 9, 2012 i always ask myself: are we really born this way? or what? this feeling sucks! well, maybe telling myself that I'm born like that would make me feel better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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