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Omg solo-travel is sooo crazy :D my Mum asked me to fly to HK alone... should I?

Just go for it! Don't worry too much, have faith in the country you're going to! Like how I'm placing my faith in Malaysia's LRT system and maps to not get me stranded in another state or something, haha!

 

 

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Just go for it! Don't worry too much, have faith in the country you're going to! Like how I'm placing my faith in Malaysia's LRT system and maps to not get me stranded in another state or something, haha!

I was born there, and was raised there for 6 years before coming to Singapore. I've been going back HK every 1-2 years... I just hate to travel alone :(

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I was born there, and was raised there for 6 years before coming to Singapore. I've been going back HK every 1-2 years... I just hate to travel alone :(

Aww, it can be nice to travel alone. I mean, you don't need to deal with whiny slowpokes, right? :/

 

 

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I'm just afraid of sleeping alone... in a foreign place, on a foreign bed. Omg I'm starting to think about horror movie scenes.

Hong Kong was a lovely magical travel destination for me. I travelled with friends for a few days and spent the rest of the stay exploring by myself and at night just as you mentioned sleeping in a foreign place on a foreign bed but i distinctly remember it being someone else's bed and he was in it too hahaha... ^_^ Fun times..

"i acknowledge your opinion and i hope you can acknowledge mine"- a wise man once told me...

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Want to go London 2 nights, Paris day trip, Bangkok 1 night. Hope this Thursday trip confirmed awww

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Kaze, those stuff crazy dude! Love them!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Hahaha go Youtube 'fire rescue auction style'.

Have fun!

OMFG!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I love someone, let's call him D, because ABC are daft, obtuse and overused.

But it didn't work out, because it seemed that D wasn't ready to be in a relationship.

We met. D said to do what is needed. I told him it was what I needed. I took off my jacket.

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Then I pushed him down the stairs.

I felt horrible, but gave me what I need to stop pining for D. He limped away.

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Whoever said I felt good really misunderstood me. I can't even look at myself in the mirror. I cried the whole night.

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But I thought since nothing has raised any alarm, I should just move on, and at last I left the house for dinner, my first meal of the day.

Earlier on just now, a common friend told me that D is in hospital with a sprained ankle, and a fractured arm.

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Now I can't sleep.

How to focus when I go back to camp later? How do I sleep?

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Want to have briyani from briyani express for breakfast then pack for a crazy trip: chicken rice tomorrow in BKK (Soi Convent), weekend in London, 1 night in BKK Mon. Got my tixs liao!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I love someone, let's call him D, because ABC are daft, obtuse and overused.

But it didn't work out, because it seemed that D wasn't ready to be in a relationship.

We met. D said to do what is needed. I told him it was what I needed. I took off my jacket.

.

.

.

.

.

Then I pushed him down the stairs.

I felt horrible, but gave me what I need to stop pining for D. He limped away.

.

.

.

.

Whoever said I felt good really misunderstood me. I can't even look at myself in the mirror. I cried the whole night.

.

.

.

.

.

But I thought since nothing has raised any alarm, I should just move on, and at last I left the house for dinner, my first meal of the day.

Earlier on just now, a common friend told me that D is in hospital with a sprained ankle, and a fractured arm.

.

.

.

.

Now I can't sleep.

How to focus when I go back to camp later? How do I sleep?

I'm gonna be very crude about this.

Let that be a punishment and a lesson learnt for you for being selfish and self centered. Idk, I understand how it feels to love someone so deeply that I know that I might even go to extreme lengths to keep him with me. But like sometimes, we just have to understand that things don't go our way...

You're probably gonna say that I'm not in your shoes so I won't understand, but yeah, I've been in love with someone for 6 years and I know that no matter how much I want him, it just won't happen. I've once thought of doing nasty stuffs to him and I was really terrified of what I might do, which was why I distanced myself. It's just my way of doing things I guess.

I don't think you should even hope that he will forgive you, but what you can really do is to at least have the basic courtesy of giving him an apology with a fruit basket or something. [if you haven't done it yet.]

Maybe I'm assuming too much or maybe I might come off as a little arrogant, but yeah, you'll never feel better by hurting someone, physically or emotionally.

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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I love someone, let's call him D, because ABC are daft, obtuse and overused.

But it didn't work out, because it seemed that D wasn't ready to be in a relationship.

We met. D said to do what is needed. I told him it was what I needed. I took off my jacket.

Then I pushed him down the stairs.I felt horrible, but gave me what I need to stop pining for D. He limped away.

Whoever said I felt good really misunderstood me. I can't even look at myself in the mirror. I cried the whole nightBut I thought since nothing has raised any alarm, I should just move on, and at last I left the house for dinner, my first meal of the day.Earlier on just now, a common friend told me that D is in hospital with a sprained ankle, and a fractured arm Now I can't sleepHow to focus when I go back to camp later? How do I sleep?

Dude, WHAT THE FISH?!Normal people, gay or otherwise, don't PUSH people down simply because they are not in love with them.what the hell, physical abuse isn't the answer! I hope you feel REALLY guilty for this. I'm not even sure how you can go seek his forgiveness. What sane excuse could you possibly use to justify your attempt to kill him? What the hell, really.
 

 

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Dude, WHAT THE FISH?!Normal people, gay or otherwise, don't PUSH people down simply because they are not in love with them.what the hell, physical abuse isn't the answer! I hope you feel REALLY guilty for this. I'm not even sure how you can go seek his forgiveness. What sane excuse could you possibly use to justify your attempt to kill him? What the hell, really.

Chill :/

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Dude, WHAT THE FISH?!Normal people, gay or otherwise, don't PUSH people down simply because they are not in love with them.what the hell, physical abuse isn't the answer! I hope you feel REALLY guilty for this. I'm not even sure how you can go seek his forgiveness. What sane excuse could you possibly use to justify your attempt to kill him? What the hell, really.

Lol dude chill man. I don't think we should judge too quickly. Like how a kid can end up killing their parents, I'm sure there're stuffs that contributed to that conclusion.

Anyhow, I think he has suffered enough, well, what to do @@...we learn and become better people.

But eh, from what I see about the story right, it's about them having a physical relationship, and some stuffs happen lah, then our dear kayak1993 fell in love and wanted a rs with 'D'. Well, 'D' refused and said he didn't want a relationship, only fun. Or something?? And tada, D probably felt bad and met up with our dear kayak1993 and said that he can do anything to him as long as he stop pining. [i think he probably thought that he'd get a slap or something @@, but yeah down the stairs like a boss!]

Okay lah side track a bit, idk leh there was a time, I loved someone so deeply that I could've sworn that I wanted to tie him up and keep him at home LOL HAHA. Creepy huh, but yeah, just saying, I think kayak1993 had a really bad approach to this incident but *shrugs*, shit happens.

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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I have zero tolerance for physical violence. Especially against someone you love lah, wha liew. And here I thought punching was bad enough, he pushed him down a flight of stairs. Could have broken his neck lor.

Might as well take a knife to his head lah.

 

 

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Mental and emotional abuse can be much more painful than physical violence yeah :).

Like just saying lah, not saying that physical violence is right, but just saying that because of different upbringings we have a different take on life which affects our expression and actions.

We have all sorts of people in this world, some people enjoy pain, well it allows them to feel alive, etc. People won't understand it unless they were born in their shoes.

But yeah lah aiyo, he probably wasn't thinking straight. I blame media for all this LOL. You see all those movies and dramas, dabai the girl cannot get the guy she will use black magic, scheme, physically harm, etc etc the guy. Then same thing in a case where the guy wants the girl but she doesn't want it, he will tie her up slap her, rape her bla bla bla bla, etc.

Psychologically affects us when we are in that similar situation? Mm, possible..no? @@;

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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To Kaze and EasleyLim,

Thank you for being bold to tell me off.

I'm still feeling guilty and unable to focus properly. I can't visit "D" because I'm unable to book out from camp. He didn't reply to my texts, so I'm very jumpy now when my phone buzzes.

Knives are so not me, and tsk tsk, Kaze - tying people up.. Not my way of handling the hurt. He wasn't ready to be in a relationship because he was never in one, plus there are anxieties I guess. We all deal with hurt differently and I was somewhat brought up to deal damage when I am hurt myself.

I need to go off, before my CSM makes his rounds.

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Nice underwear the client got me. Awww sexy

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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To Kaze and EasleyLim,

Thank you for being bold to tell me off.

I'm still feeling guilty and unable to focus properly. I can't visit "D" because I'm unable to book out from camp. He didn't reply to my texts, so I'm very jumpy now when my phone buzzes.

Knives are so not me, and tsk tsk, Kaze - tying people up.. Not my way of handling the hurt. He wasn't ready to be in a relationship because he was never in one, plus there are anxieties I guess. We all deal with hurt differently and I was somewhat brought up to deal damage when I am hurt myself.

I need to go off, before my CSM makes his rounds.

o_o; , that was just a thought that I indulged in in the past. Aiyo, never been in a relationship is not an excuse to not enter one mah, unless you were extremely forceful and pushy about it. Just try to think before you act next time man. I've thought of tying him up, but I've never done that, because I thought it through HAHA. Why push someone sia, it's like..

*Takes off jacket coolly*

Cb, don't want stead with me sibo, eat staircase. MATCHHH. (ノ `Д´)ノ ~┻━┻

Aiyo, since it happened le, just make peace with yourself lah. No point excruciating over it, what done is done. Might sound a bit mean but yeah, no point crying over spilled milk. You've done what you've done, now follow it and go through yea path of destructionnnnn~!!

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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Follow through the path of destruction...?

Noooo, bad advice. Don't follow! Sibei awkward liao sia, next time he sees D, hurhur. "Hey I had pushed you, and this is crazy, but here's my sorry so forgive me mebbe?"

HAHA WTF LOL!!!!

What hor, what bad advise! Kaze's advise is never wrong kk! I'd get a fruitbasket or somehow visit that person and apologise. Then afterwards I will avoid that person forever. LOL. I mean, no matter how much I love him, I did something that I will never be able to redeem myself from mah, might as well leave that person.

Idk lah, my logic. If it doesn't works out, break contact. No matter how much I'd love to hear his voice or talk to him once more, I'd stop myself. There shall be no second chanceeee. :unsure:

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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