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Went for lunch with my 2 colleagues and my boss. I was sitting with my 30+ male colleague while my other 20+ female colleague and my 30+ male boss went to order food.

I have pretty good co-worker relationship with him, and generally nice until today. We were talking about random stuff until he mention "what will you do if you are rich?".

"I will donate part of the money to charity to help people.", he replied "Oh I am not as noble as you, I will spend everything for myself, cars, house, women, etc." (So I learnt he is a selfish person, at least he is honest about it) We continued talking until I said "I will use the money as well to give it to science institution to research a cure for cancer and AIDS."

He then said cancer is okay but not AIDS. I was like what the fxxk. He said "Are you serious? If you find a cure for AIDS, it will just means people will have more casual sex, gay sex, etc." At that time I was already boiling inside so I said "What about those kids born with AIDS?" Before I can continue, he interrupted me and told me it is okay for those born with AIDS but not the rest and that the government will just steal the cure if they found out about it.

I was very annoyed and angry by then. And because I don't like conflict, I just kept quiet but I am thinking in my head "just because a person likes casual sex or have AIDS, that doesn't mean that person is a bad person, who the fxxk are you to judge how others live their lives? And you are being a freaking prick that just because some people live their life a negative way doesn't mean everyone is bad and doesn't deserved to be cured, and calling gay sex bad? Now I finally know your true colors."

I just simply said "You are not thinking emotionally enough" without looking at him anymore. He replied "I am looking at it logically."

Bitch, which idiot with the right mind who has AIDS and was cured from AIDS will continue to risk getting AIDS? Won't they will want to practice safe sex the next time round? His phone rang while I try to control myself from showing my rage.

I really can't stand it. By the time my boss and other colleague came back with the food, he just finish talking on the phone and then he pretend that the conversation didn't happen (or that he "won" the argument). I kept quiet throughout the lunch only occasionally making general remarks about the food (which is expansive and bad by the way). When my boss saw that I didn't finish my rice (and perhaps because he realize I was acting weirdly) he asked what's wrong, I just look down and continue eating.

When my boss joke and ask my male colleague was it that he bully me. He just replied with a no, as if the conversation really didn't happen.

I didn't talk to my colleague for the rest of the day (he sits just behind me). I didn't even say goodbye specifically to him (which I usually do), I just said I am leaving to the whole office (which at that time is my 2 bosses and him). I hope he realize I am mad with him. Actually I don't really care.

Thank goodness my internship is ending in 5 weeks time. I don't really want to face someone who is always so narrow-minded and negative thinking. I really wanted to ask him "Don't you have friends who are gay or have AIDS? Are you unable to show some sympathy and kindness towards them? Are you really that stone-hearted?".

If there is a God, I pray He will enlighten his mind from all the prejudices and wrong mindset he has.

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Went for lunch with my 2 colleagues and my boss. I was sitting with my 30+ male colleague while my other 20+ female colleague and my 30+ male boss went to order food.

I have pretty good co-worker relationship with him, and generally nice until today. We were talking about random stuff until he mention "what will you do if you are rich?".

"I will donate part of the money to charity to help people.", he replied "Oh I am not as noble as you, I will spend everything for myself, cars, house, women, etc." (So I learnt he is a selfish person, at least he is honest about it) We continued talking until I said "I will use the money as well to give it to science institution to research a cure for cancer and AIDS."

He then said cancer is okay but not AIDS. I was like what the fxxk. He said "Are you serious? If you find a cure for AIDS, it will just means people will have more casual sex, gay sex, etc." At that time I was already boiling inside so I said "What about those kids born with AIDS?" Before I can continue, he interrupted me and told me it is okay for those born with AIDS but not the rest and that the government will just steal the cure if they found out about it.

I was very annoyed and angry by then. And because I don't like conflict, I just kept quiet but I am thinking in my head "just because a person likes casual sex or have AIDS, that doesn't mean that person is a bad person, who the fxxk are you to judge how others live their lives? And you are being a freaking prick that just because some people live their life a negative way doesn't mean everyone is bad and doesn't deserved to be cured, and calling gay sex bad? Now I finally know your true colors."

I just simply said "You are not thinking emotionally enough" without looking at him anymore. He replied "I am looking at it logically."

Bitch, which idiot with the right mind who has AIDS and was cured from AIDS will continue to risk getting AIDS? Won't they will want to practice safe sex the next time round? His phone rang while I try to control myself from showing my rage.

I really can't stand it. By the time my boss and other colleague came back with the food, he just finish talking on the phone and then he pretend that the conversation didn't happen (or that he "won" the argument). I kept quiet throughout the lunch only occasionally making general remarks about the food (which is expansive and bad by the way). When my boss saw that I didn't finish my rice (and perhaps because he realize I was acting weirdly) he asked what's wrong, I just look down and continue eating.

When my boss joke and ask my male colleague was it that he bully me. He just replied with a no, as if the conversation really didn't happen.

I didn't talk to my colleague for the rest of the day (he sits just behind me). I didn't even say goodbye specifically to him (which I usually do), I just said I am leaving to the whole office (which at that time is my 2 bosses and him). I hope he realize I am mad with him. Actually I don't really care.

Thank goodness my internship is ending in 5 weeks time. I don't really want to face someone who is always so narrow-minded and negative thinking. I really wanted to ask him "Don't you have friends who are gay or have AIDS? Are you unable to show some sympathy and kindness towards them? Are you really that stone-hearted?".

If there is a God, I pray He will enlighten his mind from all the prejudices and wrong mindset he has.

We will pray for these people. For their understanding & acceptance.

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Went for lunch with my 2 colleagues and my boss. I was sitting with my 30+ male colleague while my other 20+ female colleague and my 30+ male boss went to order food..............

If there is a God, I pray He will enlighten his mind from all the prejudices and wrong mindset he has.

there is no gawd to pray to

too many insensitive ppl ard :angry:

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He can't get me. He uses my friend to get me. He will not get me if his attitude remains ugly.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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He: I will meet you after dinner

Me: Huh? I thought we are meeting for dinner

He: (No reply)

Me: No worries. I will find a friend to have dinner with me. Will let you know when I am done.

An hour later.

He: You at home?

Me: On the bus to have dinner with my friend

He: I think your dinner will end late. Enjoy and see you next time.

Me: (No reply).

Me waited 3 weeks. Finally took the courage to throw his toothbrush away.

this kind of people don't deserve any love at all. reminds me of the ancient Chinese emperor and his harem of beauties... just that... haha.

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ahem, bo jio.

I miss the brunch and bottomless mimosas that represented the perfect gateway drug to a weekend of real fun.

Every second back then in D.C., Chicago or Seattle now felt like magic. It's kinda dreadful to be back.

No weed, no booze, no intellectual conversations, no more Rem Koolhaases or Frank Gehrys to gasp at, no beautiful/beautiful-mannered people to secretly fawn on...

The person is back, but the heart's stuck on the other side of the Greenwich line.

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Grindr message. He asked 'U btm?' My profiles clearly states Top. I replied 'U used your dick to read or you failed English?'

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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You're awesome.

Thanks. Perhaps I should share one online incident on IRC. I am usually a polite person but when someone gets me at the wrong time (we have such moments), he will get my e-fxxk hehehe. Here was what happened.

He: Is there any other guy besides the ugly guy at the website?

Me: Why don't u ask your mama to put u back inside her cheebye to make u look beautiful as u don't have the fxxking guts to show your face

He: I may be ugly but I am paying after all

Me: Then take that money and fxxk your own ass

Have a gd Sunday. Love your glasses :thumb:

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Thanks. Perhaps I should share one online incident on IRC. I am usually a polite person but when someone gets me at the wrong time (we have such moments), he will get my e-fxxk hehehe. Here was what happened.

He: Is there any other guy besides the ugly guy at the website?

Me: Why don't u ask your mama to put u back inside her cheebye to make u look beautiful as u don't have the fxxking guts to show your face

He: I may be ugly but I am paying after all

Me: Then take that money and fxxk your own ass

Have a gd Sunday. Love your glasses :thumb:

Hahaha you made my day :)

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crying is for the weak. let me just be weak this once cos I really feel like crying. thanks for the memories. it's a beautiful thing now that I recall. really. Bon voyage.

Crying is not for the weak. Only those who are strong will push aside their pride and let the tears flow. I am not embarrassed to tell you I cry when I am sad as tears calm me down. The crying makes me stronger. I read your posting and it's a beautiful thing. Your tears taken over by good memories you can always remember of you and your friend who just left. Hugs.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Sigh there are some tiresome users who are so like that. Just shoot off their vitriolic comments at anyone, even in their unprovoked state. Especially when the comments by the other users weren't even directed towards them. I know they could mean well but started off on a wrong note.

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Sigh there are some tiresome users who are so like that. Just shoot off their vitriolic comments at anyone, even in their unprovoked state. Especially when the comments by the other users weren't even directed towards them. I know they could mean well but started off on a wrong note.

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if you don't like me, theres nothing i can do NEWS FLASH BITCH i dont live to please you.'' - I found this. Thought it might interest you hehehehe.

There will always be negative people with opinions for everything - if only their views are good ones else they are just making a fool of themselves reinforcing their insecurities but look at the bright side, they make us famous.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Every morning, I will spend close to an hour in bed clearing messages on my blackberry including Grindr. The common messages 'U not sleeping?' 'U horny? 'U high?' etc. The messages come in after I sleep and during the wee hours till I wake up.

I will respond, 'When I go to bed every night, Grindr takes over night shift. It collects messages for me to reply when I wake up. I will then send the person a screen capture. 'See, you are there.' He would then believe me I was asleep when he was horny or in planet mars or simply couldn't sleep to send me a message and I didn't respond earlier.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Every morning, I will spend close to an hour in bed clearing messages on my blackberry including Grindr. The common messages 'U not sleeping?' 'U horny? 'U high?' etc. The messages come in after I sleep and during the wee hours till I wake up.

I will respond, 'When I go to bed every night, Grindr takes over night shift. It collects messages for me to reply when I wake up. I will then send the person a screen capture. 'See, you are there.' He would then believe me I was asleep when he was horny or in planet mars or simply couldn't sleep to send me a message and I didn't respond earlier.

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It's like a meat market in there lol.

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It's like a meat market in there lol.

Different types, made and shapes. Colourful, too. Sometimes I dunno if I should be cooking lamb chop or black pepper beef with capsicum or just have chicken satay lol!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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im vegetarian.

Hmmmm we need to work on how you can eat those meat without going against your belief

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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The property manager of my place called me saying they might arrange for my bathroom to be painted tomorrow with the colour of my choice. 'Landlord wants you to choose the paint colour.' 'Wahhhhh so nice one ahhhh', I sarcastically said when she brought the paint catalogue. She also said they will be replacing the outdoor roof but on Thursday when I am travelling. 'But they don't need to come in to your room.' She immediately told me as she and her team know I would entertain them with a nice erotic graphical sexual story if someone opens my door again after the last time when I flashed myself naked infront of their contractor.

Will see if all goes as planned from them which I doubt. In the meantime, I will brush up my writing skill as an erotic story teller.

Ziz starts to think. 'Should I use fellatio or oral sex?'

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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