stars Posted August 21, 2011 Report Share Posted August 21, 2011 Your own sexuality has really nothing to do with what the rest of this god damn world really thinks of you.Do you know why the video or smiliar ones are created? This really stems from your own fear from unable to accept for who you really are, and thus throught this media, you seek for acceptance.You really make no sense - he isn't seeking acceptance. He's just sharing his coming out story; he's not coming out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beast Posted August 21, 2011 Report Share Posted August 21, 2011 It is not your choice that u are born a gay. Hence there's no need for u to blame yourself.Be happy.Thanks fab. *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVisitors Posted August 21, 2011 Report Share Posted August 21, 2011 You really make no sense - he isn't seeking acceptance. He's just sharing his coming out story; he's not coming out.You don't did things like that for nothing. It is made public, so what do you expect ?" He's just sharing his coming out story, he 's not coming out"What you said , doesn't mean any sense.Rhetorical . Thats whats its worth.In Hokkien, what you did is termed LPPL.You know what is that?Lam Pa Pa Lam.Now go find out the meaning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stars Posted August 22, 2011 Report Share Posted August 22, 2011 You don't did things like that for nothing. It is made public, so what do you expect ? " He's just sharing his coming out story, he 's not coming out" What you said , doesn't mean any sense. Rhetorical . Thats whats its worth. In Hokkien, what you did is termed LPPL. You know what is that? Lam Pa Pa Lam. Now go find out the meaningIf you read the description, you'd see that he has come out to his friends & family - he is sharing the coming out EXPERIENCE. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qedcwc Posted August 22, 2011 Report Share Posted August 22, 2011 R u sure?Can u try telling yr boss n see what he or she and all yr collaegues n see what is they thoughts n respond ?Can they accept YOU as a gay first ?Oh is a damp big deal for straight ppl leh.U try first? :clap:I'm getting the feeling that the one who posted this is probably a straight homophobe.... Quote "You like who you like lah. Who cares if someone likes the other someone because of their race? It's when they hate them. That's the problem."Orked (acted by Sharifah Amani) in SEPET (2004, directed by Yasmin Ahmad) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yy Posted August 22, 2011 Report Share Posted August 22, 2011 No one in blowing wing forum fellow member would upload such a video like that and announce to public like that, is the most stupid things I even seen.You don't own us any explanation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVisitors Posted August 22, 2011 Report Share Posted August 22, 2011 If you read the description, you'd see that he has come out to his friends & family - he is sharing the coming out EXPERIENCE.Out with his friends and family, but posted in world wide in Youtube, thus it is not exclusively known only to them.Why not save the trouble, by telling them , not us.It is none of our business, nor that doesn't make him an icon symbolizing braveryYou focus on the description, without realizing the rest of the act B-rabbit 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chee keong Posted August 22, 2011 Report Share Posted August 22, 2011 Hey i really can't stand that teenage boy the way he speak sooooo sissy wow lau............No need to announce eveybody will know............... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B-rabbit Posted August 29, 2011 Report Share Posted August 29, 2011 isn't this whole video a sort of 'look at me i'm open and gay?' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted August 29, 2011 Report Share Posted August 29, 2011 Ellen, The Coming Out Episodehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=it5P0pYCBAA Part 1/3http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QI1tB89HzeE Part 2/3 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted August 29, 2011 Report Share Posted August 29, 2011 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mklCBiF5sQI Part 3/3 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spin Posted August 30, 2011 Report Share Posted August 30, 2011 (edited) isn't this whole video a sort of 'look at me i'm open and gay?' Edited August 30, 2011 by Spin Quote :whistle: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blue Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 Hi guys, i'm Blue and i'm 18.I've got to admit that i've lurking around this forum for quite some time now ( yes, i do know), and its often mentioned that it is impossible to change your sexuality. Personally I feel I'm still confused and I wonder when will I get out of this phase. While girls don't turn me off, I am sexually inclined to guys instead. I'm pretty sure I know what I want in life, which is to eventually get married but it is not just because it is the social norm, it is just that I tend to feel emotionally attracted to girls more.It just seem so hard to try to switch. Straight pxxn works just fine but I just have this tendency to switch on they gay one instead. Would it be quite selfish to love your wife while you have feelings for other men? ( sexually not emotionally of course) I think it could be possible for me to abstain and avoid gay pxxn ( I'm not sure would it be for life) but should I try?I've no experience in relationships at all. Probably will never date a guy thoughI seem to kind of know what i want, its just that I'm addicted to gay pxxn, haha. sigh. Hopefully you guys will not think I'm coming across as pathetic as i think i seem to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bervyn Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 Hi blue I guess it should be fine to be confused about your sexuality at your age especially when the environment does not perceive homosexuality/bisexuality as a 'normal' behaviour. Maybe you should view ricky martin's interview with Oprah to get some insights as he also went through a period of loving women before coming to terms to his sexuality. The link is as follows:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_juW7PP-qAI am sorry that I cannot help you much as I am a 'pure' gay man who does not have strong emotional (i.e. as lovers) attachment to women. However, I have both good male and female friends, although the sexual/emotional attachment is different.Hope you will make through this self-discovery with as little pain as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ah Tan Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 Yes Blue you got noting to lose so why not try as u are only 18yrs.why is it so difficult to just try.After all at lease you had try both sexually decide later whether u r gay or bi,or straight.It does't matter blue u r born this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sabrestar Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 yeh! you'll never find out which one you like better if you just stick to one. if you're afraid of judgment or anything, please don't. :[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alternative Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 you are normal, treat it like some lost brotherhood bonding, some 'misgrowth' during your developing years. Another alternative is instead of using sex to pursue your unmet needs. You could use healthy ways of coping your needs, like forming healthy friendship which could be more satisfying than sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ironrod Posted September 1, 2011 Report Share Posted September 1, 2011 TS, as u only 18 why not give yourself more time....go army, come out and work etc before concluding what you want in life.When I was 18, I was researching abt the truth of life and very focus on religion and stuff.I was trying to find a reason for my own existence.So don't overly think and don't need to force yourself into any situation, keep an open mind and love yourself - in the end you will find a path which suits you and lastly NO REGRETS k? Good luck dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blue Posted September 1, 2011 Report Share Posted September 1, 2011 Hey guys. Thanks for all the advise guys, maybe I've just got to keep an open mind and see how things goes. I wanted to post about my views on life, but I felt i should just keep it to myself. perhaps there is really a long way for me to go in life and I should make no conclusions yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 Kumar the cross dresser publicly admits he is gay. all the while we knew he is gay from his behaviour.it doesn t matter if he s gay or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guestbitch Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 Maybe got people think he's a STRAIGHT cross dresser? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest2 Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 Maybe got people think he's a STRAIGHT cross dresser?What was Kumar thinking when he admitted to being gay, it's like Dalai Lama admitting he's Tibetan!*rolls eyes* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 He no need to admit, many pple also suspect and know he is gay! :whistle: It will be a big news if he tell us he is not gay, and now he tell us he is gay, dun think anyone will bother abt this news. Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ndro Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 it'll be news worthy if he's going to marry a lady.... other than that, guess the whole of singapore knows he's gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest So? Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 "she" has all the gayness written clear and loud, so out of the closet all these years. Coming out, is just a formality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FYI Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 this is pretty old news....tho this extract from http://abcnews.go.co...=4263016&page=1 is pretty interesting. For instance, he does not support the movement to have homosexuality legalized in Singapore, despite his own sexual orientation."I think allowing it will stir up a lot of s*** -- people here need time to adjust. Legalization will happen eventually, but at the moment, we have other issues to worry about in this country," he says. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 http://sg.entertainm...-041036800.htmlhe thinks too much. as you get older, just out yourself eventually and then move on with life. you live for yourself, not for others.==============Kumar publicly admits he is gayHe denied it in 1993, and again in 2005.When asked directly, he answered with a flat "no", and even asserted in one interview, "I'm not a homo. I'm not gay."At the launch of his coffee-table book Kumar: From Rags To Drags on Tuesday, however, the veteran stand-up comic seems to have decided to come out at last.Explaining why he waited until now to do so, the 43-year-old said, "When you're 40-something, people take you seriously. And when you tell people you're 40, anything you say, they will believe."In his early days, he told The New Paper, he denied queries about his sexual orientation because he did not know how to handle them.And even though his homosexuality is pretty apparent to most people, Kumar said emerging from the closet wasn't a walk in the park."If I want people to understand me, I think I have to be able to open myself," he said. "How to help people when I myself am in denial?"The coffee-table book, he said, promises to reveal a side of him that the public has never seen. One chapter, entitled "Fairy Queen", is the most telling of his newfound openness.In it, he also shares stories about his difficult childhood, relating that he was molested by an older man at the age of 10 — the experience that made him realise his preference for men.Kumar also opens up about his current relationship with an unidentified 23-year-old man.He says that his partner goes out with girls, even though he isn't okay with it, although he accepts it, saying, "If he is cheating on me, he'd go out with another guy."He ends the chapter that details his relationship with his partner by saying, "There may not be a happily ever after, but we are in this relationship happily."In other parts of the book, Kumar spoke of public perceptions and expectations of him as a performer."When people see me on TV, they think that I'm their friend and expect me to say more," he said."If you want a picture, I'll do it. But after the picture, if you want a conversation, I can't. I don't know you," he added, expressing his need to be able to separate his real friends from acquaintances.He also dispels rumours of being promiscuous, saying that people assume he sleeps with the many male friends he has around him.With regard to people saying that he only dates Caucasian men, he says, "Caucasian men don't even turn me on."High-profile endorsementsSupportive guests at Kumar's book launch include Minister for the Environment and Water Resources Vivian Balakrishnan, who said that Kumar looked like a "child bride", and is still going strong after more than 20 years in the entertainment industry."The way he dresses, the way he talks, the style of his jokes. These are the things that will always stay in my mind," the minister said on Tuesday.Former foreign minister George Yeo is also quoted in Kumar's coffee-table book, speaking of a time he was interviewed by Kumar about a project where four sections of the Berlin Wall were displayed at Bedok Reservoir."It turned out to be one of the best interviews I've ever had. Kumar is a treasure," he said.Fly Entertainment founder and CEO Irene Ang thanked Kumar "for being an icon of Singapore (so others will never say Singapore is boring)", signing off as his "fan, friend, brother/sister".She said at the launch, "Kumar has established himself as who he is. It doesn't matter what he is… there is only one Kumar and he can get away with things that other people can't… he can be whoever he wants to be."Celebrity host and comedienne Patricia Mok also said of him, "Kumar is daring in his stage work but most important (sic), he is a beautiful person." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share Posted September 15, 2011 (edited) gay or not, he is still talented Edited September 15, 2011 by snowball Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share Posted September 16, 2011 I can understand y Kumar wishes to come out after 40 yos but not earlier. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share Posted September 16, 2011 I changed the topic title from Kumar The Drag to Kumar Admits He Is Gay, the earlier title sounded a tad bit disrespectful. Kumar is a talented artist, that goes without saying. He is also a brave person. I respect anyone who dares to admits he is gay publicly. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share Posted September 16, 2011 I changed the topic title from Kumar The Drag to Kumar Admits He Is Gay, the earlier title sounded a tad bit disrespectful. Kumar is a talented artist, that goes without saying. He is also a brave person. I respect anyone who dares to admits he is gay publicly.Yeah, agreed. There's a big difference between everyone knowing you're gay and you saying so for the record in public.For one, there's no turning back and no way for, say, your family to deny it any further.And for the other, remember we all still live under 377A. It's tantamount to admitting at least the inclination towards committing a criminal offense. Quote Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share Posted September 16, 2011 Being able to admits gay publicly already not easy, and even he is already a well known artists, so even not easy. Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guests Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 http://www.fridae.asia/newsfeatures/2009/03/12/2233.kumar-comes-outShe needs to come out how many time?? closet within walk in wardrobe?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest2 Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 http://www.fridae.as...kumar-comes-outShe needs to come out how many time?? closet within walk in wardrobe??Kumar answered your question in the Fridae interview:"I love the limelight because by horoscope I'm a Leo and by Chinese horoscope I'm a monkey."LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clickclock Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 lol, well DUH, its so obvious Quote I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 another gay mr iggie manuel told his mum that he is gay.mum reply u still my baby, and i still love u. i was just waiting for u to tell me.=====================I'm gay and mum says it's okThe New Paper - September 17, 2011 - 11:10pm By: Benita Aw YeongHE GINGERLY let slip the truth to his mother when he phoned her in Holland to tell her that he had tested negative in a routine HIV checkup.Mr Iggie Manuel, 44, told his Eurasian Singaporean mum, Mrs Jeanette Van Putten: "Mum, I'm gay."Even though she had expected him to get married, Mrs Van Putten's subsequent reply moved Mr Manuel, so much so that he still feels it today."You're still my baby, and I still love you - I was just waiting for you to tell me."Read the full story in The New Paper on Sunday (Sept 18). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 It's looks like Mr. Kumar had started a "Coming Out" trend.I wonder who will "come out" in the news later. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jack off guy Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 me lolswho's iggie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 i did not come out, but my parents told me they know i am gay. but hey, they dun expect me to bring my partner home for dinner or social events. my parents still loves me but i also must respect them by not flounting my 'gayness' around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I changed the topic title from Kumar The Drag to Kumar Admits He Is Gay, the earlier title sounded a tad bit disrespectful. Kumar is a talented artist, that goes without saying. He is also a brave person. I respect anyone who dares to admits he is gay publicly.Would you 'do' him if he shows up at Shogun? Can't wait to see both of you together! Hehe..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 http://www.fridae.as...kumar-comes-out She needs to come out how many time?? closet within walk in wardrobe??Oops, he has many incarnations, u know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I feel that my sexuality is a very special & scared part of me and prefer to keep it that way.When ppl ask if I am gay, i told them they would have to kneel & ask 'my little brother' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 i did not come out, but my parents told me they know i am gay. but hey, they dun expect me to bring my partner home for dinner or social events. my parents still loves me but i also must respect them by not flounting my 'gayness' around.Just wondering, if I'm the adopted son of 2 gay men, would I be accused of flouting my "straightness" around if I bring my gf home? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 Would you 'do' him if he shows up at Shogun? Can't wait to see both of you together! Hehe.....I would shake his hands and tell him how brave I think he is, that's all. Because I am not as brave as him. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 i guess the parents gay or str8 shd accept what their child is.str8 or gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AidenKingston Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 Any pictures ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 It's looks like Mr. Kumar had started a "Coming Out" trend.I wonder who will "come out" in the news later.maybe you, it is about time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 i think those members with picture in BW is already telling people they are gay.since many knew BW is a gay forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 19, 2011 Report Share Posted September 19, 2011 maybe you, it is about timeI am already out to many. Those whom had seen me in person during events will already know who I am. The thing about coming out is you don't have to come out to everyone. Those who knows would know, those who don't need to know, don't have to know. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 19, 2011 Report Share Posted September 19, 2011 I would shake his hands and tell him how brave I think he is, that's all. Because I am not as brave as him.Make sure you 'shake'his hand, not any other 'organ' hor.I guess he's not your type.But it would to be great to hear both of you moan together in the cubicle, like a straight pxxno movie:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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