First Time Sauna Experience + Virgin sauna visit + What to expect when visiting gay sauna (compiled)

[begleitung]

how was it

[And then]

On 6/24/2023 at 4:56 PM, Guest vis said:

I am 31 and guess what, I have never been to a gay sauna before. I have heard about it, walked past some of them, but have never had the urge to visit it until now. I guess it has come to the stage where I have to try and experience it. 

 

What should I expect when I get in for the first time? I think I would feel very nervous. What are the etiquettes? I also heard it's very dark inside and you have to take off almost every clothes inside once you are in. I am quite a shy guy and I don't have a good bod (i'm skinny type). I'm oso not experienced on sex (always jo myself only) and would think that a trip to sauna would help me in that sense and oso able to make some friends in the circle?

 

Can someone enlighten me on that?

If you have never been, being nervous is understandable.  Just got to overcome that and go in if you want to experience it.

The usual procedure is  pay->go to locker-> undress and wrap towel around the waist-> shower -> explore (dry sauna/ steam room/ jacuzzi/ pool/ maze/ dark room/ gym)

There are no rules saying you have to do anything in there. You can just sit in the pool and people watch.

One thing to watch out for if you are shy shy is NOT to go during the nude theme times.

 

It is definitely possible to make friends inside.  Not everyone goes in there, fuck, cum and leaves.  Some people treat it as a place to wind down/ relax with the added possibility of fun. Go in with the right attitude and you may be pleasantly surprised

[Guest Nonsense]

10 hours ago, singalion said:

 

From my take it is probably a result of parents (mostly fathers) not talking about sex and failing to give their sons some basic sex education during their teens. Then there are also no channels on television giving the “kids” ( not talking about under aged here!) some ideas on such topics.

 

If I look at the prevalence of certain behaviours here in Singapore, then my view seems confirmed.

 

 

Those were old days. We are now talking about abundant of informations available from  the internet era. Who need to be taught about sex by our parents when we can find it ourself. Hello????

[singalion]

oh babe, read the first post again and you might find out... 

 

If all are so well informed by the internet then why are there such inexperienced guys like the TS???

 

Nobody needs any sex education from parents in their early teens, well. ..........

 

🤪

 

[benedict5856]

Monkey see, monkey do.

 

as simple as that.

 

Most importantly, do not assume u are damn hot or ppl are dying for yr dick.

 

After some time, u will find yourself lonely there.

 

And if u are damn hot in first place, u won't have time to go sauna but busy dating outside.

 

In short, 98% of sauna regulars are leftover..... (sad truth.  Yes, and the truth hurts)

[Steve5380]

6 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

 

In short, 98% of sauna regulars are leftover..... (sad truth.  Yes, and the truth hurts)

 

 

I don't know what you mean by "leftover".

 

Many gay sauna patrons are decent people who want to have some anonymous sex here and there.    It helps to tell you this when YOU are in one of these saunas.  "I am one of them, ha ha!".   Same with being in a gay bar:  "I am one of them".   And hopefully you have plenty of self-esteem to confirm the "decent people".  

[Guest Cumman]

45, only been once on my own. Just give it a try and experience. Not necessary sex is required.

 

I do feel the excitement when I first walked in and end up sitting in the open roof area, sitting at gym floor watching porn most of the time. After a while I took a walk in dark alley and a guy hooked me for a BJ. He want me to fuck him but I rejected. But we do have a good time.

 

After than I have not been in, not sure is my fetish or what. But still prefer cruising. Somehow showing off in toilets turn me on more even is own JO

[Servian]

I am bi-curious and discreet die to various reasons. I thought of having my first time visit to sauna. Not for sex but just to have a look. I have been reading keybox thread but thought I can try in HK?

 

What was your first time like? 

Any tips? 

[mate69]

Go with no expectations

Explore and acquaint yourself with the ins and outs of sauna etiquette

You'll know when you're there

[Saltpepper]

Always think of your own safety, don't do raw/unsafe/bareback (unless you're sure you want it), STDs/HIV don't give second chance. Once you got it, you're sticking to it for life.

Edited January 27 by Saltpepper

[Ceratoguy]

On 1/24/2024 at 10:04 AM, Servian said:

I am bi-curious and discreet die to various reasons. I thought of having my first time visit to sauna. Not for sex but just to have a look. I have been reading keybox thread but thought I can try in HK?

 

What was your first time like? 

Any tips? 

I'm bi curious like u too and have wondered the same. 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

I agreed go without any expectations. U r in control. If u don't like to be touched just say. Remember u also pay to enjoy the facilities u have the fucking right to look around be naked without anyone touching u. Ask permission first. Who the fuck make anyone the king n queen of the world to do anything they pleased with u? Haha

[singalion]

 

On 1/24/2024 at 10:04 AM, Servian said:

I am bi-curious and discreet die to various reasons. I thought of having my first time visit to sauna. Not for sex but just to have a look. I have been reading keybox thread but thought I can try in HK?

 

What was your first time like? 

Any tips? 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 5:20 PM, Ceratoguy said:

I'm bi curious like u too and have wondered the same. 

 

 

There are other thread on first time sauna visits, you can take a lot from there.

 

 

 

 

[Guest Guess]

All these threads started by sauna owners🤭

 

 

There are lots of things newbies can just call the sauna to find out.

[Guest Tom]

I went key box for the first time yest. Newbie too and I consider myself straight tbh. Went with intention to just look look see see, but bloody hell too dark to see anything? lol 

[yhtang]

29 minutes ago, Guest Tom said:

I went key box for the first time yest. Newbie too and I consider myself straight tbh. Went with intention to just look look see see, but bloody hell too dark to see anything? lol 

 

There is a reason for it being too dark to see anything. 

It is dark in the gay sauna so that you can get a *feel* of what's going on in there.  🤣

 

I hope you *felt* good after your visit to KeyBox.

[Kentazmania]

For Saunas here in SG everything is dark theme. they would rather keep it dark and discreet so that everyone can have their own privacy. 

[Guest how come phone is allowed]

1 hour ago, Kentazmania said:

For Saunas here in SG everything is dark theme. they would rather keep it dark and discreet so that everyone can have their own privacy. 

 

but some sauna ppl can bring their phone... 

quite interesting that ppl haven't posted video on internet..

 

i stopped going sauna after i realised that some guys were bringing in phone to certain level .. what is stoppinng them from recording ppl during full nude skin night..

[horhorfun]

1 hour ago, Kentazmania said:

For Saunas here in SG everything is dark theme. they would rather keep it dark and discreet so that everyone can have their own privacy. 

Then there are overseas gay sauna which are bright?

[horhorfun]

19 minutes ago, Guest how come phone is allowed said:

 

but some sauna ppl can bring their phone... 

quite interesting that ppl haven't posted video on internet..

 

i stopped going sauna after i realised that some guys were bringing in phone to certain level .. what is stoppinng them from recording ppl during full nude skin night..

You can bring your phone around/in the sauna area,you cannot only bring the phone into the dark area also known as the cruising area.

[TopChinese]

14 hours ago, horhorfun said:

Then there are overseas gay sauna which are bright?

 

Yes in some countries like Thailand and in Europe, gay saunas are more like gay resorts with lush pools, suntanning areas or winter gardens. You can even have a meal and a beer at one in Munich. Closer to home, check out Chakran and the new Japanese onsen near Mo Chit in Bangkok. Being gay is nothing to hide in these places. 

[horhorfun]

48 minutes ago, TopChinese said:

 

Yes in some countries like Thailand and in Europe, gay saunas are more like gay resorts with lush pools, suntanning areas or winter gardens. You can even have a meal and a beer at one in Munich. Closer to home, check out Chakran and the new Japanese onsen near Mo Chit in Bangkok. Being gay is nothing to hide in these places. 

Interesting..would like to visit one..

[Guest sauna]

10 hours ago, horhorfun said:

Interesting..would like to visit one..

The Boiler sauna in Berlin has lockers for more than 500 guests. A bar with a beergarden and the meals, a big pool... Only the cruising area is dark.

[Servian]

Well I made my first move. I am bi- curious and always had the curiosity to visit a sauna. I Felt doing my first move was a good idea since I don't know many people there! Here is how it went!

 

1. I was nervous a lot, was thinking yes or no on this decision for all day. But then I decided I should. Did some research. During day time, I went to the area to have a look around. 

 

2.  Time was around 9pm, weekday, so expected less crowd. Got into a hot pair of Andrew Christians. My bulge is big and this made it look even bigger due to special pouch in them. Other clothes were ones that I can get off easily.  

 

3. Arrived in the location. Went up the stairs, got on lift. When I pressed the floor, others in the lift gave a look who cares. 

 

4. Opened the door and headed to the reception. I am more brown complex skin and was clearly an alien. The reception felt I am but nervous,  the guy repeated it is a "gay sauna". I nodded, paid, got the towel, and keys which you can put on your wrist. 

 

5. Opened the door and first sight was a naked guy heading to a bath. Nice lean body with cute small cock. But if a shocker for first sight!

 

6. Headed to locker, got my clothes off. Didn't get the undies off and people were noticing my bulge. Put the towel on my shoulder and headed to a bath. 

 

7. Bath was alone but I was getting some looks. People seem to waiting for an invite, which I didn't make. This time I got off undies but got it back after the bath. 

 

8. Walked around non stop a bit. Steam room was empty, dark room area had a guy waiting but not my type. It's quite a small place.

 

9. There was porn playing on a tv and I went to sit on the bench infront. There was another guy standing, asked me to come close by hand gesture. I was a bit reluctant so just stayed on the bench. Of course he invited, came close etc.

 

10. Finally asked him to sit (all these communication was through hand gestures) and I just gave him some squeezes over his towel. He did the same on top of my undies. Both of us were erect. He has a 5 inch. 

 

11. Invited me for sex (first words murmured to my ears) but I said I just need a hj... we went to the bath area and it didn't take a long to spray the cum. Washed up together and I parted. He said he will stay longer, but I decided I had enough for my first visit. Got dressed, put the towel in the bin, gave the key to the reception!

 

It was a good experience and I would love to go again!

 

Edited August 15 by Servian

[Guest guest]

On 3/21/2024 at 7:56 PM, horhorfun said:

Then there are overseas gay sauna which are bright?

Deutsche Eiche in Munich,Germany.  A big playground with more than 300 lockers. Our sauna here can't compete.

[singalion]

Dragon Sauna in Hamburg seems quite thrilling also. With often plenty of Asian boys visiting. 

 

If you want some more International crowd from all over, BBC to Arabs, Asians and White guys, then Macho in Brussels. It directly at the gay city area there, so can have some drinks n then go sauna...

 

But note entrance fee is mostly around 30 Euros per 8 hour visit. 

 

 

[Kye]

My virgin visit to a gay spa was shogun when i was 25 or 26, it was before the major renovation... that time was still 9 dollar per visit. Went in about 12am, i was ditch by my sugar uncle for being too old to serve him so abit sad at that time went in wanting to find guys to release... i went in stripped naked, then a matured uncle hug me from behind and was playing my hard cock, i told him this was my first time. He first show me around the Lvl 1 shower area, the toliet and the suana, lead me to the top level to shower where we shower together. then he show me the rooms and the maze... he was holding my cock while leading me around, playing with my slit, i was dripping precum along the way. in the maze, he was telling everyone i am new. and i felt many hands carressng me... he lead me into one of the room, ask me to lay down, and he suck for me... we went into 69 position. i remember he could not get hard, but he request to fuck me. he was just rubbing against my butt hole, he request to cum on my face. i eventually came in his mouth. we rest abit, then he clean me up. we went to shower. at the shower, he went to the urinal to pee, i stood beside like i will to my sugar uncle but i saw his pee was dripping. I went to suck his pee out for him as my way to thank him. we part ways after the shower. 

I met him afew times in the suana in that year then i was introduced to hercules spa... when i came back after hercules closure. i never see him again.