First Time Sauna Experience + Virgin sauna visit + What to expect when visiting gay sauna (compiled)

[Guest Guest]

And don't go there with an attitude and act high class just because you look newbie untouchable like statues just good for gawking and see no touch those atas attitude.

And don't act shy shy cannot strip naked in front of guys .. Pls I really can't stand such attitude . It's not like you have never been exposed to guys stark naked as if they will rape you or grab you.

Don't act demure since you are prepared to go there. I have seen guys with such pretentious hypocritical attitude acting weirdly . Goodness.

If you have been to ns you know what I mean.. What you have I have also.. Difference is the size and bushiness that's all.

Go there with an open mind with no expectations as this is your first time. Admire the naked cocks and butts.

Enjoy. And pls be safe with condom. If you prefer to suck or get suck with a rubber by all means do that ... No one will penalize you for that .. You can get gonorrhea through oral sex too. Just an advice .

[navyblue]

Cut us some slack... we are also tired of guests posting the same thing over and over again...

I think all of us can still remember the anxiety we felt when we decided to step into a sauna for the first time. So it is understandable for people to keep posting similar questions or topics again and again about first time experiences.

Moreover, it can be quite time consuming and challenging to trace back what others have already posted in old threads, esp for the newbies. So, we should be prepared that people will keep starting new threads of similar topics. And thats why we need the Mods to help merge those similar threads together.

[otokonoko]

Moderators and General Manager, get busy!!

[gstc82]

Any way, Ts, just be yourself. Relax, all will be fine.

[Guest Guest]

Any way, Ts, just be yourself. Relax, all will be fine.

 

oh really..... this wasn't what you said last time... remember?

 

 

Bring light sticks, serves 2 purpose. 1-it's dark so u can find your way, 2- can insert in you know where.

[Guest Guest]

I think all of us can still remember the anxiety we felt when we decided to step into a sauna for the first time. So it is understandable for people to keep posting similar questions or topics again and again about first time experiences.

Moreover, it can be quite time consuming and challenging to trace back what others have already posted in old threads, esp for the newbies. So, we should be prepared that people will keep starting new threads of similar topics. And thats why we need the Mods to help merge those similar threads together.

Ok, then merge every threads in here into one "ALL ABOUT GAY ISSUES"

Some people just don't like things happen or grow naturally. Over sterilization is bad.

[Blacque]

Ok, then merge every threads in here into one "ALL ABOUT GAY ISSUES"

Some people just don't like things happen or grow naturally. Over sterilization is bad.

 

Makes it easier for people to read, why not? Several F&Q threads have been created and they were useful to a certain extent. 

[navyblue]

Ok, then merge every threads in here into one "ALL ABOUT GAY ISSUES"

Some people just don't like things happen or grow naturally. Over sterilization is bad.

Pls pardon me, but I really dun understand what you are trying to express.

And btw, are you the same Guest who goes to different threads just to piss people off?

Pls do something more useful and meaningful with the free time you have if you do not have anything constructive to contribute here.

Life must be harsh for you to turn you into a troll. But you have my blessings.

[Guest Guest]

Pls pardon me, but I really dun understand what you are trying to express.

And btw, are you the same Guest who goes to different threads just to piss people off?

Pls do something more useful and meaningful with the free time you have if you do not have anything constructive to contribute here.

Life must be harsh for you to turn you into a troll. But you have my blessings.

whose life has been hard? the tone in your posting And replies showed that you re at the edge of madness. full of rage and anger. need to book a place in IMH?

this is a forum of no attitudes. are you taking the notorious moderator's place? or u r an reincarnation of him? full of anger and rubbish. get a life, darling or the vet have to put you to sleep

[Guest tamp]

I've to agree w guest upstairs. all postings here we're funny, mocking and happy until that navyblue came in criticising. why so serious? life supposed to be fun and happy

[Guest Guest]

I've to agree w guest upstairs. all postings here we're funny, mocking and happy until that navyblue came in criticising. why so serious? life supposed to be fun and happy

 

Don't mind him, the batteries for his dildo just died, his dog ignored him, his alarm clock went off at 4am and he couldn't get an orgasm whole night with that 16" dildo. He's just crankyyyy

[cutejack]

hahahaha..love that....hahahah.....didn't know the guys are simply cute n full of sense of humour

[Guest Guest]

whose life has been hard? the tone in your posting And replies showed that you re at the edge of madness. full of rage and anger. need to book a place in IMH?

this is a forum of no attitudes. are you taking the notorious moderator's place? or u r an reincarnation of him? full of anger and rubbish. get a life, darling or the vet have to put you to sleep

I've to agree w guest upstairs. all postings here we're funny, mocking and happy until that navyblue came in criticising. why so serious? life supposed to be fun and happy

Don't mind him, the batteries for his dildo just died, his dog ignored him, his alarm clock went off at 4am and he couldn't get an orgasm whole night with that 16" dildo. He's just crankyyyy

There is a fine line between what is entertaining and what is abusive. The above are examples where the line has been crossed. And how to tell when the line has been crossed? A direct attack on a person, talking about his this or his that. Having fun is ok, laughing and being happy is ok. Mocking is not. I think mocking is a very negative word - if one has a point, one should be able to argue it out without having to resort to mockery. One should argue to the point, not argue to the other persons character.

[casper]

Ignore all the fat pigs who try to grope you, slap them if necessary.

You won't know if TS might be a chaser...Don't think that the circle belong only to mainstream group of people... Respect others if you wish to be respected too...

[Guest g]

Don't go. Why expose yourself to all this? Stay safe n celibate

 

Very True. But no need to be Celibate. Going to Sauna to have fun with strangers you are expose yourself to high risk to get infected by some kind of disease. Many guys know that and they still want to take this risk which you can avoid. When they finally get infected, then they say "I should have done this and that" but is too late. And the worst thing they go infect other guys or even their wife. Anyway, you go at your own risk, if you get infected or sick then I will tell you that "You deserve it".

[keyboard]

For first timers, the people at the counter will ask where do you get to know about this place.

 

Interesting this has not been highlighted yet, thrown quite a few people off on how to answer this.

[Guest gay]

What should I do or prepare or rather react in gay sauna?

[hairy springroll]

Since you have no ideas

what to prepare and expect

spend some time

Go thru all those saunas topic

you should be ready then

Have fun

[Guest raven623]

Okay so I know the general topic is already pinned but I wanna know about how is it like there recently and stuff.

 

I've never been to a sauna before and I'd like to ask whats it like, etc.

 

Especially for a young guy whos in his early 20s like myself, are we celebrated there?

 

I was thinking of going to Mandi Manda since its quite near Midvalley (as I go to bangsar quite often)

 

 

Anyone mind telling me whats it like there?

Whats the crowd there like?

What time should I go?

Should I be prepared for anything in particular..?

[H0rnieChub]

Bring condom and lube cause in Malaysia you get none from sauna. You're young and lean, you will be wanted there. Just remember safety first and have fun

[Guest small 66]

Hi, I have been a closet gay. I like to going a gay sauna but don't know which & I am also shy to go because my tool are small. Seeking for advises. Thx

[onlylonely]

No scared. Take the first step and explore. U can be in a towel in the sauna first. If u feel comfortable u can let people touch u and start the action..

[a_3]

As a general rule, other than the obvious 'only engage in safe sex', don't go with any expectations or preconceptions. Do not go in with the mentality "I must get laid!" because if you're unsuccessful, then you will be very depressed. Personally, there have been times when I've gone in with zero expectations (just to ogle at the bodies) but ended up having sex with hot guys. Other times I was unsuccessful but psychologically it wasn't so bad as I wasn't expecting anything to happen anyway.

[AP1987]

Just been to TMC last week. Its my first time and i went alone after getting sick and tired from the time waster online. I went there after hearing much about it. Got there at abt 2030hrs, pay and go to locker. The reception did not ask me ask me any qns like some peeps kanna. Overall exp is pleasant as the crowd are not aggressive as suggested by some review. Anyway, I wanted a relaxation plus experiences. I went to the maze but no much people leh. I cruise around the place to see the area. kinda nice and aircon is just right. then i went to steam room. must say that half of the club are in the steam room which i got a shock.. the room isn't big at all... so i left the steam room after awhile and went shower. after some lying down at the roof deck i went back to the steam room and find it a little empty. so i find a place to sit while i enjoy the steam. then i heard some noise. somebody is F**king in the steam room and moaning so loudly.. lol... then more people come in after the couple went out... i went venture into the dark area of the steam room and got touched all over me.. I think i am getting horny from the F*k just now so i went into the dark area and surrender myself to devil. I think some bros are right.. you need to be brave to venture into dark area of a gay sauna.. I got myself into a 4 some in the steam room!!! lol... overall not bad exp and will return for more.. but safety is still most impt!! 

[Guest ;p]

Just been to TMC last week. Its my first time and i went alone after getting sick and tired from the time waster online. I went there after hearing much about it. Got there at abt 2030hrs, pay and go to locker. The reception did not ask me ask me any qns like some peeps kanna. Overall exp is pleasant as the crowd are not aggressive as suggested by some review. Anyway, I wanted a relaxation plus experiences. I went to the maze but no much people leh. I cruise around the place to see the area. kinda nice and aircon is just right. then i went to steam room. must say that half of the club are in the steam room which i got a shock.. the room isn't big at all... so i left the steam room after awhile and went shower. after some lying down at the roof deck i went back to the steam room and find it a little empty. so i find a place to sit while i enjoy the steam. then i heard some noise. somebody is F**king in the steam room and moaning so loudly.. lol... then more people come in after the couple went out... i went venture into the dark area of the steam room and got touched all over me.. I think i am getting horny from the F*k just now so i went into the dark area and surrender myself to devil. I think some bros are right.. you need to be brave to venture into dark area of a gay sauna.. I got myself into a 4 some in the steam room!!! lol... overall not bad exp and will return for more.. but safety is still most impt!! 

'i went into the dark area and surrender myself to devil', well said as most in the dark corner aare all trolls

[MikeD]

Never been to..

[Guest Javis]

My first time was in CC 4 years ago. I went there alone around 7pm after work on a Fri and was very nervous. Once in, my hornyness took over my shyness. I had my first fucks - fucking someone and fucked by someone ( with condom of course) all in one night. Cummed 2 times and then while resting, i could not resist a guy blowing me and cummed the 3rd time. Then I was showering before I left (past midnight), someone hugged me from behind and jo me. My cum was all drained after 4 cums, walked out with weak legs and decided to take a taxi home.

[wixao]

First and only time in SG was when I visited in 2011 (long long time ago lol). went to keybox then (even got a card after my visit). I Was very scared but very curious. I got there around 10pm, and too bad because this cute guy was just leaving. Anyway, I proceeded inside and stayed mostly in well lit places like the tv room and outside the sauna/steam room. several guys tried pulling me inside the rooms but I refused lol! Not really interested in fxxxing or getting fxxxed - mostly felt just watching, which is not really the best activity when you're in a sauna, since most action happens in closed rooms or absolute darkness. I did try to enter a dark room, and felt my way around. I think i touched someone humping some other guy lol! but I didn't explore further since I stepped on something sticky - not sure if cum or lube. I went out of the room to wash my feet. After over an hour of going around, I got bored and just laid down in the movie room. Afyer watching some time, I decided to go back in. I thought that if I can't watch someone, then I'll just make people watch me lol! So I sat on a couch near the entrance of the maze area, raised my legs up, and started stroking myself. Not long after, guys were going near me and started touching me. One of the guys - a cute chinese guy who's in his early 30s sat beside me and started stroking himself as well. He started kissing me on the neck and motioned me to sit sideways so we'll face each other. He grabbed my cock and started stroking me while licking my chest. It was awesome! He tried kissing me but I refused lol! Anyway this went on and soon enough more guys were standing around us - Stroking themselves off Some tried to touch us but he would brush their hands off. Too bad, the scene really turned me on that I soon came in his hand. Sweet guy, he helped me wipe the cum off. We cuddled a bit after, but when he started asking personal details, I excused myself, took a shower, then went back to my hotel.

Edited March 27, 2015 by wixao

[Guest youthful]

Anyone remember Raw, on Ann Siang Hill? That was my first time... Went clubbing one weekend after booking out, then a cute guy basically picked me up - though i was too young and naive then to realise it - and he asked me if i wanted to go for supper, so i said yes and we went to maxwell and chit-chatted a bit... Then he asked me if he could bring me to a sauna, and i was so innocent then i didnt really know what to expect... So he brought me to Raw and even paid for the membership card and the entry fee!

Then we went upstairs and i just followed what he did - change to towel, shower... Then he disappeared for a short while, probably went to toilet now that i think back. But back then i didnt realise so i just started walking around the place on my own, and within a few minutes this middle-aged guy was cruising me, and i wasnt sure what to do, so i went into the steam room where it was dark, and he followed me in and started touching me... And within a few minutes he had jerked me off and i came... Then i went back outside and saw the cute guy who had brought me there, and i think he could tell what had happened so he asked if i had already done it with someone and come, and when i nodded, he looked a bit crestfallen. That's when it dawned on me (ya i know i was kind of dumb and slow about this!) that he had brought me there so he could 'do the honours' himself... Anyway luckily for him/us i was still at the age when i could recover and proceed to round 2 very fast, so we went to a room and fucked, and actually fell asleep in each others' arms after that, and only left early on sunday morning...

Can't remember now why we didnt exchange pager numbers... If not for him i may never have known about saunas or dared to enter one!

Whoever and wherever you are now, my thanks! =)

[Kevenbrendanlee]

First time, actually second cause the first time was just nothing particular (still manage to have fun with my bae) .... anyways my first time being there alone I thought to myself that I will be ignored by people like the first time but I was so wrong ....

Yesterday I went about 8.15pm, didn't expect much people so I took a quick shower and went to sit in the Jacuzzi even though it wasn't working at first but still went to do it. Then I head to the Sauna room, no one was inside so I sat at the darkest area to relax a bit and then two guys came in and they were about to have their fun but somehow the guy just left rudely??

He look distraught then sit beside me then I look at him even though it is dark like he totally just got rejected. Pitied him.

Then he came and started slight touching my thighs plus since it's my first time being touched by strangers in a sauna got nervous for momentarily but let him touch. He move his hands up my thighs to my genitals like The Fire Truck game, he smiled then I returned the favour by touching him and we ended up mutual jack off each other. The guy mentioned he was 30, though in the dark he does not look like that and he was surprised by my age. Then he left after I felt his cum jet out of his dick to my hands. We said our goodbyes.

During this whole time there was this guy sitting at the side looking, he looks very shy perhaps another older man was trying to sit beside me. He stood up walk to the dark area then went to the bench beside me. He repeated what the first guy did which I didn't stop as I haven't cum.

We jacked each other off while kissing, he then fingered me while sucking on my lips then he smiled. I have to admit it felt really good, then two guys came in front of us which I did not knew happened so I just let them do what they want. One of the guys left whilst the other stayed. I began blowing both of them, one then rimmed me and fingering me. I knew he will try to anal me and I knew he did not wear a condom, same goes for the second guy but lucky he couldn't enter me. I stopped them suddenly as I couldn't breathe and became dizzy. I decided to leave as I do not want to faint in the sauna..

" After reading from Google, I saw that I should not stay in the sauna for more than 15 minutes as not to risk dehydration and possibly death. "

I then went to the rather cold hot tub to cool off, sitting there for an hour no one came into the tub *sad* but then a very cute boyish bottom came in which was awkward but nice. Then there was this big Daddy type entered the pool, which I thought to myself *SHIT*. I was correct as the boy immediately left, the big daddy man was shocked then leave also.. Living me alone in the tub.

After that I decide to leave to enter the sauna again to finally jack off and cum.. immediately after I sat this guy rather mature older guy came and kiss me like those sloppy salivary porn. He knelt down and gave me an awesome blow job which finally then I also returned the favour by giving him a blow job... It didn't last long though as he wants to bring me to one of the rooms to have anal sex which I declined... He part way later...

No more action for me now, then a cute boyish bottom came in beside me look at me and the possible top beside... He then knelt down and gave the top a blow job which was a hot action... I couldn't handle anymore and I shoot out jets immediately.....

I left the place after I bath

## PS; This was at Cruise Club ##

My only experience

[Guest Guest]

First time - nothing happened.  Second and third time also nothing happened.  On my fourth visit, swallowed a big mouthful of thick cums.  The first time I ever tasted cums from a stranger I can't even see his face clearly. 

[Guest guest]

is sat a good time to go alone for a first-timer ? discreet here.. like the nude idea.. do people just walked out of the locker area nude and is it brightly lit?

[Guest Guest]

is sat a good time to go alone for a first-timer ? discreet here.. like the nude idea.. do people just walked out of the locker area nude and is it brightly lit?

 

Yes, they do.  Some walked around naked even if it's not a nude night.  If you are the very discreet type, then Sat is not a good time to go.  You could bump into friends and colleagues.

[mate69]

Nothing to be shy about even if bump into colleagues n friends.

All know what they are there for. All are men.

Understood.

[alien]

Yes, they do.  Some walked around naked even if it's not a nude night.  If you are the very discreet type, then Sat is not a good time to go.  You could bump into friends and colleagues.

So it means many of ur friends n colleagues are gay also?! Haha.

[Guest guest]

anyone wanna share more about your own first time experiences?

[Guest Guest]

anyone wanna share more about your own first time experiences?

 

My first time in sauna is unforgettable  I was inside the steam room and standing beside this muscled mature guy who was seated on the bench.  Then he inched closer, using his foot to touch and rub on my leg.  I was excited and my heart was beating fast and before I can react, he suddenly leaned forward to suck my half erected dick.  I started to moan softly.

 

After a while, he leaned back on the bench and then pulling me down to suck his dick.  I don't really like doing it but felt bad not to return the favour.  While it was not my first time being sucked, it will be the first time I sucked somebody, somewhat unwillingly.  His tool was rock hard, short and quite thick.  He held my head down toward his bushy groin, making me ticklish and breathless.  I was in a very unpleasant position, kneeling on the floor as he hooked his thigh over my both shoulders while using his elbow to clamp down my head and pushing his dick into my mouth. 

 

This went on for a minute or two and then, I heard his moaning that warned me he was about to cum.  He shoot his loads and I think it landed on my hair and some on my chest.  It was a messy and unforgettable experience. 

[Guest guest]

thanks for sharing.. how about even more details like feeling hesitant about going in, went in and unsure of what to do.. whether to walk out nude or with towel and first thing you did

[Guest guest]

went cc for the first time on Friday. . very nervous and unsure of what to expect. wrapped myself in towel and can feel.pp staring as I walked around like a lost puppy. Took a quick shower and went into the steam room and had some light petting.

Maze was under cleaning maintenance and was too shy to walk into the tv area. Left shortly. . might be going onde night hehe.

Anyone wanna share first experience going to skin theme?

[Guest Washed Away]

It was so embarassing when I first did it as I saw my uncle in the sauna. He told me not to tell it to anyone in our family and he'll just do whatever I want. I asked him to suck me from time to time.

[ZKT279]

20 minutes ago, Guest Washed Away said:

It was so embarassing when I first did it as I saw my uncle in the sauna. He told me not to tell it to anyone in our family and he'll just do whatever I want. I asked him to suck me from time to time.

Is ur uncle married?

[suckmegood]

On 12 September 2016 at 6:27 PM, Guest Washed Away said:

It was so embarassing when I first did it as I saw my uncle in the sauna. He told me not to tell it to anyone in our family and he'll just do whatever I want. I asked him to suck me from time to time.

 

my goodness. it's incestious and emotional blackmail!!! pls reflect. 

[Guest Suck]

On Monday, September 12, 2016 at 6:27 PM, Guest Washed Away said:

It was so embarassing when I first did it as I saw my uncle in the sauna. He told me not to tell it to anyone in our family and he'll just do whatever I want. I asked him to suck me from time to time.

 

Why should your uncle be worried, knowing that he can expose you too?  

[Guest EricB]

On 07/06/2014 at 10:01 PM, Guest Guest said:

And don't go there with an attitude and act high class just because you look newbie untouchable like statues just good for gawking and see no touch those atas attitude.

And don't act shy shy cannot strip naked in front of guys .. Pls I really can't stand such attitude . It's not like you have never been exposed to guys stark naked as if they will rape you or grab you.

Don't act demure since you are prepared to go there. I have seen guys with such pretentious hypocritical attitude acting weirdly . Goodness.

If you have been to ns you know what I mean.. What you have I have also.. Difference is the size and bushiness that's all.

Go there with an open mind with no expectations as this is your first time. Admire the naked cocks and butts.

Enjoy. And pls be safe with condom. If you prefer to suck or get suck with a rubber by all means do that ... No one will penalize you for that .. You can get gonorrhea through oral sex too. Just an advice .

 

So i have to expect that once I go there, I could be fucked by several men? Isn’t it sauna is just to put your body in steam?

[Guest Guest]

On 16 April 2015 at 5:21 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

My first time in sauna is unforgettable  I was inside the steam room and standing beside this muscled mature guy who was seated on the bench.  Then he inched closer, using his foot to touch and rub on my leg.  I was excited and my heart was beating fast and before I can react, he suddenly leaned forward to suck my half erected dick.  I started to moan softly.

 

After a while, he leaned back on the bench and then pulling me down to suck his dick.  I don't really like doing it but felt bad not to return the favour.  While it was not my first time being sucked, it will be the first time I sucked somebody, somewhat unwillingly.  His tool was rock hard, short and quite thick.  He held my head down toward his bushy groin, making me ticklish and breathless.  I was in a very unpleasant position, kneeling on the floor as he hooked his thigh over my both shoulders while using his elbow to clamp down my head and pushing his dick into my mouth. 

 

This went on for a minute or two and then, I heard his moaning that warned me he was about to cum.  He shoot his loads and I think it landed on my hair and some on my chest.  It was a messy and unforgettable experience. 

That guy just let you suck him for a minute or two and he cum, so fast? And do nothing else?

[Male38]

What is your sauna expetience

[Guest gmale2068]

Hot. Very hot.

[tinkermybutt]

Very good and never fail to get a good pounding.

[Guest cross breed]

4 hours ago, Male38 said:

What is your sauna expetience

 

is that a cross breed word from expectation and experience? expetience?

Not into that cyber slang...

[LeanMature]

My first sauna visit, head caught between a pillar and a hard rod.