Guest Tiger Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 In a no-ask-no-tell mode, how do you deal with a nasty brother at home who can't usually get along well with you? It was like one mountain cannot house two gay kind of analogy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamer Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 elder/younger?define "nasty"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 In a no-ask-no-tell mode, how do you deal with a nasty brother at home who can't usually get along well with you? It was like one mountain cannot house two gay kind of analogy.Mine's simple - if he don't step on my "tail", I won't step on his. No no... he's no gay... Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest elgar90 Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 (edited) how to deal if nasty elder brother? be nice to them till they feel guilty!dealing with younger brother, throw some authority on them. Like good old days, you make me suffer i make you suffer 10 times more. or likewise, be nice to them and let them be guilty.PS: Hate elder brothers, always bully the younger!!! :yuk: :whistle: Edited November 27, 2011 by elgar90 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 i have always wonder how is it like to have gay brothers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 My older brother is straight. Only 2 of us children Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted November 27, 2011 Report Share Posted November 27, 2011 (edited) I am an elder brother.And I am NOT a bully.In fact, my younger brother always had the best things in life.Food, pocket money, toys.. you name it, he had it.It is because of this pampering, he can misbehaved and get away with it.I was the one to face the Principal/Teacher whenever he made a juvenile mistake.I think God is fair.After years of tolerating with his nuisance, fairness is awarded to me.He did badly in his studies while I was an A student.He had to suffer hours of tuition while I was enjoying myself infront of the TV set.He is now stuck in an unhappy marriage while I enjoy myself with my friends.I think I probably have more sex than him. Edited November 27, 2011 by abang quiton and swimlife 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckling_pig Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 In a no-ask-no-tell mode, how do you deal with a nasty brother at home who can't usually get along well with you? It was like one mountain cannot house two gay kind of analogy.My dear Tiger,If you want meaningful responses, you need to describe your situation in more detail. We see things not as they are, but as WE are - The TalmudWhen the student is ready, the teacher will appear - The Buddha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WowHardcore Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 I wish I had a gay brother at home!! Envy those have a brother at home even if he is str8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 (edited) I wish I had a gay brother at home!! Envy those have a brother at home even if he is str8Really? My straight brother; I think he's homophobe. I may be too quick to judge but should he ever find out I'm gay (maybe he already did) then it's gonns be really awkward. Edited November 28, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WATIC Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 who says straight brothers can't have fun with each other?i'm straight and i still can accept homosexuality with open arms cuz i'm keeping an open mind.i've watched my bro masturbate.we don't mind at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboy82 Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 who says straight brothers can't have fun with each other?i'm straight and i still can accept homosexuality with open arms cuz i'm keeping an open mind.i've watched my bro masturbate.we don't mind at all.I think you're probably just confused and refuse to come to term with your sexuality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimlife Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 who says straight brothers can't have fun with each other?i'm straight and i still can accept homosexuality with open arms cuz i'm keeping an open mind.i've watched my bro masturbate.we don't mind at all.Fainted.... haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 who says straight brothers can't have fun with each other?i'm straight and i still can accept homosexuality with open arms cuz i'm keeping an open mind.i've watched my bro masturbate.we don't mind at all.You are str8, right. So why are you here in a gay forum?And you had posted 8 times from 1:30 to 2pm as guest.So you fishing for gays to rim your ass or suck your dick? sum1outhere_03 1 http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest omg Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 You are str8, right. So why are you here in a gay forum? And you had posted 8 times from 1:30 to 2pm as guest. So you fishing for gays to rim your ass or suck your dick?wow ... you pi-chak his lobang liao. he is here looking for "lobang" lah. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 I am an elder brother. And I am NOT a bully. In fact, my younger brother always had the best things in life. Food, pocket money, toys.. you name it, he had it. It is because of this pampering, he can misbehaved and get away with it. I was the one to face the Principal/Teacher whenever he made a juvenile mistake. I think God is fair. After years of tolerating with his nuisance, fairness is awarded to me. He did badly in his studies while I was an A student. He had to suffer hours of tuition while I was enjoying myself infront of the TV set. He is now stuck in an unhappy marriage while I enjoy myself with my friends. I think I probably have more sex than him.hi abang,same here for me. am an elder brother. since young, my parents have spoilt my bro. pampered him like anything. whenever we fight, i always ended up getting the beating. when he was in the right, i get the beating, when he was in the wrong, i get the beating too cos i was supposed to be gracious to him as he is younger than me. whatever the case, he always gets away with things. having come from a poor family, the only toys i had were those given or discarded by people. but for my brother, he would get all the toys he wanted.somehow, i ended up the A student in my family. and my brother, he turned out to be terrible in his studies, fought with the teacher, almost got suspended/ expel from school. did badly in life. had (and still has) anger management problems. and he grew up to ill-treat my parents, took over their property, chased them out of the house, beat them up etc. and i end up looking after them...anyway, my point is - no, not all elder brothers are bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 (edited) hi abang,same here for me. am an elder brother. since young, my parents have spoilt my bro. pampered him like anything. whenever we fight, i always ended up getting the beating. when he was in the right, i get the beating, when he was in the wrong, i get the beating too cos i was supposed to be gracious to him as he is younger than me. whatever the case, he always gets away with things. having come from a poor family, the only toys i had were those given or discarded by people. but for my brother, he would get all the toys he wanted.somehow, i ended up the A student in my family. and my brother, he turned out to be terrible in his studies, fought with the teacher, almost got suspended/ expel from school. did badly in life. had (and still has) anger management problems. and he grew up to ill-treat my parents, took over their property, chased them out of the house, beat them up etc. and i end up looking after them...anyway, my point is - no, not all elder brothers are bad.as an A student, u allow such things to happen??? Edited November 28, 2011 by fab 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 28, 2011 Report Share Posted November 28, 2011 hi fab,i have learned to let go. i do not hold anything against my brother. he is a product of my parent's misguided love. he has his life to live and i can only wish him well.i am very well equipped to survive (as a result of my growing up years) and i can do so with my own means and on my own terms. i do not need to wrangle any property etc from my parents. i guess my brother has this fear of me trying to take the property after my dad pass away. in him, i see greed, i see anger... i cannot change my brother's behavior. we do not talk and are not on the best of terms. but i need to repay my parents for giving birth to me and bringing me up. they have done their best. they have their mistakes and i attribute it to their own upbringing. i do not judge them for what they do, i believe whatever they do is in the best of intentions. when i talk to my parents (and my dad before he passed away), they acknowledged that they are at fault for what my brother had become. they have taken responsibility for him turning out this way. this, to them is their karma. they have learnt to accept it.i am at peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted November 29, 2011 Report Share Posted November 29, 2011 In a no-ask-no-tell mode, how do you deal with a nasty brother at home who can't usually get along well with you? It was like one mountain cannot house two gay kind of analogy."We fight we break up, we kiss we make up" Officeboy 1 How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest angelsmile Posted November 29, 2011 Report Share Posted November 29, 2011 I hav big brother that is gay too. Long time ago he ever had relationship wit my 1st bf n they began when I was in hospital. Do u know how I can find out it? Its happened when I accidentally holding his mobile, suddenly he got msg n it was from my bro.. Tears come out bla bla bla... Its really hurt, 1st bf n took by my own bro.. But now we r already grow up, apologize made up. Now he live in sydney n I live in indonesia. Its quite unique hav a gay brother, likes sisters, borrow clothes, exchanges mind, fight for a man. We love our family even they don't really accept us. And now we decided we won't marry with women n will fight for it. Funny hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted November 29, 2011 Report Share Posted November 29, 2011 as an A student, u allow such things to happen???We scored good grades so as to get out of the system.Gay boys did well in school so as to get all the buff idiots to study with us.We were the 沈佳宜 to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest omg Posted November 30, 2011 Report Share Posted November 30, 2011 We scored good grades so as to get out of the system. Gay boys did well in school so as to get all the buff idiots to study with us. We were the 沈佳宜 to them.I started to imagine abang = 沈佳宜 and she salsa across the school field swinging and flipping her "pony tail" ~~~~~~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qedcwc Posted November 30, 2011 Report Share Posted November 30, 2011 I started to imagine abang = 沈佳宜 and she salsa across the school field swinging and flipping her "pony tail" ~~~~~~~ "You like who you like lah. Who cares if someone likes the other someone because of their race? It's when they hate them. That's the problem."Orked (acted by Sharifah Amani) in SEPET (2004, directed by Yasmin Ahmad) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sexfiend Posted January 24, 2012 Report Share Posted January 24, 2012 I wonder how it is like to have a brother --- I have no sibling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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