Cruise Club Sauna @ Chinatown (No Ads allowed)(Closed 28 Oct 2019)

[yokohamajin]

CC has much better crowd than KB (younger, fitter, nicer body, cuter, handsomer...) but I find it much harder to find a bang in CC than KB.

 

Probably because young guys are generally too shy? Or maybe because KB has too many uncles and grandpas so guys there lower their expectations for hook up?

 

KB has many OOS (out of shape) people but it's so easy to hook up there, especially in the dry sauna.

 

anyway, CC is a gay sauna without a sauna, how ironic, CC should install a dry sauna room, because when you sit down with someone in an enclosed space (instead of dashing around in the maze), chances of Big Bang theory is higher.

Edited November 14, 2016 by yokohamajin

[Miko333]

everyone has preference and to each his own... some young guys wants mature, while some like dark skinned tone while others wants white skin.

 

when choosing, sure we want someone of our preference unless we are too horny that we don't care, or really bored so just to have fun & not waste time.

 

as much as i have preference on certain looks but i always get high on someone with good smell, some get high on what they hear, some by touching but most is really by looks or what we see.

 

in general, i observed KB is for 35+ above with mixed young & mid... while i think CC is for 35 below although there is also mix of some old.

[yokohamajin]

Need advice:

 

if if a guy I like walked past me once, I touched, he didn't resist but also never touch me back or show interest.

 

he walk past me 2nd time, I touched him again, but he still neither resist nor touch me back nor look at me.

 

he walk past me 3rd time, I touched him again, but he still walked past like as if nothing happened.

 

 

What does this mean?

This happen to me a lot.

 

Is he not interested?

Is he annoyed? But he didn't resist.

 

Or is it just that he's OK for me to touch but not OK to have fun with me?

 

should I be shameless and continue to touch if he walks past me with no response after 3 or 5 times?  (Sorry, when you see a cute/hot guy with nice bubble butt walking past you it's natural you wanna land your hand on it)

Edited November 14, 2016 by yokohamajin

[96miniboy]

Cruise got wifi already ah? Lol

[96miniboy]

14 hours ago, yokohamajin said:

Need advice:

 

if if a guy I like walked past me once, I touched, he didn't resist but also never touch me back or show interest.

 

he walk past me 2nd time, I touched him again, but he still neither resist nor touch me back nor look at me.

 

he walk past me 3rd time, I touched him again, but he still walked past like as if nothing happened.

 

 

What does this mean?

This happen to me a lot.

 

Is he not interested?

Is he annoyed? But he didn't resist.

 

Or is it just that he's OK for me to touch but not OK to have fun with me?

 

should I be shameless and continue to touch if he walks past me with no response after 3 or 5 times?  (Sorry, when you see a cute/hot guy with nice bubble butt walking past you it's natural you wanna land your hand on it)

 

Some people don't mind others to touch them, but if you want to get something more then they will reject. 

[96miniboy]

15 hours ago, Miko333 said:

everyone has preference and to each his own... some young guys wants mature, while some like dark skinned tone while others wants white skin.

 

when choosing, sure we want someone of our preference unless we are too horny that we don't care, or really bored so just to have fun & not waste time.

 

as much as i have preference on certain looks but i always get high on someone with good smell, some get high on what they hear, some by touching but most is really by looks or what we see.

 

in general, i observed KB is for 35+ above with mixed young & mid... while i think CC is for 35 below although there is also mix of some old.

 

Some people will just leave if they cannot find a good one. Not all the people will find sonmeone at the end 

[96miniboy]

On 13/11/2016 at 9:54 AM, Guest website update said:

 

Cruise Club should replace all the fake hunk pics with realsitic customer cliente.

 

It is indeed sad, what it started to be a cool club with hunks, is now infested with out shape and lots of Indians, walding around in groups, hanging here and there gossips about others. Anyway they are paying patrons, CC does makes the money, they do not care, as long as you pay.

 

Not against Indians, but it has far too many in my trip recently that shocked me especially with the stench inside the steam room, which is dirty and unhygienic state . It needs an overhaul of its premises , re-aligning its customers demographics as well as its high entry rates and yearly membership rate , that one has to pay annual, else is GOODBYE to many existing patrons, seeking cheaper venue with better, more explicit fun, rather than making money to the fullest, just like the old RAW days, Heater room days, Queens Residence days , which end up closing.

 

I would not to visit this place especially the recent choice of people from the pool of patrons is very limited, but more of Indians to pick who are their cash cows.

 

I do understand why most Chinese / Asians cliente are giving a miss to this place recently.

 

 

 

I think they should learn from other countries, control the quatlity of the customers and get the entrance fee from all the members. But just lower the entrance fee to 5$. It's not a big money but people still can afford it, since you pay then you will not waste money and just look around. Honestly, once the quality raise up, more tourists will come to spend money. 

[Guest GUEST]

7 minutes ago, 96miniboy said:

 

I think they should learn from other countries, control the quatlity of the customers and get the entrance fee from all the members. But just lower the entrance fee to 5$. It's not a big money but people still can afford it, since you pay then you will not waste money and just look around. Honestly, once the quality raise up, more tourists will come to spend money. 

 

 

Cos its free entry, so all comes in for look-see, especially so many Indians come this place like little india club now

[mate69]

It's a matter of time before CC has to close, if nothing is being done to address the many grievances pointed out here.

The business model is clearly unsustainable, and patrons' so-called loyalty lasts only as long as before the next better player comes along.

 

I used to like CC but have stopped going for a while now.

 

 

[numchucks]

personally, i don't mind being touched or giving free hugs to those who need them

but it does not mean i wanna hop into bed with ya though.

 

as for the crowd, i don't see wat the big deal is.

in any sauna, there are bound to be a mixture of types.

 

all u need is one or two or three who are your type, to get your rocks off anyways.

it's not as if, u will be fucking everyone that u meet.

 

i'm more concerned about the physical state of the sauna - adequate rooms, clean environment, working equipment, accessible supplies...

 

... and lockers that can be locked easily and not spend 5 mins turning the dam key right and left trying to lock it... sheezus

 

[96miniboy]

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Edited November 15, 2016 by 96miniboy

[numchucks]

Racism is not acceptable.

 

But sizeism, ageism, lookism is acceptable?

 

I give up

 

WTF people...

 

11 minutes ago, 96miniboy said:

 

I went to Korean sauna last time, everyone needs to pay for entrance no matter when. But they will say no to fat, old, ugly etc. And non-Mongoloid look people as well.

 

I think it's okay for them to have age limits in Singapore, but cannot be racist.

 

[Guest Handsome Fit guest]

没完没了，

Once I purposely walked past cc..and to my horror some young ones look so old and fugly with no body shape , they just came out from CC.

You have the right to criticise the mature guys but you just don't look yourself in the mirror , you have no looks no body yet want to act high class and atas like statues like what handsome uncle has pointed out and the sustainability of Cc like what mate69 has pointed out to.

And discrimination like Numchucks said. 

If that's the case Cc should have rules about the age looks and body before letting any tom dick harry enter Cc..

And make everyone pay whether you are young or not !

The staff should be at the entrance to determine the x factor of the clientele

Just like Project highway .

Pathetic!  

[Guest Handsome Fit guest]

I respect that every one has preference ..

If you don't like those not in your league , just get out of their sight and look for your Prince or Princess .

Like Numchucks said..its not as if you are going to fuck every damn guy who comes to Cc.

I always believe in karma , you may have the looks and body now but if you don't maintain its also pointless , I have seen quite a few gym rats who had gorgeous looks and Adonis bodies but now has bulges here and there and look so haggard !

So don't have to boast and yayapapaya now.. if you can still maintain after 30s to 40 or even 50s I shall shut my mouth. 

Live and let live!

[Guest 72%dark]

21 hours ago, yokohamajin said:

CC has much better crowd than KB (younger, fitter, nicer body, cuter, handsomer...) but I find it much harder to find a bang in CC than KB.

Indeed. Which is why CC is never my first choice. If I wanted to ogle hot guys but not hook up with them, I could just surf porn at home and be done with it. Much cheaper, easier and faster.

 

20 hours ago, yokohamajin said:

Need advice:

 

if if a guy I like walked past me once, I touched, he didn't resist but also never touch me back or show interest.

 

he walk past me 2nd time, I touched him again, but he still neither resist nor touch me back nor look at me.

 

he walk past me 3rd time, I touched him again, but he still walked past like as if nothing happened.

 

 

What does this mean?

This happen to me a lot.

 

Is he not interested?

Is he annoyed? But he didn't resist.

 

Or is it just that he's OK for me to touch but not OK to have fun with me?

 

should I be shameless and continue to touch if he walks past me with no response after 3 or 5 times?  (Sorry, when you see a cute/hot guy with nice bubble butt walking past you it's natural you wanna land your hand on it)

It doesn't mean anything except that the guy doesn't mind being touched. Having been in that situation before, I don't mind people touching (if they're not too rough or aggressive), so I wouldn't push someone's hand away if they reached out while I was walking by. But it certainly doesn't signify he's interested back; if he were, it's likely he would already have reciprocated the interested after so many passes.

 

36 minutes ago, hannibalism said:

what is a good day to go to cruise where you get a decent crowd but not too many people?

Perhaps on non-event days, and other than Fri/Sat/Sun evenings?

But no matter the size of the crowd, in the end it comes down to luck.

[Steve5380]

12 hours ago, 96miniboy said:

 

I think they should learn from other countries, control the quatlity of the customers and get the entrance fee from all the members.

 

How do you "control the QUALITY of customers"?

 

And which other countries?

There are counted the saunas that impose any limit on age or attractiveness.

[Steve5380]

6 hours ago, 72%dark said:

Indeed. Which is why CC is never my first choice. If I wanted to ogle hot guys but not hook up with them, I could just surf porn at home and be done with it. Much cheaper, easier and faster.

 

It doesn't mean anything except that the guy doesn't mind being touched. Having been in that situation before, I don't mind people touching (if they're not too rough or aggressive), so I wouldn't push someone's hand away if they reached out while I was walking by. But it certainly doesn't signify he's interested back; if he were, it's likely he would already have reciprocated the interested after so many passes.

 

Perhaps on non-event days, and other than Fri/Sat/Sun evenings?

But no matter the size of the crowd, in the end it comes down to luck.

 

Agree.  To be able to touch hot guys but not being accepted for anything further is a sort of masochism.

But it is some progress that these guys are willing to be touched without responding with some ugly gesture or action.

 

It happens seldom to me, but when I touch a guy and he violently rejects me, I feel that he deserves to be punched in his face.

But I don't do it, of course.  I merely wish that sooner or later he be treated in the same way.

 

[Miko333]

19 hours ago, 96miniboy said:

 

Some people will just leave if they cannot find a good one. Not all the people will find sonmeone at the end 

 

i think it comes with the mind set & the level of lust to release.. sure good looks have the advantage but without action it is a waste.

 

i don't know but i'm more into average easy-go guys cause the super good looks guy is waste of time - wherein normally you have to please them & their not good to pleasure others.. 

 

sure we go to sauna to have fun & pleasure and not waste time.

[numchucks]

physical attraction ≠ sexual chemistry

you may be attracted at first, but only to find there is no sexual chemistry

it happens

 

32 minutes ago, Miko333 said:

 

i think it comes with the mind set & the level of lust to release.. sure good looks have the advantage but without action it is a waste.

 

i don't know but i'm more into average easy-go guys cause the super good looks guy is waste of time - wherein normally you have to please them & their not good to pleasure others.. 

 

sure we go to sauna to have fun & pleasure and not waste time.

 

[Miko333]

8 minutes ago, numchucks said:

physical attraction ≠ sexual chemistry

you may be attracted at first, but only to find there is no sexual chemistry

it happens

 

 

 

yeah it happens and i feel guilty when a guy's eyes is always on me but i feel no chemistry, then last thing i see them is in the locker area slowly dressing with eyes still giving hint & implying "if we could just try"..

 

i feel bad and want to shout "we should be free for all" no rejection from now on.

[Miko333]

2 hours ago, hannibalism said:

that's one hell of an egalitarian sauna philosophy. you should write a book about it.

 

we can't deny that there are friendly, kind & horny people that do charity at sauna.. it should be the mindset that needs to be spread.

Edited November 16, 2016 by Miko333

[Guest 72%dark]

16 hours ago, hannibalism said:

and you'd suggest KB than CC? i've only ever been to CC, and once for that matter... need some post-exams celebration

I hesitate to endorse one place or another as I think many of the considerations are subjective and ultimately your luck/fate does play a part. My own general lack of success at CC may not be widely representative for all I know.

But KB is not as expensive; if nothing else, your pockets will feel less empty if you should end up leaving unsatisfied.

Enjoy your post-exam debauchery celebration! 

[Guest 72%dark]

4 hours ago, numchucks said:

physical attraction ≠ sexual chemistry

you may be attracted at first, but only to find there is no sexual chemistry

it happens

 

 

 

True, but to discover that someone doesn't have sexual chemistry with you means that you've already managed to attract his initial interest and he's willing to at least attempt a hookup. That's something.

 

All too often in my experience, people won't so much as look at me (or they'll do what I call "anti-cruising"), let alone consider anything further. To walk in circles all night being ignored, now that is a waste of time.

[crazydude92]

Anyone going tonight who is driving?

[playhardindian]

My first gay sauna experience today. I see the people r really good not like anything being said here. Yeah I am Indian but Got lot of eyes today. But went with friend so action sort from him. so anyone who is looking for the Indian with a specs u know here to find me.. hope to go again. Gracie.

[teatree]

3 hours ago, Rain123 said:

 

Lol? 

 

You are not allowed to advertise here except in Personal section.  That's BW rules. 

[amplify]

5 minutes ago, teatree said:

 

You are not allowed to advertise here except in Personal section.  That's BW rules. 

 

@teatree is right. The post has been removed.Please take note @Rain123. Thanks.

[Guest Leanfit dude]

Today is skin. Hopefully nice hunks today

[yokohamajin]

The plight of a "grade C" guy:

 

In terms of look and body and personality: I would give myself a C grade.

 

Almost all grade C guys dream to bang grade A and grade B guys.

 

However, grade A (cute & handsome face & muscular healthy body & bubble butt & strong arms & fit thighs & smart brain & easy-going personality etc) guys ALMOST NEVER come to gay saunas because they DON'T NEED to come to sauna to look for a bang. They can easily find hook up on gay dating apps, if not, they would have easily found a long-term fuck buddy or boyfriend.

 

Grade A guys tend to date grade A guys only, at most extend their bang-circle to grade B guys. They won't even take a second look on grade C guys or even talk to them. They would probably feel disgusted to even hold grade C guys' hands.

 

Almost all grade B guys look forward to bang grade A guys, if not, they will look for other grade B guys. Only in desperate situations would they compromise to bang a grade C guy.

 

 

And for grade C guys, we wouldn't want grade D, E, F guys.

 

We crave for A and B guys.

We are OKAY with other C guys. (Which means "I don't find you extraordinarily hot/handsome/good looking, but you are not that bad looking either, I don't have much urge to bang you, I don't have much excuse not to bang you either, you are far away from my ideal (A,B) but I'm okay with both to bang you and not to bang you."

 

When we see grade B guys in sauna, we are too shy to approach, because the rejection/failure rate is damn high. 

 

When we we see our fellow grade C guys, we are both OKAY with each other, but both of us are searching for grade As and Bs. We all thought that we might be lucky to find the grade A/B guy and ignored each other. We also don't find it much urging to approach each other as we think we deserve better.

 

D,E,F guys know that they have no hope in getting A and B guys, they are more open to 'dissolve' and 'digest' among themselves.

 

Grade C guys, almost good, but not that good, almost bad, but not that bad, got hope, but quite slim, no hope, but sometimes lucky stars do come across.

 

Hence grade C guys spend hours to look for bang but often leave sauna empty handed or empty hearted.

 

Empty handed, because we all want A and B guys but they don't want us. We don't want D, E, F guys. And we ignored fellow Cs in the process, when we finally give up on A, B guys the time is getting late, all the Cs have left to home.

 

Empty hearted, because we had banged a C guy, who isn't that good looking and far from our dream Mr Right, we think we deserve better. Or we somehow banged a D, E, F guy, after which we feel disgusted or this was an "unfair deal".

 

We are like unused condoms dropped on toilet floor, there are enough reasons to dump us straight to the rubbish bin but there are also enough reasons to pick us up and use us. We stuck in an awkward limbo that seems to lead to no way.

 

Sigh, this is the plight of a grade C guy.

 

I wish I was a hot bloke too.

 

Edited November 20, 2016 by yokohamajin

[numchucks]

 But the real grade A dudes don't even bother with sauna these days

They have their own exclusive member-only app for fuck parties.

It's only grade B and below dudes like us who still need to go to saunas, so you shldn't put yourself down that much.

We are all in the same boat, relatively speaking 

 

15 minutes ago, yokohamajin said:

 

However, grade A (cute & handsome face & muscular healthy body & bubble butt & strong arms & fit thighs & smart brain & easy-going personality etc) guys ALMOST NEVER come to gay saunas because they DON'T NEED to come to sauna to look for a bang. They can easily find hook up on gay dating apps, if not, they would have easily found a long-term fuck buddy or boyfriend.

 

Grade A guys tend to date grade A guys only, at most extend their bang-circle to grade B guys. They won't even take a second look on grade C guys or even talk to them. They would probably feel disgusted to even hold grade C guys' hands.

 

 

[Miko333]

hey guys, its mind setting.. always think yourself as A and people will treat you as A..

 

also treat everyone as A and you will be treated as A..

 

its a matter of confidence, enjoyment, grab every opportunity to fuck (if its your objective)..

 

expect rejection as people have preference (you too have preference & sure rejected others), so what if you have been rejected move on invite again, initiate as some are shy.. 

[Steve5380]

On 11/18/2016 at 1:17 PM, playhardindian said:

My first gay sauna experience today. I see the people r really good not like anything being said here. Yeah I am Indian but Got lot of eyes today. But went with friend so action sort from him. so anyone who is looking for the Indian with a specs u know here to find me.. hope to go again. Gracie.

 

Next time go ALONE.

Nothing limits more the experience of a gay sauna than being tied to a friend.

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Miko333 said:

hey guys, its mind setting.. always think yourself as A and people will treat you as A..

also treat everyone as A and you will be treated as A..

 

It would be so beautiful if this idealization worked unconditionally...

But you have to be like one of the first letters if thinking as an A gets you the treat of an A.

Regardless, treating others like A is good idea, but in a gay sauna a Z will never be treated like an A

 

Maybe instead of mind setting, we should work hard to become as close to an A as possible.

Then we don't have to fool ourselves.

[Guest Grade G]

On ‎20‎/‎11‎/‎2016 at 11:35 PM, yokohamajin said:

The plight of a "grade C" guy:

 

In terms of look and body and personality: I would give myself a C grade.

 

Almost all grade C guys dream to bang grade A and grade B guys.

 

However, grade A (cute & handsome face & muscular healthy body & bubble butt & strong arms & fit thighs & smart brain & easy-going personality etc) guys ALMOST NEVER come to gay saunas because they DON'T NEED to come to sauna to look for a bang. They can easily find hook up on gay dating apps, if not, they would have easily found a long-term fuck buddy or boyfriend.

 

Grade A guys tend to date grade A guys only, at most extend their bang-circle to grade B guys. They won't even take a second look on grade C guys or even talk to them. They would probably feel disgusted to even hold grade C guys' hands.

 

Almost all grade B guys look forward to bang grade A guys, if not, they will look for other grade B guys. Only in desperate situations would they compromise to bang a grade C guy.

 

 

And for grade C guys, we wouldn't want grade D, E, F guys.

 

We crave for A and B guys.

We are OKAY with other C guys. (Which means "I don't find you extraordinarily hot/handsome/good looking, but you are not that bad looking either, I don't have much urge to bang you, I don't have much excuse not to bang you either, you are far away from my ideal (A,B) but I'm okay with both to bang you and not to bang you."

 

When we see grade B guys in sauna, we are too shy to approach, because the rejection/failure rate is damn high. 

 

When we we see our fellow grade C guys, we are both OKAY with each other, but both of us are searching for grade As and Bs. We all thought that we might be lucky to find the grade A/B guy and ignored each other. We also don't find it much urging to approach each other as we think we deserve better.

 

D,E,F guys know that they have no hope in getting A and B guys, they are more open to 'dissolve' and 'digest' among themselves.

 

Grade C guys, almost good, but not that good, almost bad, but not that bad, got hope, but quite slim, no hope, but sometimes lucky stars do come across.

 

Hence grade C guys spend hours to look for bang but often leave sauna empty handed or empty hearted.

 

Empty handed, because we all want A and B guys but they don't want us. We don't want D, E, F guys. And we ignored fellow Cs in the process, when we finally give up on A, B guys the time is getting late, all the Cs have left to home.

 

Empty hearted, because we had banged a C guy, who isn't that good looking and far from our dream Mr Right, we think we deserve better. Or we somehow banged a D, E, F guy, after which we feel disgusted or this was an "unfair deal".

 

We are like unused condoms dropped on toilet floor, there are enough reasons to dump us straight to the rubbish bin but there are also enough reasons to pick us up and use us. We stuck in an awkward limbo that seems to lead to no way.

 

Sigh, this is the plight of a grade C guy.

 

I wish I was a hot bloke too.

 

 

Wow, so many different grades, from A to F.  Never mind lah, after 20 years, all will have only one grade - Grade G.

[Steve5380]

5 hours ago, Guest Grade G said:

 

Wow, so many different grades, from A to F.  Never mind lah, after 20 years, all will have only one grade - Grade G.

 

Make it after 40 years.

Because even a 40 year old uncle is only 60 twenty years later, 

and this age does not automatically qualify for a grade G.

 

Instead, if poster yokohamajin is a C now and he is 40 years old, for the next twenty years he can still stay as grade C or even C+

by taking good care of his body: moderate eating of good foods to stay slim, exercising with weights to maintain good musculature,

and protecting his skin by using skin-care products and even get some minor plastic surgery work here and there.

 

And if he is younger than 40, like a 20, he can advance to grade B in less than 10 years with adequate care.

[Guest guest]

i am 60 but look 30  was rejected for been too young at ten men

[Guest Were]

10 minutes ago, Guest guest said:

i am 60 but look 30  was rejected for been too young at ten men

 

Your 30 looked like a wax figure and ten men is not Madam T wax museum.  The Hagens Human Cadavers Exhibition will accept you. Go now

[stylishvicky]

Understand how you feel. That's why i don't go to saunas for years (6?) because, as a grade c, you might as well skip the worry and look somewhere else. Cheaper that way and then you become 'ungraded'. Or you can just play 'dao' in the sauna and join grade a or b instead which I always did previously?

 

Anyway how does the grading works. Maybe can better define each ranking? Just curious

 

On 20/11/2016 at 11:35 PM, yokohamajin said:

The plight of a "grade C" guy:

 

In terms of look and body and personality: I would give myself a C grade.

 

Almost all grade C guys dream to bang grade A and grade B guys.

 

However, grade A (cute & handsome face & muscular healthy body & bubble butt & strong arms & fit thighs & smart brain & easy-going personality etc) guys ALMOST NEVER come to gay saunas because they DON'T NEED to come to sauna to look for a bang. They can easily find hook up on gay dating apps, if not, they would have easily found a long-term fuck buddy or boyfriend.

 

Grade A guys tend to date grade A guys only, at most extend their bang-circle to grade B guys. They won't even take a second look on grade C guys or even talk to them. They would probably feel disgusted to even hold grade C guys' hands.

 

Almost all grade B guys look forward to bang grade A guys, if not, they will look for other grade B guys. Only in desperate situations would they compromise to bang a grade C guy.

 

 

And for grade C guys, we wouldn't want grade D, E, F guys.

 

We crave for A and B guys.

We are OKAY with other C guys. (Which means "I don't find you extraordinarily hot/handsome/good looking, but you are not that bad looking either, I don't have much urge to bang you, I don't have much excuse not to bang you either, you are far away from my ideal (A,B) but I'm okay with both to bang you and not to bang you."

 

When we see grade B guys in sauna, we are too shy to approach, because the rejection/failure rate is damn high. 

 

When we we see our fellow grade C guys, we are both OKAY with each other, but both of us are searching for grade As and Bs. We all thought that we might be lucky to find the grade A/B guy and ignored each other. We also don't find it much urging to approach each other as we think we deserve better.

 

D,E,F guys know that they have no hope in getting A and B guys, they are more open to 'dissolve' and 'digest' among themselves.

 

Grade C guys, almost good, but not that good, almost bad, but not that bad, got hope, but quite slim, no hope, but sometimes lucky stars do come across.

 

Hence grade C guys spend hours to look for bang but often leave sauna empty handed or empty hearted.

 

Empty handed, because we all want A and B guys but they don't want us. We don't want D, E, F guys. And we ignored fellow Cs in the process, when we finally give up on A, B guys the time is getting late, all the Cs have left to home.

 

Empty hearted, because we had banged a C guy, who isn't that good looking and far from our dream Mr Right, we think we deserve better. Or we somehow banged a D, E, F guy, after which we feel disgusted or this was an "unfair deal".

 

We are like unused condoms dropped on toilet floor, there are enough reasons to dump us straight to the rubbish bin but there are also enough reasons to pick us up and use us. We stuck in an awkward limbo that seems to lead to no way.

 

Sigh, this is the plight of a grade C guy.

 

I wish I was a hot bloke too.

 

 

Edited November 23, 2016 by stylishvicky

[Steve5380]

On 11/22/2016 at 5:39 PM, Guest guest said:

i am 60 but look 30  was rejected for been too young at ten men

 

Are you the same guy who went to R3 and Sauna Mania in Bangkok,

and they tried to charge you four times the regular entry fee

instead of the twice they charge those over 50,

because they thought you were over 80 ?

[tshaypul]

Hey hows the crowd before 5pm?

[Tamp1992]

On 20/11/2016 at 11:35 PM, yokohamajin said:

The plight of a "grade C" guy:

 

In terms of look and body and personality: I would give myself a C grade.

 

Almost all grade C guys dream to bang grade A and grade B guys.

 

However, grade A (cute & handsome face & muscular healthy body & bubble butt & strong arms & fit thighs & smart brain & easy-going personality etc) guys ALMOST NEVER come to gay saunas because they DON'T NEED to come to sauna to look for a bang. They can easily find hook up on gay dating apps, if not, they would have easily found a long-term fuck buddy or boyfriend.

 

Grade A guys tend to date grade A guys only, at most extend their bang-circle to grade B guys. They won't even take a second look on grade C guys or even talk to them. They would probably feel disgusted to even hold grade C guys' hands.

 

Almost all grade B guys look forward to bang grade A guys, if not, they will look for other grade B guys. Only in desperate situations would they compromise to bang a grade C guy.

 

 

And for grade C guys, we wouldn't want grade D, E, F guys.

 

We crave for A and B guys.

We are OKAY with other C guys. (Which means "I don't find you extraordinarily hot/handsome/good looking, but you are not that bad looking either, I don't have much urge to bang you, I don't have much excuse not to bang you either, you are far away from my ideal (A,B) but I'm okay with both to bang you and not to bang you."

 

When we see grade B guys in sauna, we are too shy to approach, because the rejection/failure rate is damn high. 

 

When we we see our fellow grade C guys, we are both OKAY with each other, but both of us are searching for grade As and Bs. We all thought that we might be lucky to find the grade A/B guy and ignored each other. We also don't find it much urging to approach each other as we think we deserve better.

 

D,E,F guys know that they have no hope in getting A and B guys, they are more open to 'dissolve' and 'digest' among themselves.

 

Grade C guys, almost good, but not that good, almost bad, but not that bad, got hope, but quite slim, no hope, but sometimes lucky stars do come across.

 

Hence grade C guys spend hours to look for bang but often leave sauna empty handed or empty hearted.

 

Empty handed, because we all want A and B guys but they don't want us. We don't want D, E, F guys. And we ignored fellow Cs in the process, when we finally give up on A, B guys the time is getting late, all the Cs have left to home.

 

Empty hearted, because we had banged a C guy, who isn't that good looking and far from our dream Mr Right, we think we deserve better. Or we somehow banged a D, E, F guy, after which we feel disgusted or this was an "unfair deal".

 

We are like unused condoms dropped on toilet floor, there are enough reasons to dump us straight to the rubbish bin but there are also enough reasons to pick us up and use us. We stuck in an awkward limbo that seems to lead to no way.

 

Sigh, this is the plight of a grade C guy.

 

I wish I was a hot bloke too.

 

I have never liked a post more. This is how I feel every single day when it comes to this.

[tomcat]

4 hours ago, Tamp1992 said:

I have never liked a post more. This is how I feel every single day when it comes to this.

definition of Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

 

i guess, improve your grade or stop going to saunas lor. this one not my logic, albert einsten one okay. no point go there, give out money to buy frustration.

personally, i never go for grade A, cos i know they are only grade A in the dark (haha). the real Grade A don't come to saunas, they have their own private f*ck party with models, celebs etc. i go for Grade B, which I identify with myself. and then there is no Grade C, just guys that i will never fun with.

 

i was a substitute teacher once, i find grading things so boring and meaningless. just go, be open (but safe) and have fun with whoever clicks your fancy, or has chemistry with you. why put yourself into a box, guys??? and PLUS, these grades differ from people to people, so you never know that you might be a good grade to someone.

be confident, have good vibes and enjoy.

 

 

[Guest Grade]

A hot body with average look fall under what Grade? 

[Guest 七分女]

13 hours ago, tomcat said:

personally, i never go for grade A, cos i know they are only grade A in the dark (haha). the real Grade A don't come to saunas, they have their own private f*ck party with MODELS, CELEBS etc. i go for Grade B, which I identify with myself. and then there is no Grade C, just guys that i will never fun with.

 

Many models and celebs, if they come to gay saunas like cruise club will be automatically downgraded to grade B and C. Gay beauty standards are universally unparalleled.

[Guest Curious]

I'm curious about the private app for fuck parties that people mentioned. Care to elaborate? How do u know such things ????

[Jeff_7]

Pls respect each other, don't grade ppl based on their looks/shape/age/race. One day, someone will grade you in return. 

 

Jus go there and mind your own business. 

 

Other go there is to have a chance to make new friend / bond with friend / feel being love again.

 

Stop your stigma = stop destroyed the hamony in this circle.

[labradorman]

beauty comes in all sizes and shape and packages. I get turned off by twinks and appreciate a hottie uncle. but that does not mean twinks are c grade. 

[Miko333]

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Edited December 6, 2016 by Miko333

[yokohamajin]

The steam room is dead, not warm at all.

[numchucks]

Let's face the facts. These gradings or preferences, I prefer to call them, do exist

I's not the end of the world if you are not a Grade A, B, C or Z, as everyone's definition of these grades are different.

But let's not pretend that the gay world is one harmonious family, it's the complete opposite.

Just accept the reality and bear in mind that if you are considered a Grade A in conventional beauty sense, does not necessarily mean a Grade A in someone else's books.

Peace out.

 

20 hours ago, Jeff_7 said:

Pls respect each other, don't grade ppl based on their looks/shape/age/race. One day, someone will grade you in return. 

 

Jus go there and mind your own business. 

 

Other go there is to have a chance to make new friend / bond with friend / feel being love again.

 

Stop your stigma = stop destroyed the hamony in this circle.