Guest Alone Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 Hi ! Guys, may I know Ways to live happily--ALONE! When I go sauna, I. don't strike conversation with anybody, I regular hunt is library , now I am getting sick of library . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leojie Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 i am happy....i am single. but not alone. because of my friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboy82 Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 i am happy....i am single. but not alone. because of my friends.Should readI'm happy, I'm single, I'm alone, but I'm not lonely, because of my friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 Get cookbooks and try out every single dish. Get out of Singapore to get the necessary ingredients (if need be). Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest friend Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 Life is how you make it,Not what it makes you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Freedom11 Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 I dun think lonely=unhappy. I think its all depends whether if you are able to withstand the loneliness without a partner. Some will die w/o a partners while some get used to the idea of being single and live happily.As for me, I felt happier being by myself than being attached. Im deeply in love with freedom. No more compromising, committing and adjusting to someone else's lifestyle. So much freedom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 are you happy like that?recently i also have been feeling like this but i dont go to library. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Alone Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 I don't mind to be alone cos I don't like to chat up with people (nothing wrong with my speech), but I need altenative way to pass time other than library Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mp440028 Posted June 2, 2012 Report Share Posted June 2, 2012 I live alone and I like it. I don't feel lonely or anything, probably because I am used to itt. I am not attached, and have no plans to be .If I need company will just call a friend, family member, or colleague to go out, and most will usually accomodate.. The whole issue is not about living alone, but more like being lonely. There are so many ways to fill the space, like doding volunteer work at a local charity, or organization.Take up a part-time course, learn to do things you never did (I learned to drive, swim, and dance, all while in my 40s)...... Hulkhunk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 for me reading is really a big part of my singlehood life. moreover it's cheap and enriching.i agree with cooking, but i think will only do that when i have my own place, currently the kitchen belongs to my mum only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 I live alone and I like it. I don't feel lonely or anything, probably because I am used to itt. I am not attached, and have no plans to be .If I need company will just call a friend, family member, or colleague to go out, and most will usually accomodate.. The whole issue is not about living alone, but more like being lonely. There are so many ways to fill the space, like doding volunteer work at a local charity, or organization.Take up a part-time course, learn to do things you never did (I learned to drive, swim, and dance, all while in my 40s)......You are totally clueless about love if you think life is all about "SO MANY WAYS TO FILL THE SPACE". Only in a factory do we talk about filling the space to maximize the output from a machine to recover our costly capital investments buying it.Are you a machine? Have you ever being with someone and felt something stirring other than your groins? If not, then carry on being a machine. I know of some who said that because they are aesthetically challenged and this gay circle is very cruel and superficial. But I also met someone who took the effort to go to gym and wow after 2 years, he got men chasing him round the bends. So he took revenge just to play them but reserve his love only for the A class gays. His turn to get picky and superficial.If you felt something, then multiply that 100x, that is the feeling of love. You pine, you think, you sigh, your world revolves around his being.You won't miss it if you haven't experienced it. But for all the hurt and pain ( yes all those mushy silly love songs do come true sometimes ), it is damn worth it just to experience the joy of love.When you are dying on your bed, you think of your your parents or friends or even your cars but most of all, you will be glad to have experienced LOVE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Financial Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 It is through some of these postings that one can understand the lack of 'humanity' in some Singaporeans (probably due to the education system and the rigid way of life) has resulted the some people to be like this - devoid of ability to express and communicate. Inability and unwillingness to relate to people will lead to him not knowing how to fall in love.As such, many of these gays amongst us will, undoubtedly lead a lonely and sad life when they get older. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lean n mean Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 Bitch, please! Why do people get slammed when they claim they are happy alone? is it so difficult to believe it is possible? There are happy and unhappy people in relationships and there are happy and unhappy people alone. Get over it! It riles me when a topic is introduced and at post #4 or #5, some bitch starts to throw shade and go off course. Just like there are bitches who'll die if they are not part of a better half, there are those like yours truly who have reached a stage in their life who feels they are just as happy when they are alone as when they are attached.Coming back to the topic, you need to have great friends and plenty of different interests in various stages of your life to be contented when you are alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LEAN N MEAN Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 "Have you ever being with someone and felt something stirring other than your groins? If not, then carry on being a machine."For someone who thinks we have more than one groin, do you blame me for wanting to be a machine than be with someone who may just turn out to be so knowledgeably retarded? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mp440028 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 Interesting how this is turning out. Maybe as a younger person, I would have been more passionate in agruing in love's favour, but coming in at this stage of life, sensibility prevails.I can understand your need for love and to have a better half, but I realised it early on that it was just not my thing, and I am so much more happy being alone. We can go on arguing about this, but really, I have better things to do. You have the right to your opinions, and I respect that. I have a life, you need to findd one....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Quiet Garden Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 Personally, I feel being attached is not a necessity or a must-thing. If you can find someone to match, it will be great and be happy, if you can't so be it and be happy too.Everyone is different, be it culture, upbringings, lifestyle, personality. There is no fixed puzzle in humanity, just fill in whichever you think fits you. No one should judge others who didn't fall into your puzzle. Just like some straight people preferred to be single and others prefer to get married. Same should apply to gay world, nobody should impose on each other. I am a strong believer of nature take its course. Do you know what is so wonderful about this world, some are like willow drifting with the wind until it finds its nursing place, others prefer to be moss and stay put on its nuturitious ground, some tend to be stalker like the creepers. Whoever you are, I am sure you will bloom in your own way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 I live by myself and I am pretty happy to do so. I've had room mates for years but after the last one, we both agreed that after a certain age, we should live by ourselves and so we did. Still the best room mate I've ever had. I work from home on some days and so sometimes, I have my assistant over working on the couch etc. so it is still not that lonely etc. We order lunch in, and at 5 or 6pm, we pop open a bottle of wine or mix some cocktails etc. to end the work day. Sometimes one of the interns will join us if we need him that day. Otherwise, I am pretty happy to live by myself. My friends will swing by some nights and we catch up on the sofa, order a movie etc. Speedos and In_shape 2 Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 Tearing myself away from the social fabric here, I decided to take up the challenge to live alone for once.Every weekend, I enjoy nature and do window shopping.It can be pretty enriching at times. Some people say you need to find love in a foreign country to get by.Maybe somehow I'm trying to challenge that claim. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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