Feeling after being fucked for the first time + How Does It Feel To Get Fucked? (compiled)

[snowball]

if btm for someone your love, every pain = shiok = worth it

Edited November 17, 2017 by snowball

[Ben Ben Ben]

44 minutes ago, exec_fetish said:

 

I ever once met this top in a HK sauna. He force his cock into my hole, and started thrusting immediately. I told him stop due to the initial pain where my hole was still adjusting to his size and he immediately pull out and wanted to leave. I also stopped him from leaving and allowed him to carry on his way with me..

Once my HK Friend asked me how come singaporean boys so many are bottom 

 

I was like 

[cutejack]

20 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Once my HK Friend asked me how come singaporean boys so many are bottom 

 

I was like 

Tell him spore guys work until too tired to work again on bed.

[cutejack]

2 hours ago, Guest lovetop said:

 

I met a sweet top who would use lube to loose me up using his finger, then he will slide his cock around my anus. Then he will slowly insert his cock head into my anus and pause there for 3-5 min and this time I already feeling pain and my anus is contracting. After 5 min, my top will gently insert inside and this time my anus welcome his manhood to the party.

Patient and considerate tops are hard to come by. Most just want btm to suck them, pump the btm without caring the btm feeling and then f off

U didn' initiate to stay put with him.

[Guest BOTTOM]

10 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Once my HK Friend asked me how come singaporean boys so many are bottom 

 

I was like 

Tell him because we are country full of influx of immigrants and our govt has encouraged us to open "our leg" wide to welcome them, so naturally we have been screwed left right and center and became a bottom people.

[fab]

13 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Once my HK Friend asked me how come singaporean boys so many are bottom 

 

I was like 

 

Based on my personal experience, among sg cn tw thailand n hk, hk has the most btm.

[Guest racist]

2 hours ago, fab said:

 

Based on my personal experience, among sg cn tw thailand n hk, hk has the most btm.

 

why never include your neighbour on the north?..MALAYSIA

[fab]

Hehe.

 

Cos i always consider My n sg as 1.

[lovehandle]

18 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Once my HK Friend asked me how come singaporean boys so many are bottom 

 

I was like 

ben

do u agree?

[joshTWjosh]

On 15/11/2017 at 3:28 PM, Guest Confused said:

When I first got penetrated,  I told the TOP that I might want to stop due to pain.  When he decided to dress up and go, I told him "STOP", let's try again.  That kind of feelings 

Mind games siol

[Guest :-(]

I haven't successfully penetrated my bf yet because he told me I'm too big and can't get in or he will be in great pain. I always hear the Top growls in painful expression when fucking their bottoms with a lot of fa fa fa sound and the legs go soft in the air. Why is there so much air in the asshole. I love the feeling of being suck by him, but is anal sex painful for first time inexperienced Top? 

[GachiMuchi]

First time top must take note that if your foreskin is not able to fully retract, you might bleed when the foreskin tears while trying to penetrate a tight ass.

There are few types of cock head.

1. The mushroom head " =) " Those with mushroom head will have a hard time penetrating tight assholes & virgins. But those seasoned bottoms will love it.
2. The spear head  " => " These are the best cock head to open virgin ass. Just use lots of lube and push in gently and the bottom won't feel so painful.
3. The thick shaft. Those with such cocks are loved by seasoned bottoms but not virgins.

4. The thin slim cock. These are your average cocks which only difference is their length. It's also not so painful for bottom.
Special note for those cocks that curve downwards; Doggy position is best as the downward curve of the cock will hit the G-spot better than missionary. 
Those cocks that curves up are better for missionary position.
Disclaimer : Do take the above as references and the results may varies from person to person. Also remember "Safety first"! Wear protection!

 

For your reference

https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/there-are-four-types-of-penises-in-the-world-apparently?utm_term=.rk8gRpwPL#.pxj7YEM8D

 

Edited December 14, 2017 by GachiMuchi

[Guest Tonychen]

16 minutes ago, GachiMuchi said:

First time top must take note that if your foreskin is not able to fully retract, you might bleed when the foreskin tears while trying to penetrate a tight ass.

There are few types of cock head.

1. The mushroom head " =) " Those with mushroom head will have a hard time penetrating tight assholes & virgins. But those seasoned bottoms will love it.
2. The spear head  " => " These are the best cock head to open virgin ass. Just use lots of lube and push in gently and the bottom won't feel so painful.
3. The thick shaft. Those with such cocks are loved by seasoned bottoms but not virgins.

4. The thin slim cock. These are your average cocks which only difference is their length. It's also not so painful for bottom.
Special note for those cocks that curve downwards; Doggy position is best as the downward curve of the cock will hit the G-spot better than missionary. 
Those cocks that curves up are better for missionary position.
Disclaimer : Do take the above as references and the results may varies from person to person. Also remember "Safety first"! Wear protection!

 

For your reference

https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/there-are-four-types-of-penises-in-the-world-apparently?utm_term=.rk8gRpwPL#.pxj7YEM8D

 

Then can I ask , if cannot fully retract foreskin that means cannot penetrate forever ? This is a serious question . Thank you . 

[GachiMuchi]

5 minutes ago, Guest Tonychen said:

Then can I ask , if cannot fully retract foreskin that means cannot penetrate forever ? This is a serious question . Thank you . 

 

When I was very young, my foreskin also covers my cock head. When I learned about PCC/masturbation, and how to maintain clean cock, etc. I will use soap to wash and slowly pull my foreskin back. When I masturbate, I will make a point to pull the foreskin backwards.
When I fuck, before putting on the condom, I will pull my foreskin back and roll the condom over. The condom will act like a temporary foreskin to prevent over sensitivity when the cock head is exposed, it will also prevent you from getting unnecessary diseases, regardless whether your partner is a virgin or seasoned non-virgin who acts like virgin.
Eventually, over time, my foreskin began to retract backwards as you gets older and the "more" you use your cock the more your foreskin will pull back and it will become a norm. I also noticed that as I gets older, my cock girth gets thicker. The feels that it could be due to topping many tight bottoms.

 

So don't worry about not able to pull your foreskin back, 世上无难事，只怕有心人. The other alternative is to go for circumcision.

[Guest :-(]

1 hour ago, GachiMuchi said:

First time top must take note that if your foreskin is not able to fully retract, you might bleed when the foreskin tears while trying to penetrate a tight ass.

There are few types of cock head.

1. The mushroom head " =) " Those with mushroom head will have a hard time penetrating tight assholes & virgins. But those seasoned bottoms will love it.
3. The thick shaft. Those with such cocks are loved by seasoned bottoms but not virgins.

 

For your reference

https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/there-are-four-types-of-penises-in-the-world-apparently?utm_term=.rk8gRpwPL#.pxj7YEM8D

 

 

Mine is mushroom head and thick shaft how? My bf cannot take it. Does it mean we should break up and I go try some experienced bottoms first to know how it feels like to insert my kkj into the hole. I have no idea how it feels like as a virgin

 

Your foreskin is from tight to now being able to pull back all the way because you've engaged in a lot of actions? Can share what's the feeling like when you're penetrating? Does it really feel like your partner sucking you or any pain? 

[GachiMuchi]

26 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 

Mine is mushroom head and thick shaft how? My bf cannot take it. Does it mean we should break up and I go try some experienced bottoms first to know how it feels like to insert my kkj into the hole. I have no idea how it feels like as a virgin

 

Your foreskin is from tight to now being able to pull back all the way because you've engaged in a lot of actions? Can share what's the feeling like when you're penetrating? Does it really feel like your partner sucking you or any pain? 

You sound like an asshole. Firstly, do you just break off with someone when something during sex is not going your way? Seriously, what kind of a person thinks that way?
 

Open your virgin ass to BW members and I am sure you will know how it feels.

 

[Anddomtake]

53 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 

Mine is mushroom head and thick shaft how? My bf cannot take it. Does it mean we should break up and I go try some experienced bottoms first to know how it feels like to insert my kkj into the hole. I have no idea how it feels like as a virgin

 

Your foreskin is from tight to now being able to pull back all the way because you've engaged in a lot of actions? Can share what's the feeling like when you're penetrating? Does it really feel like your partner sucking you or any pain? 

Lol. Sounds like a kid. Grow up?

[Guest Tonychen]

8 hours ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

When I was very young, my foreskin also covers my cock head. When I learned about PCC/masturbation, and how to maintain clean cock, etc. I will use soap to wash and slowly pull my foreskin back. When I masturbate, I will make a point to pull the foreskin backwards.
When I fuck, before putting on the condom, I will pull my foreskin back and roll the condom over. The condom will act like a temporary foreskin to prevent over sensitivity when the cock head is exposed, it will also prevent you from getting unnecessary diseases, regardless whether your partner is a virgin or seasoned non-virgin who acts like virgin.
Eventually, over time, my foreskin began to retract backwards as you gets older and the "more" you use your cock the more your foreskin will pull back and it will become a norm. I also noticed that as I gets older, my cock girth gets thicker. The feels that it could be due to topping many tight bottoms.

 

So don't worry about not able to pull your foreskin back, 世上无难事，只怕有心人. The other alternative is to go for circumcision.

Thank you for this advice. I’ve been having problems, not really with penetration , but when I have sex for long time (example more than an hour) or when I get rough and hard and fast . When i remove the condom I see some blood in it and realize my foreskin is wounded. So this makes me very careful when I’m in action, and it kind of spoils the fun because I’m so conscious. 

[GachiMuchi]

16 hours ago, Guest Tonychen said:

Thank you for this advice. I’ve been having problems, not really with penetration , but when I have sex for long time (example more than an hour) or when I get rough and hard and fast . When i remove the condom I see some blood in it and realize my foreskin is wounded. So this makes me very careful when I’m in action, and it kind of spoils the fun because I’m so conscious. 

 

Well, life is such, you can't have everything your way. If you want to fuck mindlessly for long hours without paying attention to your cock, what do you expect. I seriously must give credit to your bottom for abusing him for so long and did not complain to you.

 

Have you ever asked him if his ass is sore as your cock? Do spare a thought to your partners, they are not having it easy too. So, next time, pace yourself and not fuck mindlessly and lost all sense of time. Do take a break and check your condom, your cock and also your bottom's ass.

 

I am sure your bottom will love you even more when they know that you are a considerate top and not some insensitive selfish fucker who know thinks about himself.

 

Edited December 15, 2017 by GachiMuchi

[Guest Tonychen]

22 hours ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

Well, life is such, you can't have everything your way. If you want to fuck mindlessly for long hours without paying attention to your cock, what do you expect. I seriously must give credit to your bottom for abusing him for so long and did not complain to you.

 

Have you ever asked him if his ass is sore as your cock? Do spare a thought to your partners, they are not having it easy too. So, next time, pace yourself and not fuck mindlessly and lost all sense of time. Do take a break and check your condom, your cock and also your bottom's ass.

 

I am sure your bottom will love you even more when they know that you are a considerate top and not some insensitive selfish fucker who know thinks about himself.

 

Thank you for the comments. Actually they mostly like it fast and rough and always beg for more , which gives me more pressure to perform what they want (which also thrills me). I just don’t know how to stop to check condom as it’s rather mood spoiling. 

[Jshooter87]

 

On 11/14/2017 at 3:47 PM, I Love Sensual said:

I am curious to know as a first timer who became bottom, what do you have in mind?

 

1) Enjoyed (feeling Syiok)

2) Enjoyed (only because I do it with you)

3) Curious and Just want to try out

4) Painful (feeling torture, but I like it)

5) So Painful (no more next time)

6) Addicted (I want more ...)

7) Do it only to please my partner

8) Feels sacrifice

9) Regret

 

It is so complicated and full with all sorts of mixed feelings ...

 

Anyone willing to share?

 

。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

 

I think for me 1, 2, 3, 4 and an unwavering 6.

Edited December 28, 2017 by Jshooter87

[Idkwatname]

Painful and felt like I'm taking a huge dump, biggest dump in my life i might add

[TwoChnBTMs]

Top converted btms

[fabianc]

I don't have much experience to share, but I remember the first time I topped. it was with a virgin bottom, and we were pretty much clueless about what to do. the only advice I can give is:

• apply a generous amount of lube
• start with fingering 
• sit on top of your top, so that you can control the pace somewhat
• kissing might help in relaxing
• know that you can stop anytime

all the best!

[Guest :-(]

Feels like shitting totally! Lol. We used a lot of silicon lub but myself experienced soreness for 2days.

 

Those bottoms in porn are faking how 'high' they felt right? Always portraying how enjoyable and addictive to be penetrated by tops but none of this is from what we've experienced in real life so far.

[Steve5380]

4 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

Feels like shitting totally! Lol. We used a lot of silicon lub but myself experienced soreness for 2days.

 

Those bottoms in porn are faking how 'high' they felt right? Always portraying how enjoyable and addictive to be penetrated by tops but none of this is from what we've experienced in real life so far.

 

I second your opinion.  In my long life I let someone top me once.  And never again.

With so many noise about the pleasures of bottoming  I had to wonder if I didn't do it right, or if I had to get used to it.

Now I can say with confidence that anal sex is not for me, neither as top nor bottom. 

Like I don't like bungee jumping or rock climbing.  That's my perfect right!

[cutejack]

Seriously as a top i penetrated many guys n they enjoyed it. Except one skinny guy age of 20. Too young n not experienced i guess coz he pushed me n fell on bed the moment i tried to enter.

Ended with bj only. So need to alot of foreplay ,fingering n many attempt b4 going all the way in. Keep trying n keep on trying.lol

[Guest Gosh]

1 hour ago, cutejack said:

Seriously as a top i penetrated many guys n they enjoyed it. Except one skinny guy age of 20. Too young n not experienced i guess coz he pushed me n fell on bed the moment i tried to enter.

Ended with bj only. So need to alot of foreplay ,fingering n many attempt b4 going all the way in. Keep trying n keep on trying.lol

Those your mentioned (who enjoyed) are guys who probably had countless partners. I would label them as "undesirables". Not much of a yardstick for anything. 

 

Please don't group them together with guys like TS who are pure, clean and decent. 

[cutejack]

40 minutes ago, Guest Gosh said:

Those your mentioned (who enjoyed) are guys who probably had countless partners. I would label them as "undesirables". Not much of a yardstick for anything. 

 

Please don't group them together with guys like TS who are pure, clean and decent. 

Aawww....got a goosebump. My entire body hair stand

Edited February 18, 2018 by cutejack

[lovehandle]

7 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

Feels like shitting totally! Lol. We used a lot of silicon lub but myself experienced soreness for 2days.

 

Those bottoms in porn are faking how 'high' they felt right? Always portraying how enjoyable and addictive to be penetrated by tops but none of this is from what we've experienced in real life so far.

u have to first determine your orientation/role first

 

a btm naturally will like it despite it s their very first time

 

someone requested to penetrate to me, I agreed cos I know "the answer"
he tried a few mins and gave up cos he totally cannot

and a pure btm is really a pure btm

 

 

 

 

tips: use fingers to feel the right hole then attempt again
and if u do it for 2 days of course feel soreness

 

 

[sum1outhere_03]

Don't trust porn. Most of them are fake, especially with the moanings.

 

Actually if you look closer, some actors actually looks like they are in pain, but the just fake the moans. Damn obvious.

 

In taiwan shows, it's called 节目效果 (literally translating as "show effects")

 

However, you can try using dildos or G massagers (start from small ones), till your anus can get used to the feeling.

Edited February 18, 2018 by sum1outhere_03

[Guest Bottom]

By nature I am bottom and love being treated like one by my top. But can anyone advise me on what to do or how to bottom if u are a sufferer of hemorrhoids???..I really want to bottom for my man but because of hemorrhoids I am afraid to..

[Kimochi]

3 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said:

By nature I am bottom and love being treated like one by my top. But can anyone advise me on what to do or how to bottom if u are a sufferer of hemorrhoids???..I really want to bottom for my man but because of hemorrhoids I am afraid to..

Drinks of water first and rest till wounds healed 

[Kimochi]

8 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

Feels like shitting totally! Lol. We used a lot of silicon lub but myself experienced soreness for 2days.

 

Those bottoms in porn are faking how 'high' they felt right? Always portraying how enjoyable and addictive to be penetrated by tops but none of this is from what we've experienced in real life so far.

Welcome to team topper 

[Guest Bottom]

11 minutes ago, Kimochi said:

Drinks of water first and rest till wounds healed 

Even if no wounds...I still feel abit pain wor... anything else I can do??

[Kimochi]

There's this gel which can De sensitize your asshole. Google and try it 

[Guest Bottom]

9 minutes ago, Kimochi said:

There's this gel which can De sensitize your asshole. Google and try it 

Thanks kimochi...luv ya...

[Guest Feel you too]

I totally can relate to that. My partner and I have been dating for 3 months. I decided to give him my virgin experience on Valentine’s Day. At times, he pound me quick and hard, it felt like my ass is gonna tear anytime soon. I beg him to slow down as it hurts, and it felt like my shit is coming out but is actually his dickhead. When he took it out, I can see a very small portion of light brown stain LOL. 

 

How do you btms even clean your asses so well and be a good btm to please him. 

[Guest Bottom]

18 minutes ago, Guest Feel you too said:

I totally can relate to that. My partner and I have been dating for 3 months. I decided to give him my virgin experience on Valentine’s Day. At times, he pound me quick and hard, it felt like my ass is gonna tear anytime soon. I beg him to slow down as it hurts, and it felt like my shit is coming out but is actually his dickhead. When he took it out, I can see a very small portion of light brown stain LOL. 

 

How do you btms even clean your asses so well and be a good btm to please him. 

That's ok..most tops are considerate enough to know that the possibility of that happening..I mean u get to fuck is good or lucky enough..

[Guest Feel you too]

14 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said:

That's ok..most tops are considerate enough to know that the possibility of that happening..I mean u get to fuck is good or lucky enough..

Well... Actually he doesn’t mind about that, but I would prefer to maintain some level of image there  and get cleaned so that when he pound, I don’t have to worry about the probability of shit coming out 

[Guest :-(]

55 minutes ago, Guest Feel you too said:

I totally can relate to that. My partner and I have been dating for 3 months. I decided to give him my virgin experience on Valentine’s Day. At times, he pound me quick and hard, it felt like my ass is gonna tear anytime soon. I beg him to slow down as it hurts, and it felt like my shit is coming out but is actually his dickhead. When he took it out, I can see a very small portion of light brown stain LOL. 

 

How do you btms even clean your asses so well and be a good btm to please him. 

 

Very similar to how I felt. When he was thrusting so fast, I only felt like shitting with some soreness. After a while, he asked whether to shoot inside or not, and I replied with a quick yes in order to end this ordeal asap!

 

For him, he said it was painful and definitely not pleasurable at all. He was a bottom for his ex once and didn't enjoy it either, so that's where we wonder if we are doing it right. I have to admit the feeling is so intense that I shot inside him within 3minutes on two separate occasions lol

[Guest Btmme]

Every time you go sauna, you'll hear all that pounding ass noises coming from the rooms. Then someone inside moaning. If course it's siok lah. Otherwise we go saunas get pounded by other men for what ? Some more have to pay money to enter sauna one leh.

 

I'm one of those bottoms. You think get fucked is so honorable ah? Until the whole sauna also can hear, very shameful one you know. I look so masculine, some people always asking why I so shameful let men penetrate me, fuck until I cry father cry mother. If got hair, who want to be botak head, if not for that siokness, who want to open legs wide like a prostitute.

 

Unfortunately, I'm those few with very sensitive asshole. Not all gays have , but those who have it's like better than and more sensitive than a cock. It's a curse as well as a blessing. When a good top penetrates me, the siokness spreads to my whole body especially my nipples. Then I high until forget everything. I have no choice but to satisfy my needs, I have to shamelessly offer my body to attract men to fuck me. I can't control myself.

But then not every top can be so good.

I give you my body, don't pity me too masculine to be a bottom, I don't mind being the role of the woman, just take me hard and give it all to me. Pound me hard, make me cry father cry mother, I want that. I already let your cock penetrate me, there's nothing left to be shy about.

 

Those tops who are inexperienced, don't take charge of my body, or hesitant like the TS, I'll kick them out, don't waste my time. You're a total stranger yet I open my legs for you. No need to ask whether other men had penetrated me before. See my hole for yourself, I'm no virgin. You enjoy fucking me because I enjoy getting fucked. If not, forget it.

 

[snowball]

if you do not enjoy, then don't do it, 

anal is not a must for sex,

just like some do not even suck at all

[upshot]

7 hours ago, Guest Bottom said:

By nature I am bottom and love being treated like one by my top. But can anyone advise me on what to do or how to bottom if u are a sufferer of hemorrhoids???..I really want to bottom for my man but because of hemorrhoids I am afraid to..

 

Treat your hemorrhoids first. If not you are going to get messy with not just poo but blood and pain as well at the xtreme end... not worth it. Been there done that.

Edited February 18, 2018 by upshot

[Steve5380]

14 hours ago, Guest Gosh said:

Those your mentioned (who enjoyed) are guys who probably had countless partners. I would label them as "undesirables". Not much of a yardstick for anything. 

 

Please don't group them together with guys like TS who are pure, clean and decent. 

 

It may not be a matter of pure, clean and decent. 

I don't disrespect those who have found satisfaction in bottoming.  Good for them!

The following comment is for those who think that they are missing out on something great in life because they don't bottom:

 

The ass hole seems to be there by nature TO SHIT,  period!

Even being gay, it would have never occurred to me to have something stuck in there, or to fuck someone's ass.

I am aware of anal sex ONLY because of what I read, what I watched in porn films, what I have seen others do, and what I finally did for some experience.

And I'm not impressed.  There is so much great gay sex to experience without any anal sex!

 

And... who knows!  Maybe there are other weird sex acts that can give satisfaction if one gives them a chance!  

 

http://unix.rulez.org/~calver/funny/sex.html

 

[wesly003]

12 hours ago, Guest Bottom said:

By nature I am bottom and love being treated like one by my top. But can anyone advise me on what to do or how to bottom if u are a sufferer of hemorrhoids???..I really want to bottom for my man but because of hemorrhoids I am afraid to..

 

Please do let me know if you need more helps in treating your haemorrhoid....
I might be able to help 

[Guest NotFaking]

21 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

 

Very similar to how I felt. When he was thrusting so fast, I only felt like shitting with some soreness. After a while, he asked whether to shoot inside or not, and I replied with a quick yes in order to end this ordeal asap!

 

For him, he said it was painful and definitely not pleasurable at all. He was a bottom for his ex once and didn't enjoy it either, so that's where we wonder if we are doing it right. I have to admit the feeling is so intense that I shot inside him within 3minutes on two separate occasions lol

 

Both of you must be very young and inexperienced. Anal sex does take some getting used to. With practice, perhaps with fingers or a small toy, you'll be able to relax, both mentally and physically, and start to enjoy it.

 

I can cum through prostate stimulation alone, without any penile stimulation. Receiving anal sex can definitely be enjoyable.

[derryfawne]

What is not shown in porn scenes sometimes are the preparation that goes behind it.

 

1. Don't go straight for penetration. Invest at least 5-10 minutes in foreplay to relax the bottom.

 

2. Fingering and/or some toys can help the bottom to adjust from size to size.

 

3. And some rimming or cock-teasing can help prepare him mentally.

 

4. Yes, a little bit of lube makes a huge, huge difference. (And no, spit is not a helpful substitute.)

 

5. Position, position, position. It may differ from people to people, but go with a position that the bottom can feel most relaxed in and also taking into consideration how the top's dick curves.

- Doggy seems to be a good one as it can help the bottom open the hips and take pressure off the sphincter muscle.

- Missionary with an added supporting cushion and a raised leg can also help to relax the bottom.

- Cowboy can also be considered as the bottom will be in better control of the speed and depth of the thrusting.

- Spooning can be a slower, more intimate experience which turns the bottom on and get him adjusted to the inevitable pounding.

- Experiment a bit with other positions. Again, it works differently for different people and depending on different dick curves.

 

6. Control the speed and depth on initial entry. Rock a bit back and forth gently for the first couple of minutes as the bottom's ass muscle loosens up and for that weird "pooping" feel to subside.

 

7. Read the bottom's body language so that you know when things work and when things are really just painful. Once the bottom is really prepared, going fast and deep can induce even better pleasure. But before he's ready, it'll be pure pain.

 

8. And for the bottom himself, also need to relax and keep your breathing natural. "Pushing out" (but not "forcing out") is actually a good way to open the hole for easier penetration. After all, that's how you let HUGE THINGS go through your tiny hole on a daily basis.... but of course, remember to clean up beforehand lol.

 

9. A glass of wine or alcohol can sometimes help to relax, or distract from the pain? Heard that poppers can also do the same job—but research on your own and use at your own judgment/discretion!

 

10. Or maybe you're just not a bottom?

 

Technically speaking, there are nerves inside the anal region which are able to receive pleasure (and also pain), not to mention the prostate aka G-Spot which can be stimulated to induce orgasm, so it's actually possible for all males to enjoy bottoming. But breaking through the initial pain and the mental preparation may not be for everyone.

Edited February 19, 2018 by derryfawne

[blackite]

On 2/18/2018 at 6:21 PM, Guest Btmme said:

Every time you go sauna, you'll hear all that pounding ass noises coming from the rooms. Then someone inside moaning. If course it's siok lah. Otherwise we go saunas get pounded by other men for what ? Some more have to pay money to enter sauna one leh.

 

I'm one of those bottoms. You think get fucked is so honorable ah? Until the whole sauna also can hear, very shameful one you know. I look so masculine, some people always asking why I so shameful let men penetrate me, fuck until I cry father cry mother. If got hair, who want to be botak head, if not for that siokness, who want to open legs wide like a prostitute.

 

Unfortunately, I'm those few with very sensitive asshole. Not all gays have , but those who have it's like better than and more sensitive than a cock. It's a curse as well as a blessing. When a good top penetrates me, the siokness spreads to my whole body especially my nipples. Then I high until forget everything. I have no choice but to satisfy my needs, I have to shamelessly offer my body to attract men to fuck me. I can't control myself.

But then not every top can be so good.

I give you my body, don't pity me too masculine to be a bottom, I don't mind being the role of the woman, just take me hard and give it all to me. Pound me hard, make me cry father cry mother, I want that. I already let your cock penetrate me, there's nothing left to be shy about.

 

Those tops who are inexperienced, don't take charge of my body, or hesitant like the TS, I'll kick them out, don't waste my time. You're a total stranger yet I open my legs for you. No need to ask whether other men had penetrated me before. See my hole for yourself, I'm no virgin. You enjoy fucking me because I enjoy getting fucked. If not, forget it.

 

Meet?

 

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On 2/19/2018 at 3:34 PM, Guest NotFaking said:

 

Both of you must be very young and inexperienced. Anal sex does take some getting used to. With practice, perhaps with fingers or a small toy, you'll be able to relax, both mentally and physically, and start to enjoy it.

 

I can cum through prostate stimulation alone, without any penile stimulation. Receiving anal sex can definitely be enjoyable.

Not young already my bf 30yo. He did thought of getting a toy so we can share it. I'm not sure if I would enjoy being poked by some Silicone dildo.. 

 

17 hours ago, derryfawne said:

What is not shown in porn scenes sometimes are the preparation that goes behind it.

 

Technically speaking, there are nerves inside the anal region which are able to receive pleasure (and also pain), not to mention the prostate aka G-Spot which can be stimulated to induce orgasm, so it's actually possible for all males to enjoy bottoming. But breaking through the initial pain and the mental preparation may not be for everyone.

You mean it's going to be painful initially before the pleasure comes afterwards? My bf didn't enjoy being penetrated and he's quite tense as well