-jt- Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 i can "like" anyone irrespective of anything as long as personality clicks ,but if the real question is whether or not i will hanky-pank with a chub at first sight, the answer is no.nonetheless, fret not, looks can always be improved!on a side note, i hope everyone remembers that youth will fade off, nobody escapes from the cruelty of aging, and muscle mass eventually turns into wobbly jelly [bottomline: don't be nasty to others who are less sightly than you] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BMI calculator Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 i think fat people smell more than thinner guys.i walk past some fat ppl their BO is there when they sweat.Not true as some skinny ones have even stronger BO when they sweat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 sure there will be someone who like them. they are alright to me. its not the size tat matter iamziz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfyboy Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 i think they are cute in a way hahaha maybe im weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 Not true as some skinny ones have even stronger BO when they sweatGenerally,fat people stink more because of the extra sweat and bacteria accumulated in the folds of their skin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jzlookin Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 i dont really like chubs, but im all for stocky, meaty, beefy guys... lean guys with bmi below 22 turns me off bmi 25, COME TO ME haha! but most important is the face actually, not the body.. even if the body is muscular, but the face cmi, also no point.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest real reason Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 you need to comfortable with the face first then can make love, else how to get hard on.most chubs complain that people reject them cos they are overweight but never admit because of their look. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isainho Posted February 5, 2013 Report Share Posted February 5, 2013 Yeah! I do like fat boys! Cute! :DDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manbeefybtm Posted February 5, 2013 Report Share Posted February 5, 2013 In my Gym, usually the slimmer ones smells! Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manbeefybtm Posted February 5, 2013 Report Share Posted February 5, 2013 Honestly, they can smell pretty bad. I made couple of complaints about it. The gym FI will open the doors and windows to air the gym. Hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigis4me Posted February 5, 2013 Report Share Posted February 5, 2013 Fat guys are a yes for me but not obese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Honest Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 Is there any chance fitter guys will even consider a fat guy especially if they have good attitude?Or only the fit bad boys win the in the AJ circle? I kinda give up on the AJ circle cause most are superficial but yea just throwing this question out there with some hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only4awhile Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 My ex was obese before we met but he managed to slim down somewhat when we knew each other. However, he was still insecure and he once asked me if I would want to be with him if he was obese in the first place. I had no answer to that.I believe that there are some of us who would like to think that we are willing to grow old with someone we love, that if our loved one loses his shape, becomes wrinkled and bald, we would still stay by his side. Some of us may be fooling ourselves. Cos if we really have that mentality to begin with, then we would not be placing physical appearance as the top consideration when we seek a partner. We may think that what we seek is a sincere loving heart, but if your bf is the older uglier version when you first meet, we are very unlikely to look beyond the layers of fat to see the genuine heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 i don't trust bmi , is all about bullshit. iamziz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 As much as i would say, i;m not superficial, i'm not one of those gay boys who only go for the hotties... but no if you body fat index is unhealthy... zero chance...(coming from someone who used to be above 100kg ^^ so i can judge) Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bibi Posted June 29, 2013 Report Share Posted June 29, 2013 Zwei, in any size is my ideal life partner. Feel so much healthy, good vibes from him. Whatever shapes, sights you project, it is important to project a non-judgmental, decent and kind aura.There is already so much pain and suffering in the world. Be kind and loving, and you will be treated with kindness and love.Sometimes, people wonder how is it 2 unlikely incompatible persons end up together and stay together for a long time. I take comfort that there will always be people who love me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GachiMuchi Posted September 10, 2013 Popular Post Report Share Posted September 10, 2013 (edited) Bully Calls News Anchor Fat, News Anchor Destroys Him On Live TV (Hear great words of wisdom at 3:52)"Do not let your self-worth be defined by others (bullies)" WKBT anchor Jennifer Livingston took a moment during Tuesday's morning newscast (Oct. 2, 2012) to directly address a recent email she received from a viewer complaining about her weight."To the person who wrote me that letter — do you think I don't know that? That your cruel words are pointing out something that I don't see?" Livingston asked in response. "You don't know me. You are not a friend of mine. You are not a part of my family. And you have admitted that you don't watch this show. So you know nothing about me but what you see on the outside. And I am much more than a number on the scale."Livingston went on to say that October is National Anti Bullying Month, and that she hopes her response to the email will serve to raise awareness of bullying behavior, which is "passed down from people like the man who wrote me that email.""If you are at home and talking about the fat news lady, guess what? Your children are probably going to go to school and call someone fat," Livingston said.Livingston thanked friends, family and colleagues, saying, "I will never be able to thank you enough for your words of support, and for taking a stand against this bully. We are better than that email. We are better than the bullies that will try to take us down." Edited September 10, 2013 by GachiMuchi Butterscotch, Roger, Alan35sg and 7 others 10 http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 11, 2013 Report Share Posted September 11, 2013 (edited) 自以为是的人很少会知道自己有多野蛮多么没修养, 他们会认为自己多有墨水多幽默, 殊不知他们的愚蠢行为已严重为别人造成伤害不便。这些人往往脸皮厚, 只会口出狂言, 出言不逊, 不懂得理亏, 但一旦别人以牙还牙, 用同样方式回击, 他们就会大动干戈, 怒骂别人。对这种没有文化的一群, 要么就比他们耍得更狠, 要不就干脆只能回避, 对他们置之不理, 对不讲理的人, 有理说不清。 Edited September 11, 2013 by snowball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edsam Posted September 12, 2013 Report Share Posted September 12, 2013 "Do not let your self-worth be defined by others" I totally agreed with this! although this is easier to say than done, but it is much easier than try to shut others ignorant ppl mouth up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lost 30kg Posted September 12, 2013 Report Share Posted September 12, 2013 I think she has a point. But, she's really damn fat. I think there's nothing wrong with the email and this woman is over reacting. Just go and exercise lah. What's so hard? P.S I lost 30kg, so I have all the damn right to say, this. Fat people should go exercise. Fat is not attractive. A fat person is by default ugly in appearance, until the innate personality shows up to be a great person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted September 12, 2013 Report Share Posted September 12, 2013 I lost 40 but I wouldn't go around telling people off and criticising their weight mr guest "i lost 30kg" Athlete79, Gayslut and illumaNova 3 Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 13, 2013 Report Share Posted September 13, 2013 u r fat because u eat more than u output. she looks healthy, dont look the sort who is obese due to gene or illness. since she wants to be fat, she sld expect such critisim and live w it. its for her good. being fat doesnt make u feel good or sexy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted September 13, 2013 Report Share Posted September 13, 2013 Who are you to judge? She likes being fat, she is a newscaster not a fucking model, she doesnt sell her looks, she sell her intelligence, her charismatic character. So guest you should fuck off. Kthksbye~ Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Anonymous Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 hi... i actually have quite a big and bulky thigh muscles and maybe not that much of arm muscle but have a rather "middle-sized" belly... im 180cm and 81kg... am i considered as fat or what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 As much as i would say, i;m not superficial, i'm not one of those gay boys who only go for the hotties... but no if you body fat index is unhealthy... zero chance...(coming from someone who used to be above 100kg ^^ so i can judge) then u sld also tell the fat female newscaster to slim down since u also don't give fat ppl a chance. LOL the other day read ur threat u said we sldnt critisie ppl for being fat..but subtly u also don't like fat ppl to be ur bf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 then u sld also tell the fat female newscaster to slim down since u also don't give fat ppl a chance. LOLthe other day read ur threat u said we sldnt critisie ppl for being fat..but subtly u also don't like fat ppl to be ur bf.I dont take them as my bf but I dont ignore them as a friend. I really wonder who are you hmmm... Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 I reckon the title defines more of going out/dating than liking. Why do we need to 'not liking' people who we don't know? If the person does nothing wrong to us or anything that is deemed unacceptable, why would we 'not like' him for who he is? Personality wins. Of course everyone has a preference when it comes to being with someone in matters of relationship or sex. But to say you don't like a person because of his physical attributes is just unfair and uncalled for. If you say you don't like having sex or be in a relationship with a chubby person or anyone of a different physical attributes, that is your choice. There are others who like to do otherwise. We learn to respect that. But again, don't start pointing fingers or scream out loud 'I don't like you because you are fat/ugly/smelly' etc. Do we really know what they went or are going through than merely seeing/reading? Alan35sg 1 ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 fat guy does not mean 100% unhealthy , same as those regular gymmer or sportsman , many have pain here pain there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 18, 2013 Report Share Posted September 18, 2013 (edited) if you think fat make you less attractive and look unhealthy , don't just doing nothing and blame others are superficial, only like fit muscular guys, and pls, if you really want to lose weight, you do it for yourself not others, lose weight need motivation and encouragement, so best if you have someone to achieve same objective together. ps, do not think that all chub are unwanted, there are some that are very popular and high demand, so is not all just about size, but look too. fat and lean are same, as long you have the look, you are easy going and pleasant, you still yummy pie Edited September 18, 2013 by snowball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest neh Posted September 19, 2013 Report Share Posted September 19, 2013 Lots of ignorance in this thread. There can be lazy people, slim or fat. I have a thin friend who refuses to exercise, even walking up the stairs he'll try to avoid! He can't run, can't lift weights but I'm sure alot of BW guys will be drooling over him. Is he fit? Nope. Is he attractive? Yes. Heck, one of my other friends (who goes to the gym with me) is chubby but he can LIFT and boy can he run! If you're not attracted to fat people, that's fine. Everyone has their own preferences. I'm not attracted to hairy people, my preference. However, I don't cast aspersions as to the state of their hygiene nor do I think that they don't care to maintain their personal appearances. Just doesn't turn me on, that's all. If I were to pluck out some pop psychology, I'd say that quite a few people here are projecting their own fears and dislikes onto "fat" people. There are all sorts of folks and all sorts of people who like them. It's a big world out there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watevermightbe Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 Well to those responders that gave nasty comments to fat people, u deserve a kick in your balls. If you are participant at pink dot, I will kick you twice. The society always tells us not to discriminate others. However, they discriminate gay people.Within the gay circle you still want to discriminate others?Oh, u want acceptance from the society, but do you know how much fat people get rejected and looks from the society? Yes, you might say then fat people can do something about their weight.Yes, they can do!!!! but that is none of your business and not up to you to make nasty comments. When i read the above comments, I felt so disgusted when some say they smell, oily, hopeless. Well for those that think they are superb than others, u should go run for presidency! For those good looking with 6 packs: A lot of these guys are players and they have a higher chance to getting stds. can i say you have std?So, I know some fat people smell but not all fat people smell. my fit and handsome colleague change his clothes after 2 days of wearing. sometimes stink until the whole lift can smell. Alan35sg and RyanH 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puppyfart Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 I find some chubs pretty attractive but I think it's gotta do w their own level of confidence too. Some of them r just comfortable in their own skin, that's important. If u wanna change for whatever reason, then do it for yourself, not for the sake of hooking up as there will always be someone better looking, someone w a fitter bod, someone who smells nicer Looks and bods won't last, but takes a while to learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 @whatevermightbe , Kudos to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 (edited) my ex & current bf all are meaty or some may say chub, >80kg but <95kg, however to me they are sweet candy, i like who they are what they are, is the chemistry that i more into, many friends shocked when they saw my boi boi, but i don't care, cos having bf is not for show or comparing, as long i am happy, who cares what others may think. Edited September 20, 2013 by snowball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 I find it disgusting when fat ppl or ppl with tummy tried to cruise me at swimming pool. I also find it disgusting when u r not slim, please stick to BLACK TRUNK. don't wear colored trunks especially red, white, yellow etc...it makes u so stupid. that's why I said slim ppl look nicer and carry off fashion better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G_M Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 It seems, the News topic "Bully Calls News Anchor Fat, News Anchor Destroys Him On Live Tv" is more suited in this post.Thus, it is merged.REMEMBER! "Do not let your self-worth be defined by others" Alan35sg 1 http://www.facebook.com/gachimuchi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 20, 2013 Report Share Posted September 20, 2013 I find it disgusting when fat ppl or ppl with tummy tried to cruise me at swimming pool. I also find it disgusting when u r not slim, please stick to BLACK TRUNK. don't wear colored trunks especially red, white, yellow etc...it makes u so stupid. that's why I said slim ppl look nicer and carry off fashion better. are you trying to say, if the person body & look is better than you, they have the right to insult and step on you? to me this sound more stupid than fat guys can't wear red trunks etc. RyanH 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jourdanlwa Posted October 7, 2013 Report Share Posted October 7, 2013 omg you did not just type that, you ignorant bigot. I however find you disturbing and plain dumb. Please proceed to outfits that fits your level of intelligence, for example, leaves and animal skin. Go back to your cave, you uncivilised homosapien. I find it disgusting when fat ppl or ppl with tummy tried to cruise me at swimming pool. I also find it disgusting when u r not slim, please stick to BLACK TRUNK. don't wear colored trunks especially red, white, yellow etc...it makes u so stupid. that's why I said slim ppl look nicer and carry off fashion better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alispenn Posted October 10, 2013 Report Share Posted October 10, 2013 Even less applicable positions. Lagi (S-B) chiat-lak, TOPping it all, the constant question "Do you have any idea how many people die of starvation everyday?" and the self-reflection "I may actually eat more than they do". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted October 10, 2013 Report Share Posted October 10, 2013 your choice of words says about your personality, remember , to be truly respected , we must also respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Diang Posted March 22, 2014 Report Share Posted March 22, 2014 I like fat guys with round face. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mankind Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 I am into chubby guys but that of the wrestlers or rugby type of physique. Most important quality of a chubby person is his look. I adore those with a square face with a small mouth. Funny thing about body odour, if you like the cute person, you really dont mind his body odour but rather you find it sexy. Still looking for that elusive chubby guy to call my own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 any diff? as long as the two get along well, size shld not be an issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jigsaw11 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Doesnt matter if the person is overweight of not, as long as they can accept for who they are & dont take what society says too seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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