leibniz Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 With all the adversities, being a homosexual person in particular, what keeps you on living? “Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshboy Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 to prove to the world, that being gay, is not a disease. That we can be successful, that we can be a good integral part of society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 Debt towards the two who gave life. garuda 1 For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhm_zzh Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 Parents and grandparents. m5043 and garuda 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Oh God Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 Various reasons: - Indebted to our parents to live- trying to find life out of no-life for a purpose- though 70% of population hate us, there are 30% who loves us- we are not alone in this. - Sex- being human is hard to come by (according to buddhism)- being gay doesn't mean lack of power Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted March 5, 2013 Report Share Posted March 5, 2013 I dunno. I live each day as it is. No particular reasons why I should keep on living except I don't feel like dying yet. Exynos 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Dreams and aspirations. :-) garuda 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 I live for my aspirations and dreams..and boy do I have alot! I live for myself first of all, then my husband, my children, my parents! Fuck the entire world out there who belittle us just because we are different but if we look deep within our soul and spirit, we are stronger than most straight people as we have faced adversity from young. I have had to fight tooth and nail for what I have today and even so, I am still fighting. Brothers and Sisters, please do not lose hope and do not lose sight of your dreams and what you want to be! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 (edited) Family and those who care for usThe thought that I may be able to make a difference, no matter how trivial, to the society some day Edited March 6, 2013 by Slynn "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wesley Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Everyone needs to have something external to keep them striving when times get hard. Everythng in life goes in cycles so there are going to be good times and bad times. ie. health, wealth, career, relationships, gay rights etc. For me it's my married partner, our home, our financial future,our retirement, our cat, good health, our adopted son, our parents, good family relations, our siblings(No necessarily in that order.) Stay strong and keep believing in yourself. You make your future based on the choices you make today. It's up to you to make the right choices for you so you will not have any regrets. The furture comes so quick so start planning and executing your goals today. It's never too early or too late. It's just, the longer you wait the more effort and focus it will take. Hugs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshboy Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Come on, Guest who posted #8. Be fair. Joshboy has not said anything insensible or untoward in this thread, so why are you so relentless on bashing him? Is your venting of hatred going to contribute positively to this thread? Can we just express our ideas rationally instead of spewing negative emotions superfluously?Dear Threadstarter, you seem to have suicidal tendencies. Your words are too few to fully express your thoughts, so I have to take them at face value. I suggest you go watch Channel Okto every Mon, Wed and Fri 9 - 10 pm. All the animals face adversities of being eaten up or finding no food during droughts and other natural disasters, but no animal will ask themselves if they should cease to exist. The same goes for certain individual lions or tigers which got kicked out of their prides by their dominant pride leaders. Adapt to survive!Well, he has been cyberstalking me on ALL threads. he seem to be too free. These were the exact behaviours that drove a gay youth to suicide. We should stop these kind of behaviour! Mods should really ban his IP address Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Well, he has been cyberstalking me on ALL threads. he seem to be too free. These were the exact behaviours that drove a gay youth to suicide. We should stop these kind of behaviour! Mods should really ban his IP address YOU feeling suicidal? YOU? If you cannot take he heat, quit being such a BITCH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 My vital organs. I have things in life and I want and dying ain't gonna get 'em to me. Another gay person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest89756 Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 No idea. Maybe indebted to parents as well.Committing suicide can alarm whoever by my side (since they are still alive), so it won't be an option for me at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Simple, cos this world is beautiful ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bern Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Because, Mahatma Gandhi said: "Nobody can hurt me without my permission." Join the official BW Telegram Group Chat: https://bit.ly/frmbw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gammaray Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 merlinkun, garuda and shyc 3 high frequency | biologically hazardous | penetrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 nothing really. i dont have much of a supportive family (traditional asian). the costs of living is still pretty dreadful when i think about it. growing old, alone. people around me with their straight families of priority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harakirri Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 The fear of dying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 The fear of dying.Dying still not scary. I fear suffering much more than dying! 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whoiam Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 oxygen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheART Posted March 6, 2013 Report Share Posted March 6, 2013 Love from my parents & everyone that trust and believes in me. My dreams and visions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveseeker Posted March 7, 2013 Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 What's keeping me on to live? My good looking bf my love and the desire to be together with him for as long as possible till death apart us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robin Posted March 7, 2013 Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 (edited) For me, I am still happy; Able to accept myself in being gay,being fortunate to have a stable life (emotionally & financially), having most people who matters to me accepting me being gay, and for those who don't accept me (str8 or gay), they are not as happy as me Edited March 7, 2013 by robin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted March 7, 2013 Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 what keeps me living? oxygen, food and water! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leibniz Posted March 7, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 Stay strong and keep believing in yourself. You make your future based on the choices you make today. It's up to you to make the right choices for you so you will not have any regrets. The furture comes so quick so start planning and executing your goals today. It's never too early or too late. It's just, the longer you wait the more effort and focus it will take. HugsThanks. Hug back..I suggest you go watch Channel Okto every Mon, Wed and Fri 9 - 10 pm. All the animals face adversities of being eaten up or finding no food during droughts and other natural disasters, but no animal will ask themselves if they should cease to exist. The same goes for certain individual lions or tigers which got kicked out of their prides by their dominant pride leaders. Adapt to survive!An analogy and an interpretation of Darwinism, as I see it. But I guess I'm leaning towards inductive reasoning if there is a general proposition on what keeps us on living. “Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky&Sweet Posted March 8, 2013 Report Share Posted March 8, 2013 Honestly I have nothing to live for. Everyday I wake up, go to work, hit the gym, weekend meet friends who we keep each other company, keep parents company. I never thought of suicide because it is against my religion (I'm Buddhist, and suicide =bad karma = horrible next life). garuda 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest -guest Posted March 8, 2013 Report Share Posted March 8, 2013 I feel you. I feel that my existence is to make my family happy even though they are the main cause of my unhappiness. And Singapore's living conditions are getting worse. Growing old...alone. The only thing keeping me alive is the taste of 1st love (and sex) which I have not encountered yet. But apart from that, every morning I ask myself why do I live. And then I go and pee and get on with life, only to come back at night to think of reasons why I shouldn't just simply kill myself. But mainly the reason is to not make my parents feel sad if I really do so. Hence the only way out is the live physically, but rot inside. I really hope to find someone who can get me out of this situation now.nothing really. i dont have much of a supportive family (traditional asian). the costs of living is still pretty dreadful when i think about it. growing old, alone. people around me with their straight families of priority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted March 8, 2013 Report Share Posted March 8, 2013 responsibility and the naive thoughts of leaving a better future for the world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glu Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 Call me vain or whatever,I enjoy being fit, strong and goodlooking. Just imagine that you are dead then spend much of your time exercising, grooming.Since you are supposed to be dead, you should not be spending time doing something else. Then since you are dead, you can take enough pain that can almost kill you so you can train to dead exhaustion. :clap: After one year, you will enjoy those sweet attention from men chasing you.But don't go around having indiscriminate sex with men that you'll die a 2nd time from STDs. This I always tell those who say they don't have time to exercise but have time for saunas and fancy meals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 Why am I still living? Cos there's no double me in this world. One and the only me. Since I am still able body, I want to see how far I can go; to the better or to the worst. no big deal! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgg Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 (edited) Call me vain or whatever,I enjoy being fit, strong and goodlooking. Just imagine that you are dead then spend much of your time exercising, grooming.Since you are supposed to be dead, you should not be spending time doing something else.Then since you are dead, you can take enough pain that can almost kill you so you can train to dead exhaustion. :clap:After one year, you will enjoy those sweet attention from men chasing you.But don't go around having indiscriminate sex with men that you'll die a 2nd time from STDs. This I always tell those who say they don't have time to exercise but have time for saunas and fancy meals.I like your way of thinking. very inspirational and motivational.I live for my ambitions that I may not achieve, my family who may not accept me for who I am, and in hope that someday I'll meet someone who'll love me and whom I can settle down with.At the very least when you're alive, you can strive to achieve your goals and wishes with a certain possibility of success.If you're dead, the probability is 0. Edited March 9, 2013 by tgg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 I dunno. I live each day as it is. No particular reasons why I should keep on living except I don't feel like dying yet. THIS. My exact sentiments. Maybe except I've dreams/goals that I want to achieve, but they're not exactly a force for me to continue living for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 Call me vain or whatever,I enjoy being fit, strong and goodlooking. Just imagine that you are dead then spend much of your time exercising, grooming.Since you are supposed to be dead, you should not be spending time doing something else.Then since you are dead, you can take enough pain that can almost kill you so you can train to dead exhaustion. :clap:After one year, you will enjoy those sweet attention from men chasing you.But don't go around having indiscriminate sex with men that you'll die a 2nd time from STDs. This I always tell those who say they don't have time to exercise but have time for saunas and fancy meals. A very self actualisations n vanity to the extreme reason for living haha. But I respect your choice. I live to paid off my karmic debts I have accumulate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FirsTimer Posted March 9, 2013 Report Share Posted March 9, 2013 Because I dont have the balls to kill myself.. lolol kidding! definitely for spiritual reasons.. and uh.. even spiritual reasons arent strong enough to keep me going because doing anything to ultimately die renders life meaningless to me... but er.. dont have to think of dying either right. live thru each day with a kind heart will make you happy and keep you satisfied with each day. I think interactions with ppl are really what you need to live on... 0.0 a sudden realization. Your mind is occupied so much so that you wont ponder about death unnecessarily. So just find a community to stick with! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shaolin Posted March 10, 2013 Report Share Posted March 10, 2013 Wonder anyone has ever thought of becoming a monk in Thailand for example half a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted March 10, 2013 Report Share Posted March 10, 2013 Because I dont have the balls to kill myself.. lolol kidding! definitely for spiritual reasons.. and uh.. even spiritual reasons arent strong enough to keep me going because doing anything to ultimately die renders life meaningless to me... but er.. dont have to think of dying either right. live thru each day with a kind heart will make you happy and keep you satisfied with each day. I think interactions with ppl are really what you need to live on... 0.0 a sudden realization. Your mind is occupied so much so that you wont ponder about death unnecessarily. So just find a community to stick with! I agree. Life is much easier and happier if you find a group of friends to do life with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted March 10, 2013 Report Share Posted March 10, 2013 Wonder anyone has ever thought of becoming a monk in Thailand for example half a year. can do it in sg. no need to go all the way to th. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannysuz Posted March 12, 2013 Report Share Posted March 12, 2013 To live to see the karma on those who look down on me !!! garuda 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted March 12, 2013 Report Share Posted March 12, 2013 To live to see the karma on those who look down on me !!! Karma is only effective next life for the harm that the person has done to u this life. TS, Do u happen to have a religion? 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetstream Posted March 12, 2013 Report Share Posted March 12, 2013 God. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Diva Posted March 12, 2013 Report Share Posted March 12, 2013 To finish watching life's drama series. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IamPineapple Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 For me, it would be Friends, Family and maybe i'm crazy...my Training... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greenroad Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 Being able bodied. I think We are more fortunate than how others see us. If there are people who struggle to stay alive and/or struggle through each day, how bad can our lifes be? Keep living.. ----- why cant life be bigger than facing constraints and making decisions ----- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVisitors Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 That we are non physical beings, residing in our physical forms, yet are eternal beings, expanding our creativity and consciousness, through experiencing life's contrasting good and bad, till we learn what is truly self love, in alignment with the Source Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 24, 2013 Report Share Posted May 24, 2013 deep down, im abit lost too and dunno whats going to keep me going. havent reached 40 yet, but i know that i wont get married and wont have children. some people say to live for yourself (putting yourself in the centre of whatever you do), it gets meaningless after a period of time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 24, 2013 Report Share Posted May 24, 2013 To make sure I dont have a next life. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 24, 2013 Report Share Posted May 24, 2013 To make sure I dont have a next life. what do u mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 24, 2013 Report Share Posted May 24, 2013 (edited) I discover that by living this life the right way, I will not need to reincarnate again. Better? Edited May 25, 2013 by fab 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 24, 2013 Report Share Posted May 24, 2013 I discover that by living this life the right way, I will be able not to reincarnate again. Better? what exactly is living this life the right way? if i reincarnate again, i wanna be a straight guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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