Younger Tops Going For Older Btms & My Experience With A Young Top (Compiled)

[Guest Guest]

this is not an advertisement or personals thread!

 

i just wanna ask, is it common for young tops to go for older btms?

 

say the young top is around 20+, the older btm is around 30+ and older. or age difference of more than 10 years & above?

[SeannyShortcake]

It's not common.

 

Young tops often like young btms as well.

 

But there are many young guys (top) who like older btms.

[snowball]

what is common and not common, just follow your liking, cos 10 or 20 years not really great different, is your thinking make it huge different, life real short, why bother so much.

[Guest Guest]

It's not common.

Young tops often like young btms as well.

But there are many young guys (top) who like older btms.

U are contradicting urself dude. U know or u think?

[Guest Guest]

In sauna also cant tell right.....

The person fucking you has nice looks and hot bod....you might think quite old but maybe 20 plus only

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

U are contradicting urself dude. U know or u think?

I think he is trying to tell us there are two camp of young tops going for both the younger and older bottoms respectively. I don't see it as a contradicting statement.

One of the reason why young tops in their early/mid 20s is attracted to those 30s/40s bottom is because they find them intellectually attractive to themselves. Another reason why young top go for slightly older bottom is they are impress by the physical tangible benefits a career establish boyfriend/fuck mate can bring to them like dining, movies and no worries of finding a place to shag etc.

-Material and Spirtual fulfilment-

[yelboy]

Nah.. I like old bottoms.. Especially uncles around 40++.. like their butts.. =p love to hug them from back.. especially those average built uncles.. 

[yelboy]

anyone got any porn where young top fucks decent looking uncles? That would be great.. hahaha

[SeannyShortcake]

I think he is trying to tell us there are two camp of young tops going for both the younger and older bottoms respectively. I don't see it as a contradicting statement.

One of the reason why young tops in their early/mid 20s is attracted to those 30s/40s bottom is because they find them intellectually attractive to themselves. Another reason why young top go for slightly older bottom is they are impress by the physical tangible benefits a career establish boyfriend/fuck mate can bring to them like dining, movies and no worries of finding a place to shag etc.

-Material and Spirtual fulfilment-

 

That wasn't too difficult to understand.

 

Grammar-wise I did not make a mistake in separating the two groups,even it may prove difficult for some to grasp.

Edited July 1, 2013 by SeannyShortcake

[junxiang]

Sweet young thing, hot hunks, muscular body are everyone favourites.

 

But there is just this group of ppl who chooses to be different. Sometimes, they even belong to the above mention themselves but they choose to like something different - silver hair, flabby, wrinkles, fats. The bigger the tummy or older the person the better.

 

Lucky got this type of people, we still got people want.

 

was at TMC last Sat, met this 29yo guy who keeps on looking at me while I was watching TV, so I go upstairs and see if he follow me, which he did. In no time, we end up in the room and I found out that his muscles is actually very solid. Got a field time feeling him all over. He thought I am in my early 40s but when he learnt my real age, I can see his eyes brighten up with excitement. He actually prefer guys in their 50s. Haha, abit weird hor - but I like.

Edited July 1, 2013 by junxiang

[Guest matured uncle]

Sweet young thing, hot hunks, muscular body are everyone favourites.

 

But there is just this group of ppl who chooses to be different. Sometimes, they even belong to the above mention themselves but they choose to like something different - silver hair, flabby, wrinkles, fats. The bigger the tummy or older the person the better.

 

Lucky got this type of people, we still got people want.

 

was at TMC last Sat, met this 29yo guy who keeps on looking at me while I was watching TV, so I go upstairs and see if he follow me, which he did. In no time, we end up in the room and I found out that his muscles is actually very solid. Got a field time feeling him all over. He thought I am in my early 40s but when he learnt my real age, I can see his eyes brighten up with excitement. He actually prefer guys in their 50s. Haha, abit weird hor - but I like.

 

hehehe.....so did he fuck you until shiok shiok :twisted:

[snowball]

i know some not bad looking young guys just into mature old man,

fucking mature men make them like masters, esp when those older

moan loud and beg for more, controlling someone who are much more older

than them feel great. some told me before cos they lack of fatherly love.

fuck by young guys make them feel live and young again.

as long both party enjoy and happy, they get what they want,

we as a third parties have no right to say anything.

Edited July 1, 2013 by snowball

[Guest Guest]

Another reason why young top go for slightly older bottom is they are impress by the physical tangible benefits a career establish boyfriend/fuck mate can bring to them like dining, movies and no worries of finding a place to shag etc.

-Material and Spirtual fulfilment-

Spiritual yes but not so much on material. In fact i earn more than my bf. Material wise prob more for sugar daddy top and money boy btm.

I am the younger top like thread starter described (im 31) and my bf is the btm (hes 42). I do have younger than me btm bfs before but they are needy and whiny which i dun really like. Older guys are more matured in a sense and can handle their emotions better which i prefer. Just nice my bf like someone younger and to fill his ass.

Sexual roles are really just preferences. I can interact with my bf very well though we have a 11 years age gap.

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Spiritual yes but not so much on material. In fact i earn more than my bf. Material wise prob more for sugar daddy top and money boy btm.

I am the younger top like thread starter described (im 31) and my bf is the btm (hes 42). I do have younger than me btm bfs before but they are needy and whiny which i dun really like. Older guys are more matured in a sense and can handle their emotions better which i prefer. Just nice my bf like someone younger and to fill his ass.

Sexual roles are really just preferences. I can interact with my bf very well though we have a 11 years age gap.

Thank you for sharing it with us and happy to know you have a good working relationship.

My post is address to the general public at large and not to any individual in particular.Everyone lot and situation is different in life.

Have a pleasant night ahead dear guest.

[Guest yaan]

Not common at all.  My friends told me that old  btms lead a very pitiful life if they are not attached.  Neither old tops nor young tops desire to have sex with old btms. In constrast, old tops may still have luck with young btms occasionally, and can certainly pick up old btms any time they feel like it.  As a result, some btms turn tops as they grow older.

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Not common at all. My friends told me that old btms lead a very pitiful life if they are not attached. Neither old tops nor young tops desire to have sex with old btms. In constrast, old tops may still have luck with young btms occasionally, and can certainly pick up old btms any time they feel like it. As a result, some btms turn tops as they grow older.

Sex is a integral part to our human existence but it shouldn't be allow to take over and consume over everything in our lives. As we grow older with each passing years it is equally important for people to hone and pursuit other life pursuits in order to lead a more positive and balance life.

Being a old gay need not have to be a pitiful existence. It all depend on how we cultivate ourselves in the correct way and how far we are willing to persist in indulging our obsession with sex before we see the greatness of life.

Happiness is always within our reach,as long as one don't let his/her obsessions blind them to it.

[Guest Guest]

  As a result, some btms turn tops as they grow older.

 

nah, very seldom, easier said than done.

 

its not really about the roles. some people wanna find bf but cant find cos of their attitudes - they become bitchy, wanna argue with everyone etc, not bcos of their sexual roles.

 

you can have 2 btms being together and look for a top for fun or vice versa. or 2 flexs together looking for other top/btm/flex for fun.

some couples dun even do anal at all !

[tic-toc]

i know some not bad looking young guys just into mature old man,

 

 

True or not?  why haven't I met any in all these years.... me bad luck.

[Guest Guest]

not bad looking young tops like older bottoms who are boyish and not bad looking too.....niang abit nvm :twisted:

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Mature old man must have charm and mature good looks in order to score with the young crowd. Being old by default doesn't mean young people will like to sex with the mature men. Lol

[Guest Guest]

there is market for everyone. you just need to go out and make yourself visible. visibility =/= irritability

 

 

[junxiang]

there is market for everyone. you just need to go out and make yourself visible. visibility =/= irritability

Haha, must be visible at the right time and the right place.

 

If u are at Absolute or even Cruise, u will be deem an eyesore or a desperate, pathetic DOM

 

but if you are at Shogun or TMC at the right time, you will be very in demand.

[Guest LONEly NIGht]

I think tic-toc must be not bad looking either, u ever posted u was molested on the bus. he he!

[Guest Guest]

True or not?  why haven't I met any in all these years.... me bad luck.

 

LOL rmb u also wrote:

 

"in bkk for two months, never got laid. that says a lot about my looks and age."

 

ur profile says:

 

"If you are looking for sex, count me out."

 

like that how people approach you?

[Guest Uncle]

We are 20 years apart.  I the older one. Started with me topping him b'cos he wanted. Then one day I decide to let me try being top.  From then on, we are vers to each other.  He likes older daddy look guy to hug him and I like younger guy with firm body.  I think there is place for everyone. Love helps to overcome the gap.  We learn to appreciate each other interests and the perspective the age brings.

[azimuth]

I guess it depends how much older you are referring to? If it is just a few years older, I don't think it is very uncommon. :-)

[lightZ]

There are also many guys who are very sticky about that few years gap.

[junxiang]

There are also many guys who are very sticky about that few years gap.

I was rejected a few times cos they said I not old enough for my age. Makes my day tho.    

[Guest Guest]

Nah.. I like old bottoms.. Especially uncles around 40++.. like their butts.. =p love to hug them from back.. especially those average built uncles.. 

How about me? good enough?

[Guest alispenn]

Just spread the words around that as young-looking as you are, you are actually going to be eligible for early retirement or withdrawing your CPF.

[Guest Guest]

I'm not sure if "this friend" is joking or not.  He told us that he went to the sauna darkroom and got his best bj of his life.  When done, he followed his blower out .... it was a skinny old man and while walking, he was putting back his denture.  Imagine 6 of us laughing out real loud in Starbucks city hall.       

[tic-toc]

LOL rmb u also wrote:

 

"in bkk for two months, never got laid. that says a lot about my looks and age."

 

.........

like that how people approach you?

ha haaa... got ppl keeping track on me leh. That is an improvement. 

Ya lah. here in bw, I am not looking for sex.  But when outside and in sauna, ppl won't know what I am thinking mah. 

Edited July 2, 2013 by tic-toc

[Guest Guest]

How about me? good enough?

 

is this for real?

[snowball]

is this for real?

saw many years ago, there are few uncles do wear something like this, saw them normally around hdb hawker centre, chinatown etc, never see any inside mrt station before

[Guest Guest]

ha haaa... got ppl keeping track on me leh. That is an improvement. 

Ya lah. here in bw, I am not looking for sex.  But when outside and in sauna, ppl won't know what I am thinking mah. 

 

cos your "in bkk for two months, never got laid. that says a lot about my looks and age." is very eye-catching.

 

your half show-face avatar is quite sexy what.....

[Guest Guest]

i know some not bad looking young guys just into mature old man,

fucking mature men make them like masters, esp when those older

moan loud and beg for more, controlling someone who are much more older

than them feel great. some told me before cos they lack of fatherly love.

fuck by young guys make them feel live and young again.

as long both party enjoy and happy, they get what they want,

we as a third parties have no right to say anything.

What u said quite similar to me. Lack fatherly love so i prefer older men. But sexual role wise i prefer to top.

I dated older top guys and had a relationship with one but it didnt work out. Always argue during sex and sometimes over trivial issues. After awhile, we try semi open relationship where we share a btm during sex but we just lost interest in each other eventually.

I then started to 'experiment' around and date older btm guys and somehow can click with alot of them in terms of alot of things, including sex of course. Most are nice and cheeky yet rather matured and of cos for sex we complement each other. Eventually went into a relationship with a older btm guy - he is boyish, understanding, kind hearted and of cos love it when i topped him. we have been together for two years plus and still love each other alot. :8)

[azimuth]

What u said quite similar to me. Lack fatherly love so i prefer older men. But sexual role wise i prefer to top.

I dated older top guys and had a relationship with one but it didnt work out. Always argue during sex and sometimes over trivial issues. After awhile, we try semi open relationship where we share a btm during sex but we just lost interest in each other eventually.

I then started to 'experiment' around and date older btm guys and somehow can click with alot of them in terms of alot of things, including sex of course. Most are nice and cheeky yet rather matured and of cos for sex we complement each other. Eventually went into a relationship with a older btm guy - he is boyish, understanding, kind hearted and of cos love it when i topped him. we have been together for two years plus and still love each other alot. :8)

Haha. Just wondering. Are there really a lot of things to quarrel over during sex?

Edited July 5, 2013 by azimuth

[Guest Guest]

Young tops like to fuck forever... Hence older bottoms love them haha.

I once dated a young top 12 yrs younger, in his 20s.

Three loads a night!

[Guest Guest]

Haha. Just wondering. Are there really a lot of things to quarrel over during sex?

Well though we both are not 'petty' in character but always hv probs deciding who sld btm, no one wanna give in. Alot of times we end up dun do anal and sometimes even if i wanna do it, he didnt want to and vice versa. When we went semi open, a few times hv different preference for the btm we want. Sex became frustrating but that aside, it was personality mismatch as well.

[azimuth]

Well though we both are not 'petty' in character but always hv probs deciding who sld btm, no one wanna give in. Alot of times we end up dun do anal and sometimes even if i wanna do it, he didnt want to and vice versa. When we went semi open, a few times hv different preference for the btm we want. Sex became frustrating but that aside, it was personality mismatch as well.

I agree. Being able to click well is important.

[Guest Guest]

Sexually as an older btm, I prefer young top. I am 40 and I once met a top almost half my age at 21 recently for fun. I had my best sex ever as he cummed twice and made me autocum.

I liked the way he perspired and his sweat dripped on me. This is the level of sexual athleticism not matched by most older tops.

Having said this, I still prefer mature guys cos emotionally they have more to give.

[Guest Matt88]

As my first experience is with a chinese guy around age 40 plus. Damn it changes my life i never thought that sex with men is this good. Im 25 and i think there is nothing wrong with it. Young ones is a bit choosy, unlike uncles they dont care and they suck really good. Wanted to top nice married chinese uncle =)

[junxiang]

As my first experience is with a chinese guy around age 40 plus. Damn it changes my life i never thought that sex with men is this good. Im 25 and i think there is nothing wrong with it. Young ones is a bit choosy, unlike uncles they dont care and they suck really good. Wanted to top nice married chinese uncle =)

really? not all like that la.

[Guest matured top]

I am a matured top. But some young tops think all uncles are desperate to get fucked. What the heck, like we are so pitiful and ready to let them screw to sex with them.

[Guest Guest]

I am a matured top. But some young tops think all uncles are desperate to get fucked. What the heck, like we are so pitiful and ready to let them screw to sex with them.

just small amount of shameless uncles can spoilt whole market. since when young = good look = market value? most youngster here are unwanted, no bf, so desperate looking for one when they not even start to earn their own money. if a person don't look good, no matter how young he is, he still unwanted, but if you got what others looking for, you are still popular even when you mature.

[junxiang]

just small amount of shameless uncles can spoilt whole market. since when young = good look = market value? most youngster here are unwanted, no bf, so desperate looking for one when they not even start to earn their own money. if a person don't look good, no matter how young he is, he still unwanted, but if you got what others looking for, you are still popular even when you mature.

I really got problem trying to understand your stand. Just what are you talking about?

 

what shameless uncle?

 

most youngster here are unwanted, no bf, We all have been young before, we know that we are not unwanted. Just that we think we got alot of choices. It's all a cycle. We reject lots of ppl who want us because of this reason or that excuses while trying to chase after the one whom we like but dun like us for the same reasons that we use on others.

 

anyway, does uncle need to use the word "shameless" on those youngsters who ask for money or use their looks or body for monetary gains? to each its own la.

 

As for those who uses words like shameless, desperate, dirty and other degrading words on matured, hope you never get old to experience all that.

[Guest Guest]

dun think you are older btms means younger tops will like. you must be cute, boyish and 'young looking'.

[sportsboysg]

I think he is trying to tell us there are two camp of young tops going for both the younger and older bottoms respectively. I don't see it as a contradicting statement.

One of the reason why young tops in their early/mid 20s is attracted to those 30s/40s bottom is because they find them intellectually attractive to themselves. Another reason why young top go for slightly older bottom is they are impress by the physical tangible benefits a career establish boyfriend/fuck mate can bring to them like dining, movies and no worries of finding a place to shag etc.

-Material and Spirtual fulfilment-

 

the latter isnt going for older btms, they are going for a sugar daddy

 

mystery solved

[sportsboysg]

just small amount of shameless uncles can spoilt whole market. since when young = good look = market value? most youngster here are unwanted, no bf, so desperate looking for one when they not even start to earn their own money. if a person don't look good, no matter how young he is, he still unwanted, but if you got what others looking for, you are still popular even when you mature.

sorry, its true, young = got market value.

 

but most important is good looking, if you are a goodlooking uncle, anyone will want you, if you are a ugly young top, nothing will want you.

 

however some uncles are very irritating and persistent.

[LikeMature]

I definitely like mature bottom, age ard 30 to 45 plus. but not those niang one.