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latenight88
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All this while, I've only met with older guys. But recently, I met up with a younger one, a 18 yo JC boy. A great 7 years younger than me.   His parents were away on cruise and so we arranged to meet

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what is common and not common, just follow your liking, cos 10 or 20 years not really great different, is your thinking make it huge different, life real short, why bother so much.

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Nah.. I like old bottoms.. Especially uncles around 40++.. like their butts.. =p love to hug them from back.. especially those average built uncles.. 

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Younger time I did not have the courage and seek handjo n body touching only. Older lower market value but I still prefer the same, so it's difficult to find people of same interest, perhaps time to explore more or step out of closet n establish a relationship.....

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As mature, it is not easy to find young one. I wish. At my age, no young one look at me. Sugar daddy no lah. Nothing to flash around. This make more difficult. How I missed the beach at ford road.

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As a mature btm, I find that most younger tops who like me are Malaysians!  They seem to like gdlking uncles with slight tummy, just like the HongKong and Japanese tops do! I seldom find Sporeans younger tops who look my way. Probably the Western theme of youth and muscles more important than experience in bed and technique.   

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Yes there are couples like that. You have to know them or ask them to know. Thing is, many people always assume the older guy is top while the younger guy is btm. Not always the case, stereotype again

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As a mature btm, I find that most younger tops who like me are Malaysians! They seem to like gdlking uncles with slight tummy, just like the HongKong and Japanese tops do! I seldom find Sporeans younger tops who look my way. Probably the Western theme of youth and muscles more important than experience in bed and technique.

Sometimes the young tops want to fuck a few times a night... Very sore and tiring!
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yes friends told me there are some younger tops/flex tops out there who like much older men who are btms.

just that they normally dun say it out

 

also of stereotypical perception that older = top, younger = btm in a couple or a pair of fuck buddies,

but actually younger top & older btm combi is not uncommon at all.

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Sometimes the young tops want to fuck a few times a night... Very sore and tiring!

it will be worse when he is on holiday looking for sex sex sex.

I met this young man in Bangkok. He is from HK with a group of gay friends. After getting screwed by him, he intro me to his friends. All his friends had young Thai bfs. I was the oldest in the group by a lot.

I joined them running around the bars, discos and saunas. They were there for one week of sex. Most of them change Thai bfs frequently. My guy and me are the most stable pair because I don't question who he has sex with. I guess he needs lots of sex and though he liked me, he wanted to enjoy his sex holiday with as many men as possible like his friends do. He don't mind about age difference as long as the guy is fuckable. He simply hated to have to pay for sex. Best of all,he likes kinkyness.

But wherever we go, the Thais always think I was the sugar daddy and top. They will ask me to order the meals, they will give the bills to me first, the hotel reception will call me sir and ignored him though I was the one staying for free in his room.

HK men are very vulgar with 4 letters words. They teased me about my bottom frequently with very lewd words.

The funniest thing was those Thais bfs also thought I was the top and tried to flirt with me to get my business.

Only the ang mos would assume I was the bottom and flirted with him. He screwed one good looking young ang mo in the bar toilet. That ang mo was so worn out and satisfied that he could barely walk. He gave me a victory wink like saying he just stole my bf.

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it will be worse when he is on holiday looking for sex sex sex.

I met this young man in Bangkok. He is from HK with a group of gay friends. After getting screwed by him, he intro me to his friends. All his friends had young Thai bfs. I was the oldest in the group by a lot.

I joined them running around the bars, discos and saunas. They were there for one week of sex. Most of them change Thai bfs frequently. My guy and me are the most stable pair because I don't question who he has sex with. I guess he needs lots of sex and though he liked me, he wanted to enjoy his sex holiday with as many men as possible like his friends do. He don't mind about age difference as long as the guy is fuckable. He simply hated to have to pay for sex. Best of all,he likes kinkyness.

But wherever we go, the Thais always think I was the sugar daddy and top. They will ask me to order the meals, they will give the bills to me first, the hotel reception will call me sir and ignored him though I was the one staying for free in his room.

HK men are very vulgar with 4 letters words. They teased me about my bottom frequently with very lewd words.

The funniest thing was those Thais bfs also thought I was the top and tried to flirt with me to get my business.

Only the ang mos would assume I was the bottom and flirted with him. He screwed one good looking young ang mo in the bar toilet. That ang mo was so worn out and satisfied that he could barely walk. He gave me a victory wink like saying he just stole my bf.

I'm confused by your story.

 

Why do you think the Thais are acting abnormally?

 

1. The sugar daddy conventionally is assumed to be the older/oldest person in the group.

 

2. It is respectful to ask the oldest to place the orders and assume he is in charge.  Anyone would do it, I expect.

 

3. If you are shown respect due to your seniority, I doubt if it has any link to whether you are top or bottom.

 

Unless you behave in a certain way, it also doesn't make any sense that Thais would think you are top and ang mohs think you are bottom. Is there something in ang moh gay culture that makes them assume an old guy hanging with young guys is automatically bottom?

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someone post a story n you need to dissect it, n query him in bits n parts. I read the story n dats it, afterall its his experience.

since when respect for the old has any significance in the gay circle?

when the bill comes??

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Some people swallow whatever is served to them, others like to know what's in the dish.

 

When a story is posted, I like to know whether it is fact or fiction.

 

If its posted as fact, shouldn't one be entitled to question it if it seems illogical?

 

If its fiction, it should be clearly stated as such.

 

i find it distasteful that fiction is posted as fact and certain nationalities are needlessly disparaged...saying that Thais can't tell the difference between top and bottom without any reason or somehow it's silly of hotel reception to call him sir.

 

Another example is  "HK men are very vulgar with 4 letters words."

 

Maybe I should just go back to school and dissect frogs, but it's less entertaining and messier.

 

 

 

 

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I don't see a point in this discussion. Material or spiritual fulfillment or not, why bother if you are happy. And people who says that some is after material fulfillment, that is neither true nor false. You love someone for who he/she is and not how much he/she makes a month. On the other there are cases of guys who 吃软饭 and makes use or depend on older partner to provide for them which I feel that these guys are useless.

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I'm confused by your story.

 

Why do you think the Thais are acting abnormally?

 

1. The sugar daddy conventionally is assumed to be the older/oldest person in the group.

 

2. It is respectful to ask the oldest to place the orders and assume he is in charge.  Anyone would do it, I expect.

 

3. If you are shown respect due to your seniority, I doubt if it has any link to whether you are top or bottom.

 

Unless you behave in a certain way, it also doesn't make any sense that Thais would think you are top and ang mohs think you are bottom. Is there something in ang moh gay culture that makes them assume an old guy hanging with young guys is automatically bottom?

Yes, you are right but I didn't say the Thais are abnormal. I should be flattered for the respect they showed but then I do find it embarrassing sometimes when I had to push the bills to the young guys.

I can only afford to pay for my own but these guys were expensive. I cannot afford to pay for all. They like to tease me by saying daddy will pay. Of course we all go dutch eventually and each pay for his bf too. My guy will pay for me. Anyway this is typically group fun to tease each other that is why a group is always so noisy.

One time we went shopping for clothes, the cashier asked me if I would pay or separate bills. As expected they said daddy will pay. I had to embarrassingly tell the cashier separate bills please.

This is a group of pure tops(at least that is what they all said). But the bottoms that they get are not the sissy types. Most of these bottoms were strapping strong young men. So I did fire back that who's bottom behind closed doors,we'll never know for sure.

I think they protested too much with their vulgarities. Those Thai bfs assumed I was one of the guys and asked me quite frequently where is my boy. These HK guys couldn't wait for that question each time to tell them I was the boy myself. Because the Thais are fixed in their minds that I was the top, it took a lot of lewd explanations that the HK guys enjoyed teasing me with, then finally the Thais understood. If not for my guy, I would not stay around them for long and get embarrassed.

As for the ang mo, don't ask me, I don't know. He probably sensed that my guy is top that he wanted and so to confirm it he asked if I was a bottom indirectly.

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Yes, you are right but I didn't say the Thais are abnormal. I should be flattered for the respect they showed but then I do find it embarrassing sometimes when I had to push the bills to the young guys.

I can only afford to pay for my own but these guys were expensive. I cannot afford to pay for all. They like to tease me by saying daddy will pay. Of course we all go dutch eventually and each pay for his bf too. My guy will pay for me. Anyway this is typically group fun to tease each other that is why a group is always so noisy.

One time we went shopping for clothes, the cashier asked me if I would pay or separate bills. As expected they said daddy will pay. I had to embarrassingly tell the cashier separate bills please.

This is a group of pure tops(at least that is what they all said). But the bottoms that they get are not the sissy types. Most of these bottoms were strapping strong young men. So I did fire back that who's bottom behind closed doors,we'll never know for sure.

I think they protested too much with their vulgarities. Those Thai bfs assumed I was one of the guys and asked me quite frequently where is my boy. These HK guys couldn't wait for that question each time to tell them I was the boy myself. Because the Thais are fixed in their minds that I was the top, it took a lot of lewd explanations that the HK guys enjoyed teasing me with, then finally the Thais understood. If not for my guy, I would not stay around them for long and get embarrassed.

As for the ang mo, don't ask me, I don't know. He probably sensed that my guy is top that he wanted and so to confirm it he asked if I was a bottom indirectly.

One typical example, they would show the O in left hand and 1 on the right hand. Then show the fucking actions and say he is like you. The Thai boy thought I "like" him. Then that HK guy would act like fingering the Thais and point to me. Again the Thais thought otherwise. The HK guy said I am bottom, the Thais still thought I am looking for a bottom boy. If the Thais english were any good, they would be office workers instead of sex workers.
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Yes, you are right but I didn't say the Thais are abnormal. I should be flattered for the respect they showed but then I do find it embarrassing sometimes when I had to push the bills to the young guys.

I can only afford to pay for my own but these guys were expensive. I cannot afford to pay for all. They like to tease me by saying daddy will pay. Of course we all go dutch eventually and each pay for his bf too. My guy will pay for me. Anyway this is typically group fun to tease each other that is why a group is always so noisy.

One time we went shopping for clothes, the cashier asked me if I would pay or separate bills. As expected they said daddy will pay. I had to embarrassingly tell the cashier separate bills please.

This is a group of pure tops(at least that is what they all said). But the bottoms that they get are not the sissy types. Most of these bottoms were strapping strong young men. So I did fire back that who's bottom behind closed doors,we'll never know for sure.

I think they protested too much with their vulgarities. Those Thai bfs assumed I was one of the guys and asked me quite frequently where is my boy. These HK guys couldn't wait for that question each time to tell them I was the boy myself. Because the Thais are fixed in their minds that I was the top, it took a lot of lewd explanations that the HK guys enjoyed teasing me with, then finally the Thais understood. If not for my guy, I would not stay around them for long and get embarrassed.

As for the ang mo, don't ask me, I don't know. He probably sensed that my guy is top that he wanted and so to confirm it he asked if I was a bottom indirectly.

Why is it a big deal that anyone thinks you are top or bottom? What is so unusual about being a mature bottom?

 

Maybe half the mature gay population is top and the other half bottom. A young bottom does not grow up and magically transform into a mature top.

 

I would guess that more then 90% of mature bottoms will be chubby or stocky and potbellied. Maybe people will think they are tops. So what?

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I don't see a point in this discussion. Material or spiritual fulfillment or not, why bother if you are happy. And people who says that some is after material fulfillment, that is neither true nor false. You love someone for who he/she is and not how much he/she makes a month. On the other there are cases of guys who 吃软饭 and makes use or depend on older partner to provide for them which I feel that these guys are useless.

 

still alot of stereotypical perceptions around!

 

i know some young guys (tops) attached with older btms cos they just prefer older guys but like the 'dominating' roles in sex and r/s. nothing about money or what. similarity among these guys is that most of them do not hv gd r/s with their fathers, food for thought?

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HI guys i am 43 and i cant agree more than there are many young guys who go for older guys my age or older. When i am at the gym i do get stares by young guys though i am not leanfit or muscular. Obviously i guess i have been told that older guys are more exp and obviously know how to handle guys on bed and off bed. :)I guess though i am still looking for the young guy of my choice, i cant wait to make my young top happy and satisfied always :)

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still alot of stereotypical perceptions around!

 

i know some young guys (tops) attached with older btms cos they just prefer older guys but like the 'dominating' roles in sex and r/s. nothing about money or what. similarity among these guys is that most of them do not hv gd r/s with their fathers, food for thought?

For those young tops wanting to dominate someone as old as their fathers, it is only a fetish. The person he fucks is not important. Any matured man will do.

I had a short relationship with a young top once. I thought he was attracted to me for my good looks and maturity. When I caught him screwing a really ugly uncle, I was devastated. At least I expected him to have some qc and taste.

After that my feelings when he fucked me. I kept comparing myself with that ugly uncle and thinking why? After that I told him I could not be friends anymore. Unsurprisingly, he simply said fine and didn't value me at all. People who knew him later told me he will fuck any uncle and was very popular.

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For those young tops wanting to dominate someone as old as their fathers, it is only a fetish. The person he fucks is not important. Any matured man will do.

I had a short relationship with a young top once. I thought he was attracted to me for my good looks and maturity. When I caught him screwing a really ugly uncle, I was devastated. At least I expected him to have some qc and taste.

After that my feelings when he fucked me. I kept comparing myself with that ugly uncle and thinking why? After that I told him I could not be friends anymore. Unsurprisingly, he simply said fine and didn't value me at all. People who knew him later told me he will fuck any uncle and was very popular.

U considered yourself cream of uncles?

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This tread has lots of truth in it though some post made me laugh. My ex was so much younger than me and i being much older and a btm. He did like mature btms and though it was a bit diff to keep up but i guess i was better than him somehow on and off bed . While i am still looking for a fit young top now, i today saw a young hot dragonboater with a mature guy at Tampines, envy man hahaha. Ultimately a individual preference but i think experience and care and love that a mature guy givesis still in demand by young guys :)  

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All this while, I've only met with older guys. But recently, I met up with a younger one, a 18 yo JC boy. A great 7 years younger than me.

 

His parents were away on cruise and so we arranged to meet at his place after my work.

 

He is short (around 165cm) but tanned and finely muscled (his cca is Sea Sports Club). When i reached his house, we chatted for awhile in his room but it didn't take long for us to start touching each other and kissing.

 

We kissed for abit until he led me to his study desk and made me lie on it, head at his crotch. He stripped me off my executive attire and touched me all over. I slipped his dick out of his fbt shorts and sucked him off. He returned the favour and also started to play with my hole. He fingered me and he fingered me good. 1 finger, then 2. In and out motion, then also with twisting motion. It felt really good and I was moaning , I think, quite loudly. It came to a point when I begged him to fuck me. That was when he gave me a cheeky smirk, and called me 'Slut'.

 

He spun me around and fucked me, with my legs on his shoulders first, then he made me kneel in front of him and he fucked my face. Then at the end, he fucked me doggy on his bed. The doggy fuck was my favourite, cos he spanked me while he fucked me and had one hand clutching my hair. And once in a while during the fuck he'll say 'Take that!' or 'You love it right?' or 'Be quiet bitch.', which made me feel cheap but also more horny.

 

After the session and the showering, we chatted again, but this time there was something different about him. He wasn't as meek and shy as he was before anymore. And when he showed me out, he told me 'When I need to fuck someone, come over.' Then I realized I just became a bitch to a 18yo JC boy.

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All this while, I've only met with older guys. But recently, I met up with a younger one, a 18 yo JC boy. A great 7 years younger than me.

His parents were away on cruise and so we arranged to meet at his place after my work.

He is short (around 165cm) but tanned and finely muscled (his cca is Sea Sports Club). When i reached his house, we chatted for awhile in his room but it didn't take long for us to start touching each other and kissing.

We kissed for abit until he led me to his study desk and made me lie on it, head at his crotch. He stripped me off my executive attire and touched me all over. I slipped his dick out of his fbt shorts and sucked him off. He returned the favour and also started to play with my hole. He fingered me and he fingered me good. 1 finger, then 2. In and out motion, then also with twisting motion. It felt really good and I was moaning , I think, quite loudly. It came to a point when I begged him to fuck me. That was when he gave me a cheeky smirk, and called me 'Slut'.

He spun me around and fucked me, with my legs on his shoulders first, then he made me kneel in front of him and he fucked my face. Then at the end, he fucked me doggy on his bed. The doggy fuck was my favourite, cos he spanked me while he fucked me and had one hand clutching my hair. And once in a while during the fuck he'll say 'Take that!' or 'You love it right?' or 'Be quiet bitch.', which made me feel cheap but also more horny.

After the session and the showering, we chatted again, but this time there was something different about him. He wasn't as meek and shy as he was before anymore. And when he showed me out, he told me 'When I need to fuck someone, come over.' Then I realized I just became a bitch to a 18yo JC boy.

Hmm...the 18 sounds borderline...be careful thou...

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I would like to know whether it is the norm to ass fuck and then face fuck (oral) and then ass fuck again. Does not seem ok to me. The cock after put in ass (condom-ed or not) like very dirty to put in mouth, no matter how well-cleaned the ass...

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I would like to know whether it is the norm to ass fuck and then face fuck (oral) and then ass fuck again. Does not seem ok to me. The cock after put in ass (condom-ed or not) like very dirty to put in mouth, no matter how well-cleaned the ass...

 

well you are still tasting ur own ass isnt it? :P

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