Discussion on Facts & Signs of Aging + How to cope with Aging + Aging Gracefully (compiled)

[Guest GoldenYears]

those were the good old days where i could jerkoff [almost] daily. sometimes, it could be twice or 3 times a day. and sex was good too.

those were the good old days where my testerone level perked my body and mind. it never failed to get, or do, for more.

those were the days of me in my 20s, 30s and early 40s.

while i still maintain a regular exercise and still eating wisely, sex has taken a change. for one, i sure lose in who-shoot-the-farthest competition. geez, the last time i jerkoff, it was only dripping

these days, watching p--ns to make me horny failed too. often, i dozed off even before watching the guy cummed.

... and i just love just to hug and kiss.

[amazonian]

Well, telling me.. age is not a good thing ah.. must enjoy while you are young... well just look back with fondness and age gracefully.

we all grow old.

[Guest GoldenYears]

Well, telling me.. age is not a good thing ah.. must enjoy while you are young... well just look back with fondness and age gracefully.

we all grow old.

boooo hooooo sob sob sob

guess, the biggest consolation is that, with golden years, comes a great sense of maturity. however, contentment is another thing eh?

you are right, dude - age and the bigger the number, it just makes it 'heavier' rather than wise-ing up the testerone hehe, one jerkoff session ended with me going for body massage and that is not helping with retirement plan

argh, and keeping the heart young does not tally with i-want-sex and golden years.

[kerbee10]

Everybody grows old....the ginger is still more solid when its old.....

but of course not sexually.....

Sex is becoming more secondary when u age annually....a person would change their sexual habits and sexual practise...but one thing for sure....love applies to older folks and energetic adults..the older you are the wiser you becomes.....

I mix well with the older folks...

:thumb:

[bukitpanjang]

i'd like to think the growing older process has its perks...

of course...

dun squander away whatever that's supposed to be your retirement plan...

money boys and sexy massages??? mmm

[newguy2l]

same boat here

funny thing is - still horny and think of sex all the time

but the brother down there doesnt want to wake up sometimes

so i guess - we drink coffee to wake up

so must give brother a shot of viagra to wake him up too

still thinking of it - eyeing the blue pill

other advise is - dont squander the shots

play but dont fire, run away and play play again

u fire too soon but time is not up - you may start playing with your bottom instead

and that may not be a good thing

not for me anyway

[Guest GoldenYears]

same boat here

funny thing is - still horny and think of sex all the time

but the brother down there doesnt want to wake up sometimes

so i guess - we drink coffee to wake up

so must give brother a shot of viagra to wake him up too

still thinking of it - eyeing the blue pill

other advise is - dont squander the shots

play but dont fire, run away and play play again

u fire too soon but time is not up - you may start playing with your bottom instead

and that may not be a good thing

not for me anyway

*Laughing Out Loud* - interesting post!

ouch ouch ouch - never been a bottom. hehe, and if that is what golden years is about with sexual desire, geez i can imagine my medisave gonna dwindle too .. LOL

just awhile ago, spanking my little brother to co-operate. scolded him for being lazy for the past one week. but he is getting smarter - managed to wake up, 'mopped' me wet, shot perhaps another centimetre far - and *sigh* now i need the afternoon switching role with him - i need my rest liow :oops:

[mature40s]

I guess I am in the same boat. I will be reaching 50 very soon. When we are young, we call our partner "lover", "bf", "sex buddy" etc. When we get older, we look for companionship ..... someone who share the same interest like travelling, karaoke (with the real mic and not the mic that spits at you) etc. Priorities change with age and sex becomes less and less important. However, I do have friends my age whose sexual prowess can put guys half their age to shame. They can cum a few times in a day. They said happiness is hanging between their legs.

[Guest simpleman]

A joke I heard over the radio a couple of days ago.....

It's my 50th birthday today....

Woke up in the morning and said to my toes, you are now 50 years old.

Went further up and said to my knees, you are now 50 years old too.

And then looking at my little brother, I said, "If you are alive today, you would have been 50 years old.....sigh"

[Guest GoldenYears]

A joke I heard over the radio a couple of days ago.....

It's my 50th birthday today....

Woke up in the morning and said to my toes, you are now 50 years old.

Went further up and said to my knees, you are now 50 years old too.

And then looking at my little brother, I said, "If you are alive today, you would have been 50 years old.....sigh"

hahaha, thanks for this nice joke, dude!!

from now on, i gonna wake up and talk to little brother, "you and i are going to make it till death do us part. jiayu brother! and don't leave me alone!!" hehehe

[Blog]

Hello Guys

Don’t be discouraged by age. It is inevitable that you must age unless you choose to die young.

To someone who is 18, another person who is 30 is old. So tell yourself “never old, but older”. Each year has its worth and value, like very note in a symphony. The true nature of ageing is highly subjective and it is being too simplistic to see the onset of old age as reaching some specific year of life. Let me illustrate:

I was at 1-7 sauna last night and this guy with whom I had fun previously recognized me despite the dim light and suggested we adjourned to one of the rooms. Remembering the oral thrill he gave me in our previous meeting, I agreed. Upon entering the room, and against my expectation, he signaled to another guy to follow. It so happened that this relatively younger guy was someone who gave me oral earlier and who had wanted me to top him. I sensed it was to please to me more than anything else and so I declined.

I knew I was in for a good time with those two, not totally unknown to me. Barely after lying down in bed and having my underwear removed, both acted in unison, one to lick/suck my nipples and the other my dick. The sensation of being serviced bodily by two who tickled and tongue-bathed me was “doubly sensational”. To prolong this rare treatment for as long as possible, selfish me, I resisted cumming. When they stepped up the tempo and held down my legs, I lost control and had to let go, culminating his mouth. When it was apparent that he could not revive my hardness, he quietly left the room while the younger guy was seemed reluctant to leave.

It dawned that he wanted me to spend overnight with him but that was not in my plan and I badly needed a wash. Nevertheless, before leaving, I spent time cuddling him while he sucked each of my thumb and fingers. His subservient act turned out to be a very humbling experience, not for him, but for me.

Some insights:

1. there are unselfish people will pleasure you with expecting reciprocations.

2. not everyone is into anal sex and even so, it is not a must. Without it, it doesn’t mean less of an enjoyment

3. age is no barrier to sexual enjoyment. I know for I am 59.

[Guest just enjoy]

you may start playing with your bottom instead

2. not everyone is into anal sex and even so, it is not a must. Without it, it doesn’t mean less of an enjoyment

More than 50% of the older men I know are bottoms and enjoying it. Anal sex is not a must but those who don't doing it always look down on bottoms like we are dirty. So prejudiced. Sex is sex why so have high class or low class one.

If you older than 50 and you always feel like peeing then you may have enlarged prostate. Very common. Better see doctor, can be serious cancer or maybe just urine problem. Also can affect your little brother.

My friend tell me that getting fxxked massage his prostate and keep it well exercised and healthy. Very very important that even when you not feeling horny you must release regularly at least every week. If not your prostate and other sex muscles grow lazy and get worse. Somemore sperm stored too long also can cause troubles. Plenty sex produce hormones keep your body working feeling younger.

[newguy2l]

just enjoy - sorry for the disparaging remark on bottoms

it doesnt mean i look down on bottoms

we cant live without bottoms too - right?

it takes 2 hands to clap

SO we also need a top and a bottom

otherwise nothing fits

I just wanted you to realise the anguish of a aging top

used to showing off the rampant brother

lording it over all those eager mouths and holes eager to service him

but little brother is now weakened and refusing to do his job

mind you - it really strikes into the ego and masculine identity

[Guest GoldenYears]

just enjoy - sorry for the disparaging remark on bottoms

it doesnt mean i look down on bottoms

we cant live without bottoms too - right?

it takes 2 hands to clap

SO we also need a top and a bottom

otherwise nothing fits

I just wanted you to realise the anguish of a aging top

used to showing off the rampant brother

lording it over all those eager mouths and holes eager to service him

but little brother is now weakened and refusing to do his job

mind you - it really strikes into the ego and masculine identity

so very true, newguy2| -- oh, btw, i always thought you are new guy aged 21 ler - machiam that spring chicken just came out of the duck den - hehehehe [no offence hor ]

your second para hit me hard. only recently i wanted to make a partner happy and little brother was psyched for THE ultimate session for weeks for that session. spent hours kissing and hugging and when it was time for little brother to do his dancing act -- piang, even the rubber was not fitted tight as it used to be. slapped brother left right also didnt work. and then, as ego refused to vanish, i kept trying until my partner got to say 'it does not matter' and just kissed and hugged me.

hehe, dunno if there any manhood gym where i can enrol little brother around?

[GachiMuchi]

My friend tell me that getting fxxked massage his prostate and keep it well exercised and healthy. Very very important that even when you not feeling horny you must release regularly at least every week. If not your prostate and other sex muscles grow lazy and get worse. Somemore sperm stored too long also can cause troubles. Plenty sex produce hormones keep your body working feeling younger.

It was reported that regular prostate massage will help reduce the chance of having prostate cancer. But it does not mean you need to be fcuked. Using your finger to massage is sufficient.

It is also true that muscle need to be regularly exercise so that dystrophy does not set in.

It is false that sperm stored too long can cause trouble.

Feeling young is a state of mind. Regular exercise like jogging or swimming, etc. will keeps you healthy and thus promotes better blood flow and help in building and repairing of muscles. When you are healthy, you body will be more apt to higher frequency of sex.

[doncoin]

Hi guys

What do you all think about the concept of aging gracefully? I was reading the post about William Scorpion and I remember seeing him as a kid growing up. From the pictures. I personally think he should embrace his age by dressing a little more appropriately. Not that i am a fuddy duddy but there are styles that one can opt for to be sexy and still be age appropriate. I.e. Madonna.

I will be turning 33 in a few days and I am starting to see the signs of aging- i.e. a little thinning hair, a strand of white hair.... longer time to recover from a hangover especially. Personally I am all for aging as gracefully as possible- i.e. i do not intend to colour my hair at all to hide the whites, a few lines around the eyes may be sexy in a few more years...

My question is as we all get older, do you think it is important to stay young looking? i.e. By following trends of what's in? Would love to hear your thoughts.

OK. A little bo does not hurt if it helps.

[GachiMuchi]

I think William live the life he thinks he is happy with.

I think you should live the life you think best suits you. If you want to dye your hair, dye. If you want to dress young; dress young.

Who is to tell you how you should live your life?

I certainly don't need anyone to tell me how I should live my life; except for my doctor.

Be you, be happy.

Cheers

[thaiboyz]

Everyone will age. To keep yourself young and maybe attractive is of course necessary, especially if you have gained more self confidence by doing so. To stay healthy, well groomed, cheerful outlook...and positive thinking...then age is merely a figure.

[oralb]

yeap 2 impt points

stay healthy

stay positive

[reflection]

Tips in Keeping Youthful

1. Good outlook of life

2. Good life

3. Good nutrition

4. Good exercise (sex ?)

5. Good skincare

6. Good sleep and rest

Anyone wants to add on the list?

[worldangel]

Are You Enjoying Your Life To The Fullest?

Start now, not too late...

http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x138/wo...bum/Couple3.jpg

Another year has passed

and we're all a little older.

Last summer felt hotter

and winter seems much colder.

There was a time not long ago

when life was quite a blast.

Now I fully understand

about "Living in the Past".

We used to go to weddings,

football games and lunches.

Now we go to funeral homes,

and after-funeral brunches.

We used to have hangovers,

from parties that were gay.

Now we suffer body aches

and while the night away.

We used to go out dining,

and couldn't get our fill.

Now we ask for doggie bags,

come home and take a pill.

We used to often travel

to places near and far.

Now we get sore asses

from riding in the car.

We used to go to nightclubs

and drink a little booze.

Now we stay home at night

and watch the evening news.

That, my dear friend, is how life is ........

And now that my life is told

Let's enjoy each day and live it up

Before we are really too damned old !

http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x138/wo...bum/Couple1.jpg

[reflection]

Guys with pink dollars may go for

- botox

- fillers

- plastic surgeries

if you want to look like Alan Tam or Cliff Richard

[Guest spa guest]

A lot of wonderful supplements and alternative health therapies are available to boost one's vitality.

Search the Internet and you will find plenty. Keep an open mind.

And of course, thank God to those scientists that invented Cialis, Viagra, etc. Even sex gets better as one gets older.

[Sweetie Pie]

Tips in Keeping Youthful

1. Good outlook of life

2. Good life

3. Good nutrition

4. Good exercise (sex ?)

5. Good skincare

6. Good sleep and rest

Anyone wants to add on the list?

Must also keep your dick in good shape and smell good always...very important hor. I have seen some old man with untidy dick...

[Blog]

A Time for Reflection

Is this sunrise or sunset? The optimist in me says it is sunrise.

Sunrise.. sunset.. swiftly flows the day;

One season following another,

Laden with happiness and tear.

(Fiddler on the Roof)

To everything there is a season,

A thing for every purpose under heaven:

A time to weep, at time to laugh,

A time to mourn, and a time to dance

- Ecclesiastes

To that, add a season for soul searching.

While young people may anguish over their 30th birthday and try to hide their 40th, it is with the 50th that most start to see themselves as beginning to be old. If this is what researchers are uncovering, than I, nearer to 60th than 50th, must be antiqued. It is with a start that I realize how old I am because I never think about it and now that I do, I ask myself where and how all those years have gone by without my feeling the passage of time. Have I been asleep like Rip Van Winkle?

For those in their 50s, the turn of the last century, more than another other, brings a major reappraisal of the direction one

[reflection]

Blessed In Aging

Author Unknown

Blessed are they who understand

My faltering step and shaking hand

Blessed, who know my ears today

Must strain to hear the things they say.

Blessed are those who seem to know

My eyes are dim and my mind is slow

Blessed are those who look away

When I spilled tea that weary day.

Blessed are they who, with cheery smile

Stopped to chat for a little while

Blessed are they who know the way

To bring back memories of yesterday.

Blessed are those who never say

"You've told that story twice today"

Blessed are they who make it known

That I am loved, respected and not alone.

And blessed are they who will ease the days

Of my journey home, in loving ways.

[Guest GUEST]

in this new age is there still age gracefully for the gay?.i think we need botok, abs trimmers . placenta, collengen and other supplement even sun blocked.age gracefully maybe for the straight couple .

[Guest Guest]

Some gays age disgracefully ......

[Guest fixated]

How can you age gracefully if you are fixated on a youthful look?

[Guest Guest]

How can you age gracefully if you are fixated on a youthful look?

On wat logic do u base ur question?It's like asking can u own the latest sports car model if u r fixated on fast cars?

Of cos u can age gracefully even if u r unreasonably n overly obsessed with youthful looks... If u know the methods of how to la. Duh.

[Blacque]

Gays are just like any other human beings... how gracefully one ages depends on the individual.

[Guest fixated]

Guest, I suppose I have to explain it to you very simply or you wont understand.

Aging gracefully means entering old age in a graceful and dignified manner. It is both a matter of behaviour as well as looks. A grey haired, wrinkled, but neat, refined and well groomed gentleman falls into this category.

But a 60 year old former fashionista who still insists on wearing skin tight clothes, dyed hair, heavily botoxed in an attempt to look 20 years old does not fit into this category.

[GachiMuchi]

The problem with many mature guys is that they just dun care how they look so they don't really want to make an effort in at least comb or gel their hair when they go out or at the very least look dress appropriate or properly. More so for married / str8 men.

As for gay men some do, some don't and some just a tad too much.

[Guest Guest]

Guest, I suppose I have to explain it to you very simply or you wont understand.

Aging gracefully means entering old age in a graceful and dignified manner. It is both a matter of behaviour as well as looks. A grey haired, wrinkled, but neat, refined and well groomed gentleman falls into this category.

But a 60 year old former fashionista who still insists on wearing skin tight clothes, dyed hair, heavily botoxed in an attempt to look 20 years old does not fit into this category.

Ok understood. U saying we should behave n dress our age. That's true n agreed as part of ageing gracefully but I was referring more to the human physique, which is also n important aspect of ageing gracefully.

Give u n example. Dr. Georgia lee. She looks many years younger than her age with her taut skin n body tone from healthy food, exercise, Botox, lasers n fillers. But sometimes she dresses like a high school (albeit high fashion) girl, which to me is definitely not age appropriate. I'd still consider her as ageing very gracefully tho.

On the other hand, some high flying men in the office dress in their power suits n r well groomed. Not a hair out of place. But years of neglect of proper diet, exercise n stress management couldn't save their sagging asses from the truth which is...my god, the characters in planet of the apes look better.

[Guest fixated]

GM,

How true. On the attention to grooming of the general population, i suppose it gets better as Sg develops.

Funny thing is that a couple of years back a visiting malaysian friend said that "singaporeans" are better groomed than malaysians. I suppose that is the same way we feel about the japanese?

[XiaoMessy]

If you talk about looks, everyone is the same.

If you talk about other factors, well, it's up to individuals. (:

[Guest 360C]

There are a few things which guys must watch out for in order to age gracefully:

Weight/Tummy: Is this can be prevented, it must be. Unnecessary fats around the belly adds years to your general appearance.

Hair: If hair can be maintained in fullness, it retains the years on your looks. But as men tend to lose hair as they age, the least one can do is not to comb the bald patch with hair. That's obvious.

Teeth: This is one of the most ignored part of the facial feature. The condition and color tone of the teeth ensure how well-groomed one is. I lived in NYC for a while now, I noticed that Americans (esp the Manhattans) are particular with oral condition (and hygience) such that, many have well-maintained teeth all the way till they are old. Of course, the americans tend to put in much effors in their teeth, such as straightening with braces, when they are younger while Sporeans tend not to. Sporean men need to know that nice teeth will give you a nice looking mouth and smile.

Nostrils: I tend to see many Sporean men having sticking out from their nostrils. Do you know that hair in nostrils do not stop growing and needs to be trimmed and maintained?

[abang]

Age gracefully by wearing appropriately.

At 51, I know what suits me and what's not.

It is necessary to have a clean face (unlike Mark Lee) and clear eyes.

Hair should be neatly combed and we should keep it short.

Dye it black if the whites are not so obvious.

Lines and wrinkles are a OK and we should not botox them away.

It adds character and possibly, wisdom to our face.

Clothes wise, I stay away from round-neck T-shirts because it shows too much of my lines on my neck.

I stick to single-coloured workshirts and wear the bare minimum amount of jewellery, i.e. a simple ring.

As long as I dont try too hard to look youthful (ie. no skinny jeans), I think I look fine.

Yes, it is all right to be an uncle but at the very least, be a well-groomed one.

[Guest ATS]

Ok understood. U saying we should behave n dress our age. That's true n agreed as part of ageing gracefully but I was referring more to the human physique, which is also n important aspect of ageing gracefully.

Give u n example. Dr. Georgia lee. She looks many years younger than her age with her taut skin n body tone from healthy food, exercise, Botox, lasers n fillers. But sometimes she dresses like a high school (albeit high fashion) girl, which to me is definitely not age appropriate. I'd still consider her as ageing very gracefully tho.

On the other hand, some high flying men in the office dress in their power suits n r well groomed. Not a hair out of place. But years of neglect of proper diet, exercise n stress management couldn't save their sagging asses from the truth which is...my god, the characters in planet of the apes look better.

For someone who's 25 this year and fresh out of university, you sure are unusually concerned about ageing gracefully.

Why, have you noticed crow's feet and neck lines on your face already?

[Guest Guest]

Have not seen wrinkles or crows feet in a 25 yr old before, even amongst anorexic ones. B realistic in ur statements when taking cheap shots at someone.

[Guest ATS]

Have not seen wrinkles or crows feet in a 25 yr old before, even amongst anorexic ones. B realistic in ur statements when taking cheap shots at someone.

For someone who got exposed time and again for being quarrelsome and picking bitch fights, we can fully understand if you're so stressed that wrinkles and crow's feet are appearing. :twisted:

[Guest Guest]

For someone who got exposed time and again for being quarrelsome and picking bitch fights, we can fully understand if you're so stressed that wrinkles and crow's feet are appearing. :twisted:

sweetheart, pls contact any of the moderators of ur wish n they wil prove u r barking up the wrong tree. Anyway, wat gives u the idea I was fighting or bitching ard? just because my views differ from urs? Was i name calling or mudslinging u? Anyone has as much right as anyone else to express their opinions here, within moderators approval. If u can give it, u should jolly well b able to take it as well. Don b so sensitive la.

[Guest Guest]

For someone who got exposed time and again for being quarrelsome and picking bitch fights, we can fully understand if you're so stressed that wrinkles and crow's feet are appearing. :twisted:

N oh, wats so stressful about being exposed for bitching? Mayb it's a bit embarrassing but not stressful la, n definitely not to the extent of growing wrinkles. Again pls b realistic when taking cheap shots at someone.

[Guest Guest]

sweetheart, pls contact any of the moderators of ur wish n they wil prove u r barking up the wrong tree. Anyway, wat gives u the idea I was fighting or bitching ard? just because my views differ from urs? Was i name calling or mudslinging u? Anyone has as much right as anyone else to express their opinions here, within moderators approval. If u can give it, u should jolly well b able to take it as well. Don b so sensitive la.

N oh, wats so stressful about being exposed for bitching? Mayb it's a bit embarrassing but not stressful la, n definitely not to the extent of growing wrinkles. Again pls b realistic when taking cheap shots at someone.

If that guest was really barking up the wrong tree, why are you being so defensive?

Obviously that guest correctly identified you, didn't he?

A classic case of 此地无银三百两......

[Guest I wear skinny jeans]

"As long as I dont try too hard to look youthful (ie. no skinny jeans), I think I look fine."

Hey, what's wrong with skinny jeans? I am 55, and daresay I look great in jeans, skinny jeans included.

[derryfawne]

I'm entering stereotype territory here, but gays are generally more concerned with their looks, likelier to take care of their looks, and thus likelier to age gracefully (or hides the disgraceful parts better). But of course, there are many counter-examples to that too. And likewise, there are straights who take care of their looks too.

At the end of the day, sexual orientation doesn't say much. Straight or gay, if you take care of yourself well, you'll age gracefully.

[Guest LEAN N MEAN]

judging from the above posts, it is only too obvious everyone has different standards when it comes to aging gracefoolly LOL.

[Guest Guest]

If that guest was really barking up the wrong tree, why are you being so defensive?

Obviously that guest correctly identified you, didn't he?

A classic case of 此地无银三百两......

Ok, assuming I m whom he thinks, then?

[Guest guest]

GM do yr job ,kick those 2 bitch fighting in here and back to topic.

[GachiMuchi]

I see 3 bitches. Hahaha.

Ok guys. Back to the topic or like the bitch says, I'll hv to kick you guys.