Money Boy Discussion - Would/have you paid for a money boy? (compiled)

[Dashy_Boy]

Just curious as to what people's mindset of a money/massage boy

[snowball]

person who sex for money.

they have their reason to sell their body,

we not here to judge, if you like you pay,

else get free sex from next better player.

Edited October 20, 2013 by snowball

[Guest MB]

[Dashy_Boy]

person who sex for money.

they have their reason to sell their body,

we not here to judge, if you like you pay,

else get free sex from next better player.

Yeah just curious at how people at the forum feel about such business?

[NielKlient]

It may not be an honorable job, but it is still a job that does not involve stealing, robbing etc.

[Qiqi]

no experience before.. 

[Guest snowball]

sometimes, even you are not money boy, when you are at sauna or those gay scenes , if they like you and they know that you are not keen, they would use money to pay just to have sex with you, personally, i felt that it is very insulting and i won't even bother to talk to those people.

[Dashy_Boy]

sometimes, even you are not money boy, when you are at sauna or those gay scenes , if they like you and they know that you are not keen, they would use money to pay just to have sex with you, personally, i felt that it is very insulting and i won't even bother to talk to those people.

Yeah true... hmmm it's all about what people think about using money and how they deem sex as

[Guest snowball]

Dashy_Boy interested in this line is it?

now is 2013, not a big deal la,

may be can find rich man & true love too,

一箭双雕

[Dashy_Boy]

Dashy_Boy interested in this line is it?

now is 2013, not a big deal la,

may be can find rich man & true love too,

一箭双雕

haha no lar Just curious nia =P

[Guest so sexy]

yah dashy_boy dun worry so much, just go do it.

if recognise you advertise on grindr and jackd will just keep quiet

dun worry

 

if im money boy, i will choose and qc my clients

fuck the saying that must be professional

enjoy sex and get paid! :clap:

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Moral aside,how can a man earn a sizable income compare to a woman in professional sex worker line?

Going by market rate in order to hit above 4k range one asshole will be pulverise beyond repair if you are a bottom and cock will blister and drop if you are a top.

Not to mention the emotional aspect of handling diverse clients group when it come to lovemaking, one is exposing his body to a wide range of disease and warts etc.

Try full time for two years even Adonis will become hades.

[Guest Guest]

Moral aside,how can a man earn a sizable income compare to a woman in professional sex worker line?

Going by market rate in order to hit above 4k range one asshole will be pulverise beyond repair if you are a bottom and cock will blister and drop if you are a top.

Not to mention the emotional aspect of handling diverse clients group when it come to lovemaking, one is exposing his body to a wide range of disease and warts etc.

Try full time for two years even Adonis will become hades.

 

this dude is speaking from experience.

[EasleyLim]

Bufflord lol

[JEFFJEFF]

this is a history job.... million year in life

[Dashy_Boy]

Moral aside,how can a man earn a sizable income compare to a woman in professional sex worker line?

Going by market rate in order to hit above 4k range one asshole will be pulverise beyond repair if you are a bottom and cock will blister and drop if you are a top.

Not to mention the emotional aspect of handling diverse clients group when it come to lovemaking, one is exposing his body to a wide range of disease and warts etc.

Try full time for two years even Adonis will become hades.

Wow thanks Raiden Alpha for your views... Really never thought about some points you mentioned. Hmmm i guess that's why there are some desperate ones who cross dress and do straight ones or tranny lovers as well~ Need to find the market huh.

[GachiMuchi]

Based on what my deceased gay friend said. Gay will never make a good money / Call boy.

1. Many gays has preference have types they like, unlike str8 guys who does it for the money.
2. Gays may get themselves emotionally involved and falls for the customer.

The above 2 examples are already some of the taboo what a good money / call boy must not do.

My friend used to run a gay brothel in KL and that was he told me.

Based on my understand of money boys, there are actually 4 types.

1. The Professional
The first case are usually the professionals whom are trained in the art of sextifying the customers. They could be working in a Pub / Club, as masseurs, cruising the streets. Basically, they make their living selling their body for money.

2. The Amateur
Young guys who would offer their bodies to men who can pay them for spending time with them. These are usually guys who are in need of money for whatever reasons they have. Usually, it a sexual transactions without emotional involvement.

3. The Sugar Boy
Then there are those that seeks sugar daddy / brother who will dot on them and spend monies or throw lavish gifts on them. They could be emotionally or sexually involved but that may also not be the case.

 

4. The Dependent

The is another who will live on the generosity of his partner. In most cases, these people are mostly foreigners or those who are not able to hold on a stable job. They will usually go with those who can support them in either lodging, or work, etc. Some are romantically involved with the giver as bf or just intimate friends, with or without a relationship. But once they can find someone better, they will most likely 'jump ship'.
 

Edited October 20, 2013 by GachiMuchi

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Q4:Do you think this line of work (money boy) is sustainable in Singapore in times to come?

Don't know what kind of members loiter around in blowing wind, their brains are fill with mush.Over 75% think it is sustainable selling bodies on a long term basis?

Really? Locals think like that? Or just transition foreigners from third world regions capitalising on Sg strong currency instead? Go and learn a skill and get a decent job,no one can made a career out of prostitution.

[Dashy_Boy]

Q4:Do you think this line of work (money boy) is sustainable in Singapore in times to come?

Don't know what kind of members loiter around in blowing wind, their brains are fill with mush.Over 75% think it is sustainable selling bodies on a long term basis?

Really? Locals think like that? Or just transition foreigners from third world regions capitalising on Sg strong currency instead? Go and learn a skill and get a decent job,no one can made a career out of prostitution.

Well this is just solely the fact of this line of job. Nothing else involved. Based just on the money boy "business", would it be enough to survive in Singapore lor

[Hcir]

Love em! Brighten the streets of Chinatown at night...

[muddywill]

At the end of the day, people in sex industry provide necessary service, right? Without sex workers, we wouldn't have porn to watch, go go boys at clubs, etc. But I think everyone, to a certain extent, sells sex especially if they are attractive. Even someone in a "respectable" occupation such as a lawyer or doctor will gain clients if he's good looking, right? At the end of the day, beauty and sex is something that can be capitalized on, and all of us are capable of selling ourselves physically to a certain extent - if not for money but maybe for better treatment and perks. We all do it to a certain degree, I think.

 

To be a full blown-moneyboy, however, it's simply a matter of cost. How much money would it take to bed you? For some, it's only 200 dollars for a happy ending session, and for others - it's much more (not that everyone can get the price they want - haha).

 

At the end of the day, all of us are human and therefore pulled to make certain choices. Becoming a moneyboy results from the convergence of extreme poverty and youth. Some of us never have to make that choice because of our education opportunities/socioeconomic background. Others are not young enough/good-looking enough to make real money from it.

 

But nonetheless, like anything, I feel like there is lots of exploitation but it happens in varying degrees. Some client-moneyboy relationships can be relatively healthy and win-win, but others are downright abusive. At the end of the day, we shouldn't demonize moneyboys - because all of us, put into specific circumstances, are capable of making the same choices.

 

And we shouldn't demonize people who use moneyboys or feel guilty for using them either. It's fine to engage and pay for sex but you have to realize that a human being is on the other side of the transaction.

 

So my points:

1. We all sell ourselves to a certain extent

2. If given specific circumstances, all of us are capable of becoming moneyboys

3. Prostitution is not innately a bad thing; however, there is unfortunately, lots of instances of abuse (on both sides)

[Dashy_Boy]

At the end of the day, people in sex industry provide necessary service, right? Without sex workers, we wouldn't have porn to watch, go go boys at clubs, etc. But I think everyone, to a certain extent, sells sex especially if they are attractive. Even someone in a "respectable" occupation such as a lawyer or doctor will gain clients if he's good looking, right? At the end of the day, beauty and sex is something that can be capitalized on, and all of us are capable of selling ourselves physically to a certain extent - if not for money but maybe for better treatment and perks. We all do it to a certain degree, I think.

 

To be a full blown-moneyboy, however, it's simply a matter of cost. How much money would it take to bed you? For some, it's only 200 dollars for a happy ending session, and for others - it's much more (not that everyone can get the price they want - haha).

 

At the end of the day, all of us are human and therefore pulled to make certain choices. Becoming a moneyboy results from the convergence of extreme poverty and youth. Some of us never have to make that choice because of our education opportunities/socioeconomic background. Others are not young enough/good-looking enough to make real money from it.

 

But nonetheless, like anything, I feel like there is lots of exploitation but it happens in varying degrees. Some client-moneyboy relationships can be relatively healthy and win-win, but others are downright abusive. At the end of the day, we shouldn't demonize moneyboys - because all of us, put into specific circumstances, are capable of making the same choices.

 

And we shouldn't demonize people who use moneyboys or feel guilty for using them either. It's fine to engage and pay for sex but you have to realize that a human being is on the other side of the transaction.

 

So my points:

1. We all sell ourselves to a certain extent

2. If given specific circumstances, all of us are capable of becoming moneyboys

3. Prostitution is not innately a bad thing; however, there is unfortunately, lots of instances of abuse (on both sides)

Thanks for your views muddywill. An eye opener for me Yup definitely had no intention of promoting or bad mouthing people who sells sex for money.

[snowball]

坦言, 我不鼓励, 但也不想要以主观的态度来批评或说教,

这行(如果能称之为职业)的寿命不长, 人的青春有限,

再来就是, 可能你会接触到很多人, 而这些人可能是你的贵人,

更多时候, 是断送你将来的人。

我们是否会因此而永远抬不起头, 让人耻笑, 给家人带来蒙羞?

这些问题不可不考虑, 不要因一时的冲动, 换来一生的遗憾。

[Dashy_Boy]

坦言, 我不鼓励, 但也不想要以主观的态度来批评或说教,

这行(如果能称之为职业)的寿命不长, 人的青春有限,

再来就是, 可能你会接触到很多人, 而这些人可能是你的贵人,

更多时候, 是断送你将来的人。

我们是否会因此而永远抬不起头, 让人耻笑, 给家人带来蒙羞?

这些问题不可不考虑, 不要因一时的冲动, 换来一生的遗憾。

Alright true i agree the last part. Do not do things that you would regret later... thanks

[EasleyLim]

Q4:Do you think this line of work (money boy) is sustainable in Singapore in times to come?

Don't know what kind of members loiter around in blowing wind, their brains are fill with mush.Over 75% think it is sustainable selling bodies on a long term basis?

Really? Locals think like that? Or just transition foreigners from third world regions capitalising on Sg strong currency instead? Go and learn a skill and get a decent job,no one can made a career out of prostitution.

 

And yet, prostitution has survived through countless empires and still exists today. Selling of sexual favours is anything but unsustainable.

[rotikawin]

Its not sustainable for an individual. But as an industry or trade, year 3013, 4013 who knows, money boys will b hopping from space stations to space stations. Press of a button. Wala! your MB will arrive in your bed, teleported from planet xyz.

[EasleyLim]

I interpreted that qns as asking the industry rather than individual. So now the qns is, did Paul phrase the question wrongly or dis RA fail his comprehension.

[Dashy_Boy]

Its not sustainable for an individual. But as an industry or trade, year 3013, 4013 who knows, money boys will b hopping from space stations to space stations. Press of a button. Wala! your MB will arrive in your bed, teleported from planet xyz.

Wow that sounds kinky money boy from another planet xD

[Dashy_Boy]

I interpreted that qns as asking the industry rather than individual. So now the qns is, did Paul phrase the question wrongly or dis RA fail his comprehension.

Both ways EasleyLim Just wondering as a whole and as individual what do you think lor

[EasleyLim]

Then my stance is as rotikawin's. Unsustainable for the individual but very sustainable as an industry.

[Dashy_Boy]

Then my stance is as rotikawin's. Unsustainable for the individual but very sustainable as an industry.

That's kinda ironic as a stand alone statement don't you think? I believe there's some deeper vicious cycle in the money boy world that we all have yet to see... i wonder...

[EasleyLim]

That's kinda ironic as a stand alone statement don't you think? I believe there's some deeper vicious cycle in the money boy world that we all have yet to see... i wonder...

Despite the high turnover rates, there's very little barriers to entry to this industry. That's one of the reason why it's sustainable, I think.

[Lovensick]

Wonder if Ass and Cock cannot take too much actions, thus the pay is not well, then what about Pussy? Vagina can take more heat thus the female sex worker earns more than money boy? Does a female prostitute have a better career option than a money boy?

 

Perhaps it all comes down to the question: What's the difference between straight prostitutions, a very well established industry around the world, versus gay prostitutions? Gay market is at early stage, is developing, and needless to say it will soon or has already adopted the straights business model... Apart from that, I see no difference honestly...

 

No one needs to worry about the industry, it will strive for all we know because that's how the supply and demand go... On top of that, Singapore is the richest country among the world, and has a healthy population of gay (and bi and curious and whatnot) riches to start with...

 

Oh and to draw parallel between straight and gay business, many straight female sex workers too can get emotionally involved, constantly looking for sugar daddies, even settle down with one of their customer (as a mistress and whatnot) so they get better life... they say straight female and gay male have similar brain configurations no?

Edited October 22, 2013 by Lovensick

[Guest alispenn]

Supposedly, there is a society for the welfare of sex-workers in Hong Kong. My biggest reservation against the workers has been the "anaesthetic" I assumed they injected themselves with, when so intimate an act became a means for income. Sort of reminds me of the selective amnesia I practised over the years. And there is no sorrow greater than the Death of Heart.

[TheVisitors]

Moral aside,how can a man earn a sizable income compare to a woman in professional sex worker line?

Going by market rate in order to hit above 4k range one asshole will be pulverise beyond repair if you are a bottom and cock will blister and drop if you are a top.

Not to mention the emotional aspect of handling diverse clients group when it come to lovemaking, one is exposing his body to a wide range of disease and warts etc.

Try full time for two years even Adonis will become hades.

Not really true

 

A close friend of mine knows the owner of rentboy.com

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Browse/Results.aspx?cache=1661091&page=1&locid=1167

 

 

From what he gathered from the owner, the hot guys who are highly demanded can fetch as much as 10 to 12k per month

 

As for those PRC ones you see in Chinatown, the upper end ones can earn as 8k monthly.

 

So why do you think they are here?

 

 

Another  friend of mine who has the looks and bod, due to financial burden, work as a massuer on weekends

 

The weekend tips alone, Saturday and Sunday, can be as much as $800 for two days work

Edited October 22, 2013 by TheVisitors

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Not really true

A close friend of mine knows the owner of rentboy.com

http://www.rentboy.com/Browse/Results.aspx?cache=1661091&page=1&locid=1167

From what he gathered from the owner, the hot guys who are highly demanded can fetch as much as 10 to 12k per month

As for those PRC ones you see in Chinatown, the upper end ones can earn as 8k monthly.

So why do you think they are here?

Another friend of mine who has the looks and bod, due to financial burden, work as a massuer on weekends

The weekend tips alone, Saturday and Sunday, can be as much as $800 for two days work

Even so it is also largely in part attribute to the pimps/touts (for some) to get a regular client base for the boys I suppose?

As for those chinatown PRC boys,going by the market rates it should be no problem hitting 3k-5k per month if they ply their trade daily for as long as their visa can allow them which should be a couple of months?Those 8k and above ones must be extremely top end and customers are above average spenders.

All in all it still doesn't change the fact that male prostitution cannot be seen as sustainable or a life long career for an individual.The vessel simply can't take it.

Even being a prostitute in Singapore,foreigners have a head start than locals because they can capitalise on the extremely favourable currency exchange and work on a few months rest few months work basis to allow their bodies and health to heal. Local money boys who live and spend here cannot convert their hard earn money like their foreign counterparts into multiples value and slowly nibble off their cash in low cost cities.

I feel like crying for Singaporeans.

People of all professions see you in 2016 lah.

Tired very tired of this nonsense inflation here already...

Edited October 22, 2013 by Raiden Alpha

[gstc82]

Even so it is also largely in part attribute to the pimps/touts (for some) to get a regular client base for the boys I suppose?

As for those chinatown PRC boys,going by the market rates it should be no problem hitting 3k-5k if they ply their trade daily for as long as their visa can allow them which should be a couple of months?Those 8k and above ones must be extremely top end and customers are above average spenders.

All in all it still doesn't change the fact that male prostitution can be seen as sustainable or a life long career for an individual.The vessel simply can't take it.

Even being a prostitute in Singapore,foreigners have a head start than locals because they can capitalise on the extremely favourable currency exchange and work on a few months rest few months work basis to allow their bodies and health to heal. Local money boys who live and spend here cannot convert their hard earn money like their foreign counterparts into multiples value and slowly nibble off their cash in low cost cities.

I feel like crying for Singaporeans.

People of all professions see you in 2016 lah.

Tired very tired of this nonsense inflation here already...

Lol. Even this you.blame the govt. Why bothe. We 2016 when u want Singapore to give up its sovereign.

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

Lol. Even this you.blame the govt. Why bothe. We 2016 when u want Singapore to give up its sovereign.

The biggest problem here in Singapore today is what one earn is not equable to what one output (入不敷出). You see the classic pattern emerging in all lines and topic by now? As long as you work and spend here it doesn't matter whether you are a low income earner or a well pay worker,the outcome is the same.

There are ways to counter off this system by some by thinking out of the box but it is a small exclusive gentlemen club. They won't pass on the knowledge because they too will go under if it become widespread public knowledge.

That's is why I'm always so pain and wretched because I want everyone to have a equal chance in life.

Mods I hope you understand this is not a flaming match nor is it a anti government article. This is more of a highlight of an important social issue that affect everyone of all walks of life here. Let it stay instead of deleting it,let the young ones think and have a fighting chance in their own home please.

给国人一个机会深思和一条活路吧

[EasleyLim]

The biggest problem here in Singapore today is what one earn is not equable to what one output (入不敷出). You see the classic pattern emerging in all lines and topic by now? As long as you work and spend here it doesn't matter whether you are a low income earner or a well pay worker,the outcome is the same.

There are ways to counter off this system by some by thinking out of the box but it is a small exclusive gentlemen club. They won't pass on the knowledge because they too will go under if it become widespread public knowledge.

That's is why I'm always so pain and wretched because I want everyone to have a equal chance in life.

Mods I hope you understand this is not a flaming match nor is it a anti government article. This is more of a highlight of an important social issue that affect everyone of all walks of life here. Let it stay instead of deleting it,let the young ones think and have a fighting chance in their own home please.

给国人一个机会深思和一条活路吧

 

This is one of the effect of capitalism. Not PAP's fault. 

[snowball]

“孝、悌、忠、信、礼、义、廉、耻” 本是做人的根本,

但今时今日, 几人会理会, 实践。

崇洋媚外的现代人, 反而认为是封建社会的道德标准和规范,

在金钱挂帅的时代, 道德能当饭吃吗?

反正英雄不问出生, 人生短短几十年,

只有享乐才重要, 有钱就是一切, 有几个人不是这么想的?

走途径, 用最轻松的方法赚大钱, 难道有错吗?

人的际遇不同, 人各有志。

[Lovensick]

嫖娼之類的歷史悠久, 在中國史上地位非凡, 那古中國人可也崇洋媚外了?

 

差別只是古代人鄙視賣身的, 對嫖妓的則心照不宣, 也不如何過問, 最好把課題給埋到地底下... 現代人更願意同情賣身的, 更願意公開討論這些課題...

[snowball]

嫖娼之類的歷史悠久, 在中國史上地位非凡, 那古中國人可也崇洋媚外了?

差別只是古代人鄙視賣身的, 對嫖妓的則心照不宣, 也不如何過問, 最好把課題給埋到地底下... 現代人更願意同情賣身的, 更願意公開討論這些課題...

崇洋媚外慈禧不是最经典的代表人物吗?

人非圣贤, 不可能是不食人间烟火,

俗人就做俗人该做的事吧, 所以才说人各有志, 各走各路。

Edited October 22, 2013 by snowball

[snowball]

卖家也得有买家这宗生意才能成立,

各得其所各得所需, 皆大欢喜。

[Dashy_Boy]

Ahbish to my 2 fellow peeps. Haha back to the topics yeah? That question was just a one off take-a-step-back question to see the industry as a whole in Singapore first, the prostitution industry, and the specific gay prostitution line.

 

I'm actually at first very curious and how one's experience with a money boy first and then their view of his line.

 

I've come across a few myself and to be honest other than me fantasizing about them, i wondered what they do in their free time?

[Angelix]

I won't do it because I find it difficult to have sex with whom I have no sexual interest in. Plus, I feel insulted if someone pays me for sex.

[snowball]

别以为卖肉的人就是没学问之人, 我认识几个,

可都是大学毕业生, 知识份子。

现在可不比以前, 除了样貌,

你最好还必需多懂一些专业知识才能"脱颖而出"

应付不同阶级的人士。

[Dashy_Boy]

别以为卖肉的人就是没学问之人, 我认识几个,

可都是大学毕业生, 知识份子。

现在可不比以前, 除了样貌,

你最好还必需多懂一些专业知识才能"脱颖而出"

应付不同阶级的人士。

Haha i never despise them la. Only curious.

[Guest snowball]

你只是个代名词, 不是真的指你, 哈哈

[Respell19]

This one is call ONG.

[Dashy_Boy]

This one is call ONG.

Sorry wad is ONG?