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I do not need money boys.  There are those who are good companions but can do with some extra cash as their income is not that high.  And I am happy to help them. And we meet again and again.  There is a continuity and not just commercial sex.

 

But not every companion needs a hand-out.  Many are earning well.  An occasional meal will be enough of a gesture. Or a small sourvenir from overseas.

 

Share when you can.  And make it free and easy. 

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chubby. i'm one and i love to try one.

anyway i have no interest going for a bareback.

Haha there weren't any question about bareback just fyi... That's based on personal choice whether you wanna protect yourself anot. Anyways thanks for your views!

 

 

I do not need money boys.  There are those who are good companions but can do with some extra cash as their income is not that high.  And I am happy to help them. And we meet again and again.  There is a continuity and not just commercial sex.

 

But not every companion needs a hand-out.  Many are earning well.  An occasional meal will be enough of a gesture. Or a small sourvenir from overseas.

 

Share when you can.  And make it free and easy. 

Okay... i mean so for those whom you wanna help financially? like those not so well to do. Do you give them some dough?

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I think there are many types of money boys (I think GachiMachi wrote about it earlier) and I think they each have their own reason(s) for doing it.

 

I have friends who do it not because they really needed the money but simply because they want to get some side dough (aka more pocket money to buy whatever) on top of satisfying their own urges, while I also have friends who do it because they are not well to do and really need the moolah. Whatever the case, most of them seem pretty happy though (I think!).

 

I personally think being a money boy is potentially unsafe because one never knows what may happen once the two parties are alone in an apartment and there's always the chance of contracting STDs and/or HIV - especially if the clients are stealthing...

 

My two-cents.

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The biggest problem here in Singapore today is what one earn is not equable to what one output (入不敷出). You see the classic pattern emerging in all lines and topic by now? As long as you work and spend here it doesn't matter whether you are a low income earner or a well pay worker,the outcome is the same.

There are ways to counter off this system by some by thinking out of the box but it is a small exclusive gentlemen club. They won't pass on the knowledge because they too will go under if it become widespread public knowledge.

That's is why I'm always so pain and wretched because I want everyone to have a equal chance in life.

Mods I hope you understand this is not a flaming match nor is it a anti government article. This is more of a highlight of an important social issue that affect everyone of all walks of life here. Let it stay instead of deleting it,let the young ones think and have a fighting chance in their own home please.

给国人一个机会深思和一条活路吧

 

wow really like that also can? Why not you ask the prostitute to go the China to work? would it be better? at least Singaporeans can earn their money here and travel overseas to enjoy

And blaming it on inflation? Which place in the world is not subjected to inflation? which country is better? I've heard in some countries, they earn SGD10 a session hence they want to come Singapore.

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sometimes, even you are not money boy, when you are at sauna or those gay scenes , if they like you and they know that you are not keen, they would use money to pay just to have sex with you, personally, i felt that it is very insulting and i won't even bother to talk to those people.

really? If he keep increasing price, don't u feel tempted ?

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moneyboys are convenient. i love them.

they don't ask much - just want u to pay for whatever service u want from them. they are happy that i am fit and goodlooking. i am happy that the ones i choose are fit and cute too. and i can ram them any way i want, they take it like a man. at the end of the day, they get what they want n i get what i want.

people want to judge, go ahead. my time is more precious than money. no need to waste it on ugly locals who want to play hard to get. i just want to fuck, get it over and done with, and so do they. period. 

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moneyboys are convenient. i love them.

they don't ask much - just want u to pay for whatever service u want from them. they are happy that i am fit and goodlooking. i am happy that the ones i choose are fit and cute too. and i can ram them any way i want, they take it like a man. at the end of the day, they get what they want n i get what i want.

people want to judge, go ahead. my time is more precious than money. no need to waste it on ugly locals who want to play hard to get. i just want to fuck, get it over and done with, and so do they. period. 

Since you invite others to judge you, I will.

You come across as a pervert and selfish person but otherwise harmless. What goes around comes around. You are exposing yourself to extreme possibilities of getting sexual diseases. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole.

I have met a few of your straight equivalent. They smell terrible from the diseases till finally even their faces got distorted.

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Since you invite others to judge you, I will.

You come across as a pervert and selfish person but otherwise harmless. What goes around comes around. You are exposing yourself to extreme possibilities of getting sexual diseases. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole.

I have met a few of your straight equivalent. They smell terrible from the diseases till finally even their faces got distorted.

 

thanks for your extremely judgmental response, with sweeping statements and baseless assumptions nonetheless. fyi, money boys take more precautions than the average singaporean who goes for hookups - they know they are just as exposed as anyone with multiple sex partners. in addition, they choose who to fuck with, they don't go along with just about anyone with money. don't be surprised if they reject u (wait, from your bitter response, have YOU been rejected?). 

oh, and thanks for using a guest account to post. bravo. super courageous of you :)

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thanks for your extremely judgmental response, with sweeping statements and baseless assumptions nonetheless. fyi, money boys take more precautions than the average singaporean who goes for hookups - they know they are just as exposed as anyone with multiple sex partners. in addition, they choose who to fuck with, they don't go along with just about anyone with money. don't be surprised if they reject u (wait, from your bitter response, have YOU been rejected?).

oh, and thanks for using a guest account to post. bravo. super courageous of you :)

Contentious as he may sound, I largely agree with P_Drinker. While I personally don't use money boys, I understand the rationale in doing so and the the rationale's justified. See it from another angle for eg. in scoring with fellow locals, you may have to pay more than just money and risk more than just having good clean fun, since it's a tiny place here, everyone knows almost everyone else and thus, all the implications apply. How do they say it again, different strokes for different folks? It's such an evocative idiom, isn't it? I swear it must have emerged from our camp.

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It’s true. Hunting for men is so exhausting, I wish I could pay a recruiter to do it let alone deal with getting ghosted, catfished or being rejected.

 

An MB is invaluable for anyone who doesn’t fit beauty standards and still wants to feel pleasure so I’m all for it.

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On 1/1/2022 at 2:40 PM, Guest Sham691 said:

Nah. Why still need to pay if you can get it for free from any member here

Because you don't have to waste time chatting and making useless small talk only to find out he has a 3 inch cock that lasted 2 mins before he shoots. I'm just so tired of meeting these micro dicks that thinks they're god given.

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On 1/1/2022 at 12:01 PM, Guest not satisfied said:

Because you don't have to waste time chatting and making useless small talk only to find out he has a 3 inch cock that lasted 2 mins before he shoots. I'm just so tired of meeting these micro dicks that thinks they're god given.

 

Move away from anal sex and you won't have to worry about dick size, and  instead change over to enjoying gorgeous bodies.

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The only reason I would get a money boy is after a long day of hard work, I just wanted to be treated well. A massage, some attention with no fuss and temperament. After all, why mess up your day with hook ups that might or might not spoil your day? Seriously, the less stress, the more fuss free the better. Why settle for half past six flings when you can get a decent night of pampering with money.

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The indigent may have to go to a soup kitchen where all they get to eat is what they are served.

 

How much would they love to go with money to a food store or fine restaurant and buy the most delicious foods they like!

I used a money boy once in my long life,  and it was... delicious.

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Had a MB from China from Shandong province.  A model and quite good looking with nice well developed bidy, tall with a long but not thick tool. Had a good time with him. He will contact me whenever he comes to SG. Due to covid, not heard from him for the last 2 years. 

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Why pay if you can get it for free from members here?

 

I'm 30, relatively good looking and gym fit.

But I do engage MBs for a few reasons.

 

1. I enjoy getting massages but I always get horny during a massage so I need a HE. 

That's where MBs come in; I enjoy a massage + get a HE too.

 

2. With a hook-up, both parties have to put in the work. With a MB, I don't have to stress over my performance.

I can be super selfish and jus focus on my own desires, not giving a shit whether the MB is enjoying the sex.

 

3. With MB, I can have sex with guys who are generally out of my league.

With hook ups, you tend to only get guys around your level unless you are willing to just service them.

 

So there are many reasons why guys hire MB.

It's not like we can't get laid. Most people, regardless of how ugly you are, can get sex for free.

 

There are just a lot of advantages to getting a MB and if one can afford it, why not.

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I feel theres nothing wrong to be a MB or get a MB. Its all abt sex and money. You want to fulfill your bucket list of sucking a 12 inch cock and if you ever found one, are you waiting for him to fall in love with you or just "take my money" and get your wish come true?

You see the best pointy nipples out there and if he is offering it with some tips, why not? There is only that one chance to seize it. 

Thats my point of view when comes to sex. 

 

If it is love, it is called making love. Having long cock, pointy nips, is a bonus. Not necessarily a must. 

 

So if you had nvr touched a super long cock and you really want to, and say you are about to die, will you pay for it? 

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The older I get, the more I'm fine with finding MBs, and the more I think the derision and mockery of them and the guys who find them are illogical and dumb. 

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I'm 30, relatively good looking and gym fit.

But I do engage MBs for a few reasons.

 

1. I enjoy getting massages but I always get horny during a massage so I need a HE. 

That's where MBs come in; I enjoy a massage + get a HE too.

 

2. With a hook-up, both parties have to put in the work. With a MB, I don't have to stress over my performance.

I can be super selfish and jus focus on my own desires, not giving a shit whether the MB is enjoying the sex.

 

3. With MB, I can have sex with guys who are generally out of my league.

With hook ups, you tend to only get guys around your level unless you are willing to just service them.

 

So there are many reasons why guys hire MB.

It's not like we can't get laid. Most people, regardless of how ugly you are, can get sex for free.

 

There are just a lot of advantages to getting a MB and if one can afford it, why not.

 

I am not a MB, But I like your point 2...

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I'm 30, relatively good looking and gym fit.

But I do engage MBs for a few reasons.

 

1. I enjoy getting massages but I always get horny during a massage so I need a HE. 

That's where MBs come in; I enjoy a massage + get a HE too.

 

2. With a hook-up, both parties have to put in the work. With a MB, I don't have to stress over my performance.

I can be super selfish and jus focus on my own desires, not giving a shit whether the MB is enjoying the sex.

 

3. With MB, I can have sex with guys who are generally out of my league.

With hook ups, you tend to only get guys around your level unless you are willing to just service them.

 

So there are many reasons why guys hire MB.

It's not like we can't get laid. Most people, regardless of how ugly you are, can get sex for free.

 

There are just a lot of advantages to getting a MB and if one can afford it, why not.

 

It had been attributed to John F. Kennedy this phrase. "I do not pay for sex, I pay for them to go away afterwards."

I think this very much covers the concept of money boys.  No strings attached, have fun and then everyone goes their separate ways. 

 

I like your reasons for engaging a money boy.  It makes sense and it is a pure financial arrangement. 

 

I know where will be people who hope that their relationship with the money boy may turn into real love.  While that may happen, I think it is a rare occasion that it does.  Those who engage the services of money boys and dream of having a genuine relationship with them will end up being genuinely disenchanted and be genuinely disappointed.

 

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Yeah very true lol. If you put in enough effort can usually get some free fun but sometimes you just don't have the time to look look n filter. Especially when I'm travelling I only have a few days so mbs are great. But I do like to find those who can at least have a conversation... Just having a great face/body is not enough.. If they're boring af that's no fun.

 

 

 

I'm 30, relatively good looking and gym fit.

But I do engage MBs for a few reasons.

 

1. I enjoy getting massages but I always get horny during a massage so I need a HE. 

That's where MBs come in; I enjoy a massage + get a HE too.

 

2. With a hook-up, both parties have to put in the work. With a MB, I don't have to stress over my performance.

I can be super selfish and jus focus on my own desires, not giving a shit whether the MB is enjoying the sex.

 

3. With MB, I can have sex with guys who are generally out of my league.

With hook ups, you tend to only get guys around your level unless you are willing to just service them.

 

So there are many reasons why guys hire MB.

It's not like we can't get laid. Most people, regardless of how ugly you are, can get sex for free.

 

There are just a lot of advantages to getting a MB and if one can afford it, why not.

 

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Personally, I have nothing against sex workers or money boys in this case. I admit when I was younger, I was much more judgemental and think that there must seriously be something wrong with you if you need to sell yourself for money. Over time, I have come to be less judgemental about it and learned that it is just a business transaction between two willing and consenting adults.

 

I know of a number of successful straight guys who hire prostitutes or escorts. One of the reasons they do so besides wanting to get laid, is they don't want to waste time. In a typical scenario, they might have to spend time getting to know a woman, going to a restaurant/bar, etc. and they might not get laid. So rather than wasting time on a 50% gamble, they just hire a professional to ensure a 100% success rate of getting laid.

 

In the gay world, hiring a money boy would more or less be the same. Instead of wasting time scrolling through Grindr or some other hook up apps, you pay for the guy you like. Realistically, since it is a financial transaction, the rejection would be a lot less, unless he is busy. 

 

I do not think there is anything wrong with being a money boy. Your looks and physique is not going to last forever. If someone is willing to pay for your looks and your time, by all means, go for it. Just know that it is a good side hustle and not a career path. 

Love. 

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Like so many guys here have said, it's a business transaction between two willing adults. I have been using money boys for awhile now and I agree with what a lot of guys here say. I just want to have sex with a hot guy where I can focus on my needs. If the money boy is good and knows how to service me well, I'm always happy to use him again and I have actually gotten to be somewhat friends with them. I of course realise that this is a transaction, but in many ways, between so open and upfront about it makes both parties chill and relaxed with each other. 

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If you are the type who can detach himself from the other partner, emotionally, yes.

 

There are plenty of guys who (often being in certain positions that we somehow consider VIP) tend to employ money boys, but more due to privacy reasons.

Could be also that they are married but gay and want to play when overseas and nothing spills outside. You won't get any message later or any requests to meet again.

 

While the majority who hire moneyboys might have only low market value in finding a suitable guy, it is something as a means to get laid.

Talk to them, you would be surprised on the clientele that in majority hires them.

 

Nothing against it, if the arrangement is clear.

 

But personally, I still prefer the social attachment and also the possibility to do other social things with dates, instead of just hiring someone for a more less mechanical act.

 

 

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Actually, I have a question which some (eventually MBs) are able to reply:

 

Why is the amount of top role MBs much higher ( I would say 80%) than on bottom MBs?

 

Is there any answer, reason, background?

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On 3/12/2024 at 3:22 AM, singalion said:

If you are the type who can detach himself from the other partner, emotionally, yes.

 

There are plenty of guys who (often being in certain positions that we somehow consider VIP) tend to employ money boys, but more due to privacy reasons.

Could be also that they are married but gay and want to play when overseas and nothing spills outside. You won't get any message later or any requests to meet again.

 

While the majority who hire moneyboys might have only low market value in finding a suitable guy, it is something as a means to get laid.

Talk to them, you would be surprised on the clientele that in majority hires them.

 

Nothing against it, if the arrangement is clear.

 

But personally, I still prefer the social attachment and also the possibility to do other social things with dates, instead of just hiring someone for a more less mechanical act.

 

 

I also don't have many arguments to condemn prostitution.  Neither the prostitute nor his/her client.

 

I wish that one day there will be easy ways to protect from all STDs.  This will make the decision easier.  About the amount of the transaction,  I don't see why the role top or bottom should make much of a difference. Instead, it would make sense to have a variable rate that depends on the "desirability" of the client.  But this is difficult to do without hurting some feelings...

 

There might be an excessive concern about sharing one's body, to be touched.  STDs aside, one should not have to be so reserved.  The main condition for commercial sex is that it should be voluntary. 

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I have paid MB for overnight whenever I m in bkk.

I came across 2 MB previously who are married and working this just for the money. They fxxk me till I cum and they just proceed to wash up without even cumming themselves. Don't expect them to talk love with you because their job is to help release your horniness. 

I have also met a professional 1 who fxxk me so passionate and took off his condom and ejaculated onto my chest.

 

In SG, I have paid 1 I met in tinder. He is a local student in a local uni. Out to earn fast money to get branded stuff for himself and his gf.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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On 8/23/2023 at 6:57 PM, Sirfalas said:

Yeah very true lol. If you put in enough effort can usually get some free fun but sometimes you just don't have the time to look look n filter. Especially when I'm travelling I only have a few days so mbs are great. But I do like to find those who can at least have a conversation... Just having a great face/body is not enough.. If they're boring af that's no fun.

 

 

i have always fancy hiring MB when i travel but afraid of diseases. Am i having too much concern?

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18 hours ago, blowmenow said:

i have always fancy hiring MB when i travel but afraid of diseases. Am i having too much concern?

 

Typical Singaporean.  Want to do stuffs but always scared.

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On 3/25/2024 at 1:34 AM, blowmenow said:

i have always fancy hiring MB when i travel but afraid of diseases. Am i having too much concern?

 

Why should a MB overseas having more diseases than a local Singaporean?

 

The thing is up to your protection.

If you use condoms, then what's the issue.

If you don't you should be on prep.

 

You can contract STDs also from usual casual sex partners (local or from overseas).

 

On a note, your post may me misunderstood that you are saying that foreigners have less sexual hygiene than locals.

 

MBs are interested in the money and if you insist on a condom, they will surely comply.

 

If you a scared in general, then stay away from sex at all.

 

 

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Probably not statistically significant, but just wistful about this anecdote:

A closeted friend who has never cruised, but only hired MB a few times to get laid, contracted chlamydia very quickly.

I told him it was a higher risk option he chose to only play with MBs. Why not try and make friends locally and maybe find a fwb if dont want to get attached.

Was it ill advised to say that?

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On 3/28/2024 at 12:00 AM, Guest trustissues said:

Probably not statistically significant, but just wistful about this anecdote:

A closeted friend who has never cruised, but only hired MB a few times to get laid, contracted chlamydia very quickly.

I told him it was a higher risk option he chose to only play with MBs. Why not try and make friends locally and maybe find a fwb if dont want to get attached.

Was it ill advised to say that?

 

Based oh how you described your friend, I would say Friend is deeply closeted, and perhaps due to various circumstances, would prefer to keep being anonymous in the gay scene.  In this case, it would be against Friend's instinct to have fwb - so Friend's logical option for a no strings attached release would be to hire a Money Boy. 

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On 3/28/2024 at 12:00 AM, Guest trustissues said:

Probably not statistically significant, but just wistful about this anecdote:

A closeted friend who has never cruised, but only hired MB a few times to get laid, contracted chlamydia very quickly.

I told him it was a higher risk option he chose to only play with MBs. Why not try and make friends locally and maybe find a fwb if dont want to get attached.

Was it ill advised to say that?

 

As Chlamydia can be transmitted per oral sex, I don't give much on whether it was transmitted by a MB.

 

I also don't believe guys who tell me they just MBs. I'v seen so many "closeted/ discreet" guys overseas... fucking around.

 

At KL or BKK you get cruised by so many Singaporeans, who pretend to be closeted, some not sharing pics etc but ask you to come over to their hotel etc.

 

If you engage in sex, any STD can be transmitted by anyone. Incubation period is different for everyone also. You might not be able to relate to the person who actually infected you.

 

Some people always claim they had sex yesterday and 3 hours later they already have rashes on their dick or anus...

 

Don't blame the STD on someone if you don't know.

 

Oh and last point: I love those posts with this "a friend of mine" storyline... 🤣

 

 

Certain MBs are actually bisexual or married (and just run out of money, in particular those from Indonesia), they test regularly just to be safe to their wife.

 

While I am still far out of the age to hire MBs (ha ha) I sometimes chat with them, also at certain points you can meet them in bars etc, ...

 

One of my previous hotels was at Jalan Pudu in KL and the MBs share hotel rooms in those cheap budget places and were sitting mostly in the cafes, teh tarik joints just outside, if you are easygoing they would talk to you. I gained a lot of knowledge on their type of doing business.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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