All About Hiv / Aids Discussion + I Suspect I Might Have Hiv Symptoms + Hiv Medication Prep + I Tested Positive (Compiled)

[Guest need some advice]

I am 21 and bi-curious and could not find any others. He had a big dick also which made me want to mutual J.O. only with him. Had no intentions of sucking him or him sucking me

[Guest guest12]

I am 21 and bi-curious and could not find any others. He had a big dick also which made me want to mutual J.O. only with him. Had no intentions of sucking him or him sucking me

when u r high u can't thinks my fren.

dun worry,just dun let it happen again.

play safe my fren..

[Guest Need some advice]

It won't happen again. Once bitten, twice shy. I am more worried about the HIV part. Any advise?

[Guest guest12]

It won't happen again. Once bitten, twice shy. I am more worried about the HIV part. Any advise?

From wat i noe:

as long there no blood contact with the cum nothing will happen..

if u r still worry go for check up..

[Guest need some advice]

I heard that HIV can only be transmitted via blood, sexual intercourse or 1 more way. Cannot remember what it is. Does it mean that his saliva touching my dick is quite safe? My penis has no cuts/sores as I was washing it just now with soap and had no pain from the soap while washing

[Guest guest12]

I heard that HIV can only be transmitted via blood, sexual intercourse or 1 more way. Cannot remember what it is. Does it mean that his saliva touching my dick is quite safe? My penis has no cuts/sores as I was washing it just now with soap and had no pain from the soap while washing

u r rite,dun worry...

btw is tis the first time u let ppl wank for u??

[Guest Need some advice]

by the way, are there any good websites regarding HIV/STI that i can read on?

If i want to go for testing where can I go? Will it be very awkward while waiting for your turn as everyone else is waiting for their turn also?

[Guest need some advice]

u r rite,dun worry...

btw is tis the first time u let ppl wank for u??

yes... its my first time... i am bi-curious... i want to have a girlfriend/wife but i also wanted to see and touch how another guy's penis felt like. Wanted to feel how it feels like to jerk off each other I really hope there's nothing... but in case there's something... for HIV/STI what are the typical symptoms?

[Guest guest12]

by the way, are there any good websites regarding HIV/STI that i can read on?

If i want to go for testing where can I go? Will it be very awkward while waiting for your turn as everyone else is waiting for their turn also?

jackinworld.com

just go for full body check up,should be ok!

[Guest guest12]

yes... its my first time... i am bi-curious... i want to have a girlfriend/wife but i also wanted to see and touch how another guy's penis felt like. Wanted to feel how it feels like to jerk off each other I really hope there's nothing... but in case there's something... for HIV/STI what are the typical symptoms?

i not very sure,but you can check from the website i gave...

So u have try liao then wat u feel???

where is the place?

[Guest Need some advice]

jackinworld.com

just go for full body check up,should be ok!

where can i go for it?

[Guest need some advice]

i not very sure,but you can check from the website i gave...

So u have try liao then wat u feel???

where is the place?

It sure felt good but i felt so, so guilty after that

[Guest LW]

you can go for your STI or HIV check up at DSC at kelantan lane. Here is the websites: DSC

If you are going for just HIV test, try this one: AFA

Lastly, you can always said no firmly to the uncle if you don't want he to suck you. If he keep on insist, just leave lor.

[Guest Need some advice]

is there any STI that i can get from saliva?

[MobyDick]

Wow.. didn't know DSC can check Straits Times Index now U will probably get STD/HIV from blowjob but the risk is relatively low. Nonetheless, low risk does not imply no risk. Have fun and be safe.

[Guest arc]

Ok, regarding to your questions, the answer is don't worry too much about it. The chances of transmitting HIV through saliva is none, unless you have cuts on your penis and he's spitting out blood. If not, then you're safe. Don't worry.

As for other STI, the chances are quite low too (same reason as above, no cuts on your penis, and he didn't spit blood ) To answer your question, yes there are STI that can be transmitted via saliva. But unless you have cuts / sores in your mouth during kissing, you'll be safe. Same rule apply when the guy licked off the cum on your dick.

The guilt you have, it's just from doing something different for the first time. Don't dwell too much on it, just chalk it up to experience. At least now you know how it feels like. As for whether you are going to do it again with other people in the future, you can figure that out on your own

If you do decide to go for screening just to reassure yourself, remember there's window period of 3-6 months before the test can be considered accurate. But anyway, don't worry about it too much. Just enjoy yourself and do what makes you happy.

[Guest Meow]

yes... its my first time... i am bi-curious... i want to have a girlfriend/wife but i also wanted to see and touch how another guy's penis felt like. Wanted to feel how it feels like to jerk off each other I really hope there's nothing... but in case there's something... for HIV/STI what are the typical symptoms?

So which is better, sea cucumber or abalone? - Old but still curious

[rotikawin]

To "need some advice",

I always think its better to seek help/advice from professionals, give DSC/AFA helpline a call, rather than through forums where anyone can post and give misleading "advices".

If your partner is HIV positive and has severe gum bleeding, blood enters the saliva, and if you have a cut on your penis, it can potentially infect you, so the chances is small, but not zero.

I do not want to be the 0.0001% who got infected through this route, do you?

There are a couple of STI's that can be transmitted through unprotected oral sex, call DSC/AFA to know more.

[rotikawin]

anyone can post and give misleading "advices".

BTW that anyone includes myself

[Guest need some advice]

To "need some advice",

I always think its better to seek help/advice from professionals, give DSC/AFA helpline a call, rather than through forums where anyone can post and give misleading "advices".

If your partner is HIV positive and has severe gum bleeding, blood enters the saliva, and if you have a cut on your penis, it can potentially infect you, so the chances is small, but not zero.

I do not want to be the 0.0001% who got infected through this route, do you?

There are a couple of STI's that can be transmitted through unprotected oral sex, call DSC/AFA to know more.

thank you so much! i feel much more at ease. will keep a lookout for any symptoms for the weeks to come.

[Guest Need some advice]

Ok, regarding to your questions, the answer is don't worry too much about it. The chances of transmitting HIV through saliva is none, unless you have cuts on your penis and he's spitting out blood. If not, then you're safe. Don't worry.

As for other STI, the chances are quite low too (same reason as above, no cuts on your penis, and he didn't spit blood ) To answer your question, yes there are STI that can be transmitted via saliva. But unless you have cuts / sores in your mouth during kissing, you'll be safe. Same rule apply when the guy licked off the cum on your dick.

The guilt you have, it's just from doing something different for the first time. Don't dwell too much on it, just chalk it up to experience. At least now you know how it feels like. As for whether you are going to do it again with other people in the future, you can figure that out on your own

If you do decide to go for screening just to reassure yourself, remember there's window period of 3-6 months before the test can be considered accurate. But anyway, don't worry about it too much. Just enjoy yourself and do what makes you happy.

yes... now i feel much more at ease and know what i want

[Guest need some advice]

So which is better, sea cucumber or abalone? - Old but still curious

have not tried abalone... for now .. my own sea cucumber is still better than others

[Guest Ah Beng]

Wow.. didn't know DSC can check Straits Times Index now U will probably get STD/HIV from blowjob but the risk is relatively low. Nonetheless, low risk does not imply no risk. Have fun and be safe.

Hi Moby, he is not wrong to use STI.

STI as used in the report in Shitty Times :

THE sharp rise in young people getting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be attributed to several factors, said the DSC Clinic's head and senior consultant, Dr Tan Hiok Hee.

Hope this clears.

[Guest guest 1]

Which urinal did u met him?

[Guest osrich]

Have any of you encountered people with HIV?

If he is honest enough to reveal his condition to you before you both jump into bed, would you still "jump" in?

For HIV guys who reveals your condition before sex, how often do you get accepted and proceeded with the act?

[junxiang]

Have any of you encountered people with HIV?

If he is honest enough to reveal his condition to you before you both jump into bed, would you still "jump" in?

For HIV guys who reveals your condition before sex, how often do you get accepted and proceeded with the act?

if u are aware of his illness and u still go ahead, we would love to hear your reason for doing so.

[slayer]

if u are aware of his illness and u still go ahead, we would love to hear your reason for doing so.

The reasons are plenty... Here's my take...

Being HIV +ve doesn't mean that person should be shunned. If safe sex is in place, both parties can still enjoy the session like any other normal persons would.

I would have respected the person for being courageous enough to tell me. In fact, I would appreciate it even more so that the necessary precautions can be taken.

By having such notions you hold so dearly to, it is not surprising why so many people who are +ve choose not to say anything and even go on to have annonymous sex and risk infecting others with it.

[Guest Guest]

The reasons are plenty... Here's my take...

Being HIV +ve doesn't mean that person should be shunned. If safe sex is in place, both parties can still enjoy the session like any other normal persons would.

I would have respected the person for being courageous enough to tell me. In fact, I would appreciate it even more so that the necessary precautions can be taken.

By having such notions you hold so dearly to, it is not surprising why so many people who are +ve choose not to say anything and even go on to have annonymous sex and risk infecting others with it.

dont make urself sound like an angel. u r dumb if u still carry on having sex w HIV+...probably agreed to the sex coz he is honest and u apathy him lol.

its like before u rape me, tell me u want to rape me and i may be agreeable to let u rape because u r truthful in the first place. haha.

[Guest Duhz]

dont make urself sound like an angel. u r dumb if u still carry on having sex w HIV+...probably agreed to the sex coz he is honest and u apathy him lol.

its like before u rape me, tell me u want to rape me and i may be agreeable to let u rape because u r truthful in the first place. haha.

Then you are equally dumb having sex with anyone, because you don't KNOW their real HIV status.

What you are doing is no different (nor lower risk) than someone who has protected with a HIV+ person.

[Guest Guest]

Then you are equally dumb having sex with anyone, because you don't KNOW their real HIV status.

What you are doing is no different (nor lower risk) than someone who has protected with a HIV+ person.

then you are also one of that "dumb" person lor..you also have had sex before, rite? Besides that, having sex with someone whom we certain HIV+ because he

himself tell us so is dumber than havinng sex with someone we don't KNOW about his HIV status. The first activity I mention is like eating a food which contains toxic and you know about it because the maker of the food have told you, while the second activity is like eating a food you don't know whether is poisonous or not!

[doncoin]

I had encounters with 2 guys who are HIV+. With the right precautions in place, you can still have regular sex with them etc. Being HIV+ does not mean they should be shunned.

The first guy was my ex. He wasn't positive when we started, but long story short, he caught the virus due to work related injuries, as I put it.

The second, is another person I dated.

HIV+ is a traumatic experience initially. However with modern medications, the virus is manageable. Plus with steroids, and the gym, most positive men these days look much more buffer and sexier than the skeleton image we used to see from the 80s.

[cock brand]

then you are also one of that "dumb" person lor..you also have had sex before, rite? Besides that, having sex with someone whom we certain HIV+ because he

himself tell us so is dumber than havinng sex with someone we don't KNOW about his HIV status. The first activity I mention is like eating a food which contains toxic and you know about it because the maker of the food have told you, while the second activity is like eating a food you don't know whether is poisonous or not!

Your parable and your reasoning is the dumbest I've ever heard of.

If you are stupid and ignorant, please keep it to yourself, no need to announce here.

[Eragon]

Our HIV+ friends do not need all these discrimination. If you are here just to vent your anger or pour your pitiful nonsense - you are pathetic.

So long as they are honest to reveal their status - who are we to decide if their partner is dumb or not to go to bed w them.

You are actually saying that making a conscious decision is less intelligent than making a unconscious one. If love is present, that overcomes all barriers, considering the fact that you have an option to put on protections.

Edited May 24, 2010 by Eragon

[Summer]

We should greatly appreciate it if someone would share with us his HIV status. Cos it takes a lot for them to share.

Like some mentioned, practice of safe sex will effectively prevent infection. I have known couples (one is HIV+) who enjoy sex in their relation, and the other partner remains HIV- for many years.

It is also morally and lawfully correct for a HIV+ to inform his partner before engaging in sexual activity. Than it is up to the individual to continue or not, depending on each comfortability.

[slayer]

dont make urself sound like an angel. u r dumb if u still carry on having sex w HIV+...probably agreed to the sex coz he is honest and u apathy him lol.

I do not have to make myself sound like anything, because you just made yourself sound like a tit-head.

... having sex with someone whom we certain HIV+ because he

himself tell us so is dumber than havinng sex with someone we don't KNOW about his HIV status. The first activity I mention is like eating a food which contains toxic and you know about it because the maker of the food have told you, while the second activity is like eating a food you don't know whether is poisonous or not!

We do live in a strange world of shallow people. So you would rather have annonymous sex than have someone be upfront with you about his status? I seriously am having a hard time trying to fathom your intelligence level.

You obviously do not know any one who is HIV +ve and thus might not be privy to the challenges they have to go through, nor do you even know what having the ailment even entails. I do not blame your ill-informed "auntie" views because you probably hang around people who are like you anyway. Time to open up that mind of yours, dearie. This world is not just about you trying to score the next big fcuk or prancing about the mirror in front of you. If your "up there" is as empty as you portray yourself to be, your prancing will all be effort wasted.

Being HIV +ve isn't the end of the world. With the advancement of medicine, these days it is a manageable issue no more serious than diabetes. The only thing left to dispell would be un-informed views like the one above who will only seek to mar the continuous efforts of HIV education.

Edited May 25, 2010 by slayer

[junxiang]

I guess anyone would know the consequences of HIV+, the fear of death, family pressure, work pressure, social pressure.

If after learning that your potential partner has HIV+ and still go ahead, may have the following reasons:

out of pity, respect or appreciating his honesty - in my humble opinion, very low chance of anyone being so galant by risking his life.

I recall a friend of mine who used to let old uncle oral him in toilet and when I ask him why he did that, told me he is trying to create good karma so that next time he grows old....

that person must be "drop-dead gorgeous" for him to be blinded by that.

he must be thinking that if he takes "proper precaution" the chances of infecting is less than striking TOTO.

Swimming in the sea is scary enough with all the unknown underneath, but swimming in crocodile or shark infested water knowing ..... I rest my case.

[Guest Ridicooolous]

I think showing sympathy to HIV patient is one and self-protection is another...who can guarantee a 100% safe sex...not even durex can... I think we do give our due respect and sympathy to HIV patient in any form but come to sleeping to em...are we going to risk everything we have jux becox we gona be considerate towards their feelings... And if we really got infected, who gona be considerate to us? Personally its a no no to me...I always be considerate to em...but sleeping with death isnt a joke...

[junxiang]

I think showing sympathy to HIV patient is one and self-protection is another...who can guarantee a 100% safe sex...not even durex can... I think we do give our due respect and sympathy to HIV patient in any form but come to sleeping to em...are we going to risk everything we have jux becox we gona be considerate towards their feelings... And if we really got infected, who gona be considerate to us? Personally its a no no to me...I always be considerate to em...but sleeping with death isnt a joke...

Human being tends to give themselves all the excuses for their decisions.

for one who suddenly disappear totally after learning that his bf for 10 years is HIV+ will have all the great reasons for doing so.

Another guy who gets turn on by this gorgeous hunk and at that moment of heat and lust, might be willing to risk his everything and justifying to himself for whatever decision he made.

[Guest Duhz]

then you are also one of that "dumb" person lor..you also have had sex before, rite? Besides that, having sex with someone whom we certain HIV+ because he

himself tell us so is dumber than havinng sex with someone we don't KNOW about his HIV status. The first activity I mention is like eating a food which contains toxic and you know about it because the maker of the food have told you, while the second activity is like eating a food you don't know whether is poisonous or not!

Bad analogy. It would be more akin to the floor is slippery and someone warning you to hold onto the railings, and someone else who doesn't bother telling you the floor is slippery in the first place.

Again, you're just demonstrating your utter stupidity.

Having PROTECTED sex with anyone, HIV- or HIV+, is no more dangerous one way or the other.

[Guest Duhz]

I think showing sympathy to HIV patient is one and self-protection is another...who can guarantee a 100% safe sex...not even durex can... I think we do give our due respect and sympathy to HIV patient in any form but come to sleeping to em...are we going to risk everything we have jux becox we gona be considerate towards their feelings... And if we really got infected, who gona be considerate to us? Personally its a no no to me...I always be considerate to em...but sleeping with death isnt a joke...

Sorry, you are assuming people have sex with HIV+ people out of sympathy. The answer is no.

Is it so hard to understand simple logic?

You stay away from the one who is positive, fine.

Is your next random encounter positive or negative? You don't know and you assume he's safe to fxxk?

Your actions are NO SAFER than having sex with someone who is knowingly HIV+, if in both scenarios, you are using condoms.

Yes, condoms are not 100% safe. Then why are you assuming people who DON'T TELL YOU THEIR HIV STATUS (or they can LIE) are CLEAN OR HONEST?

You'r so scared of "SLEEPING WITH DEATH" but you take the least precaution when you need to.

[retri]

Bad analogy. It would be more akin to the floor is slippery and someone warning you to hold onto the railings, and someone else who doesn't bother telling you the floor is slippery in the first place.

Again, you're just demonstrating your utter stupidity.

Having PROTECTED sex with anyone, HIV- or HIV+, is no more dangerous one way or the other.

You wanna argue with trained volunteers from AfA, and doctors who are specialists in this field? Are you going to refute that using protection serves no purpose? it's not 100%, everyone knows that. But for you to say that it is "no more dangerous one way or the other" is plain ignorant and silly.

Wake up, fcuktard.

[Guest Guest]

You wanna argue with trained volunteers from AfA, and doctors who are specialists in this field? Are you going to refute that using protection serves no purpose? it's not 100%, everyone knows that. But for you to say that it is "no more dangerous one way or the other" is plain ignorant and silly.

Wake up, fcuktard.

Probably he like and always do raw and he is trying to convince us that protected sex is also unsafe so we will just do raw just like he had always done lol what a retard he is.

[Guest George Leong]

Man assaults and infects people with a dangerous weapon , in this case his penis is the weapon,

knowingly spreads it to more than 12 victims.

He sure looks good and yummy no wonder women willingly went to bed and sat on his thing.

[Guest George Leong]

Sorry forgot to put the link in.

here it is

http://au.news.yahoo.com/a/-/latest/7291581/acrobat-knowingly-spread-hiv-police/

[Guest Guest]

in summary, stop having sex to avoid any form of STDs.

[Guest Guest]

in summary, stop having sex to avoid any form of STDs.

Action speak louder than words...I don't believe that someone who lurks in a gay forum like you can really abstain from sex. I'll give my head for you to sit at if you could lol.

[Guest Duhz]

You wanna argue with trained volunteers from AfA, and doctors who are specialists in this field? Are you going to refute that using protection serves no purpose? it's not 100%, everyone knows that. But for you to say that it is "no more dangerous one way or the other" is plain ignorant and silly.

Wake up, fcuktard.

Learn to read properly, shit for brains. When I said either way, I meant protected sex with HIV+ individuals or protected sex with HIV- individuals.

I don't know what you're trained in, but it sure isn't using your intelligence.

[retri]

Learn to read properly, shit for brains. When I said either way, I meant protected sex with HIV+ individuals or protected sex with HIV- individuals.

I don't know what you're trained in, but it sure isn't using your intelligence.

Hmm. You're right. I didn't read carefully. My bad.

[Guest X]

in summary, stop having sex to avoid any form of STDs.

Ya. SEX KILLS...

[Summer]

We are know the best way of prevention is complete abstaining from sex or any contact with body fluid.

However, man being a man...can we? The next best and wise action to take...is to use condom all the time. Otherwise, just stick to mutual jo :whistle:.... no risk of HIV infection at all.

Latex condom is only not "safe" for HIV infection, when it is use incorrectly, or broken.

We are all grown up, we need to know that when we agree to engage in sex with multiple partners, we are also agreeing to chances of STIs.