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On 12/14/2005 at 10:10 AM, virgoan57 said:

Hi all,

Just curious, I wunder if every session has to have anal sex? Is there any who does not enjoy anal sex but enjoy companionships, huggings, non-anal sex?

Care to share or comment.

cheers

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Personally, it not important. 

Companionship is essential. 

Otherwise is a bonus... 

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Actually I dun fancy anal sex bcoz is fxxking painful. I m curious y some btms can let a hard cock in so easily n seems like not pain at all. Frankly, how can I season my hole for a painless anal sex?

Most of e time me n my partner oni have side fun during sex bcoz he knew I m always in pain when he hump me. Oni had anal sex once in a blue moon. He actually dun mind but i still feel guilty for not letting him penetrate me.

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16 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Actually I dun fancy anal sex bcoz is fxxking painful. I m curious y some btms can let a hard cock in so easily n seems like not pain at all. Frankly, how can I season my hole for a painless anal sex?

Most of e time me n my partner oni have side fun during sex bcoz he knew I m always in pain when he hump me. Oni had anal sex once in a blue moon. He actually dun mind but i still feel guilty for not letting him penetrate me.


I think a lot of foreplay and make sure you use lotsa of lube too. Haha

 

When you’re stimulated and relax. It’s actually ok.

 

but if your hole is naturally tight, it will be difficult. Take time and enjoy yourself. 

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Guest Cmi btm

I realise while I identify as mostly btm, being submissive, I really don't enjoy anal sex that much.  Besides the constant anxiety of poop accidents ( which happen enough despite ensuring that I'm douched and clean) the pain of weird feeling seems to overpower the feelings of pleasure.  I enjoy the kissing,  cuddling and nipple play more.

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3 hours ago, Guest Cmi btm said:

I realise while I identify as mostly btm, being submissive, I really don't enjoy anal sex that much.  Besides the constant anxiety of poop accidents ( which happen enough despite ensuring that I'm douched and clean) the pain of weird feeling seems to overpower the feelings of pleasure.  I enjoy the kissing,  cuddling and nipple play more.

True....no matter how many times i douched, poop accidents still occurred.

Some Tops don't mind (and even help me clean it while fxxking half way) but I still felt embarrassed. 

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On 12/13/2005 at 8:10 PM, virgoan57 said:

Hi all,

Just curious, I wunder if every session has to have anal sex? Is there any who does not enjoy anal sex but enjoy companionships, huggings, non-anal sex?

Care to share or comment.

cheers

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Interesting topic, started in 2005 by a person who only posted at BW for 27 days...   I hope he is still with us...

 

I join the group who finds that anal sex is not necessary, that hugging, oral sex, etc. can fully satisfy.  Sex with companionship is ideal,  and companionship without sex is also desirable.  Sex should ALL be enjoyable. Companionship on the other hand may have ups and downs,  but if sustained, it gives the opportunity to grow. 

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