Is Anal / Oral Sex A Must? Is Sex Important In A R/ship? + R/ship Without Sex Possible? (compiled)

[Guest guest]

4 minutes ago, upshot said:

If you say ANAL SEX. Then how can it be so without completing it? LOL

 

Sorry .. can't help it.

 

What does it mean to have a "complete" relationship? So long as it is fulfilling and both parties don't stray then anal sex is just unnecessary.

[Guest guest]

1 hour ago, J0Boo said:

Choices. Choices. Choices,

 

I personally feel that anal is not a must too~ If you're already satisfied with just a freaking nice BJ so why not? Ask your partner to keep blow luh 

 

HAHAHA nothing in this world comes close to the ecstasy of a Blow Job. My bf gives me the best sucking like a hungry fckboi. No need for anal!

[upshot]

27 minutes ago, Guest guest said:

 

What does it mean to have a "complete" relationship? So long as it is fulfilling and both parties don't stray then anal sex is just unnecessary.

 

It's your relationship between both of you thus you two get to make the rules as to how you want to have it. To change it, only you two matter enough to want to change it or call it off. Other's opinion on what you do are just that .. opinions. heh.

[Guest Beastie]

1 hour ago, Guest guest said:

 

What does it mean to have a "complete" relationship? So long as it is fulfilling and both parties don't stray then anal sex is just unnecessary.

Haha, if you don't have anal then one day you find that your bf is giving himself to a fb for regular fucking.

Do you think that you are closer to him or his fb? 

 

What I heard from friends, got one case one young man(he bottom) and one uncle relationship. He very curious why that uncle never touch him anally before. That uncle say anal not important they still lovers.

 

Then one night he caught that uncle being fucked like a slut by some strangers. Walaoeh, that uncle usually so manly that's why he never suspect he's bottom.

 

After that he cannot bear to have sex with that uncle without remembering his slutty cry father cry mother in bed and the pinpin pong pong fucking. So he choose another bf.

[snowball]

if you not into anal and oral, there is no sex involve, kissing cuddle, touching, licking and hug etc is just foreplay, so sex is not a must to some partners, different people different needs, but bf and i love whole package

[Guest Inquiry]

In a one night stand or quickie, does it need to go on oral sex? Can we go straight to fucking then leave?

[upshot]

Do you think with your big head or little head.  I am sure you have an opinion as to what you want to do or not do. heheh Or are you someone who just follow what others tell you to do by counting how many votes you get to do or not do?

Edited December 7, 2016 by upshot

[Guest Guest]

Yes, tongue to tongue kissing.

[Guest Guest]

So, cum while foreplay is not sex. Fine. I'll take it. You stay dry!

[p2468]

9 hours ago, Guest Inquiry said:

Can we go straight to fucking then leave?

That's RAPE!!!

[cutejack]

22 minutes ago, p2468 said:

That's RAPE!!!

Rape meh?many practising it leh.u mean u didnt b4?come on la.dont b shy.lolxxx

[cutejack]

14 hours ago, Guest Beastie said:

Haha, if you don't have anal then one day you find that your bf is giving himself to a fb for regular fucking.

Do you think that you are closer to him or his fb? 

 

What I heard from friends, got one case one young man(he bottom) and one uncle relationship. He very curious why that uncle never touch him anally before. That uncle say anal not important they still lovers.

 

Then one night he caught that uncle being fucked like a slut by some strangers. Walaoeh, that uncle usually so manly that's why he never suspect he's bottom.

 

After that he cannot bear to have sex with that uncle without remembering his slutty cry father cry mother in bed and the pinpin pong pong fucking. So he choose another bf.

Huahahaha.i thought that uncle is impotent.skali.i read to the end.he is a btm too.lolxxx

[Guest Side]

I was dating this guy and he told me he is a "side". A side is neither top nor bottom, he engages in all sort of sexual activities besides penetrative sex. Could this be the new norm?

[Guest STIs]

29 minutes ago, Guest Side said:

I was dating this guy and he told me he is a "side". A side is neither top nor bottom, he engages in all sort of sexual activities besides penetrative sex. Could this be the new norm?

 

With the rise of STIs cases, some would be deterred of oral and anal sex.

[kys0n]

For me I think it's a must. Penetration is the most intimate form of physical intimacy. Without it, a relationship is always lacking. I firmly believe that a loving couple must be emotionally, sexually and physically satisfied all at the same time. Without anal sex, the physical intimacy will never be as close even if the emotional and sexual energies are at its peak. Penetration is penetration, nothing can replace the physical dimension of it.

[abang]

I believe it is up to the two to decide what is essential.  Personally, I enjoy anal sex.  Surrendering oneself to another is an act of trust, not only just lust.

 

In fact, kissing seems more intimate as one can see the facial expression/reaction of the partner...

 

:-) I am a sex whore..

[jocker]

my fren never poked his cock in my hole, just humping my butt. Damn so hot that i shot within few secs. Oh fuck. 

[upshot]

To the shy lurkers reading all these, REMEMBER everyone here is only expressing an OPINION.. there is no compulsory that SEX must happen to have a relationship proper. A relationship is a union of shared values, beliefs, practices and what level of SEXUALITY you are prepared to experience only you two has that right to decide and change as your relationship evolve overtime. EVEN if the sex is good and you are fucking every night, a relationship can STILL DIE for so many other reasons. 

 

[melvinlam90]

On 08/12/2016 at 6:25 AM, Guest Side said:

I was dating this guy and he told me he is a "side". A side is neither top nor bottom, he engages in all sort of sexual activities besides penetrative sex. Could this be the new norm?

This is actually new! Interesting.

 

And nah, I don't think that doing anal sex is needed to feel complete. What matters is what both parties (or more) feels

[snowball]

青菜萝卜，各有所爱   

to each his own, if you not into them,

you won't consider that a miss at all, 

not a big deal, relationship is not just about anal sex, 

but more than that

 

Edited December 9, 2016 by snowball

[joshTWjosh]

Philosophy says no; the body says yes.

 

Love says no; lust says yes

Edited December 10, 2016 by joshTWjosh

[lovehandle]

 

Dont like tat la lvhandle.i dont mind without anal u know.love

love n love is more important.sometime mouth more shiok than asshole.

k loh, I shallow mah

many seemed to decline non-handsomes, non-youthfuls, non-muscular, non............

so that must be looking for true luv? u sure?

[cutejack]

I dont go for looks.i go for heart.not necessary anal.cuddle n kiss n bj also can.if two tops meet there are many other things to do.ahem.m i right, lvhandle?lol

Edited December 11, 2016 by cutejack

[Guest Evict]

It ultimately comes down to what the two guys want, but both need to be honest with each other, and not be selfish. My misfortune in the past was getting into relationships with not one but two boyfriends who apparently did not care that me being a top means I like and need to fuck ass. I told them from the beginning but they insisted that they loved me and, if we have love, we don't need penetration. My mistake was not immediately saying this won't work and walking away. I did like their looks and personalities and they did let me pump my dick between their legs and against their holes. The first boyfriend would even spread his crack wide to take my load inside his ass when I was ready to cum (relax lecturers, we were young and each other's first relationship, wouldn't happen nowadays). Nonetheless even though I stayed faithful while I was dating the two of them other factors eventually caused both relationships to end. With this in hindsight, I feel like I wasted time with those two in a sense, when I might have been able to find someone more sexually compatible with me and we might have still been together. So it is fine if you don't like anal, but be honest with the other guy, and don't entice him to stay with you if he really likes and needs anal because he won't be truly happy without it during his young and fertile years.

[yoyo74]

On 12/7/2016 at 11:37 PM, Guest Beastie said:

Haha, if you don't have anal then one day you find that your bf is giving himself to a fb for regular fucking.

Do you think that you are closer to him or his fb? 

 

What I heard from friends, got one case one young man(he bottom) and one uncle relationship. He very curious why that uncle never touch him anally before. That uncle say anal not important they still lovers.

 

Then one night he caught that uncle being fucked like a slut by some strangers. Walaoeh, that uncle usually so manly that's why he never suspect he's bottom.

 

After that he cannot bear to have sex with that uncle without remembering his slutty cry father cry mother in bed and the pinpin pong pong fucking. So he choose another bf.

There are still a lot of gays that dont like or will never do anal sex. If you say a bf giving himself to others for anal sex, you should know that there are several gays giving NSA fun and therefore the bf will never get close to those people he had NSA anal sex fun.

Your story of the uncle say anal not important but in real fact is a bottom does not tally with the ending part of your story. Your ending of the story say the younger guy cannot bear to have sex with the uncle without remembering... anal sex does not happen in the first part of the story and now ending say the younger one cannot bear to have sex? I am assuming this sex is anal sex. Even if its oral sex, this story are base on people who lies.

There are still lots of honest gay people that dont like anal sex and not lie about it. Lying about not doing anal sex is silly as it will cause many hard core anal sex giver or taker to delete you from bf or LTR list. When a gay tells you he dont do anal sex, it will be a very high chance hes telling you the truth.

[yoyo74]

45 minutes ago, Guest Evict said:

It ultimately comes down to what the two guys want, but both need to be honest with each other, and not be selfish. My misfortune in the past was getting into relationships with not one but two boyfriends who apparently did not care that me being a top means I like and need to fuck ass. I told them from the beginning but they insisted that they loved me and, if we have love, we don't need penetration. My mistake was not immediately saying this won't work and walking away. I did like their looks and personalities and they did let me pump my dick between their legs and against their holes. The first boyfriend would even spread his crack wide to take my load inside his ass when I was ready to cum (relax lecturers, we were young and each other's first relationship, wouldn't happen nowadays). Nonetheless even though I stayed faithful while I was dating the two of them other factors eventually caused both relationships to end. With this in hindsight, I feel like I wasted time with those two in a sense, when I might have been able to find someone more sexually compatible with me and we might have still been together. So it is fine if you don't like anal, but be honest with the other guy, and don't entice him to stay with you if he really likes and needs anal because he won't be truly happy without it during his young and fertile years.

Hmm if they dont do anal sex with you than they are already honest to you. You are only thinking your point of view that you need anal sex but you never think of them what they would feel if they force themselves to let you poke them. They most probably will feel dirty and disgusting or feeling rape. You like their looks and personalities in the first place and had decided it is more important than anal sex at that time so you choose them. Now you regret it so you had only yourself to blame and should not blame them for enticing you. You had a choice to reject them but you did not. I hope you already know what you want and wont make another decision that cause regret again.

[yoyo74]

On 12/8/2016 at 2:25 PM, Guest Side said:

I was dating this guy and he told me he is a "side". A side is neither top nor bottom, he engages in all sort of sexual activities besides penetrative sex. Could this be the new norm?

Gay had already been in the past until now but people nowadays than start asking is it the new norm? A person is born to be gay or not and the liking of penetrative sex is also inborn. Some like me will feel dirty and disgusting and never want to do it or there are also other different reason for other type of gays. I would not say its a new norm, i would instead say its a preference like how we like guy instead of girls. I believe in olden days until now there is also people like me.

[Guest Bumper]

19 minutes ago, yoyo74 said:

Hmm if they dont do anal sex with you than they are already honest to you. You are only thinking your point of view that you need anal sex but you never think of them what they would feel if they force themselves to let you poke them. They most probably will feel dirty and disgusting or feeling rape. You like their looks and personalities in the first place and had decided it is more important than anal sex at that time so you choose them. Now you regret it so you had only yourself to blame and should not blame them for enticing you. You had a choice to reject them but you did not. I hope you already know what you want and wont make another decision that cause regret again.

 

I think both sides should have walked away and continued trying to find better fits for their specific sexual tastes. The poster said he was faithful to them for many years, and tried his best to make things work, so he does not deserve to be attacked by you or anyone else in my opinion.

[yoyo74]

20 hours ago, Guest Bumper said:

 

I think both sides should have walked away and continued trying to find better fits for their specific sexual tastes. The poster said he was faithful to them for many years, and tried his best to make things work, so he does not deserve to be attacked by you or anyone else in my opinion.

It will be very foolish of you to think of it as an attack. He had only think of himself he must have anal sex with his partner even when his partner dont want it and i had the need to let him know how an unwilling partner will feel if they are being forced upon. When 2 partners decided on a relationship, both side had to try their best to make the relationship work. When one partner insist on having anal sex when the initial agreement is dont do it than he is not really trying his best to make the relationship work. Its his own responsibility that he cant keep the initial agreement and should not blame his partner when relation fails. One must never expect a partner to change his personality and preference for him just because he like anal sex.

[Guest Bumper]

3 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

It will be very foolish of you to think of it as an attack. He had only think of himself he must have anal sex with his partner even when his partner dont want it and i had the need to let him know how an unwilling partner will feel if they are being forced upon. When 2 partners decided on a relationship, both side had to try their best to make the relationship work. When one partner insist on having anal sex when the initial agreement is dont do it than he is not really trying his best to make the relationship work. Its his own responsibility that he cant keep the initial agreement and should not blame his partner when relation fails. One must never expect a partner to change his personality and preference for him just because he like anal sex.

 

You are attacking him and you seem to have a reading comprehension problem. Read his post closely. He never insisted on forcing his two guys into anal sex. He did the sex as they wanted and never cheated on them according to his post. He also said they broke up for other reasons not related to the sex. It is after the break-ups that he seems to regret staying with those guys, because the relationships failed even though he did exactly what the bottoms wanted, which was no anal sex. Stop being so defensive and stubborn. You made a mistake. I have read his post word for word several times. My interpretation is correct. Be a man and move on.

[yoyo74]

1 hour ago, Guest Bumper said:

 

You are attacking him and you seem to have a reading comprehension problem. Read his post closely. He never insisted on forcing his two guys into anal sex. He did the sex as they wanted and never cheated on them according to his post. He also said they broke up for other reasons not related to the sex. It is after the break-ups that he seems to regret staying with those guys, because the relationships failed even though he did exactly what the bottoms wanted, which was no anal sex. Stop being so defensive and stubborn. You made a mistake. I have read his post word for word several times. My interpretation is correct. Be a man and move on.

You not only fail to interpret his post, you also fail to interpret my post. 

On 12/13/2016 at 2:00 AM, Guest Evict said:

My misfortune in the past was getting into relationships with not one but two boyfriends who apparently did not care that me being a top means I like and need to fuck ass. I told them from the beginning but they insisted that they loved me and, if we have love, we don't need penetration.

My interpretation of this statement is that he already had an agreement with his 2 bf for no penetration sex but he still want to think that hes 2 bf did not care about him due to no anal sex. This already means that he want his bf to change for him even though the agreement state other wise. Although he did not physically force on the anal sex, he already mentally want to force it by thinking that his 2 bf did not care for his anal sex urge. My statement is to let him know what would happen to his bf mentality if his bf let him have his anal sex way without being willing to do it. My statement also points out that he is only taking his own point of view without thinking of his bf point of view. Your emphasis of never cheat is just only one criteria for a workable relationship. In a workable relationship there are lots of criteria needed to fulfill and considering your partner point of view is the few most important ones. Think lesser of own self criteria but think more of your partner criteria is also one way to a successful relationship.

[Guest Evict]

8 hours ago, Guest Bumper said:

You are attacking him and you seem to have a reading comprehension problem. Read his post closely. He never insisted on forcing his two guys into anal sex. He did the sex as they wanted and never cheated on them according to his post. He also said they broke up for other reasons not related to the sex. It is after the break-ups that he seems to regret staying with those guys, because the relationships failed even though he did exactly what the bottoms wanted, which was no anal sex. Stop being so defensive and stubborn. You made a mistake. I have read his post word for word several times. My interpretation is correct. Be a man and move on.

 

Thanks for your understanding. You understood me perfectly. I am not even going to respond to the bitter uncle's attacks. Maybe he had a traumatic experience back in the 1980s. I have done nothing wrong and was only sharing my story and the lessons I learned to apply to life going forward. Take care.

[Steve5380]

On 12/9/2016 at 4:30 AM, hannibalism said:

i feel complete after i take a dump at the end of the day. i hope that answers your question.

 

LOL!  Perfect response to this topic.

 Every human alive has "anal".  It may not be with a cock but with the natural products of digestion.

Some of us with good digestive system have it more than once a day.

 

Anal sex IS NOT natural.  Vaginal sex is natural, and it is easy to do.  Not so with anal.

I am gay but anal sex would have never occurred to me as something attractive.  I only learned of it by reading about.

I tried to bottom once but found it painful and cumbersome.  I don't like to top either.  What is the need?

 

For me, closeness is not to be plugged into someone else's body.

IF so, the highest closeness would be that of a surgeon who does invasive procedures and sticks his hand into peoples' guts.

 

But this is just my opinion

 

[Guest Btmm]

I don't care if there are those who don't like anal. It's their choice but only those of us who enjoy being fucked know what they are missing and we're only saying so for their benefits. 

 

It's like us locals who like durians and yet the angmos are turning up their noses at the so called pungent smell. They think we are weird but we think they are weirder. But just because of that we have some masochist fun introducing them to durians and watch them cringe on tv.

 

I enjoyed anal sex very much and likewise I don't care if even gays are gossiping about my wantonness. That doesn't mean I'll let any man fuck me but I confess that if I like someone then I'll tell them frankly that they can fuck me when they want to.

 

The strange thing is that even many gays have some prejudice against anal sex especially when you're masculine. Haha, then my top would enjoy describing how he fucked me in the most "shameful" and "gross" details. I thought I'm already such a pervert and yet I met this top who's even more pervy than me. 

 

I don't know where he find these men in the street or from the wet markets but he arranged a few times where he'll get one man to quietly watch while he screwed me upside down. Then while having kopi downstairs in a crowded coffee shop, they'll discuss mostly about my "shameful" "gross" way I enjoyed until rolling my eyes like a prostitute. My top says he enjoyed to see the way they cringed when he suggested they try anal sex also. They're sure to scold chey, chey, chey at him.

[TheVisitors]

Here comes my personal maths equation

If Mouth > (better than ..not greater) hole. skip hole, fuck the mouth 

If Hole> Mouth skip Mouth fuck Hole

 

If Hole=Mouth=Hole=Mouth....spare none and fuck both

 

ps..no 1 rules if Hole suspected to be smelly/not thoroughly washed or very very loose that can park a MRT train

 

Thats only my guideline, may defer due to unforeseen circumstances and conditions do apply

[Guest Guest]

I think it is. Why else you engage on gay sex if there is no penetration especially in the ass.

[yoyo74]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

I think it is. Why else you engage on gay sex if there is no penetration especially in the ass.

I do not know the term gay sex should be use on me or not but i am still gay cause i am attracted to guy and not girl. There are many people here insist gay must 100% do penetration sex like anal sex in order to be gay. I feel a need to help the silent minority to voice out there is several gays like me that dont need penetration sex to feel emotionally connected to our love ones. All we need is just touching, hugging or cuddling up with the ones we like to get emotionally connected. Penetration sex of any form is just plain dirty and disgusting for me and believe me there are definately some of us around. Think how most straight guys dont like anal sex and how most gay guys dont like vagina sex and combine it = we dont like both kind of penetration sex. We still consider ourself gays cause our attraction is only to guys. There might be straight version of us that dont like sex also. Only we our self know what we like and needed and should not let others tell you how sex should be performed. If you feel penetration sex is dirty and disgusting and you force yourself to perform it than you may feel dirty, humiliated, disgusting of oneself and the emotion scar may stay the rest of your life torturing you and regret it for the rest of your life. I may be exaggerated a bit but it may happen, so dont ever force yourself something you dont ever want to do.

[snowball]

what is must or not a must in a relationship? if you insist on sometime, it only show that you love yourself more than anything else, love is give and take, i believe that.

[yoyo74]

5 minutes ago, snowball said:

what is must or not a must in a relationship? if you insist on sometime, it only show that you love yourself more than anything else, love is give and take, i believe that.

Love is give and take but must make sure you give willingly and not have any emotional scar after that. No point give than having a scar that made you unhappy for the rest of your life and in the end causing problems that break the relationship. Make sure you only give the things you give willingly. Both partner need to stand in the shoes of each other and think which kind of giving and taking is appropriate and will giving or taking something harms the other partner etc.

[btmslut]

I really love anal sex. But to me, anal sex is not a must. Sometimes when i suck the top, he pushes me back to fuck me. Some other tops, they just cum in my mouth or face. I guess at the end of the day, the top cumming is a must. The feel of hot sperm hitting your body or tongue is a sign ive done my job, made a man so high that he had no choice but to empty his balls. 

 

But thats just me. To each his own

[Guest Jeng]

Yes it is a must. How can you be in a relationship without that?

[Guest tseuG]

Anal sex is a must for many couples but not for every couple. The important thing is that both men are honest about what they want and need in bed or the relationship will not last very long. Guys who don't like or want anal sex should NOT get into relationships with those who make it very clear that they like and want anal sex. It will lead to problems in the end.

 

No amount of trying to change will make you like something that you don't like. The better option is to make it clear from the beginning that you don't like anal sex. And guys who like anal sex should stop trying to convert and conquer those who don't like it. So many problems can be avoided if people stop being embarrassed and discuss their preferences at the start.

[Chubrapist]

I had been in a relationship with my bf for 4 or 5 years. Firstly, our sex wasn’t that great. What we did we’re just making high each other and after that, we will jokingly stare at each other private part. Then it is not continue. After that, our sex were almost the same.

 

as for the past 3 years, we had 3 Times sex including our first time before getting attached. The first 2 were around the same but the third time we manage to cum. After that, there’s no more sex life for me. Firstly before getting attached, I’m thinking that is alright, no sex life is ok as long we in love with each other. As we’re getting longer, I found out that there’s no passion on sex. 

 

On the other hand, I’m the type of guy whom like to cuddle when we’re sleeping together and have a body contact there where I love n appreciate that moment so much. But the problem is, he doesn’t like to cuddle. The reason he gave is very hot and my body are hot as in temperature. I’ve to admit that my body temperature are slightly higher bit compare with other people. Even my parents or doctor say so. We got an aircond installed in our room in case someone will comment there. =) When we are going to sleep after all the sweet message like good night n we kiss. We both seperate as in he face the right side n I face the left side of the bed. There’s no cuddling together n fall asleep. We’ve been in this state already for 2 years. 

 

Last month, he brought this matter to break up. So there’s where I pull him back that we’ve not been trying. He say that he doesn’t hv the desire o urge to have sex and he doesn’t know why. So that’s where I say that let’s try. Both of us really need to look into this matter seriously. Then he agree and getting back together. Yesterday I brought this topic up to discuss with him asking does he realise that we’ve not made any progress on this matter. Then told him that I realise if something can’t happen then don’t force it happen. He seem to felt that I’m breaking this relationship. For me, I took this as a discussion. IFFFF, we’re really breaking up. I hope that WE won’t be too late. Not till keep dragging till the situation where both were deeply in love then only realise this problem and we drag again.

 

He did realise that he can’t give something basic stuff like hugging when sleep and others.

 

As now currently, he’s at my house and I’m outstation where we both take into consideration bout this matters. I knew that he’s down and moody. He told me that of course la, it’s breaking up. My thinking now are, I felt guilty for doing that but at the same time, if this matter doesn’t solve, it will occur again in the future.

 

anyone here can give me advise? I might be too childish to think this kind of thing where some of you can scold me to wake me up. Or anything. I’m open to everyone to tell me any and every advise. Neither to save or other. 

 

[Guest Mbtm]

I'm a btm and I used to have a few fb tops.

 

Then I met and dated a very nice guy. We had such nice time together without talking about sex. Initially it was ok because we enjoyed each other's company. But after a few months, I started to worry that we simply don't have sexual compatibility. I never disclose that I'm a btm and now I realised he thought I'm a top and waiting for me to be the active one. 

 

The problem is that we're so civil with each other, I don't know how to tell him directly and couldn't bear to see his disappointment with me. I tried finding a bottom from the APPS to practise topping and he tried to jo or oral me to get me hard. But as soon as I tried to penetrate him, my cock goes soft. 

 

Finally I had to confess to him that I'm a bottom too. He wasn't surprised because from the moment he saw my hole, he guessed it. Anyway, we both being bottoms, there's a very easy test. When he was sucking me, I automatically opened my legs wide. When he stuck his finger in me, my cock got hard and leaks. Double confirmed. We couldn't carry on after that.

 

I called one of my fb. We met and he did the same routine to suck me then stick a finger into me. I started leaking precum and he penetrated me. Ahhhh, yes that's the feeling that I wanted. I'm not acting when I moaned out my usual slut cries, "yes, yes...I want you to fuck me..." 

 

Of course he didn't know why I'm so slutty, crying out, "yes, yes, harder, harder, more, more, ahhhh, ahhhh..." He gave me a heavy dose of hard pounding that finally satiated my pent up hunger. As I watched his plain face and skinny body, he's nowhere near as handsome as my date. When he pulled off his cum filled condom and wiped that cock that gave me such pleasures, I could not resist the urge to stroke it and he could not resist to raise my legs to finger my sloppy hole.

 

He knew exactly what I wanted and how to satisfy me. He laughed and asked, "knnccb, you still want some more ah?" so crude and direct. I pulled his cock down to me and rolled another condom on for him.

 

I know he needed time to get ready for a 2nd time and he's willing to try. That kind of sexual chemistry, I can never find in my handsome date. I picked up my phone while he was rimming and sticking his tongue into me. I got all hot and ready.

 

That also made up my mind and I WhatsApp my handsome date, " if you know what I'm doing now, you'll know our relationship is over.."

I send the text and blocked him after that. Meanwhile, I opened my legs wide that would not block a plain guy from entering my body. This guy never asked me nicely, never bother to ask about my day, never talked about common interests...all he could say were scolding me dirty swear words and it's starting again.."knnnccb...song boh...ai hoot kau li si.."

And my shameless response, "yes, yes, yes, harder, harder, more, more, deeper, deeper..."

 

[robin]

9 hours ago, Chubrapist said:

I had been in a relationship with my bf for 4 or 5 years. Firstly, our sex wasn’t that great. What we did we’re just making high each other and after that, we will jokingly stare at each other private part. Then it is not continue. After that, our sex were almost the same.

 

 

Hi Chubrapist, find someone whom you would love enough to want to work out the relationship. Similarly, the other party will need to feel & act in the same manner.

 

But having said thar, in all long term relationships, we will all go through a phase where the couple lost sexual interest in each orher. In fact, at times, they may even find it repulsive to have sex with each other. That is where the test will determine if the relationship will last & whether it will remain monogamous or open. 

 

Hope you find your solution soon. 

Edited October 24, 2017 by robin
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[Guest Intensely Staring At Butt]

I am a top, and I enjoy anal, and I would prefer to be in a longtime relationship with a bottom who also enjoys anal. Unfortunately the kind of guys that I usually attract, who want a relationship, are bottom oriented but not into anal. We only end up doing oral and caressing and frottage. It makes me feel good to rub my cock between their legs, and I can cum satisfactorily that way, but I miss the physical and emotional happiness of actually penetrating a horny, willing, eager asshole.

 

My prior three serious relationships have been like this. But since my last breakup, I am determined not to settle for a non-anal relationship again, even though two different guys are trying to get me to commit right now. I want to wait for a real bottom who matches my sexual desires while also stimulating my needs in terms of general companionship. The last few relationships tested my resolve, and I was strong enough not to cheat on them, but I shouldn't be forced to make that choice anyway.

[Chubrapist]

11 hours ago, robin said:

 

Hi Chubrapist, find someone whom you would love enough to want to work out the relationship. Similarly, the other party will need to feel & act in the same manner.

 

But having said thar, in all long term relationships, we will all go through a phase where the couple lost sexual interest in each orher. In fact, at times, they may even find it repulsive to have sex with each other. That is where the test will determine if the relationship will last & whether it will remain monogamous or open. 

 

Hope you find your solution soon. 

Hi Robin, thanks for the reply.

 

He loves me lot and I do still love him. But there’s lack of something and I think that we shall settle the problem. There’s a knot in our relationship and if the knot aren’t solve I believe it will still be a problem.

 

This morning, he message me that let’s work hard together. Mayb I’ve lost confidence in him or there’s no interest to him on sex anymore. I reply him that let me think again ok? He’s mature enough that he understand what I’m thinking and won’t blame me for anything. Like I say above, I need to untie the knot.

 

will there be any solution? Haihsss I’m deeply confused now.

[Guest Benji]

It is a must. Must try a lot.

[Steve5380]

It is probably a must for a perfect slut.

[lovehandle]

from the video, sex cannot be just what some claimed to be that simply affectionate touching , it has to be more involvement