Firday Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 I wonder when their flight schedule left a week in Singapore ..how to start a relationship ? Anyone can contribute about this. FILA 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woot Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 I wonder when their flight schedule left a week in Singapore ..how to start a relationship ? Anyone can contribute about this.Yes of course. All the time haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 Crew have at least 10 days at home a month. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flexflexflex Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 It most definitely won't work for the clingy needy type of guys.But yeah, it's absolutely possible. It's all about time management. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 10, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) well unless those already settledown.. what about starting to dating time.. is there anyway or solution to expedite it... for example : move in to stay together change my job to suit his schedule..eg be your own boss to have flexi time. to fly together with him ? wow that will be costly. Edited February 10, 2014 by Firday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 10, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 Crew have at least 10 days at home a month.wow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 wow So have u just started dating a crew? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest derektan70 Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 I wonder when their flight schedule left a week in Singapore ..how to start a relationship ?Anyone can contribute about this.Requires a lot of trust and commitment. Been there, done that, been burned and yet still open to the idea. There are perks ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 10, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 Requires a lot of trust and commitment. Been there, done that, been burned and yet still open to the idea. There are perks ...been burned ...sian lox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted February 10, 2014 Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 Just be bolder, try a pilot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 11, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Just be bolder, try a pilot! U not helping much.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Btw, there's no correlation between occupations and relationships. There are devoted angels as much as there are the promiscuous sluts in the airlines. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 11, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Btw, there's no correlation between occupations and relationships. There are devoted angels as much as there are the promiscuous sluts in the airlines.omg...this is terrible hor. my worst fear then... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 11, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 few day during a chinese y new year gathering,friends were talking about their housemate who flew non stop, wonder how they going to settle down. suddenly i was thinking - how those partner live with it. those air steward - do they want to settle down with relationship when they almost can't commit.. but from the forum here, i gather the negative feedback. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Friendly Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 I know afew who does not work out..girls and guys alike. Sorry...but this is what i gather from pass friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 U not helping much..Sorry, it was a bad joke!I wish you all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Apparently, it's better than a long distance relationship where the other half may only have time to come back for a week or two annually. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wailo Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 I dated one, it lasted 3 months which is about as long as it gets for me. Yes it was not as bad as what people say, he's in singapore at least 1/4 the month at the minimum. It's not that they cannot commit to a relationship, but it's just they cannot commit to having a relationship with someone who needs to see his partner all the time. For god's sake, I think some people who don't travel as much also do not want to get into a clingy relationship. But the difficult thing is that the days which he's in SG does not necessarily coincide with my weekends. And I overtime quite a lot, so sometimes it's quite painful. Obviously you need trust, and you cannot be the clingy sticky type. If you are, your mind will just start imagining things. Like what is your bf doing at his hotel, he's in SG but you're at work is he really gymming alone, etc. You're better off dating someone else. quiton 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 The are couples staying in the next block of apartment who won't work. There are those with one staying in Jurong and the other in Pasir Ris who can work out. Distance is never an issue. If a partner wishes to stray, all he needs is an hour when he is not with you. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 12, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 occupational hazard... I guess the air crew do not have such privilege to have a relationship or dating. Any crew member like to share or contribute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 U r so so wrong.Many crew are happily married or attached.Occupation does not dictate faithfulness. cycle25 1 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wailo Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 My longest relationship was with a FA. My mum was a stewardess a long time back too, and she quit only after she got married and wanted kids. Straight and gay cabin crew can get into relationships. But well if you're not comfortable getting into one with one, because of the time spent apart, it's already cursed from the start. So if you still wanna think your way, well it's not wrong, just don't get attached to a flight attendant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Well, I never had a problem, it is usually character that ends up destroying the relationship. fab 1 Quote Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 13, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 interesting cases... I more convince with the first one of the indinfite time missing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 The only thing you can control is yourself. - what you choose to believe - what you choose to do - who you choose to dateEverything else is secondary, even the occupations of who you hook up with. Phil 1 Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 13, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 The only thing you can control is yourself. - what you choose to believe - what you choose to do - who you choose to dateEverything else is secondary, even the occupations of who you hook up with.well say... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faberC Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 well, of course it can work out.Everytime when the crew is flying, it's a break for each other, to catch up with friends or some quality time for self... isn't that bad at all, it balances up what one's need in life. Some times, being together ALL THE TIME can be suffocated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qiye Posted February 15, 2014 Report Share Posted February 15, 2014 everybody is able to have a relationship, unless one choose not to. regardless of career choice, a relationship can be formed.it is about the amount of effort one wishes to input into the relationship for it to work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 15, 2014 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2014 any crew member like to contribute too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted February 16, 2014 Report Share Posted February 16, 2014 They can of cos. Some of the crew members fall in love with each other. Time wise they can also proactively change their schedule to work together on the same flight or travel together. It's not an issue. :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted February 16, 2014 Report Share Posted February 16, 2014 My colleague swapped his flight to his bf flight during Valentines day so sweet I am so damn jealous Quote Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zzzzzzzz Posted February 17, 2014 Report Share Posted February 17, 2014 My ex was a german FA met in Germany. I like the arrangement of 4 days/month when I would work and clear my stuff and just enjoy the 4 days he was here. Would take long holiday either in Germany or SEA tog. But unfortunately, things didn't quite work out after some time as he wanted someone physically closer. But that was perhaps the best time of my life. Perfect fit for me but not for him. TwoChnBTMs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest derektan70 Posted February 17, 2014 Report Share Posted February 17, 2014 My colleague swapped his flight to his bf flight during Valentines day so sweet I am so damn jealousZwei with some forward planning, you could have done the same, no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted February 17, 2014 Report Share Posted February 17, 2014 Zwei with some forward planning, you could have done the same, no?if I had someone to do it with lo Quote Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest derektan70 Posted February 18, 2014 Report Share Posted February 18, 2014 if I had someone to do it with loOk ok noted. Next year I'll send you my roster ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InBishan Posted December 17, 2017 Report Share Posted December 17, 2017 I guess it is most forumers' dream to have an air steward as bf They are the sweetest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted December 18, 2017 Report Share Posted December 18, 2017 Maybe in the 80s or 90s yes because that time fewer airlines operating and they were very selective but not nowadays, standard drop quite a lot as there are so many airlines including budget air fighting for the limited pool of crews available, anyway back to the topic, I believe it is possible but just that there are more temptations and distractions they faced compared to other jobs, whey they are not in town, it is easy for their partner to stray and when they are out of towns, the temptations for them to stray is there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict94 Posted December 25, 2017 Report Share Posted December 25, 2017 heard from my friends is that budget carrier crew have to share room at outstation with another guy and both can proceed to have fun if they see eye to eye and those crew in full service airline who had the luxury of their own room can use hook-ups apps to host fun since the hotel room is already for him. then they r gym facilties at every hotel and onsen at north east asia destination for lustful encounter to take place while his partner at SG is hard at work. so my friend relationship didint work out too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MTR Posted January 9, 2018 Report Share Posted January 9, 2018 (edited) Experienced that for many years... damn irritating after a while and ended up giving up after we grew apart. It wasn’t a trust issue or anything, just when I’m at work he’s at home, when I’m home from work he’s likely flying somewhere for a few days to a week. It gets lonely and frustrating that our timing never really seems to match up. I need to sleep as I have to go to work in the morning, he’s up all night as he’s off the next day and so on. Scheduling holidays and leave are impossible. Public holidays when normal people are off - they are working. It’s all just too much for a relationship. I even get frustrated now thinking about it .... augh. (Side Note: I still live with the guy as we are good Friends (only) now... his schedule is still irritating but I don’t really care anymore as it has nothing to do with me lol) Edited January 9, 2018 by MTR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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