Discussion on Married Gay Men (有妇之夫) Whom Hv Gay Sex + An Open Letter to Married Men + Married men's stress & struggles (compiled)

[Guest Beep]

12 minutes ago, Guest for straight said:

 

 

Where to find them sia?

They are everywhere, even disguised as an innocent family man working in your office.

And of course, you need to consistently upgrade gaydar version.

[cutejack]

3 hours ago, Guest Beep said:

They are everywhere, even disguised as an innocent family man working in your office.

And of course, you need to consistently upgrade gaydar version.

Ya la .itsThey r everywhere.u gotta lure n pacify them to do something.if u like to suck more easy.every man like to b sucked which their wives dont do.i dont suck.if i can u could do it too

Hahahahahaha.

 

 

 

 

[Guest Student]

3 minutes ago, cutejack said:

Ya la .itsThey r everywhere.u gotta lure n pacify them to do something.if u like to suck more easy.every man like to b sucked which their wives dont do.i dont suck.if i can u could do it too

Hahahahahaha.

Please conduct a class on how to seduce married men. 

[Guest despo cj]

On Sunday, September 11, 2016 at 6:56 PM, cutejack said:

Ya nowadays i like to play with str8 married guys..shiok...i want the entire male on earth to hate women....hahahahaha

Wat has this to do with the topic????

[Guest who bends the Straights]

For me, is not so much about married or not, but it is the straightness that attracts me. Of course, being married makes the forbidden fruit tastier. I prefer to hang out or hook up with straight guys because they are less bitchy.

[cutejack]

Less bitchy but more romantic n foreplay.nice.

[jackrezal]

12 hours ago, cutejack said:

Less bitchy but more romantic n foreplay.nice.

Hmm, haven't found a married guy more romantic than my gay sex partners yet. Maybe you monopoly them all.

[Guest horny]

On 9/11/2016 at 6:56 PM, cutejack said:

Ya nowadays i like to play with str8 married guys..shiok...i want the entire male on earth to hate women....hahahahaha

 

It made me imagine that straight married men  before they go out and stray, they have to do their conjugal duties to their wife on a refular basis just to get the wife of their cocks and allay suspicions of a mistresss outside giving sex.

 

The straight guy is the sausage and the chicken being stuffed in the cavity is the..............

 

 

you still want str8 married men . I dont know how to cure you already

[Guest Yeasty mentaiko baguette]

I will seriously inspect their penises under a microscpe for candida albicans. No hot straight married man is worth the infection and ick factor. Extensive disinfection using the strongest fluconazole and propolis before proceeding. And if that doesn't kill the mood already.

[cutejack]

54 minutes ago, Guest Yeasty mentaiko baguette said:

I will seriously inspect their penises under a microscpe for candida albicans. No hot straight married man is worth the infection and ick factor. Extensive disinfection using the strongest fluconazole and propolis before proceeding. And if that doesn't kill the mood already.

Alamak.u doctor ha?all the medical twrm make my head spin.my above head ok.lol

 

 

 

[cutejack]

8 hours ago, jackrezal said:

Hmm, haven't found a married guy more romantic than my gay sex partners yet. Maybe you monopoly them all.

No monopoly no snake n ladder.wjen guys r horny no matter str8 or not str8 we will bcome animal on bed lol.tiobo?

[Guest Angga]

People look at me as religious, happily married man with a successful wife. She is always travelling and that started for me looking for fun and i found it with my friend who have a very high libido. It happened one night at our house, we were drinking and we thought to watch porn. My wife was away that time. He asked me to suck his dick and with a bit of hesitation, i still did it. Then he ask me to bend over and pull down my pants. Then he fucked me. My very first time. It was painful. My heart was beating fast. But the excited was still there and we akways do it everytime my wife is away. I'm very confuse. We've been married for 10 years and we still dont have any child. We rarely have sex also as she is always travelling and very tired. By the way, she is 7yrs older than me.  Is it better for us to get seperated?

[Guest AAA]

喜欢上有妇之夫，是不是注定辛苦下去！

[Baby Face]

2 hours ago, Guest AAA said:

喜欢上有妇之夫，是不是注定辛苦下去！

definitely.

[Zackling]

放手吧。短痛不如长痛。

[Guest AAA]

认识了他，他教会我很多事情，工作上的事情，做人的礼仪，虽然我们只是不到4年，说放下哪里容易放的下，有试过一天不要去理不要通电话，想把电话号码换掉，但不到一天还是过不了自己那关。

[snowball]

爱上，不一定要占有，因为每个人都是独立的，

最终，谁都不属于谁。

有很多人虽" 结了婚 "，但同床异梦，

有一些人，不能结合，但心却联系，

一旦执着，就会变成了复杂局面，

所以，无所求，才能 " 有所得 "

Edited November 29, 2016 by snowball

[fab]

Don't trouble troubles even when trouble troubles u.

[Guest Married man]

On 16/10/2016 at 2:01 AM, Guest Angga said:

People look at me as religious, happily married man with a successful wife. She is always travelling and that started for me looking for fun and i found it with my friend who have a very high libido. It happened one night at our house, we were drinking and we thought to watch porn. My wife was away that time. He asked me to suck his dick and with a bit of hesitation, i still did it. Then he ask me to bend over and pull down my pants. Then he fucked me. My very first time. It was painful. My heart was beating fast. But the excited was still there and we akways do it everytime my wife is away. I'm very confuse. We've been married for 10 years and we still dont have any child. We rarely have sex also as she is always travelling and very tired. By the way, she is 7yrs older than me.  Is it better for us to get seperated?

If no kids and You no longer love your Wife then divorce is the best for everyone. Provided you have the financial means as it sounded like you depended on yr Wife too. 

If you are free then are you going to find a gay partner or just have plenty of gay sex? 

I Guess You need to know what you want in life. 

 

[Guest VoucherLover]

On 07/08/2016 at 6:59 PM, Guest Second 'wife' said:

Find a discreet fuck buddy and keep him as your second 'Wife'. 

I have been doing that for 30 yrs... Be sure to be nice and fair to both Wife and fuck buddy... Meaning satisfy both...Everyone is happy. 

 

I agree to this. I've been in similar situation for almost 2 yrs know.

[Guest Benx3]

Do you think she doesn’t know?

[Guest Yes she knows]

She knows and she doesn't care. Frankly I think she needs a house caretaker more than a Husband. She hasn't had sex with you but bec she was tired after the traveling... it is bec she has been fucking different guys with bugger and fatter cocks outside and she has no interest to entertain your Tauhu cock. 

I know bec I have been there and done that.... best to stick w her for her money and the freedom she gives you. This is the best arrangement for the two of you. Another thing... yr friends Wife also knew her Husband is fucking you regukarky... she doesn't care either bec she is really too tired to have sex w Him!

[fab]

On 29/11/2016 at 6:39 PM, Zackling said:

放手吧。短痛不如长痛。

 

短一点痛

长会痛

鬆不会痛

宽最痛

[Guest Tsk tsk]

26 minutes ago, fab said:

 

短一点痛

长会痛

鬆不会痛

宽最痛

You 贱人贱智。

[fab]

智，不怕贱，只怕无。

[tyan]

On 12/1/2016 at 1:43 PM, Guest Married man said:

If no kids and You no longer love your Wife then divorce is the best for everyone. Provided you have the financial means as it sounded like you depended on yr Wife too. 

If you are free then are you going to find a gay partner or just have plenty of gay sex? 

I Guess You need to know what you want in life. 

 

Another key word. Religion. Are u one of those who people look up to u in ur religion? If so, added complexity.

[Cosmo guy]

walking in public places and those married guy stare at you is a priceless LOL 

[Fit4Masc]

Never quite understood how all these works.   Unless one is 50/50 bi-sexual, than there is this ability to still "conform" to what society expects of you and go get married.  But if one is more gay than hetero.  Than I see it as trying to live a lie, just so to please others and ending up not having a fully satisfying life.  Also to me, its not just about yourself, your need to pretend to be straight, just so that others will accept you.  There is this moral dilemma of cheating the person you are married to, out of a good fulfilling life, which I find abhorrent and can never bring myself to do such to another human being.  To me a marriage is about mutual respect, partnership, honesty and life companionship.  If you married someone with the intention to lie to him or her for the rest of their lives, so that you can "Use" the other person to cover yourself from your own insecurities about your own sexuality and from being true to yourself.  Than to me, that is not a marriage, that is a deliberate attempt to cheat and deprive another human, worst, to someone who actually cares about you,  off a fulfilling life, which to me is absolutely unforgivable.  I will hate that person for a few lifetime, if anyone were to USE me to cover up their own lie and insecurities, instead of genuinely wanting to be a part of me and my life!

 

Edited July 7, 2019 by Fit4Masc

[Fit4Masc]

On 10/26/2013 at 10:30 PM, ConfusedGuy26 said:

Has been a guest reading this forum till decided to leave a message here. I am confused. I like guys but I am getting married next year. I have encountered with guys and realized I like guys but I am with my girlfriend. And we are preparing our wedding now.

Should I just get married and have fun or should I call off the wedding? Dilemma. Help...

Only you can answer that.  To me personally,  I value honesty and truthfulness, not just to yourself, but to the person that you intend to spend your life with.  If you can't even do that, than it is a very sad existent.  Lying to yourself is one thing. But lying to someone for the rest of their life!, someone who show care for you some more, is the worst thing a person can do to another person.  If you truly love and sexually attracted to her, than be honest with her.  Tell her you are sexually attracted to guys too, but you still sexually attracted to her and loved her.  If she can put up with you being Bi than that is the best.  otherwise you will live a half unfulfilling life, constantly out in secret looking to satisfy your gays urges.  Living a life of lie for the rest of your days or worst created a broken family, ruining the life of a few people because of your own selfish lie.

Edited July 9, 2019 by Fit4Masc

[Guest Tony Chen]

11 minutes ago, Fit4Masc said:

Only you can answer that.  To me personally,  I value honesty and truthfulness, not just to yourself, but to the person that you intend to spend your life with.  If you can't even do that, than it is a very sad existent.  Lying to yourself is one thing. But lying to someone for the rest of their life!, someone who show care for you some more, is the worst thing a person can do to another person.  If you truly love and sexually attracted to her, than be honest with her.  Tell her you are sexually attracted to guys too, but you still sexually attracted to her and loved her.  If she can put up with you being Bi than that is the best.  otherwise you will live a half unfulfilling life, constantly out in secret looking to satisfy your gays urges.  Not many can live a life of lie.

Wow... you are replying to something from 2013? LOL 

[Fit4Masc]

2 minutes ago, Guest Tony Chen said:

Wow... you are replying to something from 2013? LOL 

ops didn't notice the date of post, thanks for letting me know how blurr I was....he probably married and have 2 kids by now

 

Edited July 9, 2019 by Fit4Masc

[Guest Tony Chen]

25 minutes ago, Fit4Masc said:

ops didn't notice the date of post, thanks for letting me know how blurr I was....he probably married and have 2 kids by now

 

Hehe no problem ! Or maybe stalking the saunas every weekday night on the pretext of “overtime”. LOL

[Tampguy79]

What r the things we married man struggle with? 

 

[justaguy74]

No place to have fun

[4cd]

Tight schedule and limited time.

[whitefuck]

1 hour ago, Tampguy79 said:

What r the things we married man struggle with? 

 

 

Aint an issue. lots of motels around dude

[Kiko]

Being married but unable to get the desire fulfill most of the time

[Tampguy79]

1 hour ago, justaguy74 said:

No place to have fun

ya. hard to find

[Tampguy79]

Just now, Kiko said:

Being married but unable to get the desire fulfill most of the time

i totally understand how u felt 

[Tampguy79]

is it us the more sexual active ones that feels not fulfill? or we watch too much porn that in reality we want it the way? 🤔

[Marrieddecent]

Yes u r rite

[maturemedium]

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Edited April 8, 2020 by maturemedium

[Tampguy79]

2 hours ago, maturemedium said:

A husband, father, little sex little and no place for additional fun.

additional fun meaning? 

[mesmerizedglobal]

On 1/20/2020 at 6:11 PM, Tampguy79 said:

is it us the more sexual active ones that feels not fulfill? or we watch too much porn that in reality we want it the way? 🤔

Maybe this is the reason?

 

I find that being in many sites that are gay-focused, the more we desire.

 

Nowadays, I prefer friendship activities- chatting, drinking, sharing common interests (other than men lol). Happy to keep it that way.

 

Been thinking that hugs, touch and cuddles are enough for me to satisfy my "needs".

[Tampguy79]

24 minutes ago, mesmerizedglobal said:

Maybe this is the reason?

 

I find that being in many sites that are gay-focused, the more we desire.

 

Nowadays, I prefer friendship activities- chatting, drinking, sharing common interests (other than men lol). Happy to keep it that way.

 

Been thinking that hugs, touch and cuddles are enough for me to satisfy my "needs".

ok that is nice to know

[Garyl]

Hug. Touch. Cuddles .. same as sex?

[Guest semb23chn]

sometimes just wanna lay back and be served I guess 

[Tampguy79]

Just now, semb23chn said:

sometimes just wanna lay back and be served I guess 

i assume u r the one doing most of the work? so when u ask to switch over....she does not willingly do so?

[Tampguy79]

does anyone here like to give wife oral sex but they dislike it n inly to give in coz they just want to “ get over n done with” ? 

 

i mean i love to give oral to wife. but she just not into it. n even she allows it, its just for a good 1-2 min....  hummm...

[AFter8]

2 minutes ago, Tampguy79 said:

does anyone here like to give wife oral sex but they dislike it n inly to give in coz they just want to “ get over n done with” ? 

 

i mean i love to give oral to wife. but she just not into it. n even she allows it, its just for a good 1-2 min....  hummm...

Maybe a longer foreplay can arouse her to get the hots and give in to your tongue for another 8-10 minutes? 😘