CurBi Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 mostly hard to maintain discreet and no place for extra fun. Tampguy79 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Tampguy79 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 4:32 AM, AFter8 said: Maybe a longer foreplay can arouse her to get the hots and give in to your tongue for another 8-10 minutes? 😘 Expand hahaah. sadly no matter foreplay how long she just not into it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/21/2020 at 3:04 PM, semb23chn said: sometimes just wanna lay back and be served I guess Expand ya i totally agreed. its less then 10 times i get served. when i ask to be served she will say no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Think Of Others Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:05 AM, Tampguy79 said: ya i totally agreed. its less then 10 times i get served. when i ask to be served she will say no. Expand "Served" used by two persons here. Ooohhh.... What a word to use in a relationship, I think. 🤔🤔🤔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:03 AM, Tampguy79 said: hahaah. sadly no matter foreplay how long she just not into it. Expand How many years ago did you make love to her? What did you do at that time to fire her up, yearning for more of your tongue and rod? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:17 AM, Think Of Others said: "Served" used by two persons here. Ooohhh.... What a word to use in a relationship, I think. 🤔🤔🤔 Expand As the fairer sex climbs up higher the ladder of gender equality these days, they scoff off the idea of serving a 老爷, and may get disgusted by it. Also to some women, sex is dirty, so does not want it to be part of the relationship formula. They could choose to dominate over their other spouses in career achievements to attain comfort for themselves ("Wash the dishes and laundry!"; "Mop the house!"; "Change the diapers!"; "Fetch the kids to and from school!")... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:31 AM, AFter8 said: As the fairer sex climbs up higher the ladder of gender equality these days, they scoff off the idea of serving a 老爷, and may get disgusted by it. Also to some women, sex is dirty, so does not want it to be part of the relationship formula. They could choose to dominate over their other spouses in career achievements to attain comfort for themselves ("Wash the dishes and laundry!"; "Mop the house!"; "Change the diapers!"; "Fetch the kids to and from school!")... Expand wow. its deep. indeed i think its happening such as u said. AFter8 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Think Of Others Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:31 AM, AFter8 said: As the fairer sex climbs up higher the ladder of gender equality these days, they scoff off the idea of serving a 老爷, and may get disgusted by it. Also to some women, sex is dirty, so does not want it to be part of the relationship formula. They could choose to dominate over their other spouses in career achievements to attain comfort for themselves ("Wash the dishes and laundry!"; "Mop the house!"; "Change the diapers!"; "Fetch the kids to and from school!")... Expand Well, it appears to me that the women as described above simply have strong personality and character. Guys need to know how to accept and handle them. Really not easy, must tread carefully in order not to step on landmines. mesmerizedglobal 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 7:12 AM, Think Of Others said: Well, it appears to me that the women as described above simply have strong personality and character. Guys need to know how to accept and handle them. Really not easy, must tread carefully in order not to step on landmines. Expand Yah boy.. Women these days love to compare notes over afternoon high tea about how to squeeze the most out of their other halves without venturing into bed exercises lol. It’s a sign of changing times and trends in the local context. Sad, are we guys... 😑 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 8:44 AM, AFter8 said: Yah boy.. Women these days love to compare notes over afternoon high tea about how to squeeze the most out of their other halves without venturing into bed exercises lol. It’s a sign of changing times and trends in the local context. Sad, are we guys... 😑 Expand r u serious?? they talked abt such??!! oh my tian.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 9:35 AM, Tampguy79 said: r u serious?? they talked abt such??!! oh my tian.... Expand Voilà! This illustrates the adage that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We grow up being wired differently, our body make up are also different, so our needs can be extreme lor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 28, 2020 Report Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 3:12 PM, AFter8 said: Voilà! This illustrates the adage that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We grow up being wired differently, our body make up are also different, so our needs can be extreme lor. Expand oh well... i agreed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gucici Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 Usually is the time. Even no time to play game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnglesnDemons Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 8:51 AM, gucici said: Usually is the time. Even no time to play game. Expand Yep. No time for anything so have to try to slip in time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 8:56 AM, AnglesnDemons said: Yep. No time for anything so have to try to slip in time. Expand this is effort! but then our next half should b responsive but most of times is not so. 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 2:20 PM, Tampguy79 said: this is effort! but then our next half should b responsive but most of times is not so. 🤣 Expand Whisper sweet nothings into her ear for a start? mesmerizedglobal 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesmerizedglobal Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 5:17 AM, Think Of Others said: "Served" used by two persons here. Ooohhh.... What a word to use in a relationship, I think. 🤔🤔🤔 Expand It's probably just a play of words. I will never use the word "use" for my spouse but " served" is more a kinky way to express it. Really depends on the intention. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesmerizedglobal Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 4:32 AM, AFter8 said: Maybe a longer foreplay can arouse her to get the hots and give in to your tongue for another 8-10 minutes? 😘 Expand The pleasure of giving pleasure excites. But never did this often. Foreplay helps but even this is hard to start 10 yrs down the road. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesmerizedglobal Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 Extra time or regular time with buddy is not enough and may not be sustainable long term. Hence hard to find a regular buddy in whatever context Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 3:07 PM, mesmerizedglobal said: The pleasure of giving pleasure excites. But never did this often. Foreplay helps but even this is hard to start 10 yrs down the road. Expand I agree with you on the hard part as a couple ages with the years. I remember vividly that my boss would go on regular hot dates with his wifey, leaving their kids with his in-laws. The romance has to go on, no matter how recent or how long after the marital union lor. mesmerizedglobal 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 3:12 PM, AFter8 said: I agree with you on the hard part as a couple ages with the years. I remember vividly that my boss would go on regular hot dates with his wifey, leaving their kids with his in-laws. The romance has to go on, no matter how recent or how long after the marital union lor. Expand agreed. yet 1 of the common problem, (in my own thinking) is that when we try to keep the romance up n yet we dont get back the results (no need 100%) we as hubby also will get sian. Whitehair 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 On 1/29/2020 at 3:07 PM, mesmerizedglobal said: The pleasure of giving pleasure excites. But never did this often. Foreplay helps but even this is hard to start 10 yrs down the road. Expand hummm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gucici Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 Watch porn n diy? Curious1989 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john1965 Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 I'm married, the main issue is my wife does not have a dick lol............. seriously though, I do have a long term femboi friend and I often wonder what it would be like to live with her full time............... our meetings are red hot and have been for the 8 years we have been together---- but I do feel if she was here all the time it would cool off.... just like a marriage..... so maybe my torture of not meeting her when i want is what keeps the lust alive -----she lives with parents and we struggle to find safe place and time to meet------ but to answer the 'married man struggles' I'd say it is the balancing act of 'normal' life and the deep secret desire to be with my submissive pretty little femboi. AnglesnDemons 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 On 1/30/2020 at 12:52 AM, Tampguy79 said: agreed. yet 1 of the common problem, (in my own thinking) is that when we try to keep the romance up n yet we dont get back the results (no need 100%) we as hubby also will get sian. Expand I feel you. 😎 Tampguy79 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnglesnDemons Posted January 30, 2020 Report Share Posted January 30, 2020 On 1/30/2020 at 1:57 AM, gucici said: Watch porn n diy? Expand Haha. I'm sure all of us already do this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archdraong Posted February 1, 2020 Report Share Posted February 1, 2020 On 1/30/2020 at 12:52 AM, Tampguy79 said: agreed. yet 1 of the common problem, (in my own thinking) is that when we try to keep the romance up n yet we dont get back the results (no need 100%) we as hubby also will get sian. Expand The dead bedroom issue is quite an issue for married couples or even unmarried ones these days. There's a whole Reddit thread on this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampguy79 Posted February 3, 2020 Report Share Posted February 3, 2020 On 1/30/2020 at 1:57 AM, gucici said: Watch porn n diy? Expand been there done that. just different feel. its that connectedness with wife ...oh well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted February 3, 2020 Report Share Posted February 3, 2020 On 2/3/2020 at 3:28 AM, Tampguy79 said: been there done that. just different feel. its that connectedness with wife ...oh well. Expand Keep working on it with her. She’s your soulmate this lifetime. 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgayanami Posted February 4, 2020 Report Share Posted February 4, 2020 On 1/30/2020 at 2:21 AM, john1965 said: I'm married, the main issue is my wife does not have a dick lol............. seriously though, I do have a long term femboi friend and I often wonder what it would be like to live with her full time............... our meetings are red hot and have been for the 8 years we have been together---- but I do feel if she was here all the time it would cool off.... just like a marriage..... so maybe my torture of not meeting her when i want is what keeps the lust alive -----she lives with parents and we struggle to find safe place and time to meet------ but to answer the 'married man struggles' I'd say it is the balancing act of 'normal' life and the deep secret desire to be with my submissive pretty little femboi. Expand I'd like to know your femboi friend if possible =) Daddyhunter 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john1965 Posted February 5, 2020 Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 On 2/4/2020 at 4:23 PM, sgayanami said: I'd like to know your femboi friend if possible =) Expand it may well be possible if you interested in 3some.... its a fantasy of hers.... Daddyhunter 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rtan Posted February 5, 2020 Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 When my sub btm is craving for my cum while im with my wife braNpanty and Daddyhunter 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chiva Som Posted February 5, 2020 Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 On 2/5/2020 at 1:50 AM, Rtan said: When my sub btm is craving for my cum while im with my wife Expand Wow! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A350-900ULR Posted February 5, 2020 Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 On 2/1/2020 at 3:09 AM, archdraong said: The dead bedroom issue is quite an issue for married couples or even unmarried ones these days. There's a whole Reddit thread on this Expand My Bf and I have a ‘dead bedroom’ in terms of sex (if that’s what you call it). It’s been that way for many years. Yet it’s alive in a different sense, with love — kissing hugging and touching. We’re monogamous btw, and happy keeping it that way. If i feel horny (we’re human after all), I just jerk it off — the urge is over and done with in less than 5 minutes, and that frees you to get on with your life and focus on more productive things without distraction. Why risk losing a priceless r’ship with my soulmate just for a short meaningless fuck of a fling with someone else? Expired Btm Uncle and archdraong 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enrique Posted February 5, 2020 Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 Guys tend not to think properly or logically (hence making bad decisions) when they’re horny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whamp0a Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 On 2/3/2020 at 4:45 AM, AFter8 said: Keep working on it with her. She’s your soulmate this lifetime. 😘 Expand Yes, it is a lot of hard work... 😔🤗 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 On 2/7/2020 at 12:01 AM, Whamp0a said: Yes, it is a lot of hard work... 😔🤗 Expand You worked very hard to court and win her hand in marriage. After that, you’ll just have to continue to continue winning her lor. It’s the same even for a gay relationship, cos we are all humans. 😉 archdraong 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AFter8 Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 Poor thing with doggy for company. Has it happened to any of you before? 😑 NeverAsk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archdraong Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 (edited) On 2/5/2020 at 6:16 AM, A350-900ULR said: My Bf and I have a ‘dead bedroom’ in terms of sex (if that’s what you call it). It’s been that way for many years. Yet it’s alive in a different sense, with love — kissing hugging and touching. We’re monogamous btw, and happy keeping it that way. If i feel horny (we’re human after all), I just jerk it off — the urge is over and done with in less than 5 minutes, and that frees you to get on with your life and focus on more productive things without distraction. Why risk losing a priceless r’ship with my soulmate just for a short meaningless fuck of a fling with someone else? Expand Tbh if both sides are okay with the status quo of dead bedroom. Then that's fine as not everyone is so into the whole sexual release be it guys or girls. It only becomes an issue when it affects adversely either side. But like you've said, it's better to fix the issue without looking for just temporary release, of course unless the other party is okay with your flings (you can't blame him or her I'd they do the same as well) Edited February 7, 2020 by archdraong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indmarried Posted September 2, 2020 Report Share Posted September 2, 2020 On 1/28/2020 at 4:28 AM, Tampguy79 said: does anyone here like to give wife oral sex but they dislike it n inly to give in coz they just want to “ get over n done with” ? i mean i love to give oral to wife. but she just not into it. n even she allows it, its just for a good 1-2 min.... hummm... Expand Same here 😭 NeverAsk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ploplo Posted September 3, 2020 Report Share Posted September 3, 2020 Greetings All. I am newbie here. Struggles are knowing that i am a closet Bi but already married. Now faced with constraints and getting used to it - place, tight schedule, being discreet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ploplo Posted September 3, 2020 Report Share Posted September 3, 2020 On 2/3/2020 at 4:45 AM, AFter8 said: Keep working on it with her. She’s your soulmate this lifetime. 😘 Expand Well said... 👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slowmo Posted September 3, 2020 Report Share Posted September 3, 2020 (edited) On 9/3/2020 at 12:07 AM, ploplo said: Greetings All. I am newbie here. Struggles are knowing that i am a closet Bi but already married. Now faced with constraints and getting used to it - place, tight schedule, being discreet. Expand . Edited October 12, 2021 by Slowmo Whitehair 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesmerizedglobal Posted September 3, 2020 Report Share Posted September 3, 2020 On 9/2/2020 at 11:26 AM, indmarried said: Same here 😭 Expand Not very often. Can count few times she allowed me to. Sort of like it, last time I almost cummed doing it, maybe the thrill and beong carried away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveCum Posted September 11, 2020 Report Share Posted September 11, 2020 (edited) , Edited September 18, 2020 by LoveCum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drektster Posted September 11, 2020 Report Share Posted September 11, 2020 i believe that living in a city is always stressful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkymale Posted September 12, 2020 Report Share Posted September 12, 2020 On 9/11/2020 at 11:40 PM, LoveCum said: These days married men are stressed. Family work, romance, ...almost everything Expand Really meh. U married guy har Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xiaox1n Posted September 12, 2020 Report Share Posted September 12, 2020 aiyah...everyone have stress la Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mopiz Posted September 12, 2020 Report Share Posted September 12, 2020 yalor.. if you asked, having a married guy as boyfriend more stressful 😪 Slowmo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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