Wide Age Gap Relationship + R/ship Btw A Younger And Older Guy + Does Age Matters In A R/ship? (Compiled)

[snowball]

when still deeply in love, age is not a problem, but when love become sour, you have full of reason to make it sound logic to have a " Gap "

[Guest Relationship]

I met a guy who was 15 years older than me once. We did click a lot, had a lot of topics to talk about.

He thought I was 30 plus before meeting me.

So I think age doesn't matter. You need to see if you can click with him.

It's so sweet that both of you clicked a lot, and had a lot of topics to talk about, even though he was 15 years older than you.

Did both of you get into a relationship?

[kimlo777]

I am 54yo this year. I have a 28yo Thai boyfriend in Bangkok who is my regular sex partner whenever I am in Thailand. Most of you will be thinking that he's in it for my money.

Haha, but money doesn't count in our relationship. He is heir to a multi-million dollar business empire, happily married with children but he just adores the way I worship his manhood. We have been together for more than 2 years. And he is the one who gives expensive gifts not the other way round. Honestly, I can't afford to be giving away expensive gifts - lol.

[Guest BEAUTY]

I am 54yo this year. I have a 28yo Thai boyfriend in Bangkok who is my regular sex partner whenever I am in Thailand. Most of you will be thinking that he's in it for my money.

Haha, but money doesn't count in our relationship. He is heir to a multi-million dollar business empire, happily married with children but he just adores the way I worship his manhood. We have been together for more than 2 years. And he is the one who gives expensive gifts not the other way round. Honestly, I can't afford to be giving away expensive gifts - lol.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me where you buy your Kong Tao (Black Magic) !!! I also want!!!

[allmyimages2020]

For me, compatibility in age and financial status are bases for build a LTR.

My bf is ONE month younger than me and we have similar spending power. This July, we will be celebrating our 28th anniversary ...

Interestingly, we first met each other in Singapore though we are BOTH not Singaporeans! We both left Singapore in 1991.

[Panadol]

Seriously, its all about mutual understanding for each other....and obviously must be able to click in terms of matching frequencies....

Edited June 17, 2011 by Panadol

[Phil]

age does matter lol

Maybe not so much in case of real mutual love...

And age gap is a relative notion: 10 years gap is considerable when you are 20, but not so important when you are 50...

I'm 10 years older than my bf, and we have been in love for 10 years now.

Good luck to all of you

[Guest Edge]

Guys how far is your age gap with your boyfriend ?

My age mid 30's his is early 50's.

13 yrs gap.

So have the biggers age gap?

[Guest Kees]

My is 15 yrs gap.

I'm son his daddy

[Guest 21 years age gap]

We have a 21years age gap.

I'm 19 and he is 40.

But we are madly in love, and we are cohabiting now.

[Guest SOL15]

me is 32 and he is 24.

[Guest Same]

We have a 21years age gap.

I'm 19 and he is 40.

But we are madly in love, and we are cohabiting now.

We are same . 19 here , and bf is 39

[Guest Guest]

We are same . 19 here , and bf is 39

Yes I know same.

You know why same cos we share the same bf he did't tell u?

[allmyimages2020]

MIne is only 2 months!! :-)

[Marineboy]

Mine 9years...we have been together for 11years and counting :thumb:

[orca888]

Used to be attached to a guy 13 years my junior for 18 years before we broke up recently...

[Guest Guest]

my ex and current bf both 9years older than me. u ask me to find bf around my age, i cant click also partly my mind is also behaving like a older man.

[GachiMuchi]

Guys how far is your age gap with your boyfriend ? My age mid 30's his is early 50's. 13 yrs gap. So have the biggers age gap?

My is 15 yrs gap. I'm son his daddy

Both Edge and Kees shares the same IP and posted one after the other.

[westcampus]

I met my bf via Grindr. we are both Indonesian Chinese. We just started our relationship on 23 August 2011! (VERY NEW!)

He is 37 and I am 23.

14 years difference and we are now madly in love.

I am flying off to Ireland for 4 months so it's gonna be a test for us!

Wish me all the best! (:

[Guest IamPineapple]

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Edited September 25, 2011 by IamPineapple

[waterballoon]

Both Edge and Kees shares the same IP and posted one after the other.

hahaha. how pathetic.

anyway, used to think it'd be okay even if my bf was way older than me, cos it's love. then the idea of not being able to grow up together, and experience the same kind of feelings, happiness and pain of the world that we are progressing together made me realize i should look for someone near my age.

[Guest Ggoocc]

Used to be with someone 7 years older. I was 22 and he 29 when we met. I was fresh out of school then into my first job. over the 9 years we were together, I progressed in many aspects of my life while time more or less stood still for him. It ended eventually. Noire with someone 4 years younger and we are more in tune with each other.

[Guest Guest]

mixing with too many older ppl make me feel old...most of my gay frens are at least move than 6 years older than me.

[suckling_pig]

23 years age gap. When we met, I was twinkish and he was uncle. Now we are both uncle. hmmm

[kreme]

I met my bf via Grindr. we are both Indonesian Chinese. We just started our relationship on 23 August 2011! (VERY NEW!) He is 37 and I am 23. 14 years difference and we are now madly in love. I am flying off to Ireland for 4 months so it's gonna be a test for us! Wish me all the best! (:

its gonna be a tough journey. nevertheless, all the best

[Guest Guest]

my first was 10 years younger. it lasted 7 years. my second is 12 years younger. we are into our 7th year and counting!

:-)

[northernboi]

awwwwwwwwwww so nice lor phil! well wishes for ya!

[Foreign Talent]

Can I just make a simple point please? I don't think you can equate age with maturity - I have met some younger people who are incredibly mature for their age. I have an 18 year old friend who has experienced very challenging circumstances in her life which has forced her to grow up way before her time and I feel like I am speaking to a streetwise, experienced, mature adult when I am talking to her. Likewise, I had a friend who dated an older guy who was 'straight' for a long time then decided to experiment dating men - and oh boy, the amount of bullshit he had to put up with this older guy who had yet to have the chance to figure out his sexual identity and at times, my friend felt so frustrated that despite dating an older man he felt like he was handling an immature teenager still terribly confused in so many ways.

So it's not your age per se, it's your maturity, your state of mind that matters.

[DriveMe]

If both parties love each other dearly,then I don't see why age matters.

I'm in love with a man recently;who's currently studying overseas,and he's returning on December,and he's afraid that our relationship may not be successful.

I've promised to him that I won't give my cock to other men before he gets back,and we're gonna meet the day after Christmas and exchange gifts.I can't stop falling in love with him,and he's about 7 years older than me,but I don't care.

What matters is the love for each other and how you would maintain it throughout your life.

[Guest Rivrics]

As posted, age does not equate to emotional maturity. This is the usual progression:

1. Spills

2. Drills

3. Thrills

4. Bills

5. Ills

6. Pills

7. Wills

Emotional Maturity grows with experience, not age! Time is a poor measurement of experience as one does not reflect on his life hence the "stubbornness" one faces. As one faces trauma, usually an illness, it forces an experience, "ego" must be shed. Reflection occurs and one get clarity on their life. Clarity is a blessed trait that is missed by many. How many people do you know can make themselves clear without fear? Clarity does not mean rudeness or being spiteful. It is being real in reality.

Age does not matter. It is the reality that both observes that share as values and most importantly, you complement each other and grow each other!

[Guest Cw30]

Dont think too much. Appreciate the moment

[happy.99]

age doesn't matter as it does not mean old is matured or young is immature. it is all depend on individual's needs.

[Guest Staying together]

Mine is 20 years older than me. He is 56 this year. We have been staying together for 6 years +. :-)

[westcampus]

its gonna be a tough journey. nevertheless, all the best

Hey Thanks

[Guest Age does not matter]

17 years between me and my BF, and to be honest its something that has not crossed my mine until I was reading this, so no age does not matter

[northernboi]

I met my bf via Grindr. we are both Indonesian Chinese. We just started our relationship on 23 August 2011! (VERY NEW!)

He is 37 and I am 23.

14 years difference and we are now madly in love.

I am flying off to Ireland for 4 months so it's gonna be a test for us!

Wish me all the best! (:

all the best to u...

[Guest Marad44]

... understand why this person wants to be with you, and why u want to be with him...

Generation gap should thin out as the couple mature. For instance the generation gap between a 20 & 30 year old couple will be narrower when they are 30 & 40, more so when they 40 & 50 and so on.

It stands to reason why a guy at 20 would face a bigger challenge with his older man than a guy at 30.

[Guest oishi]

i think its very easy to be madly in love when there is a huge age gap- the older one is excited at such a fresh young blood rejuvenating his life. the younger one is excited at finding someone with an unfamiliar/exciting sense of maturity to "take care" of him. however, from personal experience; normally it doesn't last very long. once the 'madly in love' honeymoon period is over, the reality sets in. you realise you have few topics in common when you start having deeper conversations beyond "i love you". I have been in both ends of the relationship few times before and it always seems to happen. and when you meet someone along the way whom you are attracted to, and seem to have similar 'generation understanding", thats when the troubles start.

[evianguy]

On a related issue about relationships with age gaps, Is it true that the older partner is more often than not the top?

Edited November 9, 2011 by evianguy

[sgboy82]

i think its very easy to be madly in love when there is a huge age gap- the older one is excited at such a fresh young blood rejuvenating his life. the younger one is excited at finding someone with an unfamiliar/exciting sense of maturity to "take care" of him. however, from personal experience; normally it doesn't last very long. once the 'madly in love' honeymoon period is over, the reality sets in. you realise you have few topics in common when you start having deeper conversations beyond "i love you". I have been in both ends of the relationship few times before and it always seems to happen. and when you meet someone along the way whom you are attracted to, and seem to have similar 'generation understanding", thats when the troubles start.

I share the same thought.

[Kolomon]

I think age is just a number, like how weight, height, distance is. You will never know who you will fall for.

What matters is, that you two are happy and comfortable with one another. There must be chemistry between the two, if it doesn't, the relationship will not work out. Chemistry between two person is hard to come by, so treasure it. =D

[Marineboy]

I think age is just a number, like how weight, height, distance is. You will never know who you will fall for.

What matters is, that you two are happy and comfortable with one another. There must be chemistry between the two, if it doesn't, the relationship will not work out. Chemistry between two person is hard to come by, so treasure it. =D

Youngman you're sound so grown up liao

[Guest Marad44]

Chemistry

No Physics or Biology? :oops:

[RinTinTin]

I'm 18, never really got a bf but I do prefer older men 19 ~ 30.

Sometimes I feel like if the gap is pretty big, it'll be difficult to communicate, since like we may have different interests and or something like that.

Then again, I guess it really differs for each individual. Age to some, is just a number. While others think it is very 'important'?

[Kolomon]

Youngman you're sound so grown up liao

Thank you

Just what I personally think and believe.

No Physics or Biology? :oops:

Well I think for Physics, you would need Force = Mass x Acceleration. For what purposes you should know

Biology would be his stats.

Hehe.

[Magicerife]

biostatistics would change over time as well isnt it? no amount of botox can save that sagging skin and wrinkles in years to come. age wouldn't miraculoulsy recline either; unless you shortchange it. and i havent seen a lot of males maintaining firm toned solid washboard abs in their 40s; most become what's epitomized by our warrant officers - big beer paunch.

i would think what goes within the cranium and the heart that beats matter more.

[ashtonxia]

Thank you

Just what I personally think and believe.

Well I think for Physics, you would need Force = Mass x Acceleration. For what purposes you should know

Biology would be his stats.

Hehe.

Teacher: "how to remember formula of force easily, students?"

Me: "use acronyms! F= M.a --> fxxk my ass"

Teacher: *stunned*

[Kolomon]

Teacher: "how to remember formula of force easily, students?"

Me: "use acronyms! F= M.a --> fxxk my ass"

Teacher: *stunned*

Aahahahah! Why didn't I think of that before? My god, this is funny.

[Guest Marad44]

use acronyms!

Ashton, check this out: The List of Chat Acronyms & Text Message Shorthand:

http://www.netlingo.com/acronyms.php

Edited November 9, 2011 by Marad44

[Krypton]

Me and my bf have a 15 yrs gap and we have been together for 3 yrs. Communication is important so there must be some common interest or both share similar perspective of life. If both can click and have a common understanding of each other, then u won't feel the age gap being an obstacle.