Guest DreamHunter Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 Have you guys ever been forced to take off your shirt as a kid? Till I was about 7 or 8, I would wear tees and shorts at home and pajamas to bed. When I got back home one day, I realized my mum had accidentally shrunk a bunch of my tees in the wash. I tried wearing one and it was too tight. I was 8 but I was a tall and bigger kid. Not fat but not small sized. My mum told me she will buy new shirts the next day and told me to adjust for the day. So I just wore it. At this point, my dad was home. My dad is one of those manly, sporty cig-smoking kind of guys who rarely wears a shirt indoors and outdoors sometimes. He was a school athlete and exercises regularly with a fit body. He just tells me, you’re a big boy. You don’t have to wear a shirt at home. I was confused but he told me I looked stupid in this shirt. He just came up to me and pulled the shirt off me. I remember just standing there really embarrassed but my dad was like stop being a baby, this is normal. And that was just the start. He convinced my mother not to buy me any shirts to wear at home saying it is a waste of money. So I was just wearing shorts at home. I eventually grew out of my pajamas and ended up just sleeping in shorts as well. I didn’t get any new clothes. I only got clothes to wear when we went out. It was not like we were poor my dad just didn’t think boys needed to wear much at home. Hahaha.Although I was embarrassed and shy at first, it helped me a lot with my confidence and become more comfortable with my body. I took care of myself. I was athletic and would eat right. My dad and I would even go running and exercise in the park when I was in my teens. I guess we bonded because of being shirtless a lot. I have to say that if not for him, I would not be physically fit and strong and also comfortable with my body. I have to thank him. And to top things off, he still is in great shape continuing to run regularly and even gyms. He’s strong and fit and can even put some younger guys to shame.Has anyone ever had a similar experience where you were forced to be shirtless? Embarrassing at first but turned to be something positive later? trxsuspension 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majesty Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 nope. cuz i'm more stubborn than my parents :/ apparently not so good to be stubborn when u are young... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 The weather. 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trxsuspension Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 You need to come back to earth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youngpunk Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 totally wasn't expecting such a heartwarming story. haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 Thought it is common or a norm to see guys shirtless at hm? 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
journey Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 You need to come back to earthLolx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 And your point being? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awkwardpenguin Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 such a heartwarming story. thanks for sharing. as for me, I guess me n my bro just followed our dad who's also shirtless most of the time at home. he didn't tell us nor any shortage of shirts. another reason is I would sweat alot and it gets hot pretty often. its so much cooling being shirtless. http://closet-confessions.tumblr.comLINE: zicdarkk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 Thanks for sharing.Can you show us your fit dad's peekture? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DreamHunter Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 hey guys, i just wanted to share because i have never really heard any one being forced. Ive spoken to some of my friends and they have just said that they do it out of their own accord and also because of hot weather. but not specifically where their dad tells them to do it. so thats why i thought my experience was a little different. thats all. just wanted to see if others had similar experience. and yes although i was shy at first it became a really practical solution. our weather is hot all the time and it was easier to keep cool and also when you went to play outside you didn't dirty a shirt if you weren't wearing one. haha. but i think how it helped me a lot was building my confidence. i sometimes even see grown men who are a bit shy to take off their shirt in public or even in the home. just a few days ago, some of my colleagues and i went for an evening run at the park. 5 of us went, all guys. only myself another colleague were shirtless for the exercise. the others even joked and asked us if our shirt got stolen. even after we exercised and got sweaty only one of the 3 took off his shirt to cool off. the other two kept it on. when asked they just say dont want la...pai seh. and these guys are in good shape so it didnt make sense to me. so makes me wonder if i didn't have my dads meddling i might have been like that. thats what im more thankful for. i went to the pool last week and saw a lot of kids who wear full body suits when swimming. i know it protects them from uv rays and everything but i think if boys wore trunks to swimming it would teach them from a young age not to be shy about their bodies and be comfortable. i mean now even in school boys dont take off their shirts during p.e. i remember when i was in secondary school, we would go running shirtless and even play shirts vs skins. i just think confidence has to built from a young age which young boys are not given the chance. like now most fathers arent even shirtless at home because of air conditioning and the sons just follow them which is unlike maybe 10-15 years ago when not every home had aircon. i guess we are a bit hung up on body image compared to places like europe where being shirtless indoors or outdoors is pretty normal. wow. i picture of my dad. i would probably have to search the old albums to find a pic and then scan it. haha. unless i take a pic of him now and show you guys. he might scold and tell me don't put in the Internet or something. hahah. hosehbo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majesty Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 i find malaysia younger people also not as shirtless as older people... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 On the other hand, I was forced to wear clothing on even at home.Even if I was showering, I had to change inside the toilet.Pretty much Victorian at home for me. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoKum Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 I had a similar experience but it was during one of the times i was staying at my grandparents place in malaysia. i was around 10. my grandparents house is one of those old kampung. it was really something my brother, 8, and i never experienced before because we were both spoilt city boys. hahahaha. it was really old but my brother and i thought we were just visiting and were going to our hotel once we were done. but we quickly received bad news. my father and mother told us we were going to stay with them for a few days before leaving. no hotel for us. my brother and i wanted to cry but couldn't do anything. by night time, we took our shower and had changed to our pajamas ready for bed before realising the sleeping conditions. there was no aircon of course but they didnt even have fans and we had to sleep on mats! this was also the first time i saw my dad wear a sarong to bed. he usually is barebodied wearing shorts. he warned us we were going to get hot and should just wear our underwear but we didnt listen. it was not usual for us to do that we thought. but while slept during the night, we both realise that it was really uncomfortable. the pajamas was clinging onto us as we got really sweaty in the hot humid weather. we were tossing and turning and my father awoke. he shouted at us telling us that he already told us then he told us to take off our shirts and pants. we hesitated a little but couldnt take the heat so we complied. after we strip to our briefs, it felt so much better and i could sleep much better. should have done it sooner. after that we pretty much spent the days there running around topless in shorts like two monkeys. we became kampung boys very quickly. that was the start. after that i remember we started doing the same back in Singapore. till now, after i come back from work i don't wear a shirt till the next day work. its just shorts for me. same with my brother. it took a trip to the kampung to follow in our fathers footsteps and embrace the barebodied kampung spirit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 (edited) Wonder when during army when command by Sgt or officer to take off shirt to do PT training consider force to be shirtless? Edited July 11, 2014 by alien 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majesty Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 I had a similar experience but it was during one of the times i was staying at my grandparents place in malaysia. i was around 10. my grandparents house is one of those old kampung. it was really something my brother, 8, and i never experienced before because we were both spoilt city boys. hahahaha. it was really old but my brother and i thought we were just visiting and were going to our hotel once we were done. but we quickly received bad news. my father and mother told us we were going to stay with them for a few days before leaving. no hotel for us. my brother and i wanted to cry but couldn't do anything. by night time, we took our shower and had changed to our pajamas ready for bed before realising the sleeping conditions. there was no aircon of course but they didnt even have fans and we had to sleep on mats! this was also the first time i saw my dad wear a sarong to bed. he usually is barebodied wearing shorts. he warned us we were going to get hot and should just wear our underwear but we didnt listen. it was not usual for us to do that we thought. but while slept during the night, we both realise that it was really uncomfortable. the pajamas was clinging onto us as we got really sweaty in the hot humid weather. we were tossing and turning and my father awoke. he shouted at us telling us that he already told us then he told us to take off our shirts and pants. we hesitated a little but couldnt take the heat so we complied. after we strip to our briefs, it felt so much better and i could sleep much better. should have done it sooner. after that we pretty much spent the days there running around topless in shorts like two monkeys. we became kampung boys very quickly. that was the start. after that i remember we started doing the same back in Singapore. till now, after i come back from work i don't wear a shirt till the next day work. its just shorts for me. same with my brother. it took a trip to the kampung to follow in our fathers footsteps and embrace the barebodied kampung spirit.now a days kampung all have aircon already.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanX Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 (edited) Not matter how hot, I never take off my shirt, although my father is always shirtless at home. They never force me to be shirtless before.Maybe I dont like my body and I do not want to show it to anyone.Tats why. Edited July 11, 2014 by RyanX shyboi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 Wonder when during army when command by Sgt or officer to take off shirt to do PT training consider force to be shirtless?Mine didn't commanded that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 11, 2014 Report Share Posted July 11, 2014 Hot guys being shirtless in front of extended families might encourage second degree incests, immediate family first degree lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RYdetime Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 No, i had a choice whether I wanted to be shirtless or not at home, although my dad taking off his shirt was a common sight. I found it uncomfortable to lean against the sofa or anything else because of the humidity here, so it was mostly shirt on for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coconut Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 A matter of getting used to it...just need to take that first step. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
e5a1t2m9e Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 I'm always shirtless at home. Haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DreamHunter Posted July 14, 2014 Report Share Posted July 14, 2014 On the other hand, I was forced to wear clothing on even at home.Even if I was showering, I had to change inside the toilet.Pretty much Victorian at home for me. this seems similar to my friend in uni. i had this friend in uni, my roomie. he was quite the exhibitionist. fit guy, muscles, sixpack etc. exercise regularly. will only wear short running shorts around the dorm. never wears a shirt. mostly sleeps in underwear but sometime even go commando. he struck me as a very confident guy. but there was once i was doing project at his house and it was quite late. since he lived very far from campus he tell me i can spend the night. as i was getting ready for bed, i changed into my shorts. I usually sleep topless. surprisingly, he was wearing a tee and shorts. then he asked me if i mind wearing a shirt? i was a bit confused. he said his mum is a bit strict and there is no business of walking around topless and such. must be dressed modestly. his mum is divorced and he has got two school going sisters. i agreed as it made sense for the mum wanting to protect the sisters as well and the brother dressing appropriately would mean that his friends would follow to i suppose. but the mum is strict only when it comes to the house. my friend goes to the park to run and exercise shirtless. so i think its only for the home. nevertheless, i was a little surprised. it made more sense why he was such an exhibitionist outside as he was being restricted at home. Wonder when during army when command by Sgt or officer to take off shirt to do PT training consider force to be shirtless? has happened to me before. in bmt as well as unit. in bmt, once or twice during drill training. shirtless in slacks. for PT was once or twice during interval training, mostly running and callisthenics. once during night training, when my officer brought us on a run around tekong, including the old school. then several times during my unit pt training. it was quite normal for me as i had an officer who became a commando officer. but he got injured a month after graduating. he wasn't able to do a lot of the commando stuff but he refused to switch to service or downgrade his pes too much. so he got transferred to my unit and became my pc. pt training conducted by him meant we were going topless. apparently, pt training for commandos is conducted sans shirt. don't know how far is true. Not matter how hot, I never take off my shirt, although my father is always shirtless at home. They never force me to be shirtless before.Maybe I dont like my body and I do not want to show it to anyone.Tats why. i think everyone got body image problems. even some of the guys who have adonis type body has insecurities. i think it is somehow the barrier that everyone has to break through some day. being topless is a natural thing for a man but many of us think about it so much and make it really a big issue. i think we just need the time and right opportunity. i think that is why these forced shirtless can work to our advantage as it helps us to break through that barrier. No, i had a choice whether I wanted to be shirtless or not at home, although my dad taking off his shirt was a common sight. I found it uncomfortable to lean against the sofa or anything else because of the humidity here, so it was mostly shirt on for me. you said you had a choice. did your mum or dad ever encourage you to be shirtless? i know what you mean. it can also be a bit rude to leave sweat stains on the sofa after sitting on it without a shirt. reminds me of those guys who leave their back sweat stain on the sit-up stations in the park. quite disgusting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted July 16, 2014 Report Share Posted July 16, 2014 If i have fit bod with six pack muscle, i also default topless even outside or infront of many pple i also dare.In some army unit, indeed during the PT training or running, all guys wld default topless. I guess in tis case, everyone shld be already get so used tht everyone wld automatic goes topless during PT training, if were to wear a tank top, he wld be odd one out. Heard before commandos default topless when they conduct PT training, think if u hang ard at commando camp, u might see them topless running. But dun know how abt the practise now? Cos heard now army dun 'encourage' topless during PT training?! 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mohd_Ben Posted July 16, 2014 Report Share Posted July 16, 2014 My dad is shirtless too once he reached home from work... But I prefer not to though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enelym1978 Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Huh really? first time I hear this kind of thing I'd be too cold... and shy haha, especially in front of my parents and sis dragion 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enthuboy_93 Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Always felt it really cool for guys to be topless at home. Been to some friends' houses and seen their bros toplessSo when I got to Sec sch started going topless too Now it happens so naturally I only wear a pair of shorts in the house Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coconut Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Wondering if anyone forced to be bottomless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enelym1978 Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 I would be walking around in undies in my apartment only.... and only when I know I'm alone lol dragion 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 was told by my dad why am I wearing clothes in the house. but i really felt weird shirtless infront of others. however, will be topless when they are not ard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DreamHunter Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 If i have fit bod with six pack muscle, i also default topless even outside or infront of many pple i also dare.In some army unit, indeed during the PT training or running, all guys wld default topless. I guess in tis case, everyone shld be already get so used tht everyone wld automatic goes topless during PT training, if were to wear a tank top, he wld be odd one out. Heard before commandos default topless when they conduct PT training, think if u hang ard at commando camp, u might see them topless running. But dun know how abt the practise now? Cos heard now army dun 'encourage' topless during PT training?! i think a fit body would always drive someone to be shirtless, to want to show off the fruits of your hard work. i think for some units will depend on who the sgt or officer is. im sure some instructors will tell them not to do it. i even had one sgt tell us off saying who gave us permission to walk around topless and in underwear in the corridors during bmt. and this was just outside our bunk. he even made us knock it down in the corridor, in our underwear. thankfully, not all of the sgts thought like him. i dunno about the current trend of training topless in camps now. but i went to safti couple of times and saw one whole company of cadets running shirtless wearing just red shorts. must be some kind of run around the camp. this was like 5 years ago. My dad is shirtless too once he reached home from work... But I prefer not to though most dads are. haven't heard of a dad who doesn't. well at least those who are late 40s and above. most young dads tend to be more shy unless they have the muscle six pack body. Always felt it really cool for guys to be topless at home. Been to some friends' houses and seen their bros toplessSo when I got to Sec sch started going topless too Now it happens so naturally I only wear a pair of shorts in the house yes, its quite a good feeling especially when its warm. you also feel quite macho when you're topless i think. the very man feeling. i think the best attire for guys at home is just shorts. comfortable when you don't have to wear a shirt but still acceptable than just wearing underwear. it is a good middle point. I would be walking around in undies in my apartment only.... and only when I know I'm alone lol i think my family has seen me just in my underwear but it was usually in the middle of changing clothes. i never just walk around in underwear. because i don't wear boxers but short trunks. the stretchable fabric makes your man parts carefully outlined. don't think it's very respectful to others to view my junk. was told by my dad why am I wearing clothes in the house. but i really felt weird shirtless infront of others. however, will be topless when they are not ard. i think it is like a band aid. rip it off, fast and hard. same thing. just whip the shirt in front of them one day and don't really think about it. if they ask, just say you're hot or just that you feel like it. the weather has been hot lately so now is the chance before it gets cooler. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelix Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Since young, my household always had this unspoken rule of being topless. My grandpa did it, my dad did it and I was expected to follow them too. However, I was quite shy with my body when I was young so I didn't really like to be topless and I felt that it was a bit uncivilized. When my friends came over, I had to ask my grandpa to wear his shirt because I didn't want to be embarrassed. I felt uncomfortable being topless. Anyway fast forwards by a few years where I moved out and stayed alone, I met my ex and he loves being naked at home. Yes, naked and not "topless". He always frowned at me for being all covered up while we were at home. He liked to forcefully removed my clothing and see me squirmed. LOL. Anyhow, after I started gymming, my body was much bearable to look at and due to my ex persistent nagging, I adopted the rule of being topless/naked at home. Currently, I'm on my bed with just my undies. NiceBubbButt and studdyboy 2 http://instagram.com/franciscwh90/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 If u are naked at hm, just be careful if ur hse window facing any neigbours, if not got complaint then not very gd liao. 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted July 18, 2014 Report Share Posted July 18, 2014 Not so much forced to be shirtless. When I was a kid, my mum would insist that I wear a singlet underneath my shirt (I was in kindergarten?) so as it helps to absorb the sweat better. Somehow I dislike the feeling of wearing a singlet till my tertiary school days... Now, at my age and with such humid weather, am always shirtless at home, except if I have guests. No need to force, take out myself when I am home. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 18, 2014 Report Share Posted July 18, 2014 If u are naked at hm, just be careful if ur hse window facing any neigbours, if not got complaint then not very gd liao.Yah beware... some self-righteous ones may purposely peep at you then complain to authorities. They need to do this to ease their guilt. They are so aggressive as they can't get any sex because they are too self-righteous or religious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DreamHunter Posted July 21, 2014 Report Share Posted July 21, 2014 Since young, my household always had this unspoken rule of being topless. My grandpa did it, my dad did it and I was expected to follow them too. However, I was quite shy with my body when I was young so I didn't really like to be topless and I felt that it was a bit uncivilized. When my friends came over, I had to ask my grandpa to wear his shirt because I didn't want to be embarrassed. I felt uncomfortable being topless. Anyway fast forwards by a few years where I moved out and stayed alone, I met my ex and he loves being naked at home. Yes, naked and not "topless". He always frowned at me for being all covered up while we were at home. He liked to forcefully removed my clothing and see me squirmed. LOL. Anyhow, after I started gymming, my body was much bearable to look at and due to my ex persistent nagging, I adopted the rule of being topless/naked at home. Currently, I'm on my bed with just my undies. your ex seems to be quite the exhibitionist. its great that his habits have rubbed off onto you and besides with a fit body like yours, it would be a shame to cover it up. Not so much forced to be shirtless. When I was a kid, my mum would insist that I wear a singlet underneath my shirt (I was in kindergarten?) so as it helps to absorb the sweat better. Somehow I dislike the feeling of wearing a singlet till my tertiary school days... Now, at my age and with such humid weather, am always shirtless at home, except if I have guests. No need to force, take out myself when I am home. LOL. i never got into wearing singlets under my shirt. nobody in my family or extended family does it so it was never the norm. most of my friends don't wear undershirts either. i think its not the norm in singapore. however, when i travelled in places like india, china, thailand, usa, etc there is the habit of wearing an undershirt under their shirt. i think it has to do with the culture. the weather is terribly hot but its the perfect excuse to go topless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Minh Duc Posted July 23, 2014 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 I was not forced to be shirtless. But my dad always encourage me to take my shirt off when I was young. I remember one really hot night when I was 6 or 7, he made me go shirtless to sleep b/c it was too hot. A few times he told me to just go out without a shirt to buy things at stores. One time he told me to just leave my shirt off to ride to a bus station to pick up my mom; however I didn't do it; regretful that time. However, at my gym, the owner - he is also the coach, told us to get rid of our shirts to work out, so he can see our improvements, notice our mistakes, what not good with our body so he can help us fix them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gymrat Posted July 23, 2014 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 i am usually dressed at home. in fact i feel shy to be topless in front of my family. i am forced to be shirtless well only during playing card games and competitions. dragion 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
souljaboy Posted July 23, 2014 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 (edited) . Edited October 12, 2015 by souljaboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DreamHunter Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 I was not forced to be shirtless. But my dad always encourage me to take my shirt off when I was young. I remember one really hot night when I was 6 or 7, he made me go shirtless to sleep b/c it was too hot. A few times he told me to just go out without a shirt to buy things at stores. One time he told me to just leave my shirt off to ride to a bus station to pick up my mom; however I didn't do it; regretful that time. However, at my gym, the owner - he is also the coach, told us to get rid of our shirts to work out, so he can see our improvements, notice our mistakes, what not good with our body so he can help us fix them. thats quite a good dad. he encouraged you to go shirtless. this is the type of positive encouragement boys need when growing up. this way they will not be shy and will be comfortable of their bodies. i feel the younger dads don't encourage their sons as much as the older dads. especially in the 90s, it was common for guys to walk around the neighbourhood topless, especially when going to buy things from the nearby shop or just hanging out. now it is not as common. thats quite a cool gym owner. most gym owners would never allow that. i had a similar experience when i was in secondary school. the coach would encourage us to do weights shirtless as the p.e shirts were short sleeved and didn't reveal much of your body. he would tell us exactly how to lift and also the right way when we didn't have a shirt to hide the muscles.i am usually dressed at home. in fact i feel shy to be topless in front of my family. i am forced to be shirtless well only during playing card games and competitions. it can be easier to be shirtless in front of strangers than family. don't know why that is. you mean card playing games like strip poker? what type of competitions do you take part shirtless? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Minh Duc Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 thats quite a good dad. he encouraged you to go shirtless. this is the type of positive encouragement boys need when growing up. this way they will not be shy and will be comfortable of their bodies. i feel the younger dads don't encourage their sons as much as the older dads. especially in the 90s, it was common for guys to walk around the neighbourhood topless, especially when going to buy things from the nearby shop or just hanging out. now it is not as common. thats quite a cool gym owner. most gym owners would never allow that. i had a similar experience when i was in secondary school. the coach would encourage us to do weights shirtless as the p.e shirts were short sleeved and didn't reveal much of your body. he would tell us exactly how to lift and also the right way when we didn't have a shirt to hide the muscles.I wish my dad forced me to go shirtless like your dad. Sometimes I don't feel enough confidence to venture out without a shirt. If he had insisted me to go shirtless, I would be more comfortable I don't know why, but my gym owner, although he tells us to take off our shirts to workout, he doesn't want us to arrive without a shirt. I once saw him telling jokes to a guy when he go to the gym without a safety shirt. I'm unsure if he is serious or just want to poke him? Sounds weird. You live in Singapore? I'm Vietnamese. Do you have yahoo ID so we can share more experiences about going shirtless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 24, 2014 Report Share Posted July 24, 2014 To those who have been forced to go topless by your father , force him to go A n F store during weekend when shirtless hunky models are around the entrance n force him to take a photo with them ! He will never ever want you to be shirtless around anymore ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shirtless guy. Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 My parents forced me to be in undies at home, all the year round. Outdoors I was forced to stay just in shorts everywhere in the summer, but in the winter I had to stay only sometimes shirtless, even if in the snow too. Also my brother and my male cousins were trained in the same way, at the contrary my sisters and female cousins wore all they wanted, because they were girls. Our parents trained us boys as future soldiers, so they said modesty is only for women, because for a cannon fodder, that's a male, modesty is unuseful. Now I'm 25 y.o. and I agree completely with my parents, so I continue to follow those rules. During my conscription I was forced to train shirtless in public and to strip naked also in front of female staff. Many of my comrades were deeply embarrassed, but I kept calm, thanks to my manly education. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aedile1234 Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 My parents forced me to be in undies at home, all the year round. Outdoors I was forced to stay just in shorts everywhere in the summer, but in the winter I had to stay only sometimes shirtless, even if in the snow too. Also my brother and my male cousins were trained in the same way, at the contrary my sisters and female cousins wore all they wanted, because they were girls. Our parents trained us boys as future soldiers, so they said modesty is only for women, because for a cannon fodder, that's a male, modesty is unuseful. Now I'm 25 y.o. and I agree completely with my parents, so I continue to follow those rules. During my conscription I was forced to train shirtless in public and to strip naked also in front of female staff. Many of my comrades were deeply embarrassed, but I kept calm, thanks to my manly education. Definitely not from singapore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Definitely not from singapore Sounds Russian in fact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 19, 2015 Report Share Posted January 19, 2015 During army always asked to take off singlet during PT run, does this consider forced shirtless? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aladmire Posted January 19, 2015 Report Share Posted January 19, 2015 Lol. I'm a loner, even at home. Spend 99% of my time in my room! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gummibear Posted January 19, 2015 Report Share Posted January 19, 2015 As a matter of fact, yes. When I was in Primary 3, by my PE teacher. I've forgotten to bring my PE T-shirt that day and she wouldn't have that for an excuse to sit out the class.She grabbed me by my collar and slammed me against the blackboard, right onto the chalk holder that juts out from beneath the blackboard.In pain, I squeezed my hands on the wrist of the hand that she had a vice grip on my collar and I went ballistic. I think I trashed my entire body weight around like I was having a violent spasm attack.I broke her wrist that day. The next time I saw her, she had a brace to that hand of hers right up to her forearm. She never touched me again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePineapple Posted January 19, 2015 Report Share Posted January 19, 2015 (edited) As a matter of fact, yes. When I was in Primary 3, by my PE teacher. I've forgotten to bring my PE T-shirt that day and she wouldn't have that for an excuse to sit out the class.She grabbed me by my collar and slammed me against the blackboard, right onto the chalk holder that juts out from beneath the blackboard.In pain, I squeezed my hands on the wrist of the hand that she had a vice grip on my collar and I went ballistic. I think I trashed my entire body weight around like I was having a violent spasm attack.I broke her wrist that day. The next time I saw her, she had a brace to that hand of hers right up to her forearm. She never touched me again.If i were your classmate, and at the scene, i will break the teacher's ankle so she will walk with crunches next day.I just can't stand Bullies ! Edited January 19, 2015 by ThePineapple gummibear 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Soldier85 Posted February 8, 2015 Report Share Posted February 8, 2015 When I was a conscript I had to be a lifeguard in a beach for the families of military officers. So obviously I had to stay in swimsuit for all the time of my work anyway my superiors had fun with me because they ordered me to remain in swimsuit even after my work so I was forced to stay almost naked and barefoot even in front of people elegantly clothed, women too, in fact after the work as lifeguard I had to serve as handyman. Sometimes some ladies, especially old ones, took advantage on me and touched my muscles, my bulge, my ass: I remember when two old ladies pinched my nipples with a pair of clothespins for joke. At first I was very shy and I felt humiliated but thanks to that experience I realized it's fine for a man to be forced to stay shirtless and even naked because we are very different from the fair sex... we are so beastly compared to women so now I'm no longer shy. I served in Europe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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