EasleyLim Posted March 8, 2013 Report Share Posted March 8, 2013 Iirc, there's a huge thread about it. Why don't you go dig it up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 8, 2013 Report Share Posted March 8, 2013 As per title what you guys opinion about having relationship with them :- a) No I won't ruin their family bond.b) Why not? If he loves me more than his familyc) I just treat them as sex buddy because I know one day he'll returned to his familyd) Nah I don't like this type of species if married why don't they just stick at home and responsiblee) I prefer gay because easy, don't want later have case if his wife/kids finds out .... of give your opinion......*Yawn* A skeleton in the closet, discussed so many times in an old thread ...... yet you have not had enough *roll eyes* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANK Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 I better, I sell u the whole earth at very affordable rate.LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 I love my boss. He is married with kids and in his fifties but he looks so young and handsome. He is the kindest man/boss I have ever met. Even though I am just a small potato in the company n he the regional head, he still talks to me like I am someone important. He even attends company functions n mingled with everyone,like doing charity run, cleaning old folks homes, etc....he is just so gorgeous that I can't help falling in love with him. I have tried to call him out a few times after work in the pretext of asking for career advice. He had coffee with me after work to counsel me....as I sat next to him, all I can think of is how his dick looks like, and how nice to kiss him....I know I am terrible. I don't dare to tell him how I feel but I have a strange feeling that he must suspect something as he has never ever turned down my invitation for coffee and he wld always visit my table during company functions....Should I confess to him? I am so afraid of rejection from him, and worst he may ignore me from now on.....but what if he accepts me? There is a chance.....no matter how slim it is I must grab it, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 I love my boss. He is married with kids and in his fifties but he looks so young and handsome. He is the kindest man/boss I have ever met. Even though I am just a small potato in the company n he the regional head, he still talks to me like I am someone important. He even attends company functions n mingled with everyone,like doing charity run, cleaning old folks homes, etc....he is just so gorgeous that I can't help falling in love with him. I have tried to call him out a few times after work in the pretext of asking for career advice. He had coffee with me after work to counsel me....as I sat next to him, all I can think of is how his dick looks like, and how nice to kiss him....I know I am terrible. I don't dare to tell him how I feel but I have a strange feeling that he must suspect something as he has never ever turned down my invitation for coffee and he wld always visit my table during company functions....Should I confess to him? I am so afraid of rejection from him, and worst he may ignore me from now on.....but what if he accepts me? There is a chance.....no matter how slim it is I must grab it,I like your attitude because I have heard tons of people falling for the people they are not suppose to lust for and yet they do nothing further to act on their desire. I'm getting tired of hearing stories without a ending. Please come back and finish it once you made your move.I don't like marriage wrecker nor gay hussies but I hate whiners without courage to act even more.Either I get to hear a nice steamy erotic narration or a tragic/violent tale of a big wife going on a crusade against the vixen. Both are nice drama for a blowing forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Well, I told him abt my feeling for him. He looked at me and smiled, and he said he knew. He then said you know there is no future for us for obvious reason. I said yes I know. He asked then what do you want from me and where is this conversation going. I couldn't answer his question.....do I want him to leave his wife and kids - no. Do I want to have sex with him - yes. Would I mind be his regular plaything - I don't think I mind. Would I be jealous of his wife - yes I think so. I didn't know what to say to him....he patted me on my shoulder n said, focus on your work, you will find yr life partner elsewhere eventually. If it is just to satisfy your curiosity abt how it feels like having sex with me, and then no more! we could go to a hotel now....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rowdyboy Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Having sex with a married man is a big NO NO for me. I think being a woman is very difficult as compared to man because of their responsibility like giving birth and taking care of family etc so I respect women alot. Having sex with their husband is not fair to them and I dont think anyone should do that! Channing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Well, I told him abt my feeling for him. He looked at me and smiled, and he said he knew. He then said you know there is no future for us for obvious reason. I said yes I know. He asked then what do you want from me and where is this conversation going. I couldn't answer his question.....do I want him to leave his wife and kids - no. Do I want to have sex with him - yes. Would I mind be his regular plaything - I don't think I mind. Would I be jealous of his wife - yes I think so.I didn't know what to say to him....he patted me on my shoulder n said, focus on your work, you will find yr life partner elsewhere eventually. If it is just to satisfy your curiosity abt how it feels like having sex with me, and then no more! we could go to a hotel now....... It 's still not too late to book a room at MBS. Both of you could climax together with the fireworks in the sky.Happy new year to you and your understanding boss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 I didn't take up his offer to book a hotel room that day as I was conflicted on whether it was pure sex I was looking for from him or I want more than just a one night thingy. How many say I should get it over with? How many say I should just forget about the whole thing.......it will be so hard ( not just the dick) when I see him whenever he is in office Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitedick Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 i cant comment on this, since its gonna be a biased comments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kys0n Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 The sex will probably be awesome, but the emotions after that will suck. He probably likes you enough or else he won't proposition sex and risk his family. But definitely it won't be enough for anything more than that. At most you will be his "mistress". If you can't live with that status, don't even sink further by starting sexual relations.Regardless of your choice, i am confident time will heal everything up eventually. I am equally confident he will quickly get over you if necessary because he has good and strong reasons (family and wife) to help him move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 All my gay friends ( I have only a few) said I should fuck his brain out or I will regret if he takes back the offer. I asked my parents what I should do ( yes, I am out with them) and I was shocked with their negative reaction! My mum gave me a slap and my dad was going to punch me on my face.....they also started calling my boss name for offering to have an ONS with me and my dad threatened to confront him......I had to plead with him to stop whatever he was contemplating as my boss could easily deny everything. Now my parents have pressured me to resign.....What should I do.....if I resign, I won't get to see him all the time anymore..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Wow really got part 2 to this story. HahaOk back to a more sombre tone.You reveal your admiration to him and he lay out the options for you,to repress your feelings for him and hold out for a better man in the future or satisfy your carnal lust and have sex with him.Notice that your boss has put all the responsibilities of the decisions and outcome solely into your hands?You are dealing with someone who is on a higher level then you when it come to suggestion and manipulation. Should things go well in these arrangements he will get to savour you as long as you permit him,should things go wrong he can perfectly retreat from the situation and cut off cleanly from you.I think your parents can see things more clearly than you that's why they have such a big reaction,understand that their intentions is to protect you and your best interests while your object of lust don't and have no such obligations to do so in the first place.So what is your choice?-Choose- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 somehow I think TS is just making up stories.bumping into his boss the nxt morning, telling his parents about ONS, etc.The nxt thing we know is that TS is now giving his virginity as a gift to his boss tonite.Nxt wk, TS pregnant with boss's bastard child.Then boss is actually an alien from Mars.TS gives birth to a gay baby with special powers. just hope TS is not posting this from IMH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 somehow I think TS is just making up stories. bumping into his boss the nxt morning, telling his parents about ONS, etc. The nxt thing we know is that TS is now giving his virginity as a gift to his boss tonite. Nxt wk, TS pregnant with boss's bastard child. Then boss is actually an alien from Mars. TS gives birth to a gay baby with special powers. just hope TS is not posting this from IMH. LOLOLOL!!! LMAO! You just made my day with your most witty comments! HAHAHAAHAHHAHA! Fantastic reply! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 My response is NO to dating married guys. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerard Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Relationship no. Play maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 23, 2014 Report Share Posted February 23, 2014 In case you wonder what happened in the end.....I didn't get to fuck him upside down and I am now jobless, all bec I was too honest with my parents. Good thing is my dad is paying me my usual monthly salary until I find a job! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyan Posted February 23, 2014 Report Share Posted February 23, 2014 Whatever decision one make, just be prepared to bear the consequence that might happen. For a married guy in Singapore, it is impossible they will give up their families for u. So have the right expectation correct, if u decided to stay with a married guy. Do expect that he will not be able to commit. Wish the best for him and also stay away from his family. Let him go if he needs to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guesty Posted February 23, 2014 Report Share Posted February 23, 2014 Now that he is not your boss anymore, you can have sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 28, 2014 Report Share Posted February 28, 2014 My parents are now watching me like a hawk and my dad threatens to call the company to cause trouble if he ever catches me with my x-boss. I don't dare to contact him even though my dick aches for him. I saw him the other day at my farewell lunch with my x-colleagues. He walked pass the restaurant and smiled at me when he saw me. Even my other x-colleagues, both males and females, said he was so charming. Sigh.........May be next life... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 28, 2014 Report Share Posted February 28, 2014 My parents are now watching me like a hawk and my dad threatens to call the company to cause trouble if he ever catches me with my x-boss. I don't dare to contact him even though my dick aches for him. I saw him the other day at my farewell lunch with my x-colleagues. He walked pass the restaurant and smiled at me when he saw me. Even my other x-colleagues, both males and females, said he was so charming.Sigh.........May be next life...You definitely be reincarnated as Pinocchio in your next life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Sighhhhh......I wonder why there are so many doubters here.....so sad.It really happened to me and my heart still aches when I think of him. Anyway, last post from me on this, whether you believe my story or not. Hopefully some young people here like me learn from my experience - don't fall for your boss, esp if he is married. You end up losing everything, job, love, and freedom from your parents! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopi Gao Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 So curious ... how charming is your boss really? Or is it charismatic? Difficult to visualise leh. Someone like George Clooney (asian version)? Or any asian celebrity or prominent figure that you can illustrate? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 He looks like the HK actor Tony Leung who acted in Happy Together, same height and weight, and similar talking eyes. When he looks at you and smile, he just melts yr heart. He is also a very kind person with no airs although he is very senior in the company. A rare gem! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 He looks like the HK actor Tony Leung who acted in Happy Together, same height and weight, and similar talking eyes. When he looks at you and smile, he just melts yr heart. He is also a very kind person with no airs although he is very senior in the company. A rare gem!like that also want. Chinatown got a lot of men better looking than him , u know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beefycub Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 (edited) Definitely need to manage expectations. If u want "happily ever after", then why mess with a married man?If it's just sex, then as long as the both of u are ok with the arrangement, then who's to say no?We all have different views but let's not judge.But whatever the decision, be prepared to take any consequences like a man.It sounds like u are mixing love with sex and need to keep your emotions in check. Edited March 1, 2014 by Beefycub Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just me Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I met this married guy in May this year and after a few meet up I found out that I had fallen for him. Does anyone have the same encounter? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 My 2 cents worth ...STOP IT... He is married and he has a family to look after.You are nothing but a piece of meat ....别做梦了！ ktotally 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 You fall over him , but is he the same for you ? One sided cannot go anywhere , he is married , prepare he will leave you one day for his family or when he find someone better , this path is tough , do not expect he can give you future . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just me Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I did ask him what if I have fallen for him what will he do? He said he is married and cannot commit. But after a few meet up he told me he love me so now I'm like lost dunno what to do. He is very caring to me too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majesty Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 i like someone who is married too. but the fact that i dun ever wanna be a xiao san made me cool down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I did ask him what if I have fallen for him what will he do? He said he is married and cannot commit. But after a few meet up he told me he love me so now I'm like lost dunno what to do. He is very caring to me too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majesty Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I did ask him what if I have fallen for him what will he do? He said he is married and cannot commit. But after a few meet up he told me he love me so now I'm like lost dunno what to do. He is very caring to me too just a few meet up and he love u already? thats fast. just like how everything eventually will end too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Perhaps his love is just treat you for free sex toy boy , just a little care will make a desperate crazy for him , not easy to find . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just me Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 We met in May this year and is like our 6 or 7 meet up he told me he loves me. Thereafter we will met up like once a wk or sometimes 2wks once. We do chat daily since our 1st meet up too. He is 2x my age. A mature man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Sorry to be so blunt to you, TS..This old uncle has to tell you that you are nothing (to him) but a time filler...新鲜不等于永久。。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just me Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Abang thanks for being blunt. Guess I know where I stand now. Time will tell all. I started this thread just to find out who has the same encounter and what have they done. Just need advice from them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 不是所有已婚者都是负心汉 ， 多情已婚者却背负着太多责任感 ，Words is cheap , 别太容易相信对方甜言蜜语 ，不论他多温柔 ，他不会为了你而放弃家庭 ， 可他会毫不犹豫地牺牲你如果有朝一日逐渐影响到他的家庭生活。别以为你会改变他 ， 现实生活中会出现神话中情节的机率是多少? 你不是梁山伯他也不会是祝英台 ，这只是一场成人游戏 ， 不是泼你冷水 ， 或许他是真心 ，读者的我们甚至是你也不知道 ， 说这番话只是要你随时做好心理准备 ， 付出越多 ， 伤害越深 ， 如何衡量 ， 那就看你了 。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I met this married guy in May this year and after a few meet up I found out that I had fallen for him. Does anyone have the same encounter?Your post were merged with other similar post, which goes to show you are NOT the only one to have fallen for married men.Hopefully you OPEN your eyes wide, not just your legs to go with a married man.Speaking from experience, most married men are horny bastards, (not going to entertain further explanation) some more some less. If you want to play with married men, you must know how to play the game; which is; Fuck and forget. If you don't know how to play the game. Then get don't even start. Otherwise, you will be kicking yourself later when you get hurt. Take it from someone who have been there done that. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 Hi everyone. As titled, I’m having dilemma whether or not to pursue this relationship. He’s charming, kind and my cup of tea. We’ve been hanging out with one another occasionally (as colleagues), and we do have heart-to-heart talk sometimes; however, I could somehow feel like he was a closeted bi/gay. There have been occasions where he touched my laps (I felt like he did it intentionally), and joked by saying “I actually liked you, I’m just kidding. You’re a cute boy”. He even gave me gifts, and paid for my meals ???? I’m so confused. Does he like me or what? Or is he testing me? I can’t stop thinking about him, and he’s a married man with 4 children. but god, he’s so charming I can’t take him off of my mind. Is he bi/gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 If he is married, it is best leave him alone unless your relationship goals include becoming a "mistress." He made the choice to be married, and remain in the closet etc. even if he is bi or closeted. It is a choice he made, and there are consequences/results he has to live by. While it is ok to be infatuated with him, recognize that you deserve better than being some married man's dirty little secret. Ng Ngai Lam, Newbie95, caindukker and 1 other 1 3 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zyjd Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 whether he's bi/gay shouldn't concern you; what he does behind closed doors isn't anyone's business. Keep the relationship professional at all times because even if he turns out to be a bisexual/closeted gay man, it wouldn't be wise to date a colleague... that adage of not defecating where you eat should hold true in most scenarios. Ng Ngai Lam and And then 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 Dont waste your time on married ones: you are more into him than just a fling = very likely you will get short stick of it if you pursue further = very likely you will get hurt more than joy = very likely your love, time and energy could be better spent elsewhere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 wow 4 children, must be a horny guy who cant stop inserting his dick into (any) hole. now old liao so maybe wanna try a new hole. he might even have tried ladyboys before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Real Six Posted March 12, 2021 Report Share Posted March 12, 2021 I hate 3rd party sluts (woman or man) who go around destroying not only marriage but also the lives of innocent wife and 4 children. Be proud as a gay, but not as a shameless gay slut. There are plentiful of handsome cute gays, why go for a bad karma married man? So pls don't go down this irreversible route or I will look down on you as a fellow gay. Earn a good merit, stop this nonsense and look for a better gay out there. Lots of hot hunks out there if you open your eyes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lohwpr Posted March 13, 2021 Report Share Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) Yes, he is into you. Whether or not u should engage a married man, you decide. Truth be told. Probability of success in a heathy relationship with a married man is low. If u r going ahead with the relationship, u need to manage your expectation as a 小三。 His priority is his family, not you. He cannot be exposed. He is stuck with his family during weekends and public holidays. You will never have a 身份 in his life. Basically, you do not exist. If he is sick or in trouble, you can't step forward to help. Everything u do with him is always in the dark. He will always be caught in between. Eventually, he will wear out. Jumping on every phone calls/text when he is with you. He must love you enough to go thru all these trauma. If u can accept these................. Edited March 13, 2021 by lohwpr And then, ballzter and Newbie95 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 13, 2021 Report Share Posted March 13, 2021 Thank you guys for your advice. I guess I’ll give it a pass and focus on other relationships 🙏🏻 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 13, 2021 Report Share Posted March 13, 2021 What has been said earlier are valid. just remember a few things. 1. He’s interested in you now cos he hasn’t laid you yet. Once he’s bedded you, you are on your way to become disposable or dispensable. 2. You may want to think he’s serious about you. No matter how sincere he may be towards you, never think he will give up his family, status and reputation to be with you. 3. Ask yourself what do you want out of being with him? If it’s just to satisfy the fun of having had an affair with a married man, then when it ends, make sure you are the one to end it. And don’t play victim cos you already know the outcome before you start it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ilikeold Posted March 13, 2021 Report Share Posted March 13, 2021 Cut losses asap; don't think of the person and maybe try to minimise interaction. Easy to say; hard to do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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