Of Love Struggles & Cries Of A Married Gay Man + Cheating Married Men Leading Dual Life (compiled)

[Guest LaLaLa]

Whoa, so many stories, some like the drama series <<Cruel Temptation>>

Guys, if you really love that person, you should wish him happiness instead of pestering him,

since he made the choice that he wanted to become straight, just get on with it, or good thing is,

make a puppet doll of him, and poke it with needles everyday.

Or imagine him in erotic fiction, being banged by a nasty shemale

Like this website <<www.tsseduction.com

[TheVisitors]

For Visitor's case there was no cheating actually ; he knew in the beginning that C was married . What if C said that he was not married and until when Visitor's has given his love and then found out that C has a family and a pregnant wife ? Would he take revenge ?

Thats a very good question, Guest21.

Some may say I would have reacted will be very different from now, given the exposure and experiences to mellow and wisen up.

Let me answer your question , which it may serve many others in smiliar situations and to have clearer view on how I handle things

Real from the start, because I already knew C was a married gay, so I never felt he betrayed me. Even if I didnt know but he had told me right from the start before we started off anything.

In fact if anyone wanted to have anything to do with me, yet honest with me regarding their maritial status ( straight gay or bi relationship) I will hold much respect for them.

Because I was much sociable and active back then, it wouldn't take long before someone new comes along and replace C, which would distract me totally from having any negative or vengeful thoughts .

Its maybe because its just me. I begin to realise and that many people I have met, have told me I have something about myself that they fell very comfortable with be with and even reveal alot of secrets and hidden agendas they feel quite comfotable to share with. Even your pets , dogs, cats, and kids who who were not comfortable with their usual friends and strangers, can just click with me instantly.

Thus with this ability I have, the guys I met in my life, are usually so comfortable with me that they often reveal alot about themselves to me, which they can't, to their boyfriends, girlfriends or wives. They felt their spouses are not that understanding or intelligent as to have this converstions they have with me, as compared with them. However they have shared, it is regarded with confidential because of the trust they have entrusted upon me .

Thus as time goes went, there will be feelings developed inevitably between two people. Thus often there will be emotions entangled. As a person who believes in freedom and love,I don't impose but rather allow that person to choose, while not forgetting, I have my own self empowerment to choose the many options I am aware of infront of me, to stay or not to stay, to go ot not to got.

Often I choose to leave or disappear from their life ( which they don't seems to understand) because by the time I have met them, they have already some kind of committment with their spouses, usually a property, a business partnership or a a car.

Rather to complicated things, I rather go and free myself from the problems people cant handle, most of the time. Why make their problems become yours?

As I have said, I am just a fleeing transcient guest appearing in their lives, who comes and goes, while their spouses will always be there for them. It is then up to them on what they want and have to handle their problems, once I am gone. A stranger may appear in your briefly in your life. They can be called your soul mates who provides some awakenings to what you are doing in your current life.

Even they have betrayed me , I have yet to life a finger to react revengefully to those who did.

I always think, if you were to live a life with so much of revengful thoughts, you must be one of the most miserable person in the entire planet, who doesn't know or have ever experienced, what true happiness and bliss is all about.

Revenge, hate , jealousy are low emotional based energies, based on fear. In short they are very dense...thus dont you realise everytime you hate someone , or are jealous about someone , or you plan to harm someone with revengeful thoughts, you feel so heavy inside? You dont feel so light and carefree as you used to be?

I truly believe all beings were born good, but somehow along the road, unpleasant life's experiences made they unhappy thus bitter. Some become so revengeful, that they become a menance to society.

I dont belong to any religious denomination, but I truly believe in what I called a Supreme Divine Intelligence, which governs the entire function of the universe, on a micro or macro level. You may called it God or Karman if you want.

Even if I succeed in achieving my revenge, I will still be unhappy inside. So why bother.

When karma comes unexpectedly knocking at your door, to award what seeds and labour you have reaped and sowed, often its is more rewardingly nice, or very painful, even more painful should I execute my revenge on me.

I think I am very protected - thats what i was often told by people - even by psychics. Because I do notice that even without lifting a finger, my wrong doers usually receive the own poetic justice they deserve.

Some of the examples are like :

- close 8yrs gf of mine, at the end, cheated me $6000. In order to safeguard her own interest and to make herself the victim, she went around slandering me. People who knew the truth, asked me to speak up for myself and to claim back my money. But i told them - no need, let her have her way, for time will come she will receive her karma.True enough, 3 years, her marriage went on the rocks and her hubby dumped and left her credit card debt of $40,000 to clear. Shortly, only at 33, she developed some strange throat cancer, spent a bomb her condition and operation. In the end, she lost 80% of her taste sense, her ablility to sing beautifully, and developed a " bad breath" from her condition.

- one of mr ex took my supplmentary card and spurge $4000 on a guy he was seeing behind my back. I remembered the last time I met him he refused to pay back, called me ugly, we had a big arguement at a eating house, then he splashed water on my face on went off laughing. Some time later, he drove and met an accident, that disfugured his face. So he went through some face surgery to reconstruct his face. Two years ago I crossed his path in a mall. His face look unusually weird. he saw me and quickly walked away.

- another ex of mine , 8 years, was having an affair with my so-called good friend for 20years since primary school days. He called off the whole thing and gave the excuse he had affairs because I was fat. 3 weeks later it really hurt to see him deliberately smooching with a guy in a club , just to prove his point and to belittle me. Last dec when I sent my parents off to their 3 weeks holiday at the airport, someone called my name. I turned back to look at this complete stranger who was super obese, having a waistline something like 48inch. So you can guess who he was. Apparently he had some severve thyroid problem and affected his hormones very badly, thus caused him having a weight problem. He commented I never seems to age and was so good and healthy, asked me if we could catch up after he returned from his business and for old time sake. I gave him my new number, a fake one of course....

There are somemore examples but I am not going to post anymore

In all honesty when I see my wronger doers receiving their karmas due, I dont feel cruelly truimphant inside, but rather, I really feel very sorry for what they got themselves into.

If you betray me or hurt me, so be it, for the initiator will one day have to answer to every of his thoughts and deeds he had done, so I really don't bother at all.

Thus whether you love or hate, filled with jealousy or vengence, time will still go on, life will still have to go on, planet earth will still be spinning and orbiting in the solar system...I rather live my life as a free spirit, learn some thing new each day, instead of being tied and weighed down by those useless, past emotional dense baggages

[cw30]

mmm, sound like you are someone that is really well protected and your wrong doer will definitely get their karma in near future.

dont play play

[TheVisitors]

The last one week, its a bit abit tiring and draining to share abit of my past here...about ending affairs with Married Men

The following clip here, was taken from the movie, Mr Holland's Opus

Mr Holland was a high School music teacher, well liked by his students. One of his outstanding student, Rowena, who can sing beautifully, fell in love with him and she made her feelings known to him.

But he was married man. However she told him , after their school year performance, she decided to leave their little town , and will head for New York, where she wanted to make the Broadway, her dream.

She wanted him to leave his family and come along with her, thus she wanted for him to take the last bus to New York with her.

But he decided to stay, and thus , you can feel the pain and the disappointment in her, and his pain as well.

Many described this is one of the best scene in the movie.

Watching this clip, it will best described what I had stated before...that when two people finally found they are very connected, but often, they find it is already too late, for one of them, is usually married, or already attached...

[Guest Sportyguy]

Hi guys, it has been a while no one post anything here. For myself, is still the same. Very lonely everyday after work. I'm trying at the web site trying to get a good friend who is also has the same identity as me who is married and gay. But most of the ppl I chatted with are looking for sex only. As for myself or most of the married guys here are with a beautiful family and that hold me back. It's very lonely and very frustrating. It seem like we have to go thru the life like this till we leave this whole. Furthermore, my best straight guy friend has a girlfriend already and I become even more lonely and can't share all these with my wife. Haiz...anyone here can help?

[Guest keithoneu]

Hi sportyguy

you can chat with me... keithoneu04@hotmail.com

[casper]

Hi guys, it has been a while no one post anything here. For myself, is still the same. Very lonely everyday after work. I'm trying at the web site trying to get a good friend who is also has the same identity as me who is married and gay. But most of the ppl I chatted with are looking for sex only. As for myself or most of the married guys here are with a beautiful family and that hold me back. It's very lonely and very frustrating. It seem like we have to go thru the life like this till we leave this whole. Furthermore, my best straight guy friend has a girlfriend already and I become even more lonely and can't share all these with my wife. Haiz...anyone here can help?

I'm too having the same situation as you but the only thing is that i'm not married yet but already engaged... If you want, we can share n chat with each other... My email is ashtonkai5@gmail.com and my msn is bobby_cbqms@hotmail.com

[sgpboyboy]

Yes really hard to find a married guy who just want a chat ... most of the time they are looking for anal sex.

I am a discreet married guy (40yr, chinese, 170, 83) wants to look for a guy who care/want to meet up to chat, for a coffee, a movie or a hug. As I have a family, good time to meet up is during lunch or office hours. Occasionally dinner is fine too. My office area around the west side. Or can meet up for a swim .... i swim weekly during lunch time at Safra Jurong.

PM me or email me at sgpboyboy@gmail.com

[MarriedTop]

Hi guys, it has been a while no one post anything here. For myself, is still the same. Very lonely everyday after work. I'm trying at the web site trying to get a good friend who is also has the same identity as me who is married and gay. But most of the ppl I chatted with are looking for sex only. As for myself or most of the married guys here are with a beautiful family and that hold me back. It's very lonely and very frustrating. It seem like we have to go thru the life like this till we leave this whole. Furthermore, my best straight guy friend has a girlfriend already and I become even more lonely and can't share all these with my wife. Haiz...anyone here can help?

My ears for you, Kyser the married man here.

Add me in msn Married_Top@hotmail.com

[Married_Man]

Was something like this when I started this thread. Better now. PM me, ok ?

Hi guys, it has been a while no one post anything here. For myself, is still the same. Very lonely everyday after work. I'm trying at the web site trying to get a good friend who is also has the same identity as me who is married and gay. But most of the ppl I chatted with are looking for sex only. As for myself or most of the married guys here are with a beautiful family and that hold me back. It's very lonely and very frustrating. It seem like we have to go thru the life like this till we leave this whole. Furthermore, my best straight guy friend has a girlfriend already and I become even more lonely and can't share all these with my wife. Haiz...anyone here can help?

[Guest Mark]

Hey, married and lonely. I completely understand. I am in the same position. I long for the holy and embrace of a man. It is an ache that I feel can only be soothed while lying in the arms of a man, just talking and holding together.

[Guest Betrayal]

Hey, married and lonely. I completely understand. I am in the same position. I long for the holy and embrace of a man. It is an ache that I feel can only be soothed while lying in the arms of a man, just talking and holding together.

I am married with four kids. I can't fault my wife as she has done her her duty as a wife and mother dutifully. Unfortunately, I am the type who loves to fling, one night stands with either male or female partners (with condom of course!)

Recently, she came to know of my "dark secret" and boy do I get hell from her! I am remorseful for what I did and promise that I'll change. Her perspective has change towards me for not being filial but she is still with me just because of our children (I believe). Being more gay than straight, I still yearn for sex with guys. How do I continue to live????

[Guest Happylark]

I am married with four kids. I can't fault my wife as she has done her her duty as a wife and mother dutifully. Unfortunately, I am the type who loves to fling, one night stands with either male or female partners (with condom of course!)

Recently, she came to know of my "dark secret" and boy do I get hell from her! I am remorseful for what I did and promise that I'll change. Her perspective has change towards me for not being filial but she is still with me just because of our children (I believe). Being more gay than straight, I still yearn for sex with guys. How do I continue to live????

what prompted you to get married to her in the first place then.

[Guest Guest]

I am married with four kids. I can't fault my wife as she has done her her duty as a wife and mother dutifully. Unfortunately, I am the type who loves to fling, one night stands with either male or female partners (with condom of course!)

Recently, she came to know of my "dark secret" and boy do I get hell from her! I am remorseful for what I did and promise that I'll change. Her perspective has change towards me for not being filial but she is still with me just because of our children (I believe). Being more gay than straight, I still yearn for sex with guys. How do I continue to live????

You have dug your own grave. You deserved it. Please R.I.P(ain).

[Guest Sportyguy]

Was something like this when I started this thread. Better now. PM me, ok ?

[oralb]

PM is only for member to member

[Guest Betrayal]

what prompted you to get married to her in the first place then.

Not to fault anyone but this is an arranged marriage as it's my late mum's wish before she left this world. Sure, it needs two hand to clap but, being BI, I fancied sexual encounter with different partners (as I had the "norms" with my wife).

Yes you can say that I'm greedy or selfish but that's me which needs BJ or anal fxxcking which I am deprived of. I intend to stop these but I failed time and again due to the strong temptation.

[MarriedTop]

Not to fault anyone but this is an arranged marriage as it's my late mum's wish before she left this world. Sure, it needs two hand to clap but, being BI, I fancied sexual encounter with different partners (as I had the "norms" with my wife).

Yes you can say that I'm greedy or selfish but that's me which needs BJ or anal fxxcking which I am deprived of. I intend to stop these but I failed time and again due to the strong temptation.

Agreed, the temptation is too strong to resist. Or my resistance level is just way too low.

[koolkai]

I am married with four kids. I can't fault my wife as she has done her her duty as a wife and mother dutifully. Unfortunately, I am the type who loves to fling, one night stands with either male or female partners (with condom of course!)

Recently, she came to know of my "dark secret" and boy do I get hell from her! I am remorseful for what I did and promise that I'll change. Her perspective has change towards me for not being filial but she is still with me just because of our children (I believe). Being more gay than straight, I still yearn for sex with guys. How do I continue to live????

Please remind faithful to your wife. What happens if you get some dieases? Dont go for short term pleasure but think of the long run!

[Guest Betrayal]

Please remind faithful to your wife. What happens if you get some dieases? Dont go for short term pleasure but think of the long run!

As mentioned, I TRIED and will KEEP ON TRYING! It is easier said than done but for the benefit of my innocent wife, I will KEEP ON TRYING!!

[Guest ibegyou]

If you are a gay, i beg you to let go of the girl you are engaged to, please don't put another innocent and faultless girl in hell when she learns the dark side of you. What would you do if this girl is your sister or daughter if you do have one, do you want them to suffer this grave misfortune and destroy her life at all?

I'm too having the same situation as you but the only thing is that i'm not married yet but already engaged... If you want, we can share n chat with each other... My email is ashtonkai5@gmail.com and my msn is bobby_cbqms@hotmail.com

[Guest discreetfit]

I engage myself in gym and swim so much to occupy myself everyday. I build up a nice fit body. My wife can't appreciate my fit body. She always say that a man must build his brain not the body and it's useless too be hunky.

Does this contribute to my loneliness and struggle for men deeper after my marriage?

hi sporty im in the same boat as u. been trg my bod to stay fit but is not appreciated by wife. drop me an email or msn me at simplemexyz@hotmail.com. cheers -josh

[Guest cw30]

As mentioned, I TRIED and will KEEP ON TRYING! It is easier said than done but for the benefit of my innocent wife, I will KEEP ON TRYING!!

you say your wife stay becos of your children. Not sure if she had forgiven you. Am sure a mother instinct is to protect their children first.

As for yourself, the more you resist the temptation, the more you wanted it. It is either you have strong determination or just a dormant volcano which might explode in one day. Just like smoking cigarette, try to cut down on this craving. Dont forget you will need to realise what kind of life you want to live in your golden year.

[casper]

If you are a gay, i beg you to let go of the girl you are engaged to, please don't put another innocent and faultless girl in hell when she learns the dark side of you. What would you do if this girl is your sister or daughter if you do have one, do you want them to suffer this grave misfortune and destroy her life at all?

I'm a bi for a start...i do love my fiancee a lot and now i'm trying very hard not to get involved with guys...but its hard...i doubt you know what it feels as you are not in my or others BI positions...Btw,she knows that i'm a bi and she is doing her best in correcting the path that i have lead into before...

Edited December 21, 2010 by casper

[Guest ibegyou]

I salute to you as you have the courage to let her know who you are for her to make her own decision. I really dont know what a gay/bi feels but i know how the wife of gay/bi feels as my sister is one of them. It heartbreaking to see how my sister is suffering from the pain and hurt after found out the dark side of her husband. I just hope all married gay/bi think twice before doing anythings and dont build your happiness over others devastation ie wife and children.

I'm a bi for a start...i do love my fiancee a lot and now i'm trying very hard not to get involved with guys...but its hard...i doubt you know what it feels as you are not in my or others BI positions...Btw,she knows that i'm a bi and she is doing her best in correcting the path that i have lead into before...

[Guest Betrayal]

you say your wife stay becos of your children. Not sure if she had forgiven you. Am sure a mother instinct is to protect their children first.

As for yourself, the more you resist the temptation, the more you wanted it. It is either you have strong determination or just a dormant volcano which might explode in one day. Just like smoking cigarette, try to cut down on this craving. Dont forget you will need to realise what kind of life you want to live in your golden year.

Well, i think my wife had forgiven me as she said that this is my last chance. She warned me not to "two-timed" her again and wouldn't accept any lies from me. As always, the scars are still fresh as she would sometimes blast out of my infidelity when she's upset with me for some menial things. I would just listened to her and not rebut as I know that this happens because of my doings.

As mentioned before, saying is easier said than than. I felt that I've improved over the years as I've stopped visiting G saunas, massage parlours handout at G places etc. I too would head home immediately after works. Unfortunately, during this trying times, Satan will always appear in the form of a gorgeous looking hunks (my preference) in front of me. What do you think I should do? Ignore? I am no angel and my libido is still very very much active. I am for sure to submit to my temptation and have a quickie either during lunch times or heading back home. Am I so wrong? I am afterall still human!

[Guest curious]

Do you still love your wife? or have you ever loved her? You stay because of responsibility toward your children? or because you need the marriage as a cover? Are you seeking for love outside from man? or just because of lust? How do you feel if your wife having an affairs outside, does it matter to you? Just curious....

Well, i think my wife had forgiven me as she said that this is my last chance. She warned me not to "two-timed" her again and wouldn't accept any lies from me. As always, the scars are still fresh as she would sometimes blast out of my infidelity when she's upset with me for some menial things. I would just listened to her and not rebut as I know that this happens because of my doings.

As mentioned before, saying is easier said than than. I felt that I've improved over the years as I've stopped visiting G saunas, massage parlours handout at G places etc. I too would head home immediately after works. Unfortunately, during this trying times, Satan will always appear in the form of a gorgeous looking hunks (my preference) in front of me. What do you think I should do? Ignore? I am no angel and my libido is still very very much active. I am for sure to submit to my temptation and have a quickie either during lunch times or heading back home. Am I so wrong? I am afterall still human!

[Guest Betrayal]

Do you still love your wife? or have you ever loved her? You stay because of responsibility toward your children? or because you need the marriage as a cover? Are you seeking for love outside from man? or just because of lust? How do you feel if your wife having an affairs outside, does it matter to you? Just curious....

Really, I'm not sure of my love status. I've married her because it's fixed. I wouldn't leave her because she is the type of wife which any married men would desire (besides sex which is always the norm). I felt sorry for her when she found out of my dark secret.

Again, a true GAY would never understand the predicament I'm facing. I tried. Really, really tried but ........

[Guest curious]

Sigh.... my heart goes to you, your wife and maybe your children. Both of you suffering and miserable and trapped in the marriage which love may have dead or never existed.Maybe this is you all karma.

Really, I'm not sure of my love status. I've married her because it's fixed. I wouldn't leave her because she is the type of wife which any married men would desire (besides sex which is always the norm). I felt sorry for her when she found out of my dark secret.

Again, a true GAY would never understand the predicament I'm facing. I tried. Really, really tried but ........

[castaway]

I salute to you as you have the courage to let her know who you are for her to make her own decision. I really dont know what a gay/bi feels but i know how the wife of gay/bi feels as my sister is one of them. It heartbreaking to see how my sister is suffering from the pain and hurt after found out the dark side of her husband. I just hope all married gay/bi think twice before doing anythings and dont build your happiness over others devastation ie wife and children.

If you are gay and through this forum, this topic you know very well that your brother-in-law will never change, have you tried to advise your sister ?

[Guest Once Married]

I am married with four kids. I can't fault my wife as she has done her her duty as a wife and mother dutifully. Unfortunately, I am the type who loves to fling, one night stands with either male or female partners (with condom of course!)

Recently, she came to know of my "dark secret" and boy do I get hell from her! I am remorseful for what I did and promise that I'll change. Her perspective has change towards me for not being filial but she is still with me just because of our children (I believe). Being more gay than straight, I still yearn for sex with guys. How do I continue to live????

Oh my God, how did she find out? You guys must be very careful. It must have been really be painful for her. I once read an article somewhere where a woman caught her husband in bed with another guy. She was devasted and said, if the other person was a woman she could still compete with the third party to win her husband back, but for a man, she just couldn't, it is a different type of love.

I am bi, and when I was married, I stayed away totally even though it was hard to bear.....but I had to for the sake of the family and children. I know how hard it is, but what to do, once you are married you have resposiblilty. I kept myself immerse with the children until they have grown up, and that took almost twenty years of my life. Now that they have flew the nest, I am lonely, but I kept myself busy with acitivites that enable me to have many friends of both sexes. When with them, we just joke and laugh the days away.

[tic-toc]

Really, I'm not sure of my love status. I've married her because it's fixed. I wouldn't leave her because she is the type of wife which any married men would desire (besides sex which is always the norm). I felt sorry for her when she found out of my dark secret.

Again, a true GAY would never understand the predicament I'm facing. I tried. Really, really tried but ........

Everyone has the right to love.

when the feeling is gone, he/she also has the right to stop loving.

But NO one has the right to hurt someone.

[Guest Betrayal]

Oh my God, how did she find out? You guys must be very careful. It must have been really be painful for her. I once read an article somewhere where a woman caught her husband in bed with another guy. She was devasted and said, if the other person was a woman she could still compete with the third party to win her husband back, but for a man, she just couldn't, it is a different type of love.

I am bi, and when I was married, I stayed away totally even though it was hard to bear.....but I had to for the sake of the family and children. I know how hard it is, but what to do, once you are married you have resposiblilty. I kept myself immerse with the children until they have grown up, and that took almost twenty years of my life. Now that they have flew the nest, I am lonely, but I kept myself busy with acitivites that enable me to have many friends of both sexes. When with them, we just joke and laugh the days away.

I totally envy you. Does my high sex desire and seeking from the "norm" sex play a part in me seeking pleasure besides my wife? Do you have high sex drive? I am very curious to know and would like to analyse the situation and hope to get a solution soon. But at this point in time, I'll let nature takes it course. Please share your success recipe besides "immerse with the children".

[Guest Married But Longing]

Oh my God, how did she find out? You guys must be very careful. It must have been really be painful for her. I once read an article somewhere where a woman caught her husband in bed with another guy. She was devasted and said, if the other person was a woman she could still compete with the third party to win her husband back, but for a man, she just couldn't, it is a different type of love.

I am bi, and when I was married, I stayed away totally even though it was hard to bear.....but I had to for the sake of the family and children. I know how hard it is, but what to do, once you are married you have resposiblilty. I kept myself immerse with the children until they have grown up, and that took almost twenty years of my life. Now that they have flew the nest, I am lonely, but I kept myself busy with acitivites that enable me to have many friends of both sexes. When with them, we just joke and laugh the days away.

Hi Once Married, you mean throughout the 20+ years till now, you had not have sex (even with slight touching, caressing, body hugs etc.) with other guys? If true, then I must really salute to you ...

[Guest Once Married]

I totally envy you. Does my high sex desire and seeking from the "norm" sex play a part in me seeking pleasure besides my wife? Do you have high sex drive? I am very curious to know and would like to analyse the situation and hope to get a solution soon. But at this point in time, I'll let nature takes it course. Please share your success recipe besides "immerse with the children".

Do I have a high sex drive? I guess for men yes but not for woman.

Hi Once Married, you mean throughout the 20+ years till now, you had not have sex (even with slight touching, caressing, body hugs etc.) with other guys? If true, then I must really salute to you ...

Dont salute me......I am suffering emotionally.....but I am living like a monk is also because of my fear....strong fear of diease. I know that if I started, one thing to lead to another.

[Guest Betrayal]

Do I have a high sex drive? I guess for men yes but not for woman.

Dont salute me......I am suffering emotionally.....but I am living like a monk is also because of my fear....strong fear of diease. I know that if I started, one thing to lead to another.

Diseases are everywhere, even for straight men. But to TOTALLY shut out sex (regardless male or female) immediately is remarkable, commendable and almost impossible. I, too, salute you for your peserverance. I would love to have that type of attitude but I'm no angel like you.

By the way "suffering emotionally" too is some sort of disease and it's no good for one's health......

[Guest need to be btm today]

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[Guest need to be btm now]

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[Guest surelyugessian]

if you are the nice chubby fella in the spectacle shop (in woodlands) who smile everytime i walk past, please come out and have a chat with me in the coffee shop.

[Guest surelyugessian]

Dear surelyugessian-

Thanks for reply. Your message sala right? What I need is someone to come over to my place between now and 3 pm. But have a wonderful xmas, anyway.

[Guest hORNy]

Stats?

[Guest 35-yr-old lonely]

If any of you married man need someone to chat with, you can msn me: garrpng@hotmail.com. I also feel bored after work and during weekend.

I don't usually come to blowing wind, so don't reply in this forum. Just send me and email or msn if you want a new friend.

[Guest angrywifeofgayhusband]

i have no time to steal a breath, sick and even died because of job, taking care of you and our children (ie meals, clothing, schooling, sick), doing the household chores, handle all big or small matters which you claimed you dont know how to. You come home with you mouth zipped and watch your tv and read your newspaper but not doing anythings and claim that you are tired but have all the times to tell your gay friend you are lonely. Go to hell with your bullshit!!!!!

[Guest Guest]

This is the best posting in this thread so far!!

[upshot]

i have no time to steal a breath, sick and even died because of job, taking care of you and our children (ie meals, clothing, schooling, sick), doing the household chores, handle all big or small matters which you claimed you dont know how to. You come home with you mouth zipped and watch your tv and read your newspaper but not doing anythings and claim that you are tired but have all the times to tell your gay friend you are lonely. Go to hell with your bullshit!!!!!

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[Guest jack]

i have no time to steal a breath, sick and even died because of job, taking care of you and our children (ie meals, clothing, schooling, sick), doing the household chores, handle all big or small matters which you claimed you dont know how to. You come home with you mouth zipped and watch your tv and read your newspaper but not doing anythings and claim that you are tired but have all the times to tell your gay friend you are lonely. Go to hell with your bullshit!!!!!

Watever reason I had when I committed myself to marriage, it's my decision. No turning back. No groaning and no regretting. I can't get rid of the urge and desire for men, let it be. When I cannot bear with it anymore and opportunities come by, do wat i like. Continue to be a good husband and good father. Living 2 different lives is not the end of the world. But must be responsible and ensure safety always. Married men, we are only entitled to short term satisfaction of the urge, NOT long term lovers please!!

[snowball]

怎样的结局最完美, 完美是否只属于神话?

追寻幸福无罪, 那为何多数人伤痕累累?

如何捉得住最美的风景?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERUGgIfjgN4&feature=related

Edited December 31, 2010 by snowball

[Guest yeard4marr]

I always fancy married guy , young or old, some of the charismatic feeling just snap my mind if i know that the guy is married . I 've been with relstionship with 3 married guys even realtionship not that long but i keep liking them , Do you have smae kind of feeling ?

[Guest Guest]

得不到的, 一定是最好的 ??!!

[Guest sibille upon]

I always fancy married guy , young or old, some of the charismatic feeling just snap my mind if i know that the guy is married . I 've been with relstionship with 3 married guys even realtionship not that long but i keep liking them , Do you have smae kind of feeling ?

I totally agrees with you... I love married men too.. somehow they have the charisma.. and the way to take cares of his "women".. They are gentle in bed.. sensitive to our needs and to TOP it off (pun intended).. They are good F**ker!

I have been in relationship with a married men for 2 years now.. and both of us love each other very much.. Now! don't ask me how he is going to settle his marriage.. that is for him to take care of, and it is not up to me to tell him what to do.

I think the reason why married men likes to fool around with man and later found out that they are bi.. is because they want to have their fair share of fun and to satisfied their sexual lust.

My bf told me that it feels different being suck by a guy and F**king a guy as it is different from a pussy!