Of Love Struggles & Cries Of A Married Gay Man + Cheating Married Men Leading Dual Life (compiled)

[Phil]

#1 rule - Dont Shit where you eat!

No matter how close you are with him, you have to consider what if he isnt as curious as you?

I totally support this advice.

Don't mix sex and work.

If you think that you are "bi", try to find, for your crushes/experiences/..., somebody not related with your office environment, nor with your family.

I have been in your situation, and I think it's safer, from many points of view.

Good luck!

[fugues]

I totally support this advice.

Don't mix sex and work.

If you think that you are "bi", try to find, for your crushes/experiences/..., somebody not related with your office environment, nor with your family.

I have been in your situation, and I think it's safer, from many points of view.

Good luck!

... and please think about the effect on your family too - if you think you can't handle it, please don't start ...

Edited May 29, 2011 by fugues

[Phil]

Oh no, no wonder birthrate is so so low. If you have decided to marry, please go pregnantize your wife. Leave the gay man to the gay men.

You are right.

I have no problem with your advice, I already have two kids...

[Guest Guest]

I'm married and I've all the while been curious. Only go so far as doing handjob with man. But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man, esp my colleague sitting next to me. It's bugging too much that I have to ask you married man, how to deal with this. I thought of coming out to him and really ask him to do it. We are very close. But it's nuts !

dun be dumb. you wanna ask him to do it? never think of consequences? think with your brain, not with your dick.

[Guest manlybi]

I'm married and I've all the while been curious. Only go so far as doing handjob with man. But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man, esp my colleague sitting next to me. It's bugging too much that I have to ask you married man, how to deal with this. I thought of coming out to him and really ask him to do it. We are very close. But it's nuts !

you can contact me too, i am married guy , x_iceberg@hotmail.com

[Guest Happylark]

are your wives contacting each other too? i think lawyer can give discount if all of them go to him to settle the separation/divorce agreement.

[Spordyguy]

Hi SeekMarried

You must not mix this kind of feeling in your work place. It will be terrible if things don't turn out fine. Furthermore, you mentioned that you are close to him.

I am having a close colleague too and I understand the struggle you are having. We are married and we have a family. What happened if things really turn out to be bad, what will happen to your job and your family. Just take him as a close friend.

[Guest Guest]

May be can focus on the issue "But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man" ? DO other married man also "But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man" ? Why so ?

[Guest Guest]

Then why do you get married in the 1st place?

You should have been true to yourself.

Being gay does not mean you need to get attached to another man.

you had the abalone, now you want the sea cucumber?

Be contended, not greedy.

[Baloo]

Then why do you get married in the 1st place?

You should have been true to yourself.

Being gay does not mean you need to get attached to another man.

you had the abalone, now you want the sea cucumber?

Be contended, not greedy.

if you are a gay person, try to remember how bad it was when hetro do not understand you and your kind (gayman).

now you are pissing on an even smaller subset of sexually devient people... yes the party you are referring to is known as 'bi' please extend the courtesy to them as you crave from the hetro when they refer to you as a freak once. (or they still do but not so in-your-face anymore)

If you do not understand the psyche of the 'bi' and emrging 'bi' person, please just do the simplest thing and leave them alone. Your comments on being true to yourself etc... bullshit ... seriously irks ...

:swear: :swear: :swear:

[Guest likemarriedbi]

I'm married and I've all the while been curious. Only go so far as doing handjob with man. But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man, esp my colleague sitting next to me. It's bugging too much that I have to ask you married man, how to deal with this. I thought of coming out to him and really ask him to do it. We are very close. But it's nuts !

Halo seekMarried , i have a different situation , i am a marriedman . i have a childhood buddy who we have sexual relation since , my childhood buddy like to play female role .

I have only make love to two person and have a very satisfaction sexual relation with both , a men and a woman.

But my buddy move to china with his family about two to three year ago . i have not touch another man since. we make love once in my hotel in hong kong about one and half year to two year ago during my trip to hong kong.

The feeling and memory with him have surface every now and then , i have try to make a few email exchange with few man , But can not have the feeling at all.may be you want to write to me likemarriedbiatgmaildotcom.

[Guest imm]

Halo seekMarried , i have a different situation , i am a marriedman . i have a childhood buddy who we have sexual relation since , my childhood buddy like to play female role .

I have only make love to two person and have a very satisfaction sexual relation with both , a men and a woman.

But my buddy move to china with his family about two to three year ago . i have not touch another man since. we make love once in my hotel in hong kong about one and half year to two year ago during my trip to hong kong.

The feeling and memory with him have surface every now and then , i have try to make a few email exchange with few man , But can not have the feeling at all.may be you want to write to me likemarriedbiatgmaildotcom.

Your story sounded exactly like someone I had met before. In HK, on a typhoon night, we were stuck in the hotel, we met in the hotel gym, then in to the steam room, you invited me to your room for a "card game"? hahaha ... is that you?

[MarriedTop]

Married man here with kids.

My suggestion is: You may try out or realized your fantasy by looking some top out there but please leave your colleague alone. The least thing you wan to do is to smash your rice bowl just becoz of that fantasy.

[Guest Guest]

if you are a gay person, try to remember how bad it was when hetro do not understand you and your kind (gayman).

now you are pissing on an even smaller subset of sexually devient people... yes the party you are referring to is known as 'bi' please extend the courtesy to them as you crave from the hetro when they refer to you as a freak once. (or they still do but not so in-your-face anymore)

If you do not understand the psyche of the 'bi' and emrging 'bi' person, please just do the simplest thing and leave them alone. Your comments on being true to yourself etc... bullshit ... seriously irks ...

:swear: :swear: :swear:

Good, can't wait to read their stories headlining in New Paper soon.

[delirious30]

I'm married and I've all the while been curious. Only go so far as doing handjob with man. But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man, esp my colleague sitting next to me. It's bugging too much that I have to ask you married man, how to deal with this. I thought of coming out to him and really ask him to do it. We are very close. But it's nuts !

well just keep the fabtasy to urself. the worst scenario is he is not gay or bi and he tell the whole office about it. sometime is good to keep this fantasy to urself.

last time, i have a my army gd buddy whom we used to wrestle and massage each other. sometime, he will used some tempting sexual words on me, like,"u wanna to fxxk me rite, etc". once i confessed my feeling to him and told him i m a bi and kinda like him. guess what... the relationship turn for the worst, it is like a wall between us.

hence, don't thread down this path unless he approached u man.

[Guest Try]

I'm married and I've all the while been curious. Only go so far as doing handjob with man. But lately, I keep having fantasy being fxxked by man, esp my colleague sitting next to me. It's bugging too much that I have to ask you married man, how to deal with this. I thought of coming out to him and really ask him to do it. We are very close. But it's nuts !

I applaude your honesty and daringness. You can try to test him first. See how "bi" he is. Like ask him out for a drink, try to caress his neck and shoulder occasionally. Then when he's drunk ask him if he has had any sexual experience with a guy before. If he react/protest strongly, then he's too straight. If he reacts softly or somehow interested in that idea, u can continue to test further.

Btw drink at a public coffee shop. Dont drink at home alone cos later when he's drunk u may not control urself and fxxk him and that is what they call : rape : D

[Guest Guest118]

Are married gay men living their lives like living corpse ( 像行尸走户）even though they have a wife and children?

I have encountered a few of them , it seems to me that they are always in some kind of torn emotions and they tend to tell a lot of lies !

Some even went cheating their friends' money !

And many cheat the love of unmarried gay people - because they want to enjoy the love and sexual sensation that they have been yearning from man.

[Guest crap]

WHAT SWEEPING STATEMENT! AS IF SINGLE GAY DOESNT DO WHAT U WROTE

[Guest Assholes]

If that person chooses to give in to pressure given by his parents, relatives or friends and get married becoz of this, then he should treat and devote his life to his wife and kids.

He should know if he chooses to give in to pressure, then cannot be so selfish, want vagina and penis.

Indeed some married guys dun mind hurting gays like us bcoz to them, they might just treat us as spare sexual toys. When they keen or wan a penis or an asshole then come to us. and silly enough, some of us love this kind of ppl and would let those despicable married man play or fulfill those asshole's needs.

In the end, that married guy got family, kids, but we can only be their sextoys to satisfy them when in need.

I've seen some married gays insulting gays infront of their peers and family, but deep down, they want sex with plu. These are the real asses that deserve to burn in hell

So plu, stop being so silly and let them get what they want from us. They are jus making use of us. Stop making them to think that we are willing to serve them. Stand up plu.. stop letting them do this to us..

They'd made their choice to give in to pressure by their families, so they deserve to give in to their fate. they chooses it, it's their life, they had made the say when they made the vow.

[patisoy]

If that person chooses to give in to pressure given by his parents, relatives or friends and get married becoz of this, then he should treat and devote his life to his wife and kids.

He should know if he chooses to give in to pressure, then cannot be so selfish, want vagina and penis.

Indeed some married guys dun mind hurting gays like us bcoz to them, they might just treat us as spare sexual toys. When they keen or wan a penis or an asshole then come to us. and silly enough, some of us love this kind of ppl and would let those despicable married man play or fulfill those asshole's needs.

In the end, that married guy got family, kids, but we can only be their sextoys to satisfy them when in need.

I've seen some married gays insulting gays infront of their peers and family, but deep down, they want sex with plu. These are the real asses that deserve to burn in hell

So plu, stop being so silly and let them get what they want from us. They are jus making use of us. Stop making them to think that we are willing to serve them. Stand up plu.. stop letting them do this to us..

They'd made their choice to give in to pressure by their families, so they deserve to give in to their fate. they chooses it, it's their life, they had made the say when they made the vow.

There's a scary truth to what you're saying. A lot of PLU's (including myself) allowed themselves to be used by these selfish pricks. I must admit, I was stupid enough to believe that one day, the married guy whom I had an affair with..will leave his family for me. See how stupid the idea was? The fact is clear that there is no way these married men will leave their families because of a PLU and I knew this right before I decided to dive into the quicksand. We always hold on to some sliver of hope.

But truth is, we are just wasting our time if our intention is to have a lasting & loving relationship.

Yes, I had my fantasies/fetish with married guys. I was fortunate enough to fulfill those fantasies and it is supposed to stay that way only - fulfilling one's fantasies. However, human as we are, we hope for something more to flourish and blooms into a relationship. I must had hit my head hard in the pavement to hold on to some illusion. I really felt like a prostitute because these married guys only call me (sometimes in the middle of the night) if they needed a hand to scratch their itch. Usually, they only wanted me to "service" them when their wives refuse to have sex. Wait, I think the prostitutes are even better than me because they get paid for their services...and when they are lucky, they get a hefty tip!

So...to those PLU's having "affairs" with married men, wake up! Fulfill your fantasies and leave the bed while they are taking a snooze. Once you allow yourself to be used more than once, you are no better than the prostitutes. In a nutshell, you are having sex with a married man because you want to fulfill a certain fantasy and that should be all about it.

Edited July 30, 2011 by patisoy

[Roger]

There's a scary truth to what you're saying. A lot of PLU's (including myself) allowed themselves to be used by these selfish pricks. I must admit, I was stupid enough to believe that one day, the married guy whom I had an affair with..will leave his family for me. See how stupid the idea was? The fact is clear that there is no way these married men will leave their families because of a PLU and I knew this right before I decided to dive into the quicksand. We always hold on to some sliver of hope.

But truth is, we are just wasting our time if our intention is to have a lasting & loving relationship.

Yes, I had my fantasies/fetish with married guys. I was fortunate enough to fulfill those fantasies and it is supposed to stay that way only - fulfilling one's fantasies. However, human as we are, we hope for something more to flourish and blooms into a relationship. I must had hit my head hard in the pavement to hold on to some illusion. I really felt like a prostitute because these married guys only call me (sometimes in the middle of the night) if they needed a hand to scratch their itch. Usually, they only wanted me to "service" them when their wives refuse to have sex. Wait, I think the prostitutes are even better than me because they get paid for their services...and when they are lucky, they get a hefty tip!

So...to those PLU's having "affairs" with married men, wake up! Fulfill your fantasies and leave the bed while they are taking a snooze. Once you allow yourself to be used more than once, you are no better than the prostitutes. In a nutshell, you are having sex with a married man because you want to fulfill a certain fantasy and that should be all about it.

Yes, I think you are right, NEVER take a married man seriously, just enjoy the fun time together.

Don't harbour any other thoughts, the LOSER will be you, just have a good fun-time and nothing more. Am talking from enormous experience.

[patisoy]

Yes, I think you are right, NEVER take a married man seriously, just enjoy the fun time together.

Don't harbour any other thoughts, the LOSER will be you, just have a good fun-time and nothing more. Am talking from enormous experience.

Yes, but if the married man is you, I might change my mind! Hahahahahaha...

[btm_dude]

Yes, but if the married man is you, I might change my mind! Hahahahahaha...

haha see... U are so horny when u see mature men like this... Which are mostly married...

Anw, no wrong in what u fetish of, just rmb that u cant have any strings attached when it comes to married man loh... So simple...

[HOTSTUFF]

Hmmm....why are we even victims of married men, or any man for that matter, in the first place. Please stop having this me-so-victimized spiel. If you think about it, married men has more to lose if you let their secret out to their family. Unless you are a willing party, no body can force you to do anything. The fact that he is married and sleeping with you is already major cheating and shows his capability to cheat and lie but that doesn't seem to bother you. It only does when you are the one being cheated.

[Guest guest]

aiyoh, Guest118, why u only single out married men leh?

u choose to go with him for sex, and u turn around say he cheats, it says so much about yr character too.

how can u sleep around with married men, and expect them to leave their family? so irresponsible !

Also, so many single men also sleep around with many partners, why only pick married men? they r also victimised leh, haha !

[robin64]

首先......一巴掌是打不响

其次......开始认识时，若他已表明身份，你明知他已婚，然到你会那么幼稚和愚蠢的以为他会为你舍弃他原有的家庭，若他真能那么做，这种人....更要不得，因为他能为你舍弃他身边的人，他日....他也一样会为了别人而丢弃你........

三.......别一相情愿的自以为你为了他而付出一切就想得到相对的回报，而且当你们在做爱时，他在high时，然刭你就不会爽吗..............！

四.......估且不论谁爱上谁.......但请睁大眼睛和仔细想清楚未耒所要承受的代价与悔恨！

Edited July 30, 2011 by robin64

[Guest Funny]

Hello single gay cheat too having sex with many other gay too. But telling others I am a closet so you know I know just don't point at each other

[thespongebob]

Yes I understand, our situations are very close, but I am from Penang, curious on how your search has come to and would like to learn from it, as I am 'soul searching now' for a possible friend cum soulmate.

regards

soo

Lack company or sexually. Thanks for asking this question. I'm clearer in my thoughts now. I think my character makes me a loner as I'm very strong in my opinions. I'm lonely because of my strong character. Even in office, I tend to eat alone. Also, as I'm often either as work of at home, I don't socialise much. Meeting up with friends after work is rare. Probably did not happen for 5-6 years ? Or more ? I hardly get calls from friends. Almost all my calls are from family members or someone who wants to sell me something.

As for the sexaually part, that too. I would like to have an outlet. I have to be honest. I do meet up with people. But the fear is very strong as I'm afraid I get in trouble. I'm looking for someone who has a reason for me to be with, eg working in the same line (that would be a good reason cause I don't have a personal reason for knowing someone !!) But the opportunity does not come. Or I found a colleague that I can talk to but he's not someone I can open up to.

One of the reason I see is that my kids are very young. In Pri school. I have to look after them and help with their studies as well. We don't have maid. Use to have but decided to give up. So my time is mostly consumed by work (and honestly I spend much lesser time than my colleagues in office) and home. I venture into this "life" after 10pm when they are all asleep. And recently, they took up an hobby which occupies them 7-9pm on one of the evenings, which gives me some time. But I don't know what to do with this time except clear my office work or go exercise. Or go and run some errands.

[Guest guest]

any one lead a double life? day time good husband ,nite time go for gay massage and suck dick. or day time act very man and tough , nite time cross dress. i knew many happen in bangkok.

[Undies69]

yes of cos, nowadays getting more married man who are husband during daytime but enjoy gay fun after work...

Over the weekends, they will spend time with their wives and/or kids.

During weekdays, they act married man in office, but once after work, they will meet up with gays for sex/fun...

But in singapore, we have to be discreet as our sexual orientation will jeopardise our careers..... unless you can migrate to countires where Gay are being accepted by the public ...ELSE as long as you are living in Singapore and depending the salary for a living, 100% discrete is the SAFEST..

[Chub71]

My ex used to be one of those guys. Very well respected in the community he lived in, was the president of the local chamber of commerce, owned a small real estate business. Had a wife, 3 kids, church leader etc. But every so often, he would go to the gay bath-houses then and enjoy his himself. The pressure of maintaining the facade became too much after a while, and living up to the expectations of everyone but himself. So he came out, got divorced, and moved into the city. Having given up everything to the ex-wife and kids, he tried working in real estate for a while, but was not very successful. By chance he saw an ad looking for pxxn performers, he went and the rest is history

Interesting guy your ex is. Some would give up everything some won't. Chances are bisexuals won't because we love the 2 worlds.

[Guest Zoo M]

im surprised many gays out there are professionals.....cos most of the time the gays i saw worked as sales assistants, trainers etc...all those lowly paid jobs and yet they try to behave glam...yuck

Hey idiot... read this:

----------------------------

Don’t ignore Tim Cook’s sexuality

AUG 25, 2011 15:47 EDT

Tim Cook is now the most powerful gay man in the world. This is newsworthy, no? But you won’t find it reported in any legacy/mainstream outlet. And when the FT‘s Tim Bradshaw did no more than broach the subject in a single tweet, he instantly found himself fielding a barrage of responses criticizing him from so much as mentioning the subject. Similarly, when Gawker first reported Cook’s sexuality in January, MacDailyNews called their actions “petty, vindictive, and just plain sad.”

But surely this is something we can and should be celebrating, if only in the name of diversity — that a company which by some measures the largest and most important in the world is now being run by a gay man. Certainly when it comes to gay role models, Cook is great: he’s the boring systems-and-processes guy, not the flashy design guru, and as such he cuts sharply against stereotype. He’s like Barney Frank in that sense: a super-smart, powerful and non-effeminate man who shows that being gay is no obstacle to any career you might want.

[sum1outhere_03]

Haha with reference to the ex becoming a pxxn star, if I were the partner, I'd have objected furiously, even if it's a high paying job and it may be fun.

I don't know what is the main point of bringing this up. But I feel that people have the rights to enjoy themselves (don't they?), but of course it solely depends much on your personal convictions, even for most of us who are straight acting in front of our straight friends.

Personally I'm not in favour with us who are gay and date married men, even if they confess they love u and all that stuff, it just dun feel good to me personally.

[Guest closetted]

haha I thought getting pumped and piak backside is bad enough. How cum these people never write their stories? must be hot hot hot right Why anonymous also scared to post? I want to read real stories leh

It is very difficult to handle the pressure that buildup deep inside when u don't have sex with a man for a long time. U feel empty, u feel hungry, u feel horny, u feel kinky, u feel like exploding....Then u meet someone who can smell your nervousness and need. He takes u inside the room. He makes u relax to reveal your true self and suddenly u felt released, free and wild...u want to compensate for that long time of frustrations....vanilla anal sex is not enough to satisfy the longings....I need to be punished for being notti... he sensed it....he piak my backside....with pain and confusion I growled at him....he cupped my pecs and squeezed hard... I fall back onto the bed...he parted my legs and I ....I never been fxxked so long....I'm afraid he'll hurt me...I resisted...he smirked and slowly slid his hand between my tightly closed thighs...he forced it down my quivering hole and with a gasp of pain, I opened my legs to ease the pain....he slapped my meaty thighs for disobeying him...I closed my eyes in shyness....he grabbed my legs and throw me forwards to push up my butts...he slapped them softly just to tell me don't resist or else he's be more nasty...he applied the lub and fingered me as I close my eyes but open enough to watch him put on the condom...he positioned me for my own best view in the mirror then his organ seek access into me for fxxking me in the best side view...I turn my head aside to avoid his searching eyes only to see myself in the side mirror and his eyes seeking to watch me grimace in pain as he penetrated me...I can see his cock disappear between my butts into me...Let the pumping begins...he shifted me this way, that way like a sex toy...he pumped hard and fast then took a rest leaving my hole gaping and leaking lub where he added more...he watched...he find any sensitive meaty parts to pinch and make me moan....he is looking for more than sex...he wants to toy with me...he wrestle hold between my arm and leaning back, he push me down into his cock where the mirror showed the 1-0 coupling in great clarity as I raised my legs apart...he tried to move but I was too heavy on top of him...on and on he abused me and I let him....when the climax came, I was spraying cum while he was pumping me in the half squat position where my wildly jerking cock was free to release the weeks of wants...all in full view of the mirror and both of us watching...the he flipped me over...he cock slapped me and finally shoot on my face....after that...we r strangers outside....until I have the need again a month later...

[abang]

Gay men had longed been stereotyped as weak and useless, physically and mentally challenged.

In my humble opinion, this is so untrue.

Many of us had good education and held on to well-paying jobs.

My only advice for younger gay men - study hard and do well in your studies.

By doing so, you earn the respect and hearts of those who scorn at us.

You may have family duties to fulfill...

My personal experience is that by not embarrassing my family, they are proud and OK that I am gay and wont

be continuing the family line.

[Prince+ve]

Moi random comment: I love the irony and duality about discreet gays in this thread. It's awesome!

Occupation might be one of the reasons and it can also be society forcing them to do so or be forever ostracize.

I have nuetral views on them but hey, they're juggling and balancing 2 different ways of life (which is undoubtedly stressful), gotta tip my hat to that.

[doncoin]

Haha with reference to the ex becoming a pxxn star, if I were the partner, I'd have objected furiously, even if it's a high paying job and it may be fun.

It wasn't ideal but at some level it worked for us. I think if I was in a financial position to support the two of us then, I would have taken the same approach about being furious etc. However back then I was just a fresh graduate and no financial means, I had to be pragmatic. It wasn't easy at first and we both did our best to kept the relationship on its course.

We knew there is an exit point to this success and when it happened he kept his word and retired from the business.

So at the end of it all, it is a choice. We can all choose to hide in the closet and maintain a facade and build lies upon lies and never allowing ourselves that piece happiness because we want to make others happy, or we take it upon our own and be happy.

[TheVisitors]

My first love and ex, dumped me when I was 22, and ran away with $60k worth of debt for me to clear, just to fulfill his family duties and to inherit his family's assests of close $3 milion, being the only son

So I ran away o NYC for 16months, back came back here, and face the music, took 6-7 years to clear all my debts.

I did met up with him, like 11 years later.

He was already married with a kid. He didn't know who I was because I changed so much. Wanted to 'friend' me without realizing I was the little boy he dumped 11 years ago.

Yes, I did wrote about this story of mine in of the married gay thread .

Althought married with so much assets. I could sense his suffering in his eyes.

It has being so long. No more feelings, nor hate nor pain do I feel for him or myself.

I take it that amount was what I owned him in our past life. Haha

But along the way, I met several married gays and bisexuals. Besides having fun with them,they want me to stick around with them.

Probably I have this ablity to listen to people's problems patiently and my straight looks/behaviour were added advantage to them not being suspected

for their dark agendas.

And along the way, I grew wiser.Yes we can have our fun, and yes converse and listen to your woes, BUT I am too much of a free spirited to be binded by other people's problem.

What you want to do with your life,, why you choose marry, o fulfiil whatever social, family, natonal duties or obligations, is no longer and not a concern of mine.

If you choose, don't grumble your suffering and pain to me. If you created all your self inflicted suffering, please don't share your negativities, althought I can only listen with one ear in one ear out.

Be happy with what you choose.

Thus you guys should adopt this attitude I have for them. But to make it clear, I am not judging them for what they chose to be in.

I realy have no time to listen to prattlings from weaklings.

I am here to hve my fun with you, likewise, fulfill your sexual fantasies that your wife can never give you.

I am not your saviour.

[abang]

I am much more selective ...

If the man tells me that he is married, I just walk away.

To me, I wont touch anything that got near a pussy...

So in the eye of the straight people, I am still a virgin (?) :clap:

[Guest nice]

I know a Malaysian massage boy and he told me his story. Through his massage service, a local married business man like him so much and "bao" him for long term. Monday to Friday, the business man will leave his own house around 7 to go to the massage boy's house for massage & fun. He will then leave around 10 for his office. Sometimes, he will also drop by in the evening for OT :whistle: . The boy is allowed to do "freelance" when the business man is busy with family over the weekends or on business trip. He pays for the boy's acommodation and pocket money.

Quite a good deal though I do wish to have such daddy but must be handsome lah ....

[fatdaddy71]

yes of cos, nowadays getting more married man who are husband during daytime but enjoy gay fun after work...

Over the weekends, they will spend time with their wives and/or kids.

During weekdays, they act married man in office, but once after work, they will meet up with gays for sex/fun...

But in singapore, we have to be discreet as our sexual orientation will jeopardise our careers..... unless you can migrate to countires where Gay are being accepted by the public ...ELSE as long as you are living in Singapore and depending the salary for a living, 100% discrete is the SAFEST..

Hi the urge is too strong. We just have to be discreet. And do anything in close door.

Then return home to family.

[koolkai]

im surprised many gays out there are professionals.....cos most of the time the gays i saw worked as sales assistants, trainers etc...all those lowly paid jobs and yet they try to behave glam...yuck

What do you mean they behave glam?

[happy.99]

What do you mean they behave glam?

probably he meant act ATAS or high class but have a low paid job or maybe poor character. Higher professionals usually have better personality, i used the word usually. if not they would not have move up so high. maybe he meant act hard to get because they think they are good looking or good bods so can be more picky, stuck up.

[btm_dude]

To all the bi married who led a double life out there.

Has anyone been struggling Hard to stay loyal to ur wife and family and always fail? Or anyone succeed to stay loyal before? And after holding for so long and exploded with another man, do ur have the immediate guilt coming to u?

I'm not sure if other Bi married man feel this way, but I do. And this always make me feel down...

[happy.99]

if you can bury your consciences, you can do. i know many could do it. if not how to ignore the urge? some bi also cruise in front of their wives. only their wives doesn't know it.

[GachiMuchi]

Hi guys...I'm seeking mature married or single men age mid 40s and above...I'm married & in my late 30s. Anyone in here? Thanks!

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To all the bi married who led a double life out there.

Has anyone been struggling Hard to stay loyal to ur wife and family and always fail? Or anyone succeed to stay loyal before? And after holding for so long and exploded with another man, do ur have the immediate guilt coming to u?

I'm not sure if other Bi married man feel this way, but I do. And this always make me feel down...

I almost had a nervous breakdown. Everyone thinks it's work stress but the counsellor and a few close friends know otherwise.

Am better now.

[Guest ashley]

When I met my ex, he did not tell me that he was married. I was told that we could not meet to often due to his frequent traveling to overseas. It was only when his first child was born, he was so tied-up with his family affair and he finally admitted to me. Imagine my shock, my bf not only had a wife (3 months before we met) and had also just became a father ! He wanted to continue our relationship and begged for my forgiveness as he was under family's pressure to get married. He wanted to make me feel secured and I was being introduced to his family as a "long lost old classmate". Seeing his family - parents, wife and kid, I started to wonder how my image was to fit into their family portrait. 9 months later, I decided to end this relationship. No regret and I wish him and his family well as I am typing this.

[Guest Seng]

I give tuition to this P1 boy since early this year. His father always wears boxer only walking around at home. I can see his great body with meaty bouncing under his boxer. Once I walked pass his bedroom saw him slept with his dick sliding out from his boxer.

Just now I went to his house but his wife forgot to informed me tuition cancelled today. He was alone and he invited me in for a chat. We chat for a while then he went to his bedroom toilet. He purposely did not close the door properly for me to peep him pcc. I knew he seduced me so I walked in and we engaged in a good fxxk in toilet. Excited with fear his family might come home suddenly. But it was worth the excitement!

[Guest Zoo M]

I give tuition to this P1 boy since early this year. His father always wears boxer only walking around at home. I can see his great body with meaty bouncing under his boxer. Once I walked pass his bedroom saw him slept with his dick sliding out from his boxer. Just now I went to his house but his wife forgot to informed me tuition cancelled today. He was alone and he invited me in for a chat. We chat for a while then he went to his bedroom toilet. He purposely did not close the door properly for me to peep him pcc. I knew he seduced me so I walked in and we engaged in a good fxxk in toilet. Excited with fear his family might come home suddenly. But it was worth the excitement!

This is HOTNESS! got more details? how did u fxxk? who fxxked who?