Bottoming 101 - How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun + How To Give Yourself An Enema / Douche / Clean Inside Your Butt (Compiled)

[Guest Intensely Staring At Butt]

On November 5, 2018 at 6:28 AM, Guest Bigt said:

Sorry I am new is cleaning that area but I have read most advise and most say just use the shower hose to push the water in. Is it to spray water at the hole and try to" take it in"? I certainly cannot shove that hose in my asshole. I try spraying it and I cannot take in any water. The only way I can push water in is using a bottle with a thin tip (like those soy sauce plastic bottles), shove it up my ass and press. It's a bit troublesome and I cannot get a lot of water in. Countless times I reject anal cause I know I never clean properly (my ass is also quite tight and I need to prepare myself before hand before even trying anal sex cause...)

 

I think there are rubber tips similar to those on a baby's bottle that you can attach to the end of a hose to get a proper amount of water inside your ass but somebody with more firsthand knowledge than me would be able to answer your question more thoroughly. As for having to reject anal due to not being clean enough, my advice would be to find a top who truly doesn't mind if things get messy during sex, providing of course that you won't be turned off by the situation yourself.

 

From a personal point of view, once the act gets started, I am so horny that almost nothing can turn me off. I just want to continue doing it until cumming. No matter what. And yes, it has gotten messy with some bottoms that I dated before, but it doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother them. We would either take a break to clean up, or just continue until the end, and then clean up together. People need to be understanding when they are having fun with a hole actually meant for pooping.

[Winnie]

Got a little confused if I doing it right. If a guy push in all the way, I squeeze out like shitting but when he pull back out, do I continue to squeeze out or relax and cramp onto his dick? For the entire sex, should I keep squeezing out instead? It feels like i concentrating more on the squeezing out part than savoring his thrusts.

[Guest Warning Fools On Rules]

On November 18, 2018 at 9:16 AM, Winnie said:

Got a little confused if I doing it right. If a guy push in all the way, I squeeze out like shitting but when he pull back out, do I continue to squeeze out or relax and cramp onto his dick? For the entire sex, should I keep squeezing out instead? It feels like i concentrating more on the squeezing out part than savoring his thrusts.

 

Try pushing out like you're farting or shitting when he thrusts into you ... and relaxing when he pulls back ... then repeat the same pattern until developing a rhythm.

[Vometra]

Any recommendation for lube?

Easily available in Singapore and not too ex ... water or silicone based is better?

[clifford99]

Yo.. do u always clean up ur ass before sex?

 

If the sex is impromptu or spontaneous such that u have no time to clean up, eg. Too horny to stop and go wash,  would u just carry on to fuxk? 

[CherieLove]

2 minutes ago, clifford99 said:

Yo.. do u always clean up ur ass before sex?

 

If the sex is impromptu or spontaneous such that u have no time to clean up, eg. Too horny to stop and go wash,  would u just carry on to fuxk? 

Im curious about this too.. I always clean up before sex because im a germaphobe.. But how bout others? 

[Guest Blank]

No idea, I don't have sex with strangers to get hiv

[Guest Let the TOP decide]

Permission to proceed lies squarely on the TOP - if he didn't mind taking responsibility thereafter for "what may come" out of an unwashed ass.

[Guest guest]

13 hours ago, Guest Let the TOP decide said:

Permission to proceed lies squarely on the TOP - if he didn't mind taking responsibility thereafter for "what may come" out of an unwashed ass.

 

yucks, i am no scatologist

[tyan]

Actually not only bottom need to clean up. Top need to clean up too. At least wash the cock first. 

[lovehandle]

2 hours ago, tyan said:

Actually not only bottom need to clean up. Top need to clean up too. At least wash the cock first. 

True but isnt that commonsense? (not questioning you)
that part is a must-wash ??
and
since young i been esp cleanin my crack(though i dont bottom)
my sister was so aghast by my description how i clean it (we r in the era of using  soap , not the liquid/foam type then) - i only told her i used the soap bar and ensure that my crack is clean (i was a kid then, which is why i felt it was common sense, nothing to do with gays or not)


it is More disgusting to learn that :

1)  those attending undies' nite or using undies in sauna cruising, wore the same pc of underwear after their whole day of work (or cruising in the same toilet , or rush into a toilet cubicle for a quickie but the penis not washed and have been kept or coop in the same pair of undies w perspiration for sometime)
the sucker will continue to stay around and look for more .....without rinsing his mouth

2) allowing your same penis to be used/sucked by first person to another ( didnt bother to excuse yourself to wash up before continue) , it is fine if it is a party /orgy where everyone come prepared: washed and brushed , and such parties do not end with random strangers walking in and out unknowingly.....(not as dark as some corners in a sauna) - u never know which customers (in a sauna) been sucking from A to B (spreading germs and disease around)
3)Uncut adult males still do not know how to properly wash their body by now?
 
we must make sex "safe" please

 

Edited February 5, 2019 by lovehandle

[Guest Caught Telling Lies]

Tell the top that you are just as horny as him, but you didn't have a chance to clean your ass earlier, because you did not anticipate having sex. Let him know that if he insists on fucking you, something might come out of your ass accidentally, and he needs to be sure that he won't freak out or get disgusted. If he says he is fine with that, ask him again just to be 100% sure, and then proceed if he says yes.

There have been times where things unexpectedly got heated real quickly with bottoms, and I was so horny that I insisted on fucking them anyway, even though they told me they hadn't cleaned their asses. Sometimes nothing ever came out, but other times it did get messy, and with one guy extremely messy. But since I knew this was possible, I carried on until cumming, and then helped them clean up.

[Garyl]

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

True but isnt that commonsense? (not questioning you)
that part is a must-wash ??
and
since young i been esp cleanin my crack(though i dont bottom)
my sister was so aghast by my description how i clean it (we r in the era of using  soap , not the liquid/foam type then) - i only told her i used the soap bar and ensure that my crack is clean (i was a kid then, which is why i felt it was common sense, nothing to do with gays or not)


it is More disgusting to learn that :

1)  those attending undies' nite or using undies in sauna cruising, wore the same pc of underwear after their whole day of work (or cruising in the same toilet , or rush into a toilet cubicle for a quickie but the penis not washed and have been kept or coop in the same pair of undies w perspiration for sometime)
the sucker will continue to stay around and look for more .....without rinsing his mouth

2) allowing your same penis to be used/sucked by first person to another ( didnt bother to excuse yourself to wash up before continue) , it is fine if it is a party /orgy where everyone come prepared: washed and brushed , and such parties do not end with random strangers walking in and out unknowingly.....(not as dark as some corners in a sauna) - u never know which customers (in a sauna) been sucking from A to B (spreading germs and disease around)
3)Uncut adult males still do not know how to properly wash their body by now?
 
we must make sex "safe" please

 

Not common to some

[lovehandle]

7 minutes ago, Garyl said:

Not common to some

which is why when some prompted me to taste , i dont , my lip was so tight that they nearly wanna give me a light tap ....

nvm abt the rest, hopefully it is common to u?


i saw that many complained certain saunas, i will bring in my own stuff to do cleaning before i lie down on the mattresses.... instead of putting the responsibility onto the shop owners, i do it myself, cos the staff cannot be 25hrs looking at each rooms (so many rms) and many use the rooms and move on(it s hard to monitor) , u never know who has.........

instead of wasting time boycotting or complaining online, i decided to do it my own way (cos complaints are not gonna change anything)
Unless it is terribly bad till the whole world is complaining 
(ya i rem Hercules was quite bad at one point, its final stage)

[Zackling]

well.. if both parties enjoy food poisoning each other & ends up in the hospital.. go ahead.

[lovehandle]

54 minutes ago, Zackling said:

well.. if both parties enjoy food poisoning each other & ends up in the hospital.. go ahead.

yes, sometimes, only 1 out of the 2 parties gotten some souvenirs!

[clifford99]

4 hours ago, Guest Caught Telling Lies said:

Tell the top that you are just as horny as him, but you didn't have a chance to clean your ass earlier, because you did not anticipate having sex. Let him know that if he insists on fucking you, something might come out of your ass accidentally, and he needs to be sure that he won't freak out or get disgusted. If he says he is fine with that, ask him again just to be 100% sure, and then proceed if he says yes.

There have been times where things unexpectedly got heated real quickly with bottoms, and I was so horny that I insisted on fucking them anyway, even though they told me they hadn't cleaned their asses. Sometimes nothing ever came out, but other times it did get messy, and with one guy extremely messy. But since I knew this was possible, I carried on until cumming, and then helped them clean up.

So nice of u.. i hope u were wearing a condom then... 

 

Cheers!

[auri]

if by cleaning, you mean douching, then definitely no

 

but should at least go to toilet to try to clear bowels and wash the outside

[Guest Pooper]

6 hours ago, auri said:

if by cleaning, you mean douching, then definitely no

 

but should at least go to toilet to try to clear bowels and wash the outside

The bottom must also eat the right thing to ensure clean poop.   

[Guest Masc btm]

23 hours ago, Guest Caught Telling Lies said:

Tell the top that you are just as horny as him, but you didn't have a chance to clean your ass earlier, because you did not anticipate having sex. Let him know that if he insists on fucking you, something might come out of your ass accidentally, and he needs to be sure that he won't freak out or get disgusted. If he says he is fine with that, ask him again just to be 100% sure, and then proceed if he says yes.

There have been times where things unexpectedly got heated real quickly with bottoms, and I was so horny that I insisted on fucking them anyway, even though they told me they hadn't cleaned their asses. Sometimes nothing ever came out, but other times it did get messy, and with one guy extremely messy. But since I knew this was possible, I carried on until cumming, and then helped them clean up.

Haha, sometimes it's the heat of the moment cannot wait. Unexpected eye contact, follow him to a dark corner, pants down and we both panting like wild animals in heat.

My only insurance is a condom that I always carry in my wallet.

You should hear the sniggers whenever I passed them my condom. Yeah, I know I'm such a slut always ready to get screwed.

 

They won't wait to check if I'm clean, the condom is the safety factor. My own saliva is the safest lube. Anyway I always clean well after pooping and oil it smooth for maintenance so far never have accidents.

[kennethchung]

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[Crispy96]

I have to say that a full douche is very painful though. 

[hardrod]

Like the representation of a not-so-in-shape btm 

 

Good job @https://twitter.com/blindjaw?lang=en

 

[Ben Ben Ben]

In short, don’t be a bottom! 

[fab]

1 hour ago, Crispy96 said:

I have to say that a full douche is very painful though. 

 

Full douche is unhealthy and unnecessary.

 

 

[Guest incognito]

25 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

for the shower hose/bidget spray, u guys really stuck the spray inside?? is that possible cos the diameter of the spray is much larger than a tube (of the other options)

 

the comic is "quite cute" and is by a "bear"

 

Yah absolutely possible ! For a more effective douching, pls go to the brand new Jewel, lie below the giant fountain and spread your a** wide open to receive the continuous stream of water gushing down. Confirm can clean thoroughly !

[Guest ActVirgin]

31 minutes ago, Guest incognito said:

 

Yah absolutely possible ! For a more effective douching, pls go to the brand new Jewel, lie below the giant fountain and spread your a** wide open to receive the continuous stream of water gushing down. Confirm can clean thoroughly !

 haha, some people try to act virgin & inflate their desirability. 

[Crispy96]

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

for the shower hose/bidget spray, u guys really stuck the spray inside?? is that possible cos the diameter of the spray is much larger than a tube (of the other options)

 

the comic is "quite cute" and is by a "bear"

nah. for me, I will just hold it right outside the anus and let water flow in slowly. in a way it helps filling the rectum with water more slowly, lowering the risk of getting water into the sigmoid.

[Crispy96]

@-Ignored- it can be less than that or goes up to half an hour, depending on how much shit you have and the shit's texture... LOL the softer the messier haha

[Guest bottom]

2 hours ago, hardrod said:

Like the representation of a not-so-in-shape btm 

 

Good job @https://twitter.com/blindjaw?lang=en

 

 

i really appreciate this comment...thanks..

[superflawless]

Douching linked to HIV and STI transmission in gay and bi men

A study suggests rectal douching can remove protective mucus that keeps the anal lining in optimum health

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/douching-hiv-sti/#gs.icl0ap

[Truth]

It is hard work being a bottom that's why nowadays I'm more a top.

Edited June 14, 2019 by Truth

[dashu]

I would love to know the percentage of guys (bottoming) who would go through all that

[Rift]

The bottom-shaming tone of the title is pretty off putting.

 

Yes, many bottoms could use better knowledge of cleaning themselves before anal, but tops should learn to check their privileges before they are complaining about btms. If the info graphic is 7 pages long, it probably is indicating the amount of work bottoms puts in just to let give you dick a clean hole to fuck. Bottoms are not "fleshlights on demand", so it's not much to ask to show a little respect to them.

 

I can rant on this discussion for a long time, but I guess my bottom line is to make a plea to posters here to learn to phrase your language better. Perpetuating this unhealthy bottom-shaming attitude (or any unjustified shaming for that matter) is pretty damaging. (Sentiment good, execution bad)

 

 

Edited June 14, 2019 by Rift

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Rift said:

The bottom-shaming tone of the title is pretty off putting.

 

I can rant on this discussion for a long time, but I guess my bottom line is to make a plea to posters here to learn to phrase your language better. Perpetuating this unhealthy bottom-shaming attitude (or any unjustified shaming for that matter) is pretty damaging. (Sentiment good, execution bad)

 

 

Yes, we should be completely against bottom shaming, the same as smoker shaming and drunk shaming.

 

But how to avoid pointing at some health hazards?  Recently I had to do the preparation for a colonoscopy,  and this requires to leave the entire colon perfectly clean, drinking some yukky stuff and tons of water.  One cannot but think that this is not good for the gastric system.  To bottom does not require such thorough process, but still the flushing with plenty of water cannot be healthy. 

 

A little smoking or drinking or bottoming will not kill, and they are all sources of pleasure.  But isn't it better not to learn about these little pleasures and stay away from them?

 

[Guest Jooz]

3 hours ago, Rift said:

The bottom-shaming tone of the title is pretty off putting.

 

Yes, many bottoms could use better knowledge of cleaning themselves before anal, but tops should learn to check their privileges before they are complaining about btms. If the info graphic is 7 pages long, it probably is indicating the amount of work bottoms puts in just to let give you dick a clean hole to fuck. Bottoms are not "fleshlights on demand", so it's not much to ask to show a little respect to them.

 

I can rant on this discussion for a long time, but I guess my bottom line is to make a plea to posters here to learn to phrase your language better. Perpetuating this unhealthy bottom-shaming attitude (or any unjustified shaming for that matter) is pretty damaging. (Sentiment good, execution bad)

 

 

 

Really a bunch of bitchy drama queens. TS is just trying to show some tips on how to perform enema. Get a grip, pls. Geez..

[auscent]

The bottom should clean up before sex.

 

But a good top also should give the bottom some notice in advance and not act like a chauvinist pig with a disappointed reply "oh" , when bottom cancels meet up due to difficulty in getting bowels cleaned.

 

U want ass fun then both parties should be man enough to make it work.

[Guest No need lah]

Too troublesome lah. A bit of shit won't hurt and won't kill the fun. I don't go through the process described above I just wash as normal and stick my finger in a few more times when holding a hose to the anus. All my tops have never complained and all come back begging for more! 

[repressednerd]

I remember a top telling me to douche as he found I didn't clean properly. So off we went to the bathroom where he douched me. He probably had some fetish of performing douche for bottoms because he was constantly hard. We resumed the sex after he was satisfied, and turned on by the colonic irrigation.

[Guest Stronger]

I eat clean and do simple douching and it's enough. No need so complicated, it's only sex. I don't owe the top my body, it's take it or leave it. I never need to beg.

 

Being a bottom, I can recognise when a guy is squeamish about my ass then he's not a good top. Those who dive straight in without thinking twice and enthusiastic foreplay like my ass is so irresistible, then I'll let him have me.

[Guest 2000]

This topic has been covered many times before and, as a matter of fact, the same diagram up above was included on one of the older threads.

 

- For Bottom - How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun + How To Give Yourself An Enema / Douche / Clean Inside Your Butt (Compiled)

- Enema

- Deep Fuck Problem + Shit On Condom - What Would You Do?

- Feminine Wash

- How Do U Wash Clean

- Cute Pink Hole But Damn Smelly

- Anal Sex Help - How To Prevent Myself From Shitting On An Actual Dick?

- Anal Douche Problems (srs)

- Clean Up Before Sex?

 

People also need to stop trying to shame bottoms, because if it wasn't for them, we tops would be forced to go straight in order to get any sex.

[Crispy96]

On 6/14/2019 at 9:59 PM, -Ignored- said:

compared to  some who are not even on the point/topic-

ohhh the shades haha how I love it

[Guest Cleanly Teacher]

On June 15, 2019 at 12:49 AM, repressednerd said:

I remember a top telling me to douche as he found I didn't clean properly. So off we went to the bathroom where he douched me. He probably had some fetish of performing douche for bottoms because he was constantly hard. We resumed the sex after he was satisfied, and turned on by the colonic irrigation.

 

Interesting. Well, kind of I guess, simply because I had never heard of such a fetish before. Glad you both had an enjoyable time anyway.