Bottoming 101 - How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun + How To Give Yourself An Enema / Douche / Clean Inside Your Butt (Compiled)

[Guest pussy]

On 6/14/2019 at 8:28 PM, Rift said:

The bottom-shaming tone of the title is pretty off putting.

 

Yes, many bottoms could use better knowledge of cleaning themselves before anal, but tops should learn to check their privileges before they are complaining about btms. If the info graphic is 7 pages long, it probably is indicating the amount of work bottoms puts in just to let give you dick a clean hole to fuck. Bottoms are not "fleshlights on demand", so it's not much to ask to show a little respect to them.

 

I can rant on this discussion for a long time, but I guess my bottom line is to make a plea to posters here to learn to phrase your language better. Perpetuating this unhealthy bottom-shaming attitude (or any unjustified shaming for that matter) is pretty damaging. (Sentiment good, execution bad)

 

 

 

But somehow Rifty boy is right.

At many places you can read bad things about bottoms and their cleanliness at BW, their pussies not being clean etc.

Let's be honest: Tops should be happy that there are plenty of bottoms, because in some countries got more tops than bottoms and don't forget bottoms are human beings.

Nobody can ever guarantee to have a clean pussy every time, things can happen.

Yes, it may be disgusting, but let's be realistic. Maybe you forgot the boy pussy is an ass and the normal function is for what?

 

I would never scold any bottom if I encounter something.

Learn to be a good top. Be nice, be gentle, ask the bottom to wash up, but don't make a drama and don't be nasty to the bottom.

Otherwise I would ask any top that they can guarantee to have a clean ass all time around.

Some bottoms even have this hysteria and asking whether clean all 2 mins when you take a break. This might be even more annoying.

But tops: Don't be stupid nasty fools. An ass is an ass, never forget, ok.

 

Yes, there are some bottom guys with them you always encounter problems, but most of the bottoms this is not the case.

Be a nice top and handle it with empathy...

 

 

 

[Guest Masc btm]

12 hours ago, fitring said:

i always do simple douching 30 minutes before sex. 

Still, there will be some fecal left during sex as water is not cleared off enough. 

Also, depending on the dick size of the man. If anything less than 6 inches then should be fine. 

 

no point douching few hours earlier because there will be feces formed during the hours.

 

Usually, my tops wouldn't mind if there is some poo . just clean it and continue fucking.

 

We all are human after all. To make sure out our gut is clean for sex is impossible. 

 

I heard that a btm need to cut off carbs few hours before sex to make sure our ass is cleaned. That's a little bit too extreme. 

 

As far as I experienced myself, DO NOT EAT PAPAYA a day before sex. I had a few times experience during sex my ass smelled like papaya when the top penetrated in. LOLLL

 

So embarrassing. 

Agreed. 

I'll keep clean when I can but I'm not going to be obsessed about it. Like my friend said, "I'm not going to be always looking to get fucked. If it happens, the top should know if we do it unplanned."

 

But strangely enough, pineapple makes the ass smell sweet. I learnt that from a tuk tuk driver in Bangkok. One thing leads to another long story, he knew a quiet spot and my legs were on his shoulders. He did the nasty to me and surprisingly, he complimented me that I smelled sweet down there. I knew I wasn't totally clean down there but when he threw the condom on me playfully, I did smell the sweetness of my own ass there. 

 

I told him that I'm glad he liked it but I don't know why. He told me that's because I ate pineapple. Which is obviously true because the cheap hotel that I stayed had pineapples for the cheap breakfast and the only fruit that they had, like it's in season or what. 

 

After that, I'll always eat pineapples and avoided papaya(hated the smell) whenever I'm in Bangkok or South Korea. Nobody ever complain about my ass before. 

[Guest Cleanly Teacher]

Even if papayas don't smell as good as pineapples, at least they smell better than durians, so just remember the alternatives could be a lot worse.

 

Also, the term 'boy pussy' is stupid, and I wish people would stop using it. I love men and asses, and want nothing to do with pussies, real or fake.

[Guest Guest]

Has anyone tried a coffee enema?

does it clean better? 

 

[tomcat]

An interesting read, with many different feedback & opinions!

 

Some bottoms are like, "Shit is reality, deal with it", "This is my body, take it or leave it" while others are like, "It's our responsibility" - "common courtesy to ensure good times!"

True vers here. I know most won't believe since many bottoms say they are versatile to feel less ashamed (?). So true versatiles are like unicorns. I started as bottom then became top, and actually liked and good at both.

Fave is flip-fucking - not easy to get because, once again, not many true versatiles around. And I do have seasons - where I am super top & sometimes the whorely spirit of a btm enters instead.

 

My own routine is just to do a simple cleanse/flush. I did try deep clean a few times & realise I was still pooping water 1 hour after. And unless it's a really big dick, it won't go that far in anyways.

A simple clean can do with most bum sprays, or even low-tech hose. Just turn the water up, once there is a high flow, lean into it (no need to insert anything), relax the hole and it will automatically "gulp" the water. I do a good 5 seconds, like the comic, and then flush out. Usually 3 flushes are enough, as diet is pretty clean. 

Actually for tops, it's important to clean too. Performing as top, some bottoms get deliriously high giving me a blow that they go down the shaft, to the balls, and lick my hole too. I have been tongue-fucked by some kinky btms more than I can remember, because it's a turnon for them too to turn their top into putty by giving him a top grade blowjob. 
 

8 hours ago, Guest Cleanly Teacher said:

Also, the term 'boy pussy' is stupid, and I wish people would stop using it. I love men and asses, and want nothing to do with pussies, real or fake.

The term "bussy" is very popular now - cos there is less stigma about bottoming, and that's refreshing. As sex is about the dynamics of two people coming together, it is about what each finds to be a turn-on. If a hot bottom says, "yeah teacher, I've been so bad. I want you to just destroy my boy pussy" and you are turned off just because of the last two words,  you are just limiting yourself and your own enjoyment by adhering to these constructs. 

It's 2019, time to shed all this unnecessary judgements, stigma and fake machismo/bravado. 

Edited June 19, 2019 by tomcat

[Guest Cleanly Teacher]

1 hour ago, tomcat said:

The term "bussy" is very popular now - cos there is less stigma about bottoming, and that's refreshing. As sex is about the dynamics of two people coming together, it is about what each finds to be a turn-on. If a hot bottom says, "yeah teacher, I've been so bad. I want you to just destroy my boy pussy" and you are turned off just because of the last two words,  you are just limiting yourself and your own enjoyment by adhering to these constructs. It's 2019, time to shed all this unnecessary judgements, stigma and fake machismo/bravado.

 

I don't feel that I have unnecessary judgements, stigma, or fake machismo/bravado. I am a man who is proud to love other men and the male anatomy. I want nothing to do with women or women's anatomy, and presumably any guy I have sex with would already know ahead of time that I only care for men, not women.

 

By the way, the term 'boy pussy' was originally created in prison by inmates who did not want to admit that they were committing a gay action, so they came up with the term to mentally justify their action to themselves. In that sense, the term 'boy pussy' is actually homophobic, since it was conceived out of sex shame.

[tomcat]

15 minutes ago, Guest Cleanly Teacher said:

 

I don't feel that I have unnecessary judgements, stigma, or fake machismo/bravado. I am a man who is proud to love other men..yada, yada, yada. 

The lady doth protest too much, methinks. But essentially, your response is a convoluted way of proving that you do have hang ups. Why do I say this?

 

Because a person with no issues will not care what it's called? It's a male anus, to be penetrated under the premise of gay anal sex.

A rose by any other name...|

And the fact that there is a barrier to your enjoyment based on what a bottom chooses to call his own hole means you do have some issues. That's not on them, that's some baggage/issue that you carry. Ta-dah!

By the way, that's two Shakespeare references in one post, since you identify yourself as a teacher (of what I dont know),  I'm hoping I won't need to break them down for you.

[Guest Cleanly Teacher]

25 minutes ago, tomcat said:

The lady doth protest too much, methinks. But essentially, your response is a convoluted way of proving that you do have hang ups. Why do I say this?Because a person with no issues will not care what it's called? It's a male anus, to be penetrated under the premise of gay anal sex. A rose by any other name...| And the fact that there is a barrier to your enjoyment based on what a bottom chooses to call his own hole means you do have some issues. That's not on them, that's some baggage/issue that you carry. Ta-dah! By the way, that's two Shakespeare references in one post, since you identify yourself as a teacher (of what I dont know),  I'm hoping I won't need to break them down for you.

 

Since brevity is the soul of wit, those barriers would be (or not be) that I don't find it's nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous female (or just-out-of-prison) misfortune to the last syllable of recorded time, and with that I'm out, out, sweet candle.

[tomcat]

5 minutes ago, Guest Cleanly Teacher said:

 

Since brevity is the soul of wit, those barriers would be (or not be) that I don't find it's nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous female (or just-out-of-prison) misfortune to the last syllable of recorded time, and with that I'm out, out, sweet candle.

Hmm first attempt too convoluted. second try too contrived. The meaning and content of your reply is obscured by an ineffective use of language and clunky allegory. Sorely, I must remind that style does not create substance.  A balance must be striked for communication to be effective, for the latter is the primary objective as we traverse this discussion. Please try again, kind sir. 

That said, I think it's fine lah if you must find the term "boy pussy" offputting, just as long as you don't impress onto others the use of this wonderful term. What was once a term of homophobia has been reclaimed as a term of sexual liberation because it is now wielded by the very ones who profess &  identify with it. And that is the beauty of Change.

 

Now, back to the topic of cleaning out bussies, hahah!

[Guest KISS]

@tomcat 

Each of your posts are at half a page long and do you really need to answer EVERY post? 

If it's just a conversation between you and another member, just PM each other.

Not sure why you have so much time on your hands but just KISS, if you really do want to post.

 

 

[Guest Cleanly Teacher]

Suit yourselves. I'm busy.

[tomcat]

10 minutes ago, Guest KISS said:

@tomcat 

Each of your posts are at half a page long and do you really need to answer EVERY post? 

If it's just a conversation between you and another member, just PM each other.

Not sure why you have so much time on your hands but just KISS, if you really do want to post.

 

 

This is a forum after all. Those who leave one-liners are the ones that treat this as a chat room.

Should I ask mods to check IP address, cos I've been staying on topic, while these many guests coming to attack me is more than suspicious.

If you are 1 guest masquerading as many, trying to stir shit and create trouble -  you will be called out and suspended.

 

So to reiterate my last post :
 

44 minutes ago, tomcat said:

Now, back to the topic of cleaning out bussies, hahah!

 

[Guest Uncle2]

3 hours ago, Guest KISS said:

@tomcat 

Each of your posts are at half a page long and do you really need to answer EVERY post? 

If it's just a conversation between you and another member, just PM each other.

Not sure why you have so much time on your hands but just KISS, if you really do want to post.

 

 

Why you so kaypoh?

It's not like the forum is so busy with plenty of postings. At least he's active and make this place more lively.

It's people like you, on the apps also only one or few words replies "hi", "h r u" that's wasting time on forum. People want to be active you also want to kaypoh complain.

[Guest Masc btm]

6 hours ago, Guest Cleanly Teacher said:

 

I don't feel that I have unnecessary judgements, stigma, or fake machismo/bravado. I am a man who is proud to love other men and the male anatomy. I want nothing to do with women or women's anatomy, and presumably any guy I have sex with would already know ahead of time that I only care for men, not women.

 

By the way, the term 'boy pussy' was originally created in prison by inmates who did not want to admit that they were committing a gay action, so they came up with the term to mentally justify their action to themselves. In that sense, the term 'boy pussy' is actually homophobic, since it was conceived out of sex shame.

A rose by any other name smells just as sweet.

A cunt by any other name is still a CB just to be fucked.

 

If this minor name calling is troubling to you, wait till the pain of the penetrating and the dirty talks while he's pounding for ass in frenzy. For those of us who don't mind, it's how tops vent their sexual energies into us and it's worth it. 

 

Those who cannot accept that  and want to be treated proper like a lady/wife/bf, best stay out of the hot kitchen. I've heard tops complain that must treat the wife/gf nice nice during sex, that sex is so unfulfilling they still felt sexually pent up inside. People like us let them go wild and release everything inside, no need to pretend to be gentlemen. 

 

I meant from the Thai tuk tuk driver that my man pussy is called "hai" almost the same as Cantonese. He made me repeat it as he fingered me, this is my ?? Naughty, dirty but I like.

 

 

[Guest 2000]

I think he wrote that he's a top before, so it seems more like he respects bottoms as men who happen to like men, and doesn't want to treat them as women (nor wants them talking or acting like women). I myself always treat bottoms tenderly and do everything I can to ensure that I don't damage their asses.

[bryan1993]

i have a question as a newbie bottom. it is about this restless sensation i have around my anus when the top does the pull out motion during intercourse. i dont quite know how to describe it its not pain but my anus feels very warm and uncomfortable to the point where i have to stop and take a few mins rest. i guess the sensation your anus gets when your pooping lol. i just loose all control of trying to relax myself it feels your your insides are getting dragged out. is it normal? and is this wat it feels like every single time 

[tomcat]

14 hours ago, Guest Uncle2 said:

Why you so kaypoh?

It's not like the forum is so busy with plenty of postings. At least he's active and make this place more lively.

It's people like you, on the apps also only one or few words replies "hi", "h r u" that's wasting time on forum. People want to be active you also want to kaypoh complain.

Thanks for the vote of confidence - I think he might be a straggler from another thread, not happy and try to create trouble here.

Seen that happening often to other members as well. The only way is for mod to check IP address, usually it's the same loser.

 

Anyway back to the topic...
 

I've heard for a while now of a fibre supplement for bottoms, so they are always clean and ready. It's called Pure for Men (lol), but apparently, it does work. 2 tablets per day, and it provides fibre that will softly clean the insides as it passes through. Confirm expensive as heck, but wonder if it can be replicated through normal eating as the ingredients are just Chia, Flaxseed, Psyllium and Aloe..

https://www.pureformen.com/pages/how-does-pure-for-men-work
 

 

[bryan1993]

20 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

yes, someone try it on me , i felt warm as in i felt there are chillies 

are u being serious lol

[bryan1993]

10 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

of course, alot of tops kept asking can i try bottoming for them!

i dont want any more terrible feeling (down under) pls - warm like chillies 

i see does it feel like someone dragging your fart out and your insides out lol

Edited June 20, 2019 by bryan1993

[tomcat]

10 minutes ago, bryan1993 said:

i see does it feel like someone dragging your fart out and your insides out lol

 

3 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

However, many bottoms love doing it and enjoying it so mucch
(they must have put in a lot of sacrifice!Kudos to them!) - there is a thread on how the bottoms felt 

Is it more like an open spasm? I get that too after particularly intense anal - when he withdraws, the hole just like spasming for a while.
Like its not sure to stay open or close, haha.  I think it's just the nerve endings relaxing or regaining control as we try to close the sphincter.

 

After a good anal pounding, some bottoms also report a nice pulsing or buzzing sensation down there..

I think I read someone in this forum said, it was like vibrating, and he softly came again while on the taxi ride home from the session, cos his hole was still so sensitive. 

[bryan1993]

16 minutes ago, tomcat said:

 

Is it more like an open spasm? I get that too after particularly intense anal - when he withdraws, the hole just like spasming for a while.
Like its not sure to stay open or close, haha.  I think it's just the nerve endings relaxing or regaining control as we try to close the sphincter.

 

After a good anal pounding, some bottoms also report a nice pulsing or buzzing sensation down there..

I think I read someone in this forum said, it was like vibrating, and he softly came again while on the taxi ride home from the session, cos his hole was still so sensitive. 

for me im new only tried btming once and i had to stop every 2 to 3 mins. the warm sore feeling when the tightest part of my hole gets rubbed consistently is very overwhelming. is that suppose to feel good? am i suppose to make myself enjoy it?

[Crispy96]

2 hours ago, tomcat said:

but wonder if it can be replicated through normal eating as the ingredients are just Chia, Flaxseed, Psyllium and Aloe..

I DIY a mixture of ground flaxseed and psyllium husk, haha.

A low-carb diet works too, at least for me. 

[tomcat]

19 minutes ago, Crispy96 said:

I DIY a mixture of ground flaxseed and psyllium husk, haha.

A low-carb diet works too, at least for me. 

Yah i take those too - and have clean tracts most of the time.

Keto also, so no carbs, but high fat diet. 

Just curious how much better the supplement will be compared to what we are doing now.

 

28 minutes ago, bryan1993 said:

for me im new only tried btming once and i had to stop every 2 to 3 mins. the warm sore feeling when the tightest part of my hole gets rubbed consistently is very overwhelming. is that suppose to feel good? am i suppose to make myself enjoy it?

For me, anal pleasure is about 30% from the hole stimulation and the rest is from prostate. so maybe the breakdown is different for you.
Prostate is mostly what brings the most pleasure, it is the male gspot - so maybe you're just not used to the hole being opened yet.

if you are new, then maybe not enough lube & foreplay or the top was a bit too impatient, and didn't ease it in.

 

 

[bryan1993]

5 hours ago, tomcat said:

Yah i take those too - and have clean tracts most of the time.

Keto also, so no carbs, but high fat diet. 

Just curious how much better the supplement will be compared to what we are doing now.

 

For me, anal pleasure is about 30% from the hole stimulation and the rest is from prostate. so maybe the breakdown is different for you.
Prostate is mostly what brings the most pleasure, it is the male gspot - so maybe you're just not used to the hole being opened yet.

if you are new, then maybe not enough lube & foreplay or the top was a bit too impatient, and didn't ease it in.

 

 

what about douching lol how much water are u suppose to put in since i cant really feel the water 

[bryan1993]

On 6/19/2019 at 12:33 PM, tomcat said:

An interesting read, with many different feedback & opinions!

 

Some bottoms are like, "Shit is reality, deal with it", "This is my body, take it or leave it" while others are like, "It's our responsibility" - "common courtesy to ensure good times!"

True vers here. I know most won't believe since many bottoms say they are versatile to feel less ashamed (?). So true versatiles are like unicorns. I started as bottom then became top, and actually liked and good at both.

Fave is flip-fucking - not easy to get because, once again, not many true versatiles around. And I do have seasons - where I am super top & sometimes the whorely spirit of a btm enters instead.

 

My own routine is just to do a simple cleanse/flush. I did try deep clean a few times & realise I was still pooping water 1 hour after. And unless it's a really big dick, it won't go that far in anyways.

A simple clean can do with most bum sprays, or even low-tech hose. Just turn the water up, once there is a high flow, lean into it (no need to insert anything), relax the hole and it will automatically "gulp" the water. I do a good 5 seconds, like the comic, and then flush out. Usually 3 flushes are enough, as diet is pretty clean. 

Actually for tops, it's important to clean too. Performing as top, some bottoms get deliriously high giving me a blow that they go down the shaft, to the balls, and lick my hole too. I have been tongue-fucked by some kinky btms more than I can remember, because it's a turnon for them too to turn their top into putty by giving him a top grade blowjob. 
 

The term "bussy" is very popular now - cos there is less stigma about bottoming, and that's refreshing. As sex is about the dynamics of two people coming together, it is about what each finds to be a turn-on. If a hot bottom says, "yeah teacher, I've been so bad. I want you to just destroy my boy pussy" and you are turned off just because of the last two words,  you are just limiting yourself and your own enjoyment by adhering to these constructs. 

It's 2019, time to shed all this unnecessary judgements, stigma and fake machismo/bravado. 

hello beginner bottom here. how much water do u actually spray inside? i make sure the hose touches my hole but never insert it all the way in but i did made sure i press against my hole so that no water escapes. my water volume is around 1.5/10(10 being full blast). i press and hold it for 4-5 secs like u said the immediate water that came out are always clear its the ones that flow our after a few mins thats yellow. end up doing it for an hour and the leftover water is still yellow i assume from going too far up inside me and i have to redo again. 

[bryan1993]

5 hours ago, tomcat said:

Yah i take those too - and have clean tracts most of the time.

Keto also, so no carbs, but high fat diet. 

Just curious how much better the supplement will be compared to what we are doing now.

 

For me, anal pleasure is about 30% from the hole stimulation and the rest is from prostate. so maybe the breakdown is different for you.
Prostate is mostly what brings the most pleasure, it is the male gspot - so maybe you're just not used to the hole being opened yet.

if you are new, then maybe not enough lube & foreplay or the top was a bit too impatient, and didn't ease it in.

 

 

i see its the tightness of my hole thats causing all these churning discomfort. i dont know how to constantly push outwards and be open. haha besides the more i push the more i feel like ny insides are getting dragged out. its like giving birth LOL

[Guest 2000]

Bryan, I think maybe your top did not give you enough foreplay (kissing, fingering, rimming), or perhaps did not use enough lube. Since you are new to bottoming, and if you want to continue, it is very important that you speak out and insist the top give you enough foreplay to make you feel relaxed as well as use a lot of lube to make sure the sensation of going in and out is as comfortable as possible. Also, depending on how long your sex session lasts, he may need to add additional lube during the process. You might also require more mental and physical stimulation such as dirty talk, kissing, hugging, caressing, and nipple teasing (or else maybe moaning is enough for you).

[bryan1993]

3 hours ago, Guest 2000 said:

Bryan, I think maybe your top did not give you enough foreplay (kissing, fingering, rimming), or perhaps did not use enough lube. Since you are new to bottoming, and if you want to continue, it is very important that you speak out and insist the top give you enough foreplay to make you feel relaxed as well as use a lot of lube to make sure the sensation of going in and out is as comfortable as possible. Also, depending on how long your sex session lasts, he may need to add additional lube during the process. You might also require more mental and physical stimulation such as dirty talk, kissing, hugging, caressing, and nipple teasing (or else maybe moaning is enough for you).

erm i wanna know what happens when u relax,does the feeling will go away? or does the feeling stay the same but ull enjoy it instead.

[TopChinese]

A gentle reminder not to OVER douche. 

 

This guy at Keybox earlier this week had to make that very long walk of shame from the dark room to the bathroom because his over eager bottom exploded all over him in the middle of fucking. It was a mess. No one wants to see that in the middle of fun. Thank goodness it was not naked night and he was able to cover his dirty cock with his towel

[bryan1993]

1 hour ago, TopChinese said:

A gentle reminder not to OVER douche. 

 

This guy at Keybox earlier this week had to make that very long walk of shame from the dark room to the bathroom because his over eager bottom exploded all over him in the middle of fucking. It was a mess. No one wants to see that in the middle of fun. Thank goodness it was not naked night and he was able to cover his dirty cock with his towel

its so hard sia to douche and not over douche if your water doesnt go all the way in u worry that it might not be clean enough lolol and how much water should u let in and how much of it is coming out when your water is finally clear u finish up 10mins later u feel some leftover water  and u go push it out its yellow and u have redo the whole process again LOL

[Guest 2000]

On June 20, 2019 at 5:53 PM, bryan1993 said:

erm i wanna know what happens when u relax,does the feeling will go away? or does the feeling stay the same but ull enjoy it instead.

 

Do you mean your ass has an itchy feeling? Or a feeling like you want to poop but you know there is nothing inside to come out? I have only bottomed a couple of times and not since two years ago because I seem naturally inclined to topping, but I remember having an itchy and empty sensation after my boyfriend came like I wanted him to keep fucking me, but I had to settle for spooning and fingering instead.

 

As a top, no bottoms have described any painful feelings or sensations to me after sex, so hopefully my following all the advice about using a lot of foreplay and lube is helping to give them good experiences. I am not sure if what you are dealing with is something that might get better over time after you bottom more (if you truly enjoy bottoming) or a specific issue for you indicating that you don't enjoy bottoming?

[bryan1993]

3 hours ago, Guest 2000 said:

 

Do you mean your ass has an itchy feeling? Or a feeling like you want to poop but you know there is nothing inside to come out? I have only bottomed a couple of times and not since two years ago because I seem naturally inclined to topping, but I remember having an itchy and empty sensation after my boyfriend came like I wanted him to keep fucking me, but I had to settle for spooning and fingering instead.

 

As a top, no bottoms have described any painful feelings or sensations to me after sex, so hopefully my following all the advice about using a lot of foreplay and lube is helping to give them good experiences. I am not sure if what you are dealing with is something that might get better over time after you bottom more (if you truly enjoy bottoming) or a specific issue for you indicating that you don't enjoy bottoming?

its the pressure and warmness around my inner sphincter that makes me feel like im about to poop thats bothering me and i was wondering if that feeling would go away or do i need to learn how to embrace and get use to that overwhelming feeling. ive seen alotnof guys describing their first few times bottoming and all i hear are pain and then pleasure. does pooping sensation not bother them or am i the only one who felt it lolol the first time i bottomed i never felt any pain tbh i just feel as if im pushing a turd out 

Edited June 24, 2019 by bryan1993

[tomcat]

 

[Guest Masc btm]

On 6/20/2019 at 12:51 PM, tomcat said:

 

Is it more like an open spasm? I get that too after particularly intense anal - when he withdraws, the hole just like spasming for a while.
Like its not sure to stay open or close, haha.  I think it's just the nerve endings relaxing or regaining control as we try to close the sphincter.

 

After a good anal pounding, some bottoms also report a nice pulsing or buzzing sensation down there..

I think I read someone in this forum said, it was like vibrating, and he softly came again while on the taxi ride home from the session, cos his hole was still so sensitive. 

I get that tingling feeling in my ass and my nipples. It's like some ant bites or chillies type of goosebumps, hard to describe exactly. But some tops told me my hole felt very warm and juicy to fuck. It's the straight ones who told me that it's much warmer and cushy than a woman's cunt.

I can understand your friend's sensitive hole because I have the same. I'm so sensitive that I want more and harder and harder. The top don't have to be very good, ordinary tops who can last more than a few minutes would bring me to that slut mode.

 

 

[Guest Masc btm]

15 hours ago, bryan1993 said:

its the pressure and warmness around my inner sphincter that makes me feel like im about to poop thats bothering me and i was wondering if that feeling would go away or do i need to learn how to embrace and get use to that overwhelming feeling. ive seen alotnof guys describing their first few times bottoming and all i hear are pain and then pleasure. does pooping sensation not bother them or am i the only one who felt it lolol the first time i bottomed i never felt any pain tbh i just feel as if im pushing a turd out 

The strange thing is that I've forgotten how it felt like to be a newbie bottom.

Even as a seasoned bottom, the initial penetration is still painful but the pleasures that slowly follows is worth it many times over. We don't have to explain to those who don't feel the same because if not for that pleasure I won't degrade my male dignity and literally let myself be sexually abused by other men weaker than myself.

So for your pooping sensation, I think it's because your ass still only recognise any foreign thing inside as poo and automatically want to poop it out. I would think that you just relax and let your ass poop as much as it wants to since it's not going to dirty anything(assuming you cleaned well before hand). It's this fear of dirtying that make you want to hold back the poop and make the pooping feeling obscure the feeling that the cock is giving you. Once you let go and yet nothing comes out, then you start to relax and have control over your ass feeling the cock hitting your g-spot.

[Guest Bottom]

16 hours ago, bryan1993 said:

its the pressure and warmness around my inner sphincter that makes me feel like im about to poop thats bothering me and i was wondering if that feeling would go away or do i need to learn how to embrace and get use to that overwhelming feeling. ive seen alotnof guys describing their first few times bottoming and all i hear are pain and then pleasure. does pooping sensation not bother them or am i the only one who felt it lolol the first time i bottomed i never felt any pain tbh i just feel as if im pushing a turd out 

U are so lucky...I have hemorrhoids and can't bottom without having pain..

[bryan1993]

1 hour ago, Guest Masc btm said:

The strange thing is that I've forgotten how it felt like to be a newbie bottom.

Even as a seasoned bottom, the initial penetration is still painful but the pleasures that slowly follows is worth it many times over. We don't have to explain to those who don't feel the same because if not for that pleasure I won't degrade my male dignity and literally let myself be sexually abused by other men weaker than myself.

So for your pooping sensation, I think it's because your ass still only recognise any foreign thing inside as poo and automatically want to poop it out. I would think that you just relax and let your ass poop as much as it wants to since it's not going to dirty anything(assuming you cleaned well before hand). It's this fear of dirtying that make you want to hold back the poop and make the pooping feeling obscure the feeling that the cock is giving you. Once you let go and yet nothing comes out, then you start to relax and have control over your ass feeling the cock hitting your g-spot.

as far as douching goes how much water do u put in. i use the hose turn it down to a 2 then let the water go in and i count 1 and 2 sometimes 3 then i let it out. i find that going pass 3 irritates my stomach and makes my stomach cramp then more shit comes out which i assume it entered the lower colon but  i read online that people insert way more water than i did without it going pass the rectum that part confuses me. i heard somewhere u have to let the water sit inside for a while. i tried letting it stay in for 15-20secs then let it out but its always yellow especially the tiny bits of water that always gets stuck inside which i dont understand why since i only spray in maximum 150ml of water it couldn't possibly have gotten stuck in my colon lol

[Guest 2000]

Hey Bryan. Got really busy over the last week but I agree with Masc Btm that you probably need some time and experience to get used to having anything besides turds in your ass. I would also add again, however, that it's very important for you to make sure that the top uses a lot of lube, which should make the sex less painful, although there will probably still be some pain. There is no such thing as too much lube, in my opinion, unless the top's dick is rather small and keeps slipping out, in which case, maybe somewhat less lube is better.

[Thomas326]

No matter how many times I wash still very dirty my backside

[StockBottom]

Tell the top if he can't stand the heat, dun play in the kitchen!

[Thomas326]

The TOP never complain anything... just I feel dirty... and he keep washing after we done it

[Guest tipforbottoms]

there was a similar thread some weeks back. Seems all repeating over and over at Blowing Wind lately.

 

Here some tips:

 

https://www.them.us/story/guide-to-bottoming-part-2

[Guest tipforbottoms]

here more, about food. just google a bit and you find plenty of advice

 

https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/5/25/17-tips-happier-healthier-bottoming#media-gallery-media-3

[auscent]

High fiber food like 3 banana per day works well. 

[StockBottom]

9 minutes ago, auscent said:

High fiber food like 3 banana per day works well. 

 

3 bananas a day not lao sai meh?

[G_M]

I merged the post together, there are tons of info on how you can clean your ass enough for a good clean fuck. 

[Guest banana]

4 hours ago, auscent said:

High fiber food like 3 banana per day works well. 

 

3 different banana in your ass per day?

Love this diet....

[Behrhunter]

On 8/13/2019 at 7:12 PM, StockBottom said:

 

3 bananas a day not lao sai meh?

Maybe after lao sai will clear inside mah lol. 

 

On 8/13/2019 at 6:14 PM, Thomas326 said:

No matter how many times I wash still very dirty my backside

It is normal, please do not over douche. Cos it irritates the lining of your insides, may introduce small cuts thus increasing your risks of infections. Any sensible top should know that at the end of the day it is an ASS after all. If they are really so ANAL about a bit of residue, please go as them to F*+# a kitty or go try f-*/ing himself. 

 

On 8/13/2019 at 6:28 PM, Thomas326 said:

The TOP never complain anything... just I feel dirty... and he keep washing after we done it

I will also keep washing my dick after I am done, especially if it was raw. Firstly, its not your fault, i don't like the feeling of lube on my dick outside of sex. Even more so if it is those silicone lubes, it sticks to you like crazy and some of them stains fabric (your bedsheets and clothes). And if i just walked off and go grab a ride home immediately after fucking you or even just flip over and go to sleep after fucking. You should be concerned with my personal hygiene instead of anything else. Even if it is not STDs, there are still germs/ bodily fluids etc. Its just like why they ask you to wash hands after going to toilet. Even though you didn't touch any part of your pee pee or poo poo. Same logic. 

[Guest Hii]

I’ve never really bottomed before, so today i was supposed to meet someone for sex and I wanted to bottom so i did the spraying water up my ass thing till the water came out clear but when i was at his place an hour later, i wanted to make sure it was clean inside so i did it again but the water came out dirty again. Was it because i waited too long or i didn’t clean properly? Anyway we didn’t go through with it, i didn’t wanna make a mess.

[upshot]

9 hours ago, Guest Hii said:

I’ve never really bottomed before, so today i was supposed to meet someone for sex and I wanted to bottom so i did the spraying water up my ass thing till the water came out clear but when i was at his place an hour later, i wanted to make sure it was clean inside so i did it again but the water came out dirty again. Was it because i waited too long or i didn’t clean properly? Anyway we didn’t go through with it, i didn’t wanna make a mess.

Your flushing out does not mean you have "STOP" the process of food turning into stool. That is a process you have to do enough of to ensure the hour or hours you are going to let anal sex take place when it does will be a clean on.

 

What you did was to clean enough to get out of your shower and get in to bed to have sex for about an hour or maybe less. Firstly how good was your enema? How deep did you go and how long was your enema treatment? The longer you want to delay doing sex and also walking about, taking transport to someone's home, you are moving about and that also cause your shit to start coming down from the colon into your rectum. Just because you want to have sex does not mean your colon and rectum stop accepting shit flowing down. That is a biological action you can not use will power to stop. So you have to work AROUND it and do your homework... well toilet work. For me to be able to exhibit anal toy fun online or in real life for like 2 to 8 hours or longer, I have to do anything from one hour to 2 hours of enema and flushing deep too to get water in up my colon to my horizontal colon or more to irritate the bowel and get it to flush down shit prematurely, so I am really clean out.

 

I knew I am clean when I can insert my double ended 17" dildo inside me and it is all clean and has no smell. That is how I know I am ready to take my sex on-the-road heheh. If all you d is just light flushing and a bit of water pressure in your rectum expanding it and you quickly go let the water out and you do that like 10 min or even 30 mins, you are not prepared for long sex.