Bottoming 101 - How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun + How To Give Yourself An Enema / Douche / Clean Inside Your Butt (Compiled)

[kaze]

Means you din actually clean up..

 

It would be more useful if you share how you actually cleaned ass.

[Guest jiejie]

2 hours ago, Guest HELP said:

I dunno why. But when i attempt to bottom with a dildo, i always shit on the dildo. Even after cleaning my ass! How to prevent myself from shitting on an actual dick?

 

New to use this toy. Dun worry, maybe you're just 緊张到拉肚子。practice a few more times, everything will be fine.

[killerwhale]

dun eat anything a few hours before any anal play

 

 

[Guest new btm]

maybe you can jio another bottom to practise and together

 

[chubby79]

Have plenty of fibre food the day before. clear in the morning and best to use those constipation fluid for clearing bowels. enamel system cleaning. 10ml at a time. after inserting. wait for the kick to come. then clear. do it a few times till you see clear water. do not force clearing as it will tear.

This is what I usually do if I were to do prostate massage n dildo 

[Guest Guest]

Very educational. I do douching twice a week

[Guest TerenceGoh]

I have tried it several times but it was really painful. Until now, only few inch got in my hole and i always adk the top to withdraw.

[oRihS]

Is there a top version of this on BW?

[Guest tonky]

 

 

 

 

[Guest Embarrassed]

I had a bad experience with douching the other day. I overdid it and caused myself to have a bad diarrhoea. Thankfully it happened only once and the popping feeling subsided after a while, even though it was embarrassing.

 

Well, firstly, I used the shower head pipe (after removing the shower head) instead of a proper enema. This pipe blasted a lot of water in a short time. So, some water went too deep inside and cleaned out the dirtier inside too deep. Secondly, as I repeated the process several many times (even after the water became clear) and the water went in deep, the water got murkier gradually. I tried to salvage the situation and used much less water but murky water just keeps flowing out a few times. It led to a diarrhoea eventually.

 

Sigh, it was so embarrassing to take so much time yet it became worse than before. Lesson learnt here is to limit the frequency of wash to 3 or 4 times. Do it just enough until the expelled water is as clear as when it went in.

[Guest Terence71]

How deep i can put the hose up in my ass?

[upshot]

On 17/04/2017 at 10:51 AM, Guest Embarrassed said:

I had a bad experience with douching the other day. I overdid it and caused myself to have a bad diarrhoea. Thankfully it happened only once and the popping feeling subsided after a while, even though it was embarrassing.

 

Well, firstly, I used the shower head pipe (after removing the shower head) instead of a proper enema. This pipe blasted a lot of water in a short time. So, some water went too deep inside and cleaned out the dirtier inside too deep. Secondly, as I repeated the process several many times (even after the water became clear) and the water went in deep, the water got murkier gradually. I tried to salvage the situation and used much less water but murky water just keeps flowing out a few times. It led to a diarrhoea eventually.

 

Sigh, it was so embarrassing to take so much time yet it became worse than before. Lesson learnt here is to limit the frequency of wash to 3 or 4 times. Do it just enough until the expelled water is as clear as when it went in.

 

 

Firstly, You did not have a diarrhea. What you had was excess water trapped inside your colon beyond your rectum due to your trying to flush your ass out with too strong and prolong jetting of water into you.  Water trap by your own colon and other intestinal lengths. If you read about how long your intestine and colon are you will know it is long and folding. (Average adult - 30 feet) This long complicated packing inside your abdomen, is why you get certain bloated feeling and then it goes away. Gas, digested food matters and water can get blocked from moving towards your ass. Your intestine or colon gets blocked or bend or pressed on at certain angle on itself trap stuff from continuing to move forward. Then suddenly when the stoppage clears due to body movement, suddenly it goes the bloat feeling goes away.

 

What you did with a high pressure water hose can ALSO BE DANGEROUS. As high pressure water jet in too fast can create a sudden pressure build up that may rip your rectum or colon water open. Even a direct sudden jet of water inside can puncture. And your internal parts has less nerve sensory means you may not feel pain from an actually injury till it is too late) Do you know how thin the colon walls are? Try to ask a woman who have double penetration or allot you to put a finger up her vagina and one finger in her ass. It is a think wall as you can feel both fingers. If that is graphic enough. It is tough but not tough on things that usually do not naturally happen to you inside there. You should not use high pressure water at all. Rushing it this way is NOT the way.

 

I might be wrong with the high pressure you were referring to as I have not seen it or test the pressure myself. But note, high pressure is not the way. Also I am not sure how long you held the hose in as water keep filling your inside.

 

YOU SHOULD TEST TO LEARN HOW LONG IT TAKES to get enough water at each stage to clear your rectum, lower colon, transcending colon or ascending colon or beyond.  Yes there are difference reason why some people do this and to what extend for what purpose of sexuality fun.  I am one of them. I hope you were not being impatience or lazy and just want to do a fast job and go. A proper enema takes a good 15 min for those time you want a short fast anal with a guy. You just trying to empty ONLY your rectum for a quickie and also hoping with a bit of luck no shit just further up in your lower colon is not about to DROP INTO YOUR RECTUM CHAMBER another load of shit bits for the firing.

 

But you want longer sex time like an hour (or more like 12 hours for me) with a guy with a good size cock or/and 7 inch dildo (even longer and larger for me) for that hard deep fucking, that quick enema is not going to be ENOUGH. You can get away with it but very unpredictable. Thus you hear horrible stories of shit on cock or shit popping out as he withdraw his cock. I have learnt the hard way my self decades ago.

Your so call diarrhea is nothing more than water trap deeper than just in your rectum, it has stayed there long enough with your shit in that area of your colon or intestine that it start to dissolve and soften them from solids to watery. AND when the blocked passage is again open, it all started to make it way toward your ass. If you did not have sex that cause no pressure of a penis or toy going in and out of you like a pumping machine, the shit might have harden over time as your body adsorb water from your colon but you agitated it enough or the water/shit trapped is nearer your rectum, you can get an accident really easy. This is only natural.

 

Most of us deep anal toy practitioner know deep enema can have trap water and thus one of the routine is we get up walk a bit and wait a while before we finish off. We know water that got fill up further will have this effect so we let nature take its course ( no in intended) and while and usually it will come out. (My enema session whether I am in the mood for one or not takes almost 1 1/2 hours or longer for deep one)  Some people go so far as to weight themselves before and after they have fill their ass with water. So they know how much has yet to come back out.

 

If you do this enema cleaning long enough you know what water trapping is about. There are times the reverse trapping can happen meaning not just keep water from coming out but from going in too. Say you just release the water out of your ass and you apply another stream of water inside you. And you find you got just a bit of water in and suddenly you feel pressure build up and no more water can go in. You quickly pull the hose from your asshole and water gush out or you struggle to hold the water in. That means something caused a stoppage inside you.

 

Other times you stream water into you and the keeps going for a long time like nothing is going in. You seem to take water in with no problem. That is because nothing in your colon was in your way and it just keep going. Which is not good too if that is not your intention. Water from your tap is not a natural water state your colon or intestine is used to. It contains certain elements that may not harm your inside but it irritates it enough to cause your intestine and colon to act a certain way. That being to trigger the expulsion of it's content as soon as it can. You can start to get that urge to go toilet sensation or that discomfort like you want to try to shit everything out of you heheheh and as you push nothing comes out.  That is why I say you must KNOW how much water you hose inside you. To know at what point or counting the seconds you need to pull out so enough water gets to your rectum only or up to your lower colon or up to your transverse colon or beyond. Each section you clear out will over time be fine and the water will clear up and you see no brown water or bits BUT THE MOMENT you go too far up with water, now you irritated a new section of it and you start it all again as it dirty up the previous length of your colon or rectum. Hope you know what i mean without having to explain more as you flush more and more water inside you. each segment you irritate with the water will irritate and dislodge for shit to come down and faster. Remember your baby days when you can not shit, your mother will inject a kind of medication or even water into your ass..(old style remedy) it is the same thing here.

 

So let's separate reality from guessing why diarrhea came about. If anyone want to have anal fun, I would encourage you to read more on google. You have the means to look for porn or handsome man photos to stimulate you. Why not spend a bit of time learning how your ass works for cleaner and safe fun and injury-free.

No sure ask me or others here who can explain the truth.

Edited April 30, 2017 by upshot
for clarity

[upshot]

On 29/04/2017 at 10:44 AM, Guest Terence71 said:

How deep i can put the hose up in my ass?

If water is getting it in, you have no need to shove the hose in. I rarely push the hose in. I just use my hand pressure to seal it to the opening of my anus and relax and let the water get in on it's own. You should not turn up the pressure to get the water in. Sometime it is not going in because you got the hose exactly at the opening and/or you tighten your ass hole too much for fear as you let water in, some of the water with shit might come back out so you try to over tighten your muscle of your ass opening. Relax, you are in the toilet what could go wrong, it goes wrong in the best place possible!!!!

[Guest Embarrassed]

2 hours ago, upshot said:

Firstly, You did not have a diarrhea. 

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Your so call diarrhea is nothing more than water trap deeper than just in your rectum, it has stayed there long enough with your shit in that area of your colon or intestine that it start to dissolve and soften them from solids to watery. AND when the blocked passage is again open, it all started to make it way toward your ass.

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If you do this enema cleaning long enough you know what water trapping is about. There are times the reverse trapping can happen meaning not just keep water from coming out but from going in too. Say you just release the water out of your ass and you apply another stream of water inside you. And you find you got just a bit of water in and suddenly you feel pressure build up and no more water can go in. You quickly pull the hose from your asshole and water gush out or you struggle to hold the water in. That means something caused a stoppage inside you.

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That is why I say you must KNOW how much water you hose inside you. To know at what point or counting the seconds you need to pull out so enough water gets to your rectum only or up to your lower colon or up to your transverse colon or beyond. Each section you clear out will over time be fine and the water will clear up and you see no brown water or bits BUT THE MOMENT you go too far up with water, now you irritated a new section of it and you start it all again as it dirty up the previous length of your colon or rectum. Hope you know what i mean without having to explain more as you flush more and more water inside you. each segment you irritate with the water will irritate and dislodge for shit to come down and faster. 

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So let's separate reality from guessing why diarrhea came about. If anyone want to have anal fun, I would encourage you to read more on google. You have the means to look for porn or handsome man photos to stimulate you. Why not spend a bit of time learning how your ass works for cleaner and safe fun and injury-free.

No sure ask me or others here who can explain the truth.

It's me again. Thanks for the whole lot of information. Now I know about water trapping. I will be more careful when douching next time and count the seconds/ gauge the amount of water entering to prevent cleaning deep into the upper segments.

[upshot]

18 minutes ago, Guest Embarrassed said:

It's me again. Thanks for the whole lot of information. Now I know about water trapping. I will be more careful when douching next time and count the seconds/ gauge the amount of water entering to prevent cleaning deep into the upper segments.

Yes do that...

 

Another way is silly but it will help you see how much water is in your. Use your water bailer which you might have at home to scoop out water from your water pail ? Now you put your water hose in it and fill and count the seconds. It will give you a good idea how much water you are taking in to fill your rectum area, and how much more it would be before it overflow and gets into your colon and then how far up your colon into your transverse colon..etc.

This way you can time it to do a shallow enema for a quick fuck session and when to go more deeper so you can go out to a club and have sex like a few hours later. To know how much of water you take it will also give you a good idea how much is STILL in you. sometime that is hard to tell as you hose in and let it out some get trap and each time you get more water in and jet out.. more start to accumulate. You might not feel bloated or there is a pressure as it is freely floating in your colon with enough room to be there so.. no discomfort. It is only when it hit a block part of your colon or intestine and it can not stretch inside there that you start to feel the bloat or pressure to stop.

 

So do a water test in a water bucket scoop to see how much water each second it like.

 

In theory as everyone's capacity or size of rectum might be different a little, we can easily fill about 300ml for the rectum which is about the size of the old coke can not like the slimmer one that is now used. That is about the size of water that can be in your rectum.. More then that, you are starting to stretch it out like a balloon and a bit more pressure it start to make it's way up to your colon if the pressure and hole you stuck your water hose is a good seal fit.
 

[Vometra]

Where can one buy an anal douche (not enema!) in Singapore?

[enthuboy_93]

Have noticed the area around some guy's hole is slightly darker while for others the area around their hole is lighter in colour
Any idea what causes this difference or is this just something one is born with?

[Eujiboo]

On 7/17/2017 at 5:00 PM, enthuboy_93 said:

Have noticed the area around some guy's hole is slightly darker while for others the area around their hole is lighter in colour
Any idea what causes this difference or is this just something one is born with?

I remember reading up on this before. The concept is similar to areas not only to the anal/crotch region but also armpits, inner thighs and inner thighs.

 

I've read up on a few websites and forums and I think this one explains it the best. Don't worry about it, the colour just comes from pigmentation and it differs on everyone's body. http://www.adoptionreform-nc.org/revealed-the-science-behind-skin-darkness-in-the-anal-region/ It's perfectly normal and does not cause any issues.

[Clive]

PSYLLIUM HUSK HELPS KEEP THE RECTUM EASILY CLEANED

One of the problems bottoms face is stools that are sticky, leave quite a lot of residue or they just are unable to eliminate everything in the rectum. Douching helps, but having good quality stools that are easily passed and leave little residue makes things much cleaner and easier. Psyllium husk can achieve this very effective and easily, although a high-fibre diet can also have the same effect. 

 

How Does it Work?

Psyllium husk is known as a stool bulking agent. It is insoluble fibre that traps water, adding volume to your stools. With this volume, stools pass along the bowel more easily. As this bulked up stool moves along, it also picks up any smaller bits.

 

How do you take it?

Psyllium husk is relatively tasteless, and you can add a little amount (half a teaspoonful or more, depending on your fibre needs) to your food. I add just under a teaspoon to my oatmeal in the mornings, and just take it once a day. The amount you need may vary - don't take too much though as it may cause diarrhoea instead. Instead gradually add on the amount till you achieve the optimal effect.

 

The Effect of Psyllium Husk

Since taking it, my stools have been like bananas when I defecate. My bowels feel clear in just 1 or 2 movements. It is also amazing that it leaves little to no residue - not infrequently, I wipe and see a clean toilet paper! Mind you as a bottom, I am rather fastidious in wiping usually.  

 

When I douche, there may be bits, yes. But not those sticky yucky ones, but more like playdough bits.

 

Get it at Supermarkets like NTUC

The good thing is psyllium husk is relatively cheap. You only need a small amount each day, and a packet lasts you for a long time. You can get it from NTUC under the organic foods section - mine is the green packet sort, which is placed along with other grains and stuff. Other supermarkets also have it. Pharmacies have a fancy flavoured version that comes in satchets, particularly to help constipation. A popular brand is Metamucil although it is much more expensive than those you can get from supermarkets.

 

Conclusion

Want your rectum clean so you can take that cock reassured? Good stools is an important factor, and psyllium husk has worked wonderfully for me in achieving that. Give it a shot (er maybe at least a week for the bowels to move along), and let me know how it works for you!

 

[TopChinese]

Thanks for the tips. I hope the bottoms here can practise these tips - we could use more clean ones around

[bluerunner]

@Clive: can post a photo of the Psyllium husk that you bought from supermarket? Thx. 

[sgmaven]

I am glad that @upshot has given pointers on the difference between a shallow and deep enema, as well as their intended purposes. Most guys in Singapore, I realise, don't really know how to clean out their asses, and that results in some embarassment during anal penetration.

 

If you have your own home, I highly recommending getting the shower-shot-douche that is sold by Mr. S. Leather. It can be attached to your usual household shower system, and you can then easily control water flow and temperature (to avoid cramping).

[Clive]

11 hours ago, bluerunner said:

@Clive: can post a photo of the Psyllium husk that you bought from supermarket? Thx. 

It's this:

https://goo.gl/images/mZ7QGs

[bluerunner]

9 minutes ago, Clive said:

It's this:

https://goo.gl/images/mZ7QGs

Thanks @Clive . That has been very helpful. 

[fab]

 

This should be more available n cheaper. 

 

shower-shot-douche is available in most hardware shop at around10 sgd.

 

[Guest ransom25]

Does anyone take large volume enemas just cause they feel good and also helps clean you out? Sometimes the internal pressure tends to push on my prostate and improves the climaxes.

[Guest douchingissues]

I bought a 250ml BULB douche. Tried it. End up farting or having diarrhea. And the funny thing is, i heard that after u pump the water inside, u should feel full immediately at the rectum area? I dont get that at all, i have to clench my stomach to force the bowel movement, which ends up in diarrhea. I did read that shouldn't one shot put so much water, and for bulb douches, there is a chance of pumping air too

 

so i went to get a syringe douche which is 100 ml capacity. The pumping of air issues was gone.. But still cant douche correctly? I pump 100 ml water or lets say 50 ml per insertion, i dont feel full at all immediately. I tried to clench the stomach to force the bowel movement, end up having shitting but in between, i can feel the squirting of water sensation so now i got half of it correct.

 

so whats the issue now that i cant douche properly? Is it because the water end up too deep? i tried douching in different positions, same results. i tried pressing the syringe slower to have a lower pressure, still same eh? don't feel full at all immediately where the water will come out naturally without forcing the stomach or bowel movement.

 

Another question, the correct way would result it feeling full, but end up having a squirting water sensation right? that is the proper outcome right?

[aelwaien]

It's possible that your rectal capacity is more than just 100ml.

You can try to increase the volume of the inflow till you feel the urge to pass motion,  but do take measure of the inflow and outflow. 

The rectum is like a tank, once it's full capacity is reached, it will start purging. 

[Guest douching help]

6 minutes ago, aelwaien said:

It's possible that your rectal capacity is more than just 100ml.

You can try to increase the volume of the inflow till you feel the urge to pass motion,  but do take measure of the inflow and outflow. 

The rectum is like a tank, once it's full capacity is reached, it will start purging. 

this means that, using too little water can have negative effect just like using too much water right?Too much water,even with correct pressure, will overflow the" tank", which is the rectum and this will result in the water flowing to the place where shit is stored. correct?

[aelwaien]

First, the function of the rectum (from wiki) :

 

The rectum acts as a temporary storage site for feces. As the rectal walls expand due to the materials filling it from within, stretch receptors from the nervous system located in the rectal walls stimulate the desire to defecate. If the urge is not acted upon, the material in the rectum is often returned to the colon where more water is absorbed from the feces. If defecation is delayed for a prolonged period, constipation and hardened feces results.

When the rectum becomes full, the increase in intrarectal pressure forces the walls of the anal canalapart, allowing the fecal matter to enter the canal. The rectum shortens as material is forced into the anal canal and peristaltic waves propel the feces out of the rectum. The internal and external sphincterallow the feces to be passed by muscles pulling the anus up over the exiting feces.

 

The answer to your question:

Yes, too much water inflow may go into your descending colon.

[aelwaien]

 

[Guest douche question]

5 hours ago, aelwaien said:

tried.didnt work... Just now tried again.. i insert 100ml, dont feel full, i repeat for 2 more times. total 300ml.. few mins later ,want to shit and not immediately want to shit.. end up diarrhea again. the final assumption is the water pressure.. when i insert the nozzle, my rectum seems to tense up, making it more difficult to push the syringe.could it be why,i end up getting the water too high up?

 

[IpMan]

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Edited March 14, 2020 by IpMan

[herodai]

If you have only a shower head, will spraying water into the hole when raising one leg up help?

[enthuboy_93]

14 minutes ago, herodai said:

If you have only a shower head, will spraying water into the hole when raising one leg up help?

Have tried that before, but no it doesn't
The water needs to be pumped right into your hole

[6footer]

My method of douching before sex is pretty much the same as most dudes above, using a hose from a showerhead or the ones next to the toilet -  with just the right amount of water (you'll know when its right when you feel it" and then you hold it in for as long as you can, (dont push) and let it flush itself out. I would then flush the toilet and repeat. Usually 3 times. And then i'll do a hard push and if it feels empty i know Im good. I add in a step where I take some lube, apply it on my fingers and finger myself abit (1 or 2 fingers is good) and inspect - to see if my fingers are clean and if there is any smell (gross i know, but we all know what our farts/shits smell like) and if theres no smell/you didnt feel anything inside, YOU'RE GOOD TO GO! Also remember that during sex - feeling like you're going to poop is normal but stop if its too excessive and re-access. Happy Bottoming!

 

[Clive]

FEEL LIKE POOPING WHILE BEING FUCKED?  YOU'RE PROBABLY INJURED

I learnt that sometimes, when you feel like pooping during sex,  it may also because the inside/rectal tissue is injured. Learnt it by experience...  A top fucked me deep and hard,  and I was left feeling I had to poop for the remainder of the night even though i was empty. 

 

LUBE THE INSIDES TO AVOID THIS

Making sure that one's inside is lubed well is important to avoid this.  You can introduce some lube in there by fingering with lube,  or i use a small syringe of lube.  I don't know if other people would agree,  but I think it does help prevent injury and hence that pooping feeling,  and makes anal sex enjoyable and painless. 

 

For myself,  I don't push when douching,  because it might push things down the empty washed out rectum. 

Edited November 9, 2017 by Clive

[Kenjikenji]

52 minutes ago, Clive said:

FEEL LIKE POOPING WHILE BEING FUCKED?  YOU'RE PROBABLY INJURED

I learnt that sometimes, when you feel like pooping during sex,  it may also because the inside/rectal tissue is injured. Learnt it by experience...  A top fucked me deep and hard,  and I was left feeling I had to poop for the remainder of the night even though i was empty. 

 

LUBE THE INSIDES TO AVOID THIS

Making sure that one's inside is lubed well is important to avoid this.  You can introduce some lube in there by fingering with lube,  or i use a small syringe of lube.  I don't know if other people would agree,  but I think it does help prevent injury and hence that pooping feeling,  and makes anal sex enjoyable and painless. 

 

For myself,  I don't push when douching,  because it might push things down the empty washed out rectum. 

Thanks for sharing  

[herodai]

3 hours ago, 6footer said:

My method of douching before sex is pretty much the same as most dudes above, using a hose from a showerhead 

 

So you mean remove the shower head and use the hose? Any shower head can be removed like that? Is it a hard to find a hose 

 

[6footer]

22 hours ago, herodai said:

So you mean remove the shower head and use the hose? Any shower head can be removed like that? Is it a hard to find a hose 

 

If you have one of those detachable ones, you can just screw it off and place the end of the hose near your anus. Usually practice this in hotel rooms because I have a rain shower at home, that poses a problem lol.

[Guest Btmman]

Just try your best to clean then relax lah. A good top knows that accidents do happen. If he really likes you, he won't even mind.

 

Those who like to molest or rape, they know the victims ass is not clean yet they still fuck it.

Sometimes my fb wants it NOW, he don't care and takes me as I am.

[Guest :-(]

On 29/09/2016 at 6:11 AM, Guest Guest Shiok said:

Recently I met a cute boy who wanted rimming before banging. Cute pink hole but damn smelly. He said many people like rimming him.

 

i just couldn't. 

 

LOL. ask him to douche himself first

[Guest]

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Edited May 10, 2018 by Nomanov125

[lovehandle]

On 11/10/2017 at 10:33 PM, Guest Btmman said:

Just try your best to clean then relax lah. A good top knows that accidents do happen. If he really likes you, he won't even mind.

 

Those who like to molest or rape, they know the victims ass is not clean yet they still fuck it.

Sometimes my fb wants it NOW, he don't care and takes me as I am.

that is quite true, feel like giving u a LIKE

[upshot]

On 5/3/2018 at 10:05 AM, Nomanov125 said:

Anyone here likes taking enemas for the pleasure of the enema itself and not as a prelude or to clean out yourself before sex?

heheh I like enema but it will never stop at just that.. I have to give it the fun and ending it deserves be it a cock or a toy LOL

[Kkklaus]

On 11/9/2017 at 8:16 PM, Clive said:

FEEL LIKE POOPING WHILE BEING FUCKED?  YOU'RE PROBABLY INJURED

I learnt that sometimes, when you feel like pooping during sex,  it may also because the inside/rectal tissue is injured. Learnt it by experience...  A top fucked me deep and hard,  and I was left feeling I had to poop for the remainder of the night even though i was empty. 

 

LUBE THE INSIDES TO AVOID THIS

Making sure that one's inside is lubed well is important to avoid this.  You can introduce some lube in there by fingering with lube,  or i use a small syringe of lube.  I don't know if other people would agree,  but I think it does help prevent injury and hence that pooping feeling,  and makes anal sex enjoyable and painless. 

 

For myself,  I don't push when douching,  because it might push things down the empty washed out rectum. 

Thanks for the advice!!

[Guest Btmman]

Lots of new btms complain that they feel like pooping when fucked. Actually it's natural and common sense. Since young we have experienced that once poop started coming out we can feel it at our anus and naturally use our anal muscles to push it out, a cock in our anus stimulated that same sensation too.

 

BUT...when we grow up, our cock grow big and our anus grow wider too. All the better to get ready for sex. That's when I sometimes get that tingling pleasurable sensation when I pushed out a thick hard one. You know, like in those comics where someone goes "Ahhhhh.... " after pooping a big one. But I felt that it wasn't from the relieving that load in my tummy but it lingered in my anus.

Let's be honest, who doesn't have this feeling like that before?

 

That's when I guessed that I have a sensitive anus and a natural bottom. Hell no, I don't want to be fucked, that's so degrading. So I practiced to be a top and refused to let anybody touch my anus during sex. However, like the Chinese saying goes "go up the mountain too many times and you're sure to meet the tiger". In a moment of weakness, eventually someone penetrated me while I was half drunk. It was ass splittingly painful and I struggled to fight him off.

 

But as he was penetrating me from behind, he pinned me down from his advantageous position. I could only protest meekly why he want to fuck ass so dirty, as if that would gross him out. All he could do was breath heavily like an animal and fucked me like an animal. 

 

Needless to say, I was bloody and sore for more than a week. But strangely enough, I felt that tingling pleasurable sensation lingering too. I recognised it. But of course, I didn't instantly became a bottom. I would punch his lights out if he ever dare to try to fuck me again. But I don't dare to make a scene out of embarrassment. We just pretended that nothing happened.

 

But once the cat is out of the bag, I could not ignore it. Just then I went for massage and would you know it already, the masseur would tease by pressing around the anus. It's typical and previously I would have told him to stop in no uncertain terms. But this time, I just healed down there for more than a month yet it felt good when he did that. In fact I don't know why I moaned mmmm unconsciously.

 

That's all the permission he needed to stick one finger in. I should have known better because they are experts in anal anatomy, it's their rice bowl. He knew exactly where to find my g-spot or like they say, a man's death spot. I automatically opened my legs wider in compliance to his wishes. Before long, I'm melting in his hands. He got me to turn over and lay my legs on his shoulders. Then he'll finger me while caressing my nipples. I was surprised to see myself dripping precum profusely. He wore an evil grin as he slowly milked me like a cow. I was totally helpless but I still don't know to ask to be fucked. He's probably straight anyway. I finally exploded in his hands and totally drained.

 

I didn't want to think about it then. But a few days later, I just could not get that sensation off my mind. I started cleaning my ass and wondering if I'll ever give myself away again. In those days before the internet or saunas, there's only one way to get laid. That's the infamous Hong Lim Park. It was there that I meet someone with a pickup van and he drove me to East Coast Park Lover Carpark G and screwed me gently in his van since space inside was so tight. 

 

After that night, I'm forever open for business down there. The Ministry of Environment would probably award me an A+ sticker for cleanliness down there, LOL. That's one of those dirty jokes that one of fb cracked after inspecting me down there. Sigh, is that funny or humiliating?

 

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On 2/8/2006 at 11:01 AM, Guest Vivo said:

I am flex top.

I usually will eat lots of fibre two days before to clear the stomach and will use a syringe to infuse water before sex act..

Turning on the tap with hose is a little to dangerous.. and you may not be aware of bursting the stomach as different people may have a different threshold.

A syringe will be easy to monitor how much water you have taken in..

There is some adult toys shop selling those with a small tube attached to the syringe.Click here

 

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On 9/2/2018 at 9:56 AM, Guest Btmman said:

Lots of new btms complain that they feel like pooping when fucked. Actually it's natural and common sense. Since young we have experienced that once poop started coming out we can feel it at our anus and naturally use our anal muscles to push it out, a cock in our anus stimulated that same sensation too.

 

BUT...when we grow up, our cock grow big and our anus grow wider too. All the better to get ready for sex. That's when I sometimes get that tingling pleasurable sensation when I pushed out a thick hard one. You know, like in those comics where someone goes "Ahhhhh.... " after pooping a big one. But I felt that it wasn't from the relieving that load in my tummy but it lingered in my anus.

Let's be honest, who doesn't have this feeling like that before?

 

That's when I guessed that I have a sensitive anus and a natural bottom. Hell no, I don't want to be fucked, that's so degrading. So I practiced to be a top and refused to let anybody touch my anus during sex. However, like the Chinese saying goes "go up the mountain too many times and you're sure to meet the tiger". In a moment of weakness, eventually someone penetrated me while I was half drunk. It was ass splittingly painful and I struggled to fight him off.

 

But as he was penetrating me from behind, he pinned me down from his advantageous position. I could only protest meekly why he want to fuck ass so dirty, as if that would gross him out. All he could do was breath heavily like an animal and fucked me like an animal. 

 

Needless to say, I was bloody and sore for more than a week. But strangely enough, I felt that tingling pleasurable sensation lingering too. I recognised it. But of course, I didn't instantly became a bottom. I would punch his lights out if he ever dare to try to fuck me again. But I don't dare to make a scene out of embarrassment. We just pretended that nothing happened.

 

But once the cat is out of the bag, I could not ignore it. Just then I went for massage and would you know it already, the masseur would tease by pressing around the anus. It's typical and previously I would have told him to stop in no uncertain terms. But this time, I just healed down there for more than a month yet it felt good when he did that. In fact I don't know why I moaned mmmm unconsciously.

 

That's all the permission he needed to stick one finger in. I should have known better because they are experts in anal anatomy, it's their rice bowl. He knew exactly where to find my g-spot or like they say, a man's death spot. I automatically opened my legs wider in compliance to his wishes. Before long, I'm melting in his hands. He got me to turn over and lay my legs on his shoulders. Then he'll finger me while caressing my nipples. I was surprised to see myself dripping precum profusely. He wore an evil grin as he slowly milked me like a cow. I was totally helpless but I still don't know to ask to be fucked. He's probably straight anyway. I finally exploded in his hands and totally drained.

 

I didn't want to think about it then. But a few days later, I just could not get that sensation off my mind. I started cleaning my ass and wondering if I'll ever give myself away again. In those days before the internet or saunas, there's only one way to get laid. That's the infamous Hong Lim Park. It was there that I meet someone with a pickup van and he drove me to East Coast Park Lover Carpark G and screwed me gently in his van since space inside was so tight. 

 

After that night, I'm forever open for business down there. The Ministry of Environment would probably award me an A+ sticker for cleanliness down there, LOL. That's one of those dirty jokes that one of fb cracked after inspecting me down there. Sigh, is that funny or humiliating?

 

 

Thank you.  

Its very well written. 

 

well paced with humor and chinese euphemism thrown in . 

 

thanks again for sharing. 

 

most guys cant be bothered to write their actual experience.

 

They just want to know the shortest , fastest, easiest way to the honey pot. 

 

Forgetting there is a journey involve and life is savoring the sweet with the bitter and sour and salty and smelly also.

 

keep it up.

[Guest Bigt]

Sorry I am new is cleaning that area but I have read most advise and most say just use the shower hose to push the water in. Is it to spray water at the hole and try to" take it in"? I certainly cannot shove that hose in my asshole. I try spraying it and I cannot take in any water. The only way I can push water in is using a bottle with a thin tip (like those soy sauce plastic bottles), shove it up my ass and press. It's a bit troublesome and I cannot get a lot of water in.

Countless times I reject anal cause I know I never clean properly (my ass is also quite tight and I need to prepare myself before hand before even trying anal sex cause...)