Sugar Daddies & Seekers Discussion [Anyone Posting Ads Will Be suspended!] (compiled)

[strangeName]

On 7/7/2015 at 10:04 PM, Guest poster said:

I met someone in his twenties some time ago and after 2 weeks, he mentioned about going for a holiday. It is taken that I will pay for the trip as I have been paying for all meals. 2 weeks later, he asked to go for a holiday again.

 

This is the second young man who asked to go for a holiday after a few meals and I felt uneasy cos I was never like that myself. When I was in my 20s, even though I had an older man who offered to fly me to Japan and stay in a hotel, I never accepted. 

 

I am prepared to go for a real friendship but these 2 instances somehow tell me that these guys are only there for some good time.

 

Daddies, what are your experiences? perhaps, the market practice is to offer a free overseas trip after getting to know each other?

 

Daddy seekers, what do you say?

You attract what you are. If you see an upward trend in attracting such people, maybe evaluate your qualities and your traits. How you carry yourself to give a perception that you're such a person to attract people of such mindset.

 

In a young and old relationship I think it is harder to find genuine friendship but then again I am not old enough to provide much opinion on that either. 

[radiusulnar]

5 hours ago, strangeName said:

maybe evaluate your qualities and your traits. How you carry yourself to give a perception

 

Sadly aren't those traits actually positive traits? Caring, empathetic, giving, sharing, financial stable...

[strangeName]

55 minutes ago, radiusulnar said:

 

Sadly aren't those traits actually positive traits? Caring, empathetic, giving, sharing, financial stable...

Yes, it is a positive trait. But if we over give I realised people tend to abuse it, took it for granted. 

[Steve5380]

On 2/6/2025 at 3:50 AM, strangeName said:

Yes, it is a positive trait. But if we over give I realised people tend to abuse it, took it for granted. 

 

The suggestion for a major expense like a vacation trip should come from the one who pays for it,  NOT from the one who side-benefits from it.