I Really Wanted To Sex My... (Compiled)

[Guest Fucker]

I have been eyeing him for months, this feminine colleague of mine.  He looks too perfect, his looks, his performance has always been above average to the liking of my boss. He gets along well with most female colleagues and highly efficient. He always appeared less stressful in work than me.

 

He didn't know I am gay, because I am very manly.  I think, he has a thing for me because he likes to stare at my crotch everytime I cross his way. That probably give him away as a bottom?  Once during meeting I was sitting with my legs wide opened, I noticed him leering between my legs occassionally.  I think the chance is high, but I am waiting for time to bring him to bed and give him a good fuck and hear him scream.  I am thinking of strategy, but haven't come out with any plan yet.  The last try was joked to him about getting topped by man, and he rolled his eyes on me.  As colleague, it is quite difficult to advance, in case he complained to boss and my career is ruined. The other problems is, whenever I followed him to the washroom to pee, in the hope to get his attention on the size of my dick, he always used a cubicle and lock up, is he pretending to be shy or is he quietly masturbating inside? I wish to think so,,,,hard to judge the guy. But everytime I look at him, my dick is itching and get errected easily.  I yearned to bring him home and give him a fuck like never before.

 

Anyone here can help me think of a plan?

[Guest Curious]

How about asking him out for a drink first? Get to know him and make him open up more.. ;-)

[Guest Fucker]

How about asking him out for a drink first? Get to know him and make him open up more.. ;-)

 

I tried, to ask him out for drink, but he always go in group lunch with other female colleagues. It make worse went those femal colleagues didn't like me to be around.  When I am not working OT, I asked him whether he want to drink kopi together, he told me he need to rush home for dinner.  It is not everytime I can find excuse to bring him out.  I sensed he has the needs for sex, but also want to play "hard to catch" or was I misjudging him because he really need to rush home every night like some kind of curfew.  Luckily, we work in the same office, so time is not an issue, it is the method of luring him to my home.

[NottyBoy92]

Woah. Chill bro. You don't have to think like a predator. Control that raging hormones. How about get to know him first, ask him out for lunch or dinner. If you are shy or afraid of awkward moments, bring along your colleagues. Then get to know him, crack lame joke or start small conversation with him once in awhile.. Don't rush into wanting to fuck him. Slow and steady bro. Remember! Guys like it when you care for him or at least show interest, then once his guard is down, go for it. BUT Don't take advantage of that.

[Guest Guest]

You sound like a chauvinistic and lecherous person.

 

It seems like he has dismissed each of your "advances" and yet you still hope to "lure" him home for sex?

 

Don't you think you're just being so full of yourself?

[NottyBoy92]

You sound like a chauvinistic and lecherous person.

 

It seems like he has dismissed each of your "advances" and yet you still hope to "lure" him home for sex?

 

Don't you think you're just being so full of yourself?

Maybe the dude is just playing hard to get. I am sure you experienced this before. Don't be mean. I like his confidence.

[Guest Peanut]

May be he is already attached that's why he seems like he has curfew and may be he really wants to accept your invitation but he doesn't have the freedom to do so...

[Guest guest]

you are terrible....indeed a lusty predator capitalizing on a poor colleague to your sexual advantage. If i were him i will avoid you by all means. Perhaps he is looking for a boyfriend rather than a one time fling. He has his honour and i fully understand his stand. He is not a cheap gentleman.

[NottyBoy92]

That awkward moment when the people replying this topic is using the "Guest" account.

[doncoin]

You do realise your behaviour may constitute as sexual harassment, and can give HR grounds to terminate your employment, if your co-worker ever complains about it. 

[Guest Fucker]

May be the word "fuck" sound a little strong and demeaining.  I like him, I want to make love with him because he is too polite and soft-spoken in office I can't prevent my hormone from raging. What kind of sound will he made in bed with my dick up inside him?  Pardon my crude language, but I really like him.  He seems like a decent virgin good for fuck..I mean making love with him.

[Guest Guest]

May be the word "fuck" sound a little strong and demeaining.  I like him, I want to make love with him because he is too polite and soft-spoken in office I can't prevent my hormone from raging. What kind of sound will he made in bed with my dick up inside him?  Pardon my crude language, but I really like him.  He seems like a decent virgin good for fuck..I mean making love with him.

 

He probably thinks you are an insensitive straight guy with an agenda -making fun of him for his gentle demeanour and possibly laying a trap for him to fall in.

 

Why don't you just make friends with him genuinely instead of eyeing him like a sex object...

[Guest useyourbrain]

getting involved with someone at work is a big nono. you put your job at risk, is it worth it?

[hairy springroll]

Get to know him first

date him out

In case you think too much

Put your face and job embarrassment

[Guest Guest]

I have been eyeing him for months, this feminine colleague of mine.  He looks too perfect, his looks, his performance has always been above average to the liking of my boss. He gets along well with most female colleagues and highly efficient. He always appeared less stressful in work than me.

 

He didn't know I am gay, because I am very manly.  I think, he has a thing for me because he likes to stare at my crotch everytime I cross his way. That probably give him away as a bottom?  Once during meeting I was sitting with my legs wide opened, I noticed him leering between my legs occassionally.  I think the chance is high, but I am waiting for time to bring him to bed and give him a good fuck and hear him scream.  I am thinking of strategy, but haven't come out with any plan yet.  The last try was joked to him about getting topped by man, and he rolled his eyes on me.  As colleague, it is quite difficult to advance, in case he complained to boss and my career is ruined. The other problems is, whenever I followed him to the washroom to pee, in the hope to get his attention on the size of my dick, he always used a cubicle and lock up, is he pretending to be shy or is he quietly masturbating inside? I wish to think so,,,,hard to judge the guy. But everytime I look at him, my dick is itching and get errected easily.  I yearned to bring him home and give him a fuck like never before.

 

Anyone here can help me think of a plan?

 

Yes, he could be gay, but he could be already attached.  That explained why he is trying to avoid you.  Secondly, even if he is not attached, that does not mean he will go with any man.  He has his own preference.

 

The best is let him make the first move if you are concerned about your career being ruined. 

[Guest Fucker]

Yes, he could be gay, but he could be already attached.  That explained why he is trying to avoid you.  Secondly, even if he is not attached, that does not mean he will go with any man.  He has his own preference.

 

The best is let him make the first move if you are concerned about your career being ruined. 

He leers at my bulge, too shy to admit it.  My gaydar think he likes it.  When a gay look at your "between the legs" part, he obviously likes you.  Ask around gay people, they know that is mostly the case.

[doncoin]

Whatever you do, if you engage in a sexual relationship with any one at work, if not handled properly, it can be grounds for termination. I don't know how it will be handled in Singapore, but in the US, if 2 colleagues engaged into any relationship beyond what is professional, technically, they have to report to HR. The reason being that if the relationship sours, the company is not liable- i.e. creating an environment that can be hostile. 

 

As much as you may want to engage in any sexual relationship with your colleague, confirm that he is gay first, and that he is into you. 

[snowball]

你想太多了

Edited September 6, 2015 by snowball

[mate69]

I have been eyeing him for months, this feminine colleague of mine.  He looks too perfect, his looks, his performance has always been above average to the liking of my boss. He gets along well with most female colleagues and highly efficient. He always appeared less stressful in work than me.

 

He didn't know I am gay, because I am very manly.  I think, he has a thing for me because he likes to stare at my crotch everytime I cross his way. That probably give him away as a bottom?  Once during meeting I was sitting with my legs wide opened, I noticed him leering between my legs occassionally.  I think the chance is high, but I am waiting for time to bring him to bed and give him a good fuck and hear him scream.  I am thinking of strategy, but haven't come out with any plan yet.  The last try was joked to him about getting topped by man, and he rolled his eyes on me.  As colleague, it is quite difficult to advance, in case he complained to boss and my career is ruined. The other problems is, whenever I followed him to the washroom to pee, in the hope to get his attention on the size of my dick, he always used a cubicle and lock up, is he pretending to be shy or is he quietly masturbating inside? I wish to think so,,,,hard to judge the guy. But everytime I look at him, my dick is itching and get errected easily.  I yearned to bring him home and give him a fuck like never before.

 

Anyone here can help me think of a plan?

 

You clearly don't have enough work to occupy your time with.

Your boss needs to give you more work and make you more productive and less of a slacker and a drag on the company's resources. 

[canberra]

He leers at my bulge, too shy to admit it.  My gaydar think he likes it.  When a gay look at your "between the legs" part, he obviously likes you.  Ask around gay people, they know that is mostly the case.

I disagree. I look at guys' bulges too, but it doesn't mean I want to put them in my mouth.

[robin]

Whether a man is manly enough is not based on what he thinks of himself but rather, what others think of him

Edited September 6, 2015 by robin

[darkflame]

Your job is at stake.

Please think twice.

Then again, I was in a similar situation.

Shall be more wary of male 'mature' colleagues at the workplace next time.

[Guest Just asking]

Your job is at stake.

Please think twice.

Then again, I was in a similar situation.

Shall be more wary of male 'mature' colleagues at the workplace next time.

Oh... Would you like to share with us?

[Guest Analyst]

It take times, the feminine guy may not necessarily reject the offer. I think he wasn't sure that you are straight or gay. Secondly, he may be too occupied with work to think someone in the office was secretly admiring him. According to my gay experiences, it is high chance that he already knew everything, which means your interest in him. This explains the reason why he locked in the cubicle during "pee hour" to prevent you from noticing that he actually likes you too, by not peeing side by side with you and get tempted by your cock size, though I dare say he yearned for it.. This last part of the emotions, usually stand its reason.  

 

Under such scenario, asking him to advance is a little stretcched unless he get the clear signs. Most feminine gay prefer to look "decent" instead of aggressive. Thus be persistent, polite and proactive. Once he turned soft, which most people will,  the end result can be quite rewarding.  

[Blacque]

I tried, to ask him out for drink, but he always go in group lunch with other female colleagues. It make worse went those femal colleagues didn't like me to be around.  When I am not working OT, I asked him whether he want to drink kopi together, he told me he need to rush home for dinner.  It is not everytime I can find excuse to bring him out.  I sensed he has the needs for sex, but also want to play "hard to catch" or was I misjudging him because he really need to rush home every night like some kind of curfew.  Luckily, we work in the same office, so time is not an issue, it is the method of luring him to my home.

 

Or maybe he's just not interested in you...?

[cutejack]

I have been eyeing him for months, this feminine colleague of mine. He looks too perfect, his looks, his performance has always been above average to the liking of my boss. He gets along well with most female colleagues and highly efficient. He always appeared less stressful in work than me.

He didn't know I am gay, because I am very manly. I think, he has a thing for me because he likes to stare at my crotch everytime I cross his way. That probably give him away as a bottom? Once during meeting I was sitting with my legs wide opened, I noticed him leering between my legs occassionally. I think the chance is high, but I am waiting for time to bring him to bed and give him a good fuck and hear him scream. I am thinking of strategy, but haven't come out with any plan yet. The last try was joked to him about getting topped by man, and he rolled his eyes on me. As colleague, it is quite difficult to advance, in case he complained to boss and my career is ruined. The other problems is, whenever I followed him to the washroom to pee, in the hope to get his attention on the size of my dick, he always used a cubicle and lock up, is he pretending to be shy or is he quietly masturbating inside? I wish to think so,,,,hard to judge the guy. But everytime I look at him, my dick is itching and get errected easily. I yearned to bring him home and give him a fuck like never before.

Anyone here can help me think of a plan?

u have taken many effort n yet he avoid tat shows he is not into wat u r thinking.go n find other guy la.

if i look at yr crotch area u wanna fuck me also is it?hahahaha.

[Guest Analyst]

u have taken many effort n yet he avoid tat shows he is not into wat u r thinking.go n find other guy la.

if i look at yr crotch area u wanna fuck me also is it?hahahaha.

I don't think the "fucker" has done anything at all. First, cracked joke about the feminine guy being topped and met with eye rolling, than ask for kopi once and followed him to washroom. It means nothing to me if I was that feminine guy.  Not everyone get hints because sometime we fear of false and mistaken clue, ended up being embarassed. 

 

At least tell him directly that you wanted to be friend with him and you find him quite attractive (flatter him a little), asked whether he is gay (tell him you are aware due to his obvious gesture...etc), than introduced that you are gay too. Asked him what he likes to do during past time/weekend. So many option opened. Not easy to find someone DECENT you like in the "gay market" and not all are good. The advantage is, since both of you are colleague, you already knew his personality quite well.  He is no longer a stranger to you.  Once everything looks ready for date, than you can invite him to your home.

 

If he agrees, it means he is all time high and ready for a good sex with you,   Hang on there, wait for opportunity, don't give up like what others suggested.  Romance happened all the time regardless in workplace or in classroom or anywhere unforeseeable. 

[Firday]

could be job professionalism.

[Guest Guest]

I have a situation where i standing in a position where this person is not my colleuge.not really sure is he eyeing on me or was it that i was eyeing on this person.for my case i need to watch out occasionally to serve customer.and my character is more to polite and gentle.yes i am a manly person.i do smile when there is many customer.but is kind of when there is not many customer i don t really smile that heavy.and this person hardly come and get thing from me.i was devastating that why each time this person don t want to get things from me will just walk past me.and i don t know why i can t really smile and make a type of calm look.but i am not really calm as in my brain is like pinball hitting on coils and score so good that it don t drop.after a few occasion of walking past.i decided to changed a way by running out each time i saw this person coming and to get coffee to drink.i takeaway the coffee back to my station.as i am walking back i felt that i have the pinball sensation.i can actually just drink my coffee at the place i got.i don t know why i take away.this time i decide to hold back and think.i can t find any solution until there is this time

this time this person come and get thing from me.i stop my pinball sensation and is like going on a tuilt.i totally changed into a diva.my post is like malrylin manoreo look.i don t know why.

[Guest fainted]

I have a situation where i standing in a position where this person is not my colleuge.not really sure is he eyeing on me or was it that i was eyeing on this person.for my case i need to watch out occasionally to serve customer.and my character is more to polite and gentle.yes i am a manly person.i do smile when there is many customer.but is kind of when there is not many customer i don t really smile that heavy.and this person hardly come and get thing from me.i was devastating that why each time this person don t want to get things from me will just walk past me.and i don t know why i can t really smile and make a type of calm look.but i am not really calm as in my brain is like pinball hitting on coils and score so good that it don t drop.after a few occasion of walking past.i decided to changed a way by running out each time i saw this person coming and to get coffee to drink.i takeaway the coffee back to my station.as i am walking back i felt that i have the pinball sensation.i can actually just drink my coffee at the place i got.i don t know why i take away.this time i decide to hold back and think.i can t find any solution until there is this time

this time this person come and get thing from me.i stop my pinball sensation and is like going on a tuilt.i totally changed into a diva.my post is like malrylin manoreo look.i don t know why.

You sound like a rapper, no break in between your sentences. We catch no ball.  Are you trying to say that you were in customer service, and being polite and gentle and manly, you enjoyed smiling when there were lots of customer and you don't smile that much if there is very little customer. Than this guy, not your colleague, were eyeing at you or you probably eye at him.  You were devastated when he just walked past you. So you tried to avoid him by running out to fetch coffee. When you returned, this person finally came to you for service, you were overjoyed - like diva.

 

Am I right?

Edited September 7, 2015 by Glyph
No racial slurs.

[Guest Guest]

I am not here to qurrel.oh gosh how to spell.i come here to speak out my brains.it is very hard.let me adjust my brain first.firstly i am a civillize person.i don t speak vulguraties or like people here who do anal and speak out what they want to speak.i am talking sense here.

[Guest Guest]

All human eat different things but come out the same thing.what has it got to do with what race.

[Guest Glyph]

Aight, enough with that and just get back to the topic before I fuck you.. oops.

[hirogen0226]

Looks like the only "hint" u think he gives u is "he checks out your crotch". I think it's just an instinctive thing that guys do. Like straight guys will check out boobs and butts but it doesn't mean they wanna fuck every butts they ogle at. So for gays, we check out crotches or asses doesn't mean we are ready to fuck or get fucked by every one of those crotches and asses. Sometimes we check out crotches cos 不看白不看 haha

[Guest Guest]

I hope the person will read this.

[Guest lim]

I have been eyeing him for months, this feminine colleague of mine.  He looks too perfect, his looks, his performance has always been above average to the liking of my boss. He gets along well with most female colleagues and highly efficient. He always appeared less stressful in work than me.

 

He didn't know I am gay, because I am very manly.  I think, he has a thing for me because he likes to stare at my crotch everytime I cross his way. That probably give him away as a bottom?  Once during meeting I was sitting with my legs wide opened, I noticed him leering between my legs occassionally.  I think the chance is high, but I am waiting for time to bring him to bed and give him a good fuck and hear him scream.  I am thinking of strategy, but haven't come out with any plan yet.  The last try was joked to him about getting topped by man, and he rolled his eyes on me.  As colleague, it is quite difficult to advance, in case he complained to boss and my career is ruined. The other problems is, whenever I followed him to the washroom to pee, in the hope to get his attention on the size of my dick, he always used a cubicle and lock up, is he pretending to be shy or is he quietly masturbating inside? I wish to think so,,,,hard to judge the guy. But everytime I look at him, my dick is itching and get errected easily.  I yearned to bring him home and give him a fuck like never before.

 

Anyone here can help me think of a plan?

you r gay but only like feminine? how he looks? prettier than female or just has slut face..think maybe you should speak to him slowly abt you're feeling and maybe you can get him to fall in love with you also..gd luck

[Guest Needy face here]

you r gay but only like feminine? how he looks? prettier than female or just has slut face..think maybe you should speak to him slowly abt you're feeling and maybe you can get him to fall in love with you also..gd luck

How does slut face looks like? never heard before. 

[cutejack]

I hope the person will read this.

im reading this but which guy is this bcoz i look at every guy's crotch.hahaha

[Guest Fucker]

you r gay but only like feminine? how he looks? prettier than female or just has slut face..think maybe you should speak to him slowly abt you're feeling and maybe you can get him to fall in love with you also..gd luck

He is not fat, around 169/56, specky with sharp ridged nose.  Not sissy, but feminine and soft spoken.  His eyes look quite gayish and dreamy, a little retardedness that hide his intelligence. Thus  can be bullied and feared at the same time.  He is not young but  a shade of boyishness remains in him, probably concealing his actual age.  He doesn’t smile a lot, or probably you can’t tell, whether he is fierce looking or self restraining when he attempted a light courteous grin.  I sense stress or something bothering him.  That is beside the point, but when he did smile, that dimple cheek makes you melt.   He is quite independent in the office, or rather workaholic to make sure he went home on time.  If you managed to converse  with him, his  gay-pitch gave him away, and yet gently polite you nearly ejaculate on the spot. He is confirmed gay and I want him sleeping next to me at night after a hot sex!

[Guest Guest]

He is not fat, around 169/56, specky with sharp ridged nose.  Not sissy, but feminine and soft spoken.  His eyes look quite gayish and dreamy, a little retardedness that hide his intelligence. Thus  can be bullied and feared at the same time.  He is not young but  a shade of boyishness remains in him, probably concealing his actual age.  He doesn’t smile a lot, or probably you can’t tell, whether he is fierce looking or self restraining when he attempted a light courteous grin.  I sense stress or something bothering him.  That is beside the point, but when he did smile, that dimple cheek makes you melt.   He is quite independent in the office, or rather workaholic to make sure he went home on time.  If you managed to converse  with him, his  gay-pitch gave him away, and yet gently polite you nearly ejaculate on the spot. He is confirmed gay and I want him sleeping next to me at night after a hot sex!

 

This thread of yours should be moved to the Flaming Room.

[ZealousZeno]

I dun know about most people, but tbh I like to take things slow and dislike being pounce at as though I am a tool for one sexual urges ... perhaps you need to backtrack a little, less "I want to fuck him' but more "I want to know him". Getting to know one another in terms of personal preference/ interest/ lifestyle is a step many forget to take. Dun just fire the gun without even loading the right bullet, it will just backfire. 

Edited September 7, 2015 by ZealousZeno

[Hitmeup]

Yeah I agree with the person above. It's not just about fucking man. It's more like you like him for who he is;the way he talk walk and stuff. And from what you say, it all just seem so one sided. There is a high chance that you are over thinking. I suggest you ask him if he is gay or straight. Or start off as making friend. Well, yeah, it is going to be hard and slow, but what comes easy won't last and what last doesn't come easy. Take it slowly. Enjoy the process. If you are just looking for a ONS, I suggest you go to a gay club or sauna and not disrupt someone peaceful life (assuming he have no interest in having sex right away).

[Guest linus]

how about ts, are you hot? hahhha

[Guest linus]

disclaimer first, i'm not being rude, i'm just wondering because you sound quite hot

[Sweetie Pie]

Yeah I agree with the person above. It's not just about fucking man. It's more like you like him for who he is;the way he talk walk and stuff. And from what you say, it all just seem so one sided. There is a high chance that you are over thinking. I suggest you ask him if he is gay or straight. Or start off as making friend. Well, yeah, it is going to be hard and slow, but what comes easy won't last and what last doesn't come easy. Take it slowly. Enjoy the process. If you are just looking for a ONS, I suggest you go to a gay club or sauna and not disrupt someone peaceful life (assuming he have no interest in having sex right away).

This is indeed very true. Which is why diamond is very treasured by woman more than they treasure their hushand.

[Guest Joker]

This is indeed very true. Which is why diamond is very treasured by woman more than they treasure their hushand.

Agree with the statement. What come easy won't last, what last won't come easy. If your relationship come easily, highly likely it won't last.

[Guest Devine Reading]

Agree with the statement. What come easy won't last, what last won't come easy. If your relationship come easily, highly likely it won't last.

 

There is also a devine aspect of a relationship, usually being put to test for endurance, trial and eventually come together as one.

 

[Hitmeup]

how about ts, are you hot? hahhha

??? How does what I say makes me hot?

[Cube3]

Google: Gay Courtship?

 

E.g. https://compromisingpositions.wordpress.com/2013/09/04/gay-courting-rituals/

[SinistrousWolf]

Why not just ask him out on a Sunday or even ask him probably a week in advance?

If he agrees, when you two are eating, just straight up say, "Hey, are you gay?"

If he says no, then just say, "Oh I was just wondering."

If he reluctantly admits, then just say, "Oh, I am too."

Obviously, think twice before you do. It'll be pretty obvious to know if he's lying or not, for example if his face starts blushing like hell, stuttering on his words or he evades and tries to change the topic desperately.

Still, good luck.

Edited October 30, 2015 by SinistrousWolf