Got Ppl Lol Meet Up Without Seeing Pic First Meh

[Creevie]

I mean, ppl ask me wanna meet up or not but dowan show pic. I Juz wanna see how the culture is now. U all don't care about seeing what ur prospect looks like? Cannot be just have cock guarantee meet right...? Haha come share share thx.

[Guest UnknownGuy]

Yeah have met some people without knowing what they look like but its kind off exciting to have a bit tension, and I've been lucky i guess cause the guys i met are all quite good looking eventhough its weird that they dont wanna show their pics

[Creevie]

Interesting. Haha so discreet those kind...

Then again I ever met those with pic but in reality face maciam kena lorry langah. Luck is it then.

[wantonmee]

I do not meet without a pic first.

Prefer not to waste each other's time if we can't even get past gate 1

And having said that, there are times when we meet in person and we find we are not compatible and part ways as well.

So yeah, pic is a good gauge but not a guarantee either.

[Creevie]

That's right. At least that's how I use grindr... NPNC lmao. Juz now wanted to swim with someone from here but he doesn't show pic zzz. Told him so be it lor, cheers.

[Guest Guest]

Many years ago I met up with someone after weeks of chatting via sms, who claimed he looked a bit like a certain celebrity, when we finally met, he was quite the opposite but wasn't that bad - not my type though. He also claimed he was single, but when we were having coffee after dinner, his boyfriend who was over 10 years older than him was actually seated a couple tables from us!!!! And all he could say was, 'hope I don't mind' . What a lying bag of shit! Never met up with anyone since.

[Creevie]

We will al come to realize that there r a lot of psychopathic liars around, no matter gay or not. Neurotic. Too comfortable with lying liao. Happy with their own fantasy world.

In grindr there's this boy who keeps using pics that are not his own, but I know who he really is. And he know that I know who he is but he still don't care lol. I mean, he knows that I know his name and workplace some more lor. All happy with their fantasy world. But it's quite the norm now...

[Blacque]

Yeah have met some people without knowing what they look like but its kind off exciting to have a bit tension, and I've been lucky i guess cause the guys i met are all quite good looking eventhough its weird that they dont wanna show their pics

 

I do that sometimes, it's exciting!

[hairy springroll]

I do its ok

Some people are discreet

Got to respect and also

Seeing in person

Much better than fake descriptions or pic

[Guest Guest]

I did with my current boyfriend and he's good looking.

[Creevie]

So heng wor. Good for u haha.

[Guest Ener]

So heng wor. Good for u haha.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Might look good to him but not to u.

[Creevie]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Might look good to him but not to u.

U ok or not? I he said he's handsome, and j said good for him. Ur quote is invalid la haha...

[Guest Guest]

I have met guys without them showing pic first. I think some people is ok but they need to understand and respect those who actually do show their pics. They should not demand to see our pics nor act like we are at their mercy like we are some desperate sluts pining for their cocks. Usually those ultra-discreet guys whom I agreed to meet are those who have impressed me through the way they carry themselves in our chats. That being said, I always meet people in public for a drink. If they refuse and want just instant sex, they will be rejected.

[greysnow]

I did meet up some guys who did not have pics. Sad to say, none of them were goodlooking. lol

 

Nowadays, I don't do that.

[Creevie]

I have met guys without them showing pic first. I think some people is ok but they need to understand and respect those who actually do show their pics. They should not demand to see our pics nor act like we are at their mercy like we are some desperate sluts pining for their cocks. Usually those ultra-discreet guys whom I agreed to meet are those who have impressed me through the way they carry themselves in our chats. That being said, I always meet people in public for a drink. If they refuse and want just instant sex, they will be rejected.

I agree with u. It's the nature of the online gay culture now to be quite blunt though. Everybody's trying to put forth their personality in their profiles. In the end we must manage our expectations, I think.

[iceman76]

yes, prefer to see pic first..at least pleasant looking..

[Guest Constantine]

Prefer to see pic first. But nowaday so many fakes! Worst is those fugly ones pretending to be cute guards officer or army boi. Then see the real is fugly blond bear or some monster. Yuck!!!

[wintersnow]

Prefer to see pic first. But nowaday so many fakes! Worst is those fugly ones pretending to be cute guards officer or army boi. Then see the real is fugly blond bear or some monster. Yuck!!!

 

 

i had met my ex-bf without a pict, sadly he wasnt as lean and cute as i pictured him to be. after we were together, he then told me, i was also not as cute as i thought i would be

 

i always believe in underpromise so i will only say im avg looking and i seriously mean it. i just look like any passerby, avg joe so its entirely up to the other party's perception

 

also met up a another few without pictures before, ok normal looking nothing impressive. although in public, but some will hint for sex and i will pretend i dont understand or dont get their hint and of course that will be the last time they see me.

 

worst experience is those uncle using other ppl's pict and asked me out. only then i found out that it was a completely different person. terrible, it is bad that you used a not so recent pict but i will be totally turned off by people who uses fake pict

 

i can only say those that met really cute guys without pict are lucky. havent got such luck and probably will quit meeting people completely

[Guest low]

Prefer to see pic first. But nowaday so many fakes! Worst is those fugly ones pretending to be cute guards officer or army boi. Then see the real is fugly blond bear or some monster. Yuck!!!

That sports presenter? He thinks very highly of himself and stalks people.

[kingbitch]

 

Prefer to see pic first. But nowaday so many fakes! Worst is those fugly ones pretending to be cute guards officer or army boi. Then see the real is fugly blond bear or some monster. Yuck!!!

 

Same here, met a guy who used a cute army boy photo. He turned out to be a totally diff. guy and facially below average, but thankfully his physique was nice and built (better than the photograph's army twink), so I could still adjust my attention to his body instead of his ugly face.

 

i had met my ex-bf without a pict, sadly he wasnt as lean and cute as i pictured him to be. after we were together, he then told me, i was also not as cute as i thought i would be

 

My ex did look better in pictures, but he turned out fine in person. I ended falling in love with him deeply so that did end well.

 

It probably works the same the other way. I recently met a guy who, for the past few days, messaged me every hour. His lack of interest upon meeting me was very evident. I guess my real look disappointed him D:

Edited November 5, 2015 by kingbitch

[Sagui_32]

I had met someone once.. In his Jackd acct he put there he was 30 something.. We constantly chatting.. He was nice.. Then he ask me if we can meet..i dont usually go out for meet up..with him, i said y not give it a try..we meet up in bugis..boom! His not 30 plus.. I think in his late 40's...

Actually i ready myself for the truth..so we just very civil we had a good chat, eat and just it..

[wintersnow]

It probably works the same the other way. I recently met a guy who, for the past few days, messaged me every hour. His lack of interest upon meeting me was very evident. I guess my real look disappointed him D:

 

i had my share of such experiences too

[Creevie]

This is all very revealing hahaha. Five pics don't even mean anything until u meet up with the real person lmao. Bad breath and childish self-entitled attitude won't even show through the conversations and even pics sometimes. One even borrowed money after the first makan session. Hard not to develop prejudices and cast stereotypes in our minds. But I digress...

Like in the thread about fun after fitness first gym, all these ppl dowan to intro or pic, Juz say meet up. Sian.

[tyan]

Depends on the expectation isn't it? If ur expectation is to meet a good looking guy and then fall in love with him, it will usually turn out bad.

If u meet the guy with the expectation to make 1 more friend, then no matter how he look, i'm sure u should be ok.

[Angelite]

Anyone into meeting without pic??

[Guest Teatree]

Remove that "cute handsome boyish" image from your expectation and you will be fine.  Just go with the intention like meeting a friend or colleague will avoid that disappointment.  If your real intention is to meet for sex, then sauna is a better option.  You can see the person naked from head to toe. 

[mydontay]

there are some risk involved. when i meet guys without pic, i adjusted my expectation.

photo also. too high expectation may lead to disappointment too

[zan89]

Meeting someone without first knowing the face is just like eating the food that looks like poop, you are not sure it is poop, but feel kinda like poop, once you eat, you get fucked up, it is poop, than you regret all you life time.

[Guest Guest]

Meeting someone without first knowing the face is just like eating the food that looks like poop, you are not sure it is poop, but feel kinda like poop, once you eat, you get fucked up, it is poop, than you regret all you life time.

 

Haven't meet you already assumed people are poop. What the fuck are you? Those who meet up with you SUAY AH!

[Creevie]

Haven't meet you already assumed people are poop. What the fuck are you? Those who meet up with you SUAY AH!

You're just bored aren't u. Ppl r talking figuratively but u totally choose to interpret it in such a screw manner.

[Guest Guest]

You're just bored aren't u. Ppl r talking figuratively but u totally choose to interpret it in such a screw manner.

 

Ooh too late to realize you are one of the poops.

[ThinkTank]

I am OK to meet up people without pic because myself does not have pic too but I will frankly tell them that I am not any hunky or gorgeous guy they are expecting, it is fine for just a chat over a coffee/tea... be friend or no friend it is ok for me, no hard feeling after that.

[rocker.band]

Yes, i'm the one, in BW, or in TT1069 chinese, there are plenty profiles do not have pictures.

even after chat in LINE, Wechat, whatsapp etc also no pic provided,

however, i appreciate the ppl who add me or accept my add

whether Pic or without, i will still invite them out for coffee,

see real face better you see in pics.

after drinks, small chat, then thanks him for coming out, u decide yourself whether continue or not,

Pride respect Pride, don't act ego.

Edited November 7, 2015 by rocker.band

[upshot]

If plutonic and nothing at all sexual but the good company you keep from exchanging conversation, I don't see why not?

 

If all you are doing is meet to fuck. As bad sounding as it might be, there are expectation in each and everyone's mind and the last thing you want is a bad meet and everyone ends up uncomfortable over it.

[Guest Anonymous]

Well, this era maybe majority expect pic. But just to share 10+ years ago during IRC era, meet up with guys or girls also can don't need pic most of the time. Just blind date and pure luck

[CamperBoy]

Well, this era maybe majority expect pic. But just to share 10+ years ago during IRC era, meet up with guys or girls also can don't need pic most of the time. Just blind date and pure luck

Yeah and falling in love with the person just after hearing their voices. Ahhh young times.

[Daniellaniel]

save time ... see pic first before meet 

[Guest Bello]

I meet people are not for sex. I am okay to meet people without pics.

I hate asshole gays choose to meet people with pics. Is it very important?

When they saw the pics, the asshole not even want to reply because the pic shown not his type that he asshole gay wanted. There are a lot of asshole gays around.

[Guest Hellogoodbye]

I meet people are not for sex. I am okay to meet people without pics.

I hate asshole gays choose to meet people with pics. Is it very important?

When they saw the pics, the asshole not even want to reply because the pic shown not his type that he asshole gay wanted. There are a lot of asshole gays around.

 

You cant call people asshole just because people dont want to reply or you are not his type. You cannot expect people to meet/chat you just because you want to meet/chat them. It takes one hand to slap but it takes two hands to clap. Learn to accept reality boy     

[angel_dust]

I do meet some guys up without knowing what they look like so long schedule permits and that we are comfortable. As curious as i've always been, i have never asked for someone's pic unless he asked for mine first, then we could probably exchange. As a matter of fact, I've been chatting with some blank profiles on gay apps for up to 2 years even.

 

At the end of the day, i rather meet a nice guy with not-so-ok looks then a good-looking one with shitty personality. No expectation hence no disappointment.

[Guest Chance]

I've met 4 guys without any pic before...

1. Someone younger than me by 4years, lunch together in la restaurant at bugis and I kinda have to pay for the date meal. He's a nice person, quite chatty and told me a lot about his ex. Later that night, he asked if I'd be his bf. I declined politely.

2. An older guy 8 years wiser. Not a talker in real life but WhatsApp seemed motivated. After an hour at the crowded Starbucks, told me he needed to fetch his family to a wedding dinner. Maybe our topic was terrible, that's my only thought. Few hours later, received his message what kind of positions do I like in bed. Bad luck, I've met a pervert.

3. A younger chap 3-4 years younger. Wasn't in the right mood to meet as it was a certain festival. However, he insisted to meet after work and was around my area. I still remembered it was a rainy evening an he asked what's my postal code. So he's coming to fetch me. Find it hard to reject since he persisted. He's presentable and very chatty. Funny, he asked if that was our last meeting. Not wanting to be rude, I replied we could meet subsequently. Met him three more times for dinner and he always wanted to trea. But I don't like having free meal, moreover he would drive me home everytime. Unfortunately, no bf feel. Decided not to waste his time by chatting less with him. He's smart, so would get it.

4. This round I initiated for the meet up due to some miscommunication. 3years younger. We did emails because I don't feel like giving my number. Chatted for about 6months or more. Finally met. Still funny in real person and he never runs out of stories. Presentable. He's quite agitated when sharing certain topic, about someone who's not interested to be his bf yet close to him. Anyway, not into hi tales because I found him to be irritating and pushy.

After meeting 4 guys, I decided to pause and met the 5th picture-less mystery but he's more like a nice senior to me. Not into him as he has a bf. After almost a year, I went to a gathering with my friend. Saw a cute guy and he started messaging me like how's the weather, what do i like to eat and finally if wanna meet. He's my first bf ever since 2years ago <3 oh, I am still in touch with the senior and we brought our bf along for dinners. I would actually like to contact the 3rd guy as a friend and I feel bad for putting the effort previously. Shrug/

[Fiacla]

 Envy

[Guest bleah]

I've met 4 guys without any pic before...

1. Someone younger than me by 4years, lunch together in la restaurant at bugis and I kinda have to pay for the date meal. He's a nice person, quite chatty and told me a lot about his ex. Later that night, he asked if I'd be his bf. I declined politely.

2. An older guy 8 years wiser. Not a talker in real life but WhatsApp seemed motivated. After an hour at the crowded Starbucks, told me he needed to fetch his family to a wedding dinner. Maybe our topic was terrible, that's my only thought. Few hours later, received his message what kind of positions do I like in bed. Bad luck, I've met a pervert.

3. A younger chap 3-4 years younger. Wasn't in the right mood to meet as it was a certain festival. However, he insisted to meet after work and was around my area. I still remembered it was a rainy evening an he asked what's my postal code. So he's coming to fetch me. Find it hard to reject since he persisted. He's presentable and very chatty. Funny, he asked if that was our last meeting. Not wanting to be rude, I replied we could meet subsequently. Met him three more times for dinner and he always wanted to trea. But I don't like having free meal, moreover he would drive me home everytime. Unfortunately, no bf feel. Decided not to waste his time by chatting less with him. He's smart, so would get it.

4. This round I initiated for the meet up due to some miscommunication. 3years younger. We did emails because I don't feel like giving my number. Chatted for about 6months or more. Finally met. Still funny in real person and he never runs out of stories. Presentable. He's quite agitated when sharing certain topic, about someone who's not interested to be his bf yet close to him. Anyway, not into hi tales because I found him to be irritating and pushy.

After meeting 4 guys, I decided to pause and met the 5th picture-less mystery but he's more like a nice senior to me. Not into him as he has a bf. After almost a year, I went to a gathering with my friend. Saw a cute guy and he started messaging me like how's the weather, what do i like to eat and finally if wanna meet. He's my first bf ever since 2years ago <3 oh, I am still in touch with the senior and we brought our bf along for dinners. I would actually like to contact the 3rd guy as a friend and I feel bad for putting the effort previously. Shrug/

 

typical stinkoporean gay male who has way too many high expectations of the ideal "boyfriend", tsk.

 

Back to topic, I will only meet guys who has shown their clear face pic and a full view body pic. I got tricked a few times because of the angle they took the pic, they turned out to be really chubby or fat. Not trying to be nasty but I only like slim guys. I even put it in my profile but these nasty blind cunts refuse to accept reality.

[teatree]

Majority are not comfortable sending face pics.  Just scroll up and look, 1 or 2 maybe.

 

Important is, intention of meeting up must be clear to both parties.  Ranging from just friends, sex, LTR, travel buddies etc..

[Guest Chance]

Envy

Please don't. I'm sure you deserve someone as much as the other person looking deep into your eyes.

typical stinkoporean gay male who has way too many high expectations of the ideal "boyfriend", tsk.

Back to topic, I will only meet guys who has shown their clear face pic and a full view body pic. I got tricked a few times because of the angle they took the pic, they turned out to be really chubby or fat. Not trying to be nasty but I only like slim guys. I even put it in my profile but these nasty blind cunts refuse to accept reality.

Look who's the typical stinkagpore gay demanding for a clear view of face and full body view. Choosing Mr. Manhunt? Lol you so stupid believing in photoshopped images. 99% cheated with angle and filter. That's why I dont bother with photos and do you think really think handsome gays believe in finding a trustworthy bf through such methods. Those wanting to get the real deal must work hard. The good ones are mostly taken up. Leaving those cherrypickers like yourself demanding this and that, together with others who aren't lowering their expectations.

Wake up. Look at yourself hard in the mirror and ask why haven't you found a bf yet. So many people I've met think too highly of themselves. Sometimes I don't know to laugh or pity their state of mind...

[Driftwood]

got. me.

[wintersnow]

Please don't. I'm sure you deserve someone as much as the other person looking deep into your eyes.

Look who's the typical stinkagpore gay demanding for a clear view of face and full body view. Choosing Mr. Manhunt? Lol you so stupid believing in photoshopped images. 99% cheated with angle and filter. That's why I dont bother with photos and do you think really think handsome gays believe in finding a trustworthy bf through such methods. Those wanting to get the real deal must work hard. The good ones are mostly taken up. Leaving those cherrypickers like yourself demanding this and that, together with others who aren't lowering their expectations.

Wake up. Look at yourself hard in the mirror and ask why haven't you found a bf yet. So many people I've met think too highly of themselves. Sometimes I don't know to laugh or pity their state of mind...

for myself, i dont think i think too highly about myself. probably lack of gays around me to socialise with and hence lowered the chance of getting a bf

 

i have to share that sometimes it is not easy to "work hard". gays cant go to match making companies or very openly ask people to intro their friends (unless they are gay). at best is still those apps which of course works better if you are looking for sex.

[greysnow]

My friends say there are indeed cute guys who hide behind pictureless profiles but I still haven met one yet. I mean, if you are good looking / cute, you should have no qualms about putting your pictures on jack'd/grindr. No matter how discreet you want to be, I always feel that by showing your pictures to the other party, it is a form of sincerity and respect. I'd want to put a face to whoever I am chatting with and not some pictures of nipples or animals.

 

And I noticed most guys who have their topless pictures as their profile pictures, usually aren't very good looking. At least, that's my observation after talking to a few of them. 

Edited November 8, 2015 by greysnow

[iamziz]

I have met many without face pics including guests and members in BW. I meet people socially and not for a fuck. Even if I plan to meet for a fuck, I don't promise anything - with or without face pics.