iamziz Posted November 13, 2015 Report Share Posted November 13, 2015 How Long Is A Blow Job Supposed To Last? The last guy I gave a blow job to made it an event. I mean, it lasted almost an hour. He asked me to stop several times because he was hitting his threshold. I didn’t really want to–because, you know, it’s a JOB and I wanted to be done at that point–but for whatever reason I went along with it. The next day my jaw hurt. Bad. I could barely eat, and I was kind of scared to ever give a blowjob again. I thought I would have to go to the hospital or the dentist or something. One friend told me that this guy was scum–no one is supposed to make you give head for more than 10 minutes. They should come already, or they are assholes. Another friend told me I could just be bad at blow jobs. Jesus. So, I wasn’t sure what else to do so I sent a mass text out to like, 20 of my closest friends asking how long the ideal blowjob was supposed to last. My gut told me 10 minutes, but, obviously as this situation shows, I don’t know anything. My first response was from an extremely attractive female friend of mine. She’s had many long-term boyfriends. She said 3-5 minutes. “Any longer and they are drunk or you don’t know what to do.” Another female friend says: 12 minutes. “I am REALLY GOOD though.” Someone else (an attractive female) responded, “I don’t know, I never give them.” A guy friend responded next. He said he was 38 so it was longer than younger guys. 15 minutes. (And then proceeded to grill me about my oral techniques and whether he’d ever experience them). At this point I feel really ugly, and moronic. WTF is wrong with me? Apparently guys come way fast with hot girls that know how to do everything perfectly and I’m in some other dimension, sucking (not literally, that would be too easy). I consulted Google to see if I was on crack. Most of what I found on forums said 5-15 minutes. A bro on a forum said, “The longest I’ve gotten was about 2 1/2hrs. I was drunk she wasn’t very good at it so it took awhile.” Another guy countered: “I don’t ever orgasm through oral sex. It feels good but the stimulation isn’t enough to come.” Um. WAHT. Have I been fed lies for the last 10 years of my life that this is the Best Thing In The World to guys? Maybe. My male gay friend chimes in: “Great question. A dissertation could be written. Depends on so many factors. As a single sexual event? Leading up to sex? How many drinks has he had? How familiar are you with him? At what point can it become a hand job? At what point is he actually trying to come or just drawing it out because it feels good?” Random douchebag I know responds: “As long as it takes.” Straight male friend says: “Five minutes if they are good, fifteen minutes if they are amazing.” Male friend says: “The best ones I’ve received have lasted an hour.” Another male friend: “8 minutes.” My most trusted female friend, as far as things of this nature go, answered my question: “IDK, like 20 minutes? Ugh. Do you want to go out Saturday?” Ex says: “You come over and I’ll time you.” Another gay male friend says: “Can take awhile—but I think after 20 mins it gets really old. However, one guy took forever because he was really selfish. I found it tiring but also hot. It depends on whether you enjoy ‘servicing’ that much.“ Female friend: “My boyfriend takes half an hour to an hour.” Female friend: “20 seconds to 2 hours.” Female friend: “10-15 is average but I can’t get my current boyfriend to come at all from oral sex.” My ex responded: “Whatever you did was perfect.” Another friend says: “A guy can get faster and faster the more comfortable he is with someone. A lot of times I’ve been with guys that can’t come or it’s very hard. As they got to know me more and became more comfortable they became faster at coming.” My most gorgeous male friend says : “At least 20 minutes. Less and she’s selfish. Not into it.” Still feel unsure whether my entire sex life has been a lie. I feel very depressed now. I don’t want to be timed. I just want to have fun. Is it bad oral sex if you don’t come in the first five minutes? Are you a huge asshole of a person if you don’t come in the first 20? How similar is it to women who can’t particularly control their ability to orgasm—and that’s not really the point of sex (for me at least) anyways? Source: http://thoughtcatalog.com/alexis-caputo/2013/08/how-long-is-a-blow-job-supposed-to-last/?utm_content=bufferd61f5&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 13, 2015 Report Share Posted November 13, 2015 Answer: it depends on the sucker's skillfulness and how horny the suckee is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xiandarkthorne Posted November 13, 2015 Report Share Posted November 13, 2015 (edited) Don't feel bad about your performance. There is NO clinical rule about how long a bj should last. Everything depends on the individual. Some men get high very quickly, others have to build up to it. But if someone purposely makes you prolong it for two hours by asking you to stop every time he feels like he's going to cum, then he's a selfish bastard and he is just treating you like a sex toy.I am one of those people who build up to it slowly and I normally last at least 15-20 minutes. I make it a point to check to see if my partner is OK,and tell him what to do if he doesn't want to stop but wants me to cum more quickly.That has occasionally worked against me, however. ☺ There have been a few guys who wanted me to hold back for as long as possible but wouldn't stop the action and it was a real struggle not to let go. I guess they just enjoyed the sight (and sound) of me trying to hold back while they went on. But it did feel much much better and I cummed more powerfully when I tried to please them and hold back for half an hour at least.So my advice to you is to find someone who appreciates your efforts and isn't selfish about turning a mutually pleasurable experience into hard work. The fault in the case you described isn't yours. Edited November 13, 2015 by xiandarkthorne Old and experienced but always ready for naughty fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paulsyd Posted November 13, 2015 Report Share Posted November 13, 2015 I ever oral a guy for more than 7 hours! Of coz in between uv small break like 2-5 mins. And he cum 7 times! All in my mouth! So I think just suck as both of u feel like, is really none of the others" business. And my mouth still in gd working condition the next day! Just a bit sore! Lolz Stormfire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kys0n Posted November 13, 2015 Report Share Posted November 13, 2015 I've had guys who wanted to suck me for over an hour. Pretty insane. It was thoroughly enjoyable though and I had to stop them when I was climaxing to break for a minute or so. But they were the ones who wanted to keep sucking...so I guess at the end of the day there's no magic number to it but what both guys like and want! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 14, 2015 Report Share Posted November 14, 2015 As for me ....hmmmm....... as long as he wants to suck and lick my banana and rambutan...... i just relax and when he is ready i just aim and shoot all my thick cum to him to savour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 14, 2015 Report Share Posted November 14, 2015 I've had guys who wanted to suck me for over an hour. Pretty insane. It was thoroughly enjoyable though and I had to stop them when I was climaxing to break for a minute or so. But they were the ones who wanted to keep sucking...so I guess at the end of the day there's no magic number to it but what both guys like and want!CORRECTION - only as long as the giver wants to do it. Receiver can only inspire the giver but cannot force. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 14, 2015 Report Share Posted November 14, 2015 I don't like to suck. It's only foreplay to get him hard enough to stick it into my other end.So it's only 1 to 5 minutes at most.I don't have sensitive nerves in my mouth to enjoy his probing that's why it's a chore for me. It's all one sided and selfish act.It's unlike anal sex where I get stimulated as much as he's having his fun probing my insides.He ram into me and I responded, he pounded me harder,I go wilder.If he's only interested in oral sex till orgasm, I'll stop the sex.I've come across guys who ram into me to reach orgasm and I nearly choked with tears flowing out of my eyes. I even vomited before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 My man loves to suck me slowly and hold when he sensed I was reaching climax and then suck again. This could go on for hours and he never gets tired. Once he said he wanted to suck me the whole night and that night he had my cock in his mouth the entire night even when I atas asleep n soft. He wld suck it to make me hard and then just hold it in his mouth. When I woke up in the morning, I was hard inside his mouth and he actually fell asleep! Well, he woke up when he felt my cock throbbing inside his mouth and before Long I exploded inside his mouth... There was so much cum it flooded his mouth and dripped out of his mouth.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 I lose interest easily so 5 minutes is all I need to enjoy a sausage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chbbtop Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 My man loves to suck me slowly and hold when he sensed I was reaching climax and then suck again. This could go on for hours and he never gets tired. Once he said he wanted to suck me the whole night and that night he had my cock in his mouth the entire night even when I atas asleep n soft. He wld suck it to make me hard and then just hold it in his mouth. When I woke up in the morning, I was hard inside his mouth and he actually fell asleep! Well, he woke up when he felt my cock throbbing inside his mouth and before Long I exploded inside his mouth... There was so much cum it flooded his mouth and dripped out of his mouth.... Can i borrow your man ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 Can i borrow your man ?Can... In exchange for me fucking ur ass while he sucks you. I am sure Yiu will feel nice so win win for everyone. Interested? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest big baby Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 My man loves to suck me slowly and hold when he sensed I was reaching climax and then suck again. This could go on for hours and he never gets tired. Once he said he wanted to suck me the whole night and that night he had my cock in his mouth the entire night even when I atas asleep n soft. He wld suck it to make me hard and then just hold it in his mouth. When I woke up in the morning, I was hard inside his mouth and he actually fell asleep! Well, he woke up when he felt my cock throbbing inside his mouth and before Long I exploded inside his mouth... There was so much cum it flooded his mouth and dripped out of his mouth.... I hope you won't wake up one morning and become an eunuch. You reminded me of a foreign news report of a single father who feed his cock to his crying baby. The baby went to sleep with his cock in his mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 I hope you won't wake up one morning and become an eunuch. You reminded me of a foreign news report of a single father who feed his cock to his crying baby. The baby went to sleep with his cock in his mouth.That's a repulsive comparison.... I think the news is a farmer feeding his cock to a young baby sheep and the suction from this baby sheep was too great for him to bear ! At least he lost his cock while climaxing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Need thick cums Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 The most disappointing part is after sucking for hours, only a few drops of cums shoot out. Working so hard but not well rewarded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 Hahahahaa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 15, 2015 Report Share Posted November 15, 2015 The most disappointing part is after sucking for hours, only a few drops of cums shoot out. Working so hard but not well rewarded.Omg.. You sound so much with my ex! We broke up because of this complain! Are you Sean Txxx? If you are, now you know I am no difference to other suckees! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Last how long? Until the guy cum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest O_o Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 My bf kinda think mine is too big to suck Is that possible, because his jewel is almost half of mine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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