BranLim Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 (edited) To me, looks are just secondary. If you look decent enough as in keep yourself clean and don't look like ah pek who never wash himself for days and not excessively fat or muscled, i think is fine. Cute or handsome is overrrated.Most importantly is that when I see the guy, I must be able to feel like I know you very well. It's all down to the gut feeling and chemistry as well as there's a common interest. In fact normal people look for similarity instead of differences just so that the two person can communicate. Edited October 5, 2012 by BranLim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bumfuzzled Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 I want a guy who is 1. Taller 2. Older 3. Clean 4. Possessively caring It will be perfect if he is witty/smart too. haha.. but I guess that is the some of the rarer attribute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 I want a guy who is 1. Taller 2. Older 3. Clean 4. Possessively caringIt will be perfect if he is witty/smart too. haha.. but I guess that is the some of the rarer attribute.Life is sometimes funny, what you want and what you get may sometimes be the opposite. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bumfuzzled Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 Life is sometimes funny, what you want and what you get may sometimes be the opposite.Perhaps it is precisely because you cant, get that's why you will want it. lolol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gongtang Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 1. manly2. get along well with me3. clean and honestso simple, yet im still single. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
findinghappiness Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 someone who genuinely likes you for who you are. fenghou, teentitans, snowbeef and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wahwahboi Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 I guess our qualities of choosing a partner will change over time, so I guess for now, mine's quite simple: decent looking, healthy, and be able to commit in a long distance relationship! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 this is turning into a self-advertising thread lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 i will ask my bf to stop grindr and sauna. will bring him travel the world. which i can afford. but cant find the right candidate yet. sigh..and of couse grooming session . ltr 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiSquare Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 Agree! Like! Quote ~Say also Never Listen, Listen also Never Understand, Never Understand also Never Ask, Ask also Never Do, Do also Do Wrongly, Do Wrongly also Never Admit, Admit also Never Correct, Correct also Not Happy, Not Happy also Never Say~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiSquare Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 I think u just hv to be comfortable with him for a start. And i think physical qualities plays a part. Everyone do hv their unique preference for looks. Some more demanding, the rest more easy going. For me, i just like someone who is easygoing positive and street smart. And of course a sense of direction in life. Si beh sian... So many years bo lang ai wah... U guys are missing the good stuff man! Lol!!! Quote ~Say also Never Listen, Listen also Never Understand, Never Understand also Never Ask, Ask also Never Do, Do also Do Wrongly, Do Wrongly also Never Admit, Admit also Never Correct, Correct also Not Happy, Not Happy also Never Say~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 this is turning into a self-advertising thread lolson, you look like one of the teletubbies with your antenna-like hair.you definitely r boyfriend material not.daddy gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gongtang Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 son, you look like one of the teletubbies with your antenna-like hair.you definitely r boyfriend material not.daddy gayhey, dont be so...... rude ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teentitans Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 someone who genuinely likes you for who you are.sums it all. the times where you fall for someone most unexpected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astroboy1985 Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 someone who loves me more than I do ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lausanne Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 People say no one is perfect. The only two things I ask of a partner are integrity and commitment. Those two have to be perfect - and these are things everyone is capable to be perfect in. It doesn't matter if my partner is not perfect is anything else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted October 10, 2012 Report Share Posted October 10, 2012 Someone who communicates and when things go wrong, instead of running away or drops the towel, both, yes both will do all what they can to salvage the relationship - not only one person. Rivrics 1 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azorius Posted October 11, 2012 Report Share Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) dtwl Edited July 11, 2015 by Azorius Quote My amateur video links: http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=30971&p=618776 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jiang2046 Posted October 11, 2012 Report Share Posted October 11, 2012 在香港时认识一位男生虽然萍水相逢，但他肯花时间到处去玩。本来只是纯友谊到后来感觉有些喜欢他了。我想热心友善的男生是我将来找对象考虑的特质之一。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c0ldFire Posted October 11, 2012 Report Share Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) some one whom had already seen n tried everything in the gay scene, and is ready to appreciate the serenity and simple side of life..simple apartment, doing house chores together, going supermarket to buy daily grocceries together, reading newspaper at the balcony while i play with my ipad.. etc etc .. just enjoying each others company.. without complaining it being boring..basically about leading a life together, without all those glittering glamorous gay life items..just he, me and our life Edited October 11, 2012 by c0ldFire Zackling and partnership 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted October 11, 2012 Report Share Posted October 11, 2012 Honestly, I don't really have any particular qualities when it comes to choosing a bf. I just want to interact with him and find out if I am able to connect with him, be it sex, chatting, interactions, etc. I want to be able to feel comfortable with him and he with me. No pretense and no games, just want to enjoy each others' company. Everything else we can work out later.So far, I found one and I am happy. Jabez and Zackling 2 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paranurse Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 Honestly..Based on experience its looks and built..Maybe im wrong? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GUEST Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 6 C if u stay in singapore to get yr Mr Right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 Not this kind of stupid thread again pls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 Mister right? A good attitude and comparability. Looks and built are for more sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 Hmmm let's see: Must have a gorgeous face (so gorgeous that you'll be refused entry into a country because you're too hot)Perfect body (with minimal body fat, great arms and legs, rocking hard torso/back, a nice bubble butt and a handsome 9inch penis)A lot of moolah (I'm not very picky with this one - will be good if he's comparable to the prince of Brunei) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 he must earn more than LHL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted April 27, 2013 Report Share Posted April 27, 2013 No point answering because they are all taken. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cereal Posted April 28, 2013 Report Share Posted April 28, 2013 Well groomed daddy type. 45yo ++ caring and loving. Must still have hair above his head, not too fat/thin. Nice facial stubble a plus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 28, 2013 Report Share Posted April 28, 2013 Well groomed daddy type. 45yo ++ caring and loving. Must still have hair above his head, not too fat/thin. Nice facial stubble a plus. where do you find daddy type who are caring and loving? how and where do you look for them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cereal Posted April 28, 2013 Report Share Posted April 28, 2013 where do you find daddy type who are caring and loving? how and where do you look for them?I have already found one and I'm happy cohabitating with him. He found me on gayromeo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 It's not an easy task for find dates so easily in this circle,we have no dating agency,(usually)no friends to turn to, for them to introduce us to the 'right one'we can't really find one in our workplace/school etc ; possibly due to inconvenience or that it's just too limitedso how do we exactly go about doing so? I know most of you go for the clubs etcIf not the second resort would be to look at dating applicationsif not you'll turn to forums like theseor even chatrooms But is there a way to skip all these cliche applications and clubs to meet someone whom we can last for perhaps a few years?As we all know, not everyone in this forum is attachedAnd most single ones out there are probably looking for the right one Is there any ways where we can skip the part where we have to "advertise" ourselves on dating sites(trevvy)/dating apps (jack'd/grindr) etc and just meet someone whom we can share a few years of joy together? What do you think should be the right way to look for the right one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1, 2014 Report Share Posted July 1, 2014 Hi Guys, What are your requirements/expectations of your ideal boyfriend/partner ? Will you consider a guy with slightly (not so much) effeminate mannerisms and behavior? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Thirsty Posted July 1, 2014 Report Share Posted July 1, 2014 We should not be overly idealistic or set too high an expectation from others. Look at ourselves in the mirror first and set that as your benchmark or below it. Which means, if you are a 1 litre empty bottle, don't ask for more than 1 litre of water. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted July 1, 2014 Report Share Posted July 1, 2014 Expectations are funny. I always ended up liking people whom I didn't thought I'd like. Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1, 2014 Report Share Posted July 1, 2014 What a superficial and materialistic world we live in. :'( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grey_line Posted July 2, 2014 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 I would say someone that is able to connect with me,when you meet someone, its that one 'click' that you know you two share a bond. Someone that i can trust and comfortable being my true self and sense of security. Living in this realistic and practical society, a touch of romantic and wit really elevates the experience and wild imagination to escape from reality with me. Appearance is like cake topping, who doesn't fancy a nice looking cake? have to admit good looking guys make me wet >.< , but ultimately its the flavour that matters in long run =). snowbeef 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest heytere Posted July 2, 2014 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 First impression counts. Sometimes the other party interests you so much at first sight and you know it when you have butterflies in your stomach. Be it what kind of qualities he possess, you must be able to appreciate not all but at least most of them. And definitely both his looks and physique should appeal to you, but it's really the inner beauty (qualities such as faithful, trusting, kind, loving etc.) of the person that will keep the relationship strong and lasting. =D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 6, 2014 Report Share Posted July 6, 2014 an ideal bf should be understanding, sexy, humorous and loving Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guy Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 beside looks how about yr room? IF one works as a interior designer and his room looks like shit , will u engage him to become yr designer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest snowball Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 U don't need to be good look but pleasant will do, that is the first impression when human make eye contact, follow by your characters, you can't deny that people like beatuiful things, include beatuiful heart, agree? when you got the look and character that make people comfortable, you would have more benifit than others, they will want to know you more, as a friend or lover, human do judge, in their own way and belief. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guester Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 No point answering because they are all taken. Clearly you don't look around or you look but don't see. There are so many awesome guys who are single, one wonders why they remain single for so long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 Clearly you don't look around or you look but don't see. There are so many awesome guys who are single, one wonders why they remain single for so long.Becos they dont want to get hurt again or not ready for a new rsAgree, there are alot of eligible bachelors ard who are handsome and single Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 beside looks how about yr room? IF one works as a interior designer and his room looks like shit , will u engage him to become yr designer?This reminds me of when I wanted to build my house, I was invited to the architect's house. He showed me around his house and he lost the deal! I could not believe an architect would live in such a ugly house! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guy Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 wonder wat did u see at yr architect house? that cause the unsuccessful deal.Thought is only best that they did up their room or house as a model show room for their clients to view? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 13, 2014 Report Share Posted October 13, 2014 wonder wat did u see at yr architect house? that cause the unsuccessful deal.Thought is only best that they did up their room or house as a model show room for their clients to view?It was simply an unimpressive looking semi-d and worst, the inside decor is so simple that you would not have guessed it was done by an interior designer. I have been to many show places and this one didn't look like a show place at all. I ended up getting someone to design only the exterior and I did the interior on my own. Anyway, we are off topic......apology.Qualities I look for in a boyfriend:- no need to have 6-pecks and swimmer's chest but prefer him to be on the lean side with at least a firm body- prefer that he has a full head of hair (sorry to the early balding guys......)- communicative as in not keeping happiness and sadness and jealousy inside him until can explode type- I know I am shallow.....I like him to have the 5 Cs - car, club, condo, credit card and cash......don't want to have to support him- easy going guy, not fuss about who takes charge and don't mind taking charge when called for, don't bicker over small things...- lastly a flexi, as I am too, so I like to fuck him as much as I like him to fuck me..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2014 Report Share Posted October 13, 2014 but room image does tell a person character and cleanliness..Not only judging by one person looks , dressing neatly and manners are equally impt too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tetz Posted October 13, 2014 Report Share Posted October 13, 2014 Intellectual yet love simple fun so that we don't run of things to say or do; yet sometimes we don't need to say much and it's understood in our moments of quiet personal spaces. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted October 13, 2014 Report Share Posted October 13, 2014 The person that i love must love meNothing else matters. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kkennyy Posted October 13, 2014 Report Share Posted October 13, 2014 Must be FAITHFUL to each other... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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