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7 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

 

I am a guest :redface:

 

Let me know where to find those handsome 40s yo men. Love to see them in executive wear. I can slowly remove the buttons on his shirt one by one, then unbuckle his belt and finally unzip that tight pants to reveal the white underwear inside. Hug him so tightly forever. No need to have sex. That's my dark fantasy. Sounds weird but that's me.

Did you try cali gym?

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9 hours ago, Guest Fatty said:

Did you try cali gym?

 

Cancelled my FF gym membership because too ex :(

 

Not possible to just randomly chat with any men I see too, they might be straights and find it too offensive.

 

15 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

Wrinkled forehead at early 40s is not consider aging gracefully. I am not sure wrinkles should appear at what age if aging gracefully but i am sure early 40s is not lol

 

Maybe you duno what is called sexy face with manly wrinkled forehead :mellow: Not talking about just any joe on the streets but angel face. Those 40s without wrinkles are just too weird and not manly enough to show their accumulated years of sex skills. :redface:

 

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6 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

Maybe you duno what is called sexy face with manly wrinkled forehead :mellow: Not talking about just any joe on the streets but angel face. Those 40s without wrinkles are just too weird and not manly enough to show their accumulated years of sex skills. :redface:

You seem to indicate lots of sex equals lots of wrinkles lol. As for the weird part is only when you know their age but dont look so old. How a person age gracefully is normally depends on genes and what we eat. When a person lacks the proper nutrition, they will age faster than others, more wrinkles and deeper wrinkles, saggy skin at an earlier age. To avoid aging fast, let us eat healthy food as early as possible before its too late.

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10 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

 

Cancelled my FF gym membership because too ex :(

 

Not possible to just randomly chat with any men I see too, they might be straights and find it too offensive.

 

 

Maybe you duno what is called sexy face with manly wrinkled forehead :mellow: Not talking about just any joe on the streets but angel face. Those 40s without wrinkles are just too weird and not manly enough to show their accumulated years of sex skills. :redface:

 

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Kevin is so fine!

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On ‎17‎/‎6‎/‎2016 at 4:59 PM, Guest :-( said:

 

Cancelled my FF gym membership because too ex :(

 

Not possible to just randomly chat with any men I see too, they might be straights and find it too offensive.

 

 

Maybe you duno what is called sexy face with manly wrinkled forehead :mellow: Not talking about just any joe on the streets but angel face. Those 40s without wrinkles are just too weird and not manly enough to show their accumulated years of sex skills. :redface:

 

Although I m not sure is there a "tiff" here
I felt men at 40s surely have wrinkles and it s indeed sexy

Also , Japanese younger men have a tendency to envy their older colleagues w wrinkles etc

in fact they wish to reach that stage Fast

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1 hour ago, lovehandle said:

Although I m not sure is there a "tiff" here
I felt men at 40s surely have wrinkles and it s indeed sexy

Also , Japanese younger men have a tendency to envy their older colleagues w wrinkles etc

in fact they wish to reach that stage Fast

I think most gays in singapore still like to look younger and wrinkles free. I found that some of those younger people even in their 20s already have some wrinkles. Singapore is just too stressful place.

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2 minutes ago, yoyo74 said:

I think most gays in singapore still like to look younger and wrinkles free. I found that some of those younger people even in their 20s already have some wrinkles. Singapore is just too stressful place.

Yes no doubt! V v stressful

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There is also another natural way to avoid wrinkles. Think of how botox works. Botox is inserted into ones face so that the face muscles can relax therefore wrinkles will be visibly reduced. If you dont stress out your face muscle in the first place, there wont be a need for botox.

Try to avoid extreme emotion like too angry, too sad, too happy etc. This actually only works on people with very high EQ and is not easy for everyone. Try to stay expressionless as long as possible. Be very mindful of your facial expression even when you are happy, sad or angry. Do not laugh as it will make your face skin loose. When going to take a photo do not smile too hard. Just smile mildly or be expressionless to look cool. Do not look up with your eye balls as it will naturally push up your forehead skin and have wrinkles. If you need to look up, move your entire head up instead. Do not let anger and sadness get into you. Anger and sadness not only strain your face muscles, it also strain some parts of your body organ according to some TCM experts. In summary try to look as cool as possible without expression and dont emo

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15 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

There is also another natural way to avoid wrinkles. Think of how botox works. Botox is inserted into ones face so that the face muscles can relax therefore wrinkles will be visibly reduced. If you dont stress out your face muscle in the first place, there wont be a need for botox.

Try to avoid extreme emotion like too angry, too sad, too happy etc. This actually only works on people with very high EQ and is not easy for everyone. Try to stay expressionless as long as possible. Be very mindful of your facial expression even when you are happy, sad or angry. Do not laugh as it will make your face skin loose. When going to take a photo do not smile too hard. Just smile mildly or be expressionless to look cool. Do not look up with your eye balls as it will naturally push up your forehead skin and have wrinkles. If you need to look up, move your entire head up instead. Do not let anger and sadness get into you. Anger and sadness not only strain your face muscles, it also strain some parts of your body organ according to some TCM experts. In summary try to look as cool as possible without expression and dont emo

 Laugh or smile and you get wrinkles, don't laugh and don't smile makes you so not approachable...... I choose wrinkles. Life without laughter and smiles is.... Unthinkable and not maintainable

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On Wednesday, June 15, 2016 at 11:02 PM, Guest Same as you said:

Wow... That's me! I am pleasantly surprised to find someone else like me. I took up a vigorous ball game only at 57 and now play 4 times a week to keep fit. How regular is your sex... With someone else or just jerk off? 

always with someone and usually simple like rubbing cock in btween thigh on back and frontal. also hand job with body massage, etc.. regular basis so sometime partner not special.. i eject only half to one month once.  MUST have regular erections daily. in fact my morning wood comes on its own every morning.

 

On Wednesday, June 15, 2016 at 1:56 AM, Guest bath said:

 

Why must end warm baths with cold water?

its been a habit for the purpose of removing heatiness and the cock is more sensitive with that.  i actually arrange icy cold soak but i say cold water to make it simple. cock turns harder and firmer and more enduring.

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12 hours ago, freeseme said:

 Laugh or smile and you get wrinkles, don't laugh and don't smile makes you so not approachable...... I choose wrinkles. Life without laughter and smiles is.... Unthinkable and not maintainable

Smile mildly and not so hard still look approachable. You can still be happy without laughing too hard or smiling too hard. I myself also unable to be totally expressionless but when i am mindful of my facial expression, i will be able to calm down my face muscle faster hence lessen the damage done. Its not easy as i say so earlier. Also another thing when eating we need to eat small mouthful rather than big mouthful. When you stuff too much food in your mouth when eating too fast, you expand your face and thus loosening the face skin and affect wrinkles on the face too. Eating slowly also helps in digestion.

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5 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

Smile mildly and not so hard still look approachable. You can still be happy without laughing too hard or smiling too hard. I myself also unable to be totally expressionless but when i am mindful of my facial expression, i will be able to calm down my face muscle faster hence lessen the damage done. Its not easy as i say so earlier. Also another thing when eating we need to eat small mouthful rather than big mouthful. When you stuff too much food in your mouth when eating too fast, you expand your face and thus loosening the face skin and affect wrinkles on the face too. Eating slowly also helps in digestion.

 

Chewing slowly actually helps in slowing down the way you eat, and you feel fuller faster but it also makes you appreciate the flavours more. 

 

Anyway, looking good requires a lot of effort. It does not happen naturally. 

Love. 

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5 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

Smile mildly and not so hard still look approachable. You can still be happy without laughing too hard or smiling too hard. I myself also unable to be totally expressionless but when i am mindful of my facial expression, i will be able to calm down my face muscle faster hence lessen the damage done. Its not easy as i say so earlier. Also another thing when eating we need to eat small mouthful rather than big mouthful. When you stuff too much food in your mouth when eating too fast, you expand your face and thus loosening the face skin and affect wrinkles on the face too. Eating slowly also helps in digestion.

 

If someone eats so fast that the muscles of the face get overstretched that person won't last long.  Slow and thorough chewing of the food is very helpful for digestion. Breathing slow and deep helps longevity, as does having a flexible body from smart stretching. Face stays younger by learning to relax its muscles, and a slight smile helps too.  If this is not enough, botox is quite effective if applied correctly. 

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On 6/18/2016 at 7:35 PM, lovehandle said:

Although I m not sure is there a "tiff" here
I felt men at 40s surely have wrinkles and it s indeed sexy

Also , Japanese younger men have a tendency to envy their older colleagues w wrinkles etc

in fact they wish to reach that stage Fast

 

 

Japanese men having some nice wrinkles in hot executive suit are so hot! Wanna dry hump them and kiss the lips till they're dry. Love seeing their sexy moaning face.

 

Best that people look around their age. Some mid 20s look like late 30s, really quite sad for them. Few 40s looking around late 20s. Rare to see >50s to appear like early 30s.

 

On 6/18/2016 at 9:54 PM, yoyo74 said:

There is also another natural way to avoid wrinkles. Think of how botox works. Botox is inserted into ones face so that the face muscles can relax therefore wrinkles will be visibly reduced. If you dont stress out your face muscle in the first place, there wont be a need for botox.

Try to avoid extreme emotion like too angry, too sad, too happy etc. This actually only works on people with very high EQ and is not easy for everyone. Try to stay expressionless as long as possible. Be very mindful of your facial expression even when you are happy, sad or angry. Do not laugh as it will make your face skin loose. When going to take a photo do not smile too hard. Just smile mildly or be expressionless to look cool. Do not look up with your eye balls as it will naturally push up your forehead skin and have wrinkles. If you need to look up, move your entire head up instead. Do not let anger and sadness get into you. Anger and sadness not only strain your face muscles, it also strain some parts of your body organ according to some TCM experts. In summary try to look as cool as possible without expression and dont emo

 

How to live like that :o When a joke is really funny, everyone would laugh until cannot. Even the person with the highest IQ or EQ isn't able to control unless he is such a cold and emotionless person

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I'm 41 and I am NOT fit by any gay standards but I still get attention. I don't generally stand out in a crowd. I'm an average joe but I still get approached.

 

It's true. It's confidence. I know who I am, what I am, what I want and how to get it. I act my age and I dress my age. I've also been told that my 'take charge' and dominant personality is attractive to some. And I generally don't give a rat's ass as to what nay-sayers say about my built or body.

 

The only problem is that I'm very old school and old fashioned. Monogamy, happily-ever-after still appeal to me. Unfortunately, that's hard to come by these days.

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2 hours ago, lonelyglobe said:

but is also hard to come by any manly malay in the gay scene, I think they are much more closeted compare to other races, perhaps due to religion...

That I cannot deny. Yes, we are closeted. Either due to work, society, community, faith or the simple fact that we had to get married.

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I am  in the mid 40 yrs and pple surrounding can't judge my actual age.

Frankly speaking, it is the way u live and diet and take thing positively..

Regular keep fit and rest and relax also play importance roles.

This morning gone for regular medical check up at family clinic.

This elderly receptionist lady had glance and looked my IC 

and asked how I managed take care of youth looking. 

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20 hours ago, Nicky69 said:

I am  in the mid 40 yrs and pple surrounding can't judge my actual age.

Frankly speaking, it is the way u live and diet and take thing positively..

Regular keep fit and rest and relax also play importance roles.

This morning gone for regular medical check up at family clinic.

This elderly receptionist lady had glance and looked my IC 

and asked how I managed take care of youth looking. 

She hasnt see ur performance on bed yet.then she will say wow i tot u r NS boy.lol:yuk:

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22 hours ago, Nicky69 said:

I am  in the mid 40 yrs and pple surrounding can't judge my actual age.

Frankly speaking, it is the way u live and diet and take thing positively..

Regular keep fit and rest and relax also play importance roles.

This morning gone for regular medical check up at family clinic.

This elderly receptionist lady had glance and looked my IC 

and asked how I managed take care of youth looking. 

 

why no pic :(

 

cute and young looking should flesh more 

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Men above 40...can be considered as "darling"/big age.

Recently this song has been revolving around my ears.

Really finding Nemo and Dory is definitely much easier than finding love.

The song and video expresses the desperation in us.. 

Kudos to Lan Xin Mei ..she exemplifies that the hunger of love in us.

Where is Mr Right? Is he around the corner?

 

男人四十 - 算呗算也是“大龄”了吧。

最近超喜欢彭佳慧的这首歌。。会不会是道出我们壮年一族的心情呢?

想加紧找个好归宿吗。。爱(真的)没那么简单。。

 

Congrats to Julia for winning the coveted award.

She first won the Newcomer award some 20 years ago.

It goes to show that perseverance pays.

恭喜彭佳慧荣获27届金曲奖的最佳女歌手奖。。

我们也要像她这样吗 。。。苦尽甘来。。。

 

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There are many good looking guys over 40. But how good looking they are greatly depends on your preference, doesn't it? I mean, if you're seeking someone built and ripped over 40, then the average joe on the street would seem greatly unappealing, no? If you're looking for someone established and financially powerful, then the gymmed-out, bubble-butted and cushiony-pecced McCafe manager wouldn't turn your head either, right? It all depends on what you're seeking in a guy over 40.

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1 hour ago, MalayGuy1975 said:

There are many good looking guys over 40. But how good looking they are greatly depends on your preference, doesn't it? I mean, if you're seeking someone built and ripped over 40, then the average joe on the street would seem greatly unappealing, no? If you're looking for someone established and financially powerful, then the gymmed-out, bubble-butted and cushiony-pecced McCafe manager wouldn't turn your head either, right? It all depends on what you're seeking in a guy over 40.

There is this guy at my gym who has all you mentioned: 40ish, wearing executive outfit, tall, good looking with a body to die for. How can I seduce him?

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22 minutes ago, Guest Fatty said:

There is this guy at my gym who has all you mentioned: 40ish, wearing executive outfit, tall, good looking with a body to die for. How can I seduce him?

 

Figure out what he is into. Don't end up like her. 

 

 

Love. 

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On 18 June 2016 at 9:54 PM, yoyo74 said:

There is also another natural way to avoid wrinkles. Think of how botox works. Botox is inserted into ones face so that the face muscles can relax therefore wrinkles will be visibly reduced. If you dont stress out your face muscle in the first place, there wont be a need for botox.

Try to avoid extreme emotion like too angry, too sad, too happy etc. This actually only works on people with very high EQ and is not easy for everyone. Try to stay expressionless as long as possible. Be very mindful of your facial expression even when you are happy, sad or angry. Do not laugh as it will make your face skin loose. When going to take a photo do not smile too hard. Just smile mildly or be expressionless to look cool. Do not look up with your eye balls as it will naturally push up your forehead skin and have wrinkles. If you need to look up, move your entire head up instead. Do not let anger and sadness get into you. Anger and sadness not only strain your face muscles, it also strain some parts of your body organ according to some TCM experts. In summary try to look as cool as possible without expression and dont emo

 

Ha ha no offense but sounds such a person will be very good at playing poker game :)

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On 13 June 2016 at 2:29 AM, TheVisitors said:

Its too lengthy to write

In short, keep life simple, be happy with who you are and what you already have , by being grateful, instead of constantly grumbling  at others and comparing   yourself with others

 

Free yourself away from the ways and conformities of this world, where the human system is indeed very fickle and biased, even in areas such as religious doctrines, thus you listen to your own inner self, the wisdom inside there, which guides your own lifepath

 

Avoid the sun, smoking, alchohol, drugs and processed food, even tap water, whereby you substitute it with distilled/purified/filtered away without the presences of fluriode, which is a radical which attacks the human nervous system , and it was found to cause dementia,  by too much fluriode in our food and water

 

Superfood and detox your body on regular basis

 

Exercise and massage your body or facial muscles, to rid the building up of fascia, which is an hardening substance found accumulating  in muscles, which have not been stretched or exercise for a long time. I was told by a doctor , their hardening will eventually age your body, that is why people who practise yoga and those who exercise regularly  looks much younger as compared to their peers

 

Go find out the different types of antioxidants your body needs to arrest a certain group of radical, which is to say if you are able to intake high antioxidants, your body will age much slower

 

Yes, please watch your diet and avoid processed and know what types of oil your body needs and don't need at a certain timing of the day

 

If you read throught the Yellow Emperor Book of Medicine, you will realize your aging depends on the well being of 2 major organs

Your kidneys and your spleen

 

It is your kidneys are, that determines how healthy your sexual vitality is, and your spleen, the anthrophy of your muscles

 

An additional info is yes genes do play the key factor

 

Researches have discovered that a certain type of cell called the Methusalad/ Methuselad cell, influences the slow aging porocess and ones' longivity

 

It is not present in everyone, but certain races and certain individuals

https://books.google.es/books?id=RI8ZyNo5KCkC&pg=PA235&lpg=PA235&dq=methuselah+gene+and+antiaging&source=bl&ots=Q2YwMh_W4f&sig=TmLwhlfOULsTWwhMMmtDqdwu4u0&hl=es&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjjr_nehqPNAhWCchQKHZ9LCNwQ6AEIRTAF#v=onepage&q=methuselah gene and antiaging&f=false

 

I suspect I may have it. I have friends, campmates and ex boyriends who met me  recently said i hardly seems to age for the last 15 years

Again, I maybe wrong

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nice info.  I take pcynogenol (antioxidant) from GNC for over 10 years to get rid of free radicals in body, thereby slowing down aging.

The taking care of kidney and spleen sound very "tcm". Care to share how to take care of "spleen", cos I do find it harder to keep muscles taut with age?  ( I mainly swim a lot to maintain physique and around 5+ to avoid sun induced aging. )

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9 hours ago, MalayGuy1975 said:

There are many good looking guys over 40. But how good looking they are greatly depends on your preference, doesn't it? I mean, if you're seeking someone built and ripped over 40, then the average joe on the street would seem greatly unappealing, no? If you're looking for someone established and financially powerful, then the gymmed-out, bubble-butted and cushiony-pecced McCafe manager wouldn't turn your head either, right? It all depends on what you're seeking in a guy over 40.

 

Yes, looking hard for someone over 40 built and ripped.  Very few. 

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34 minutes ago, Guest Over 40 said:

 

Yes, looking hard for someone over 40 built and ripped.  Very few. 

Have you tried looking at the gym?

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6 hours ago, Guest Lulu said:

Have you tried looking at the gym?

 

Quite risky at the gym.  You won't know whether he is straight, gay or maybe worse, a homophobia like that Bryan Lim.

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On Tuesday, June 21, 2016 at 4:52 PM, Nicky69 said:

I am  in the mid 40 yrs and pple surrounding can't judge my actual age.

Frankly speaking, it is the way u live and diet and take thing positively..

Regular keep fit and rest and relax also play importance roles.

This morning gone for regular medical check up at family clinic.

This elderly receptionist lady had glance and looked my IC 

and asked how I managed take care of youth looking. 

She hasnt see ur performance on bed yet.then she will say wow i tot u r NS boy.lol:yuk:

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Wahlaueh! I remember seeing guys like CD and 2 or 3 other top male mods of the 90s at Zouk. Jaw drop. Not so much plastic surgery at that time, so mostly natural born good looks. Now still look so ripped. So much inspiration to hit the gym and strive to see my abs again!

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Chuando and Waiteik are 2 hot as hell photographers they could have partner together. Won't anyone here wish to be have your photos taken by them?

 

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