Kind of giving up looking for anything alr

[Guest thisoneend]

Seems like most of the dates i went out didn't went very smoothly

 

most seems to express disinterest to me like saying i ain't their type .

 

But hey it's fine . I understand that everybody have their ideal type

 

So i don't really blame them..

 

I guess skinny people are out of the market @.@

[Guest]

Don't despair lah as everyone has its own market for a partner, you just have not found it yet. But Singkapoh gays they seemed prefer toned to muscle types. In Thailand they prefer slim.

[Guest Confused]

12 minutes ago, Guest thisoneend said:

Seems like most of the dates i went out didn't went very smoothly

 

most seems to express disinterest to me like saying i ain't their type .

 

But hey it's fine . I understand that everybody have their ideal type

 

So i don't really blame them..

 

I guess skinny people are out of the market @.@

Me too.  The guy I liked were too shy to admit he likes me. I have waited years for him to utter even a whisper to my years but he didn't. No sign of whether he likes me but he kept stalking me. It is very confusing whether he likes or don't like me.  But I really like him. Yup, it is more painful than not having found a partner but the struggle of not knowing the person you like, actually likes you.

 

[hairy springroll]

Slowly

the right one yet to appear

u choose people

people also choose u 2

believe in yourself

meanwhile enjoy your freedom 

[kingbitch]

52 minutes ago, Guest thisoneend said:

Seems like most of the dates i went out didn't went very smoothly

 

most seems to express disinterest to me like saying i ain't their type .

 

But hey it's fine . I understand that everybody have their ideal type

 

So i don't really blame them..

 

I guess skinny people are out of the market @.@

You actually have one of the least challenging problems.

 

You can't change your height, intelligence, humour and ethnicity.

 

You also can't change your religion, face, hairline, accent, penis size, anal tightness and language skills without great effort or sacrifice.

 

But you can change your weight. It's not even that difficult if you put your heart into it. You can gain mass or lose fat provided you want it enough.

 

I just don't buy the whole "accept yourself for who you are" nonsense when it comes to body weight, barring medical problems and extreme cases like gym-obsession and bulimia.

Edited April 8, 2016 by kingbitch

[Guest Glyph]

At the most basic level, the phrase "accept yourself for who you are" is taken literally — accepting yourself, be it a good or bad one. We all know denial halts progress, and negativity doesn't help. So there's nothing wrong with telling this to TS when in actual fact, it's the very thing he needs to do.

[joshTWjosh]

9 minutes ago, Glyph said:

At the most basic level, the phrase "accept yourself for who you are" is taken literally — accepting yourself, be it a good or bad one. We all know denial halts progress, and negativity doesn't help. So there's nothing wrong with telling this to TS when in actual fact, it's the very thing he needs to do.

"accept yourself for who you are" only applies to straight caucasian females

[Guest Glyph]

Is it just me or are you bordering on racism and sexism? I don't see the relation between the paradox of self-acceptance and straight caucasian females.

[Guest Shane]

I can totally understand how you feel...even though many people would call me handsome, until now I still can't find someone. Been single for a long time already. So long that people are beginning to suspect my sexual orientation. Even people who are quite good looking can have no love luck too. And there are many avg looking ppl who have damn gd love luck...I'm sure all of us know some girls or guys who are damn plain but are always attached one after another. 

[Guest]

Only loser like to give excuses

[CamperBoy]

Do other things with your life lah.

[fab]

Go for someone within your league.

[Guest]

Sick of people rejecting my face picture too. A little chub doesn't mean that I cannot connect with the person. Local gays may be a bit too superficial to the skin

[Guest reflection]

23 minutes ago, Guest said:

Sick of people rejecting my face picture too. A little chub doesn't mean that I cannot connect with the person. Local gays may be a bit too superficial to the skin

 

I think you need to ask yourself why you talk to those people to begin with? Why don't you choose people of your own type, who are less likely to reject you (I know, most chubs reject other chubs, most Indians don't want Indians, most avg looking guys shun other avg looking guys)? 

[doncoin]

I think the chances of getting rejected is much higher on apps than in person. 

[Guest boy]

5 minutes ago, Guest reflection said:

 

I think you need to ask yourself why you talk to those people to begin with? Why don't you choose people of your own type, who are less likely to reject you (I know, most chubs reject other chubs, most Indians don't want Indians, most avg looking guys shun other avg looking guys)? 

 

So freaking true

[kingbitch]

You really can't force people to want to speak with you if they don't find you of interest...

[Guest true]

30 minutes ago, doncoin said:

I think the chances of getting rejected is much higher on apps than in person. 

 

True for some people! The opposite for many others! Looking gd in real life doesn't help too much either, since most people just see see only. Who wouldn't walk up to you and say hi?

[Guest true]

4 hours ago, fab said:

Go for someone within your league.

 

I have not met an avg looking guy who thinks he's avg looking. In fact, I have not met any below avg guys who do not think they are abv avg. Not a single avg looking guy I met would settle for another avg looking guy. The 5 pointers want a 7 and surely would still go after an 8 or 9. The 7s rarely settle for 7s...they want a 9 or 10. As for the 9s and 10s, since they are at the top of e scale they have no choice but to go with the other 9s and 10s. It's an oversimplification because in real life the way people walk and talk have a bearing as well...

 

So technically, even if you're a 7, you're lucky to find another 7. 

[bigdanbeam]

Why is there even a need to "look" to begin with

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest reflection said:

 

I think you need to ask yourself why you talk to those people to begin with? Why don't you choose people of your own type, who are less likely to reject you (I know, most chubs reject other chubs, most Indians don't want Indians, most avg looking guys shun other avg looking guys)? 

Why do you need to stick to your own type? There are such a huge variety out there and not everyone likes to stick to their own type. For example is Asians for Caucasian. 

 

This is the 21st century for goodness sake. People need to be more open-mind. Or maybe that applies to local Asians. 

[Guest]

On Friday, April 08, 2016 at 0:49 AM, Guest said:

Why do you need to stick to your own type? There are such a huge variety out there and not everyone likes to stick to their own type. For example is Asians for Caucasian. 

 

This is the 21st century for goodness sake. People need to be more open-mind. Or maybe that applies to local Asians. 

U r rite, so less complain and get a life, be more open like what u say

[Guest Guest too shocked]

Even when a 7 choose a 5, the 5 can be picky and reject u. I always felt that looks may not be that important and lowered my standards a lot. But still I am just rejected....Just want a loving loyal person but it seems a lot of people just want sex sex sex. Worse of all is they want to be in a relationship but can't commit. Morale of the story, there are still good looking people out there who will look for average or people "below" their standards. Because everyone reasonings and perspectives are different. And character still plays a part. 

[Guest banishstupidity]

9 hours ago, Guest said:

Why do you need to stick to your own type? There are such a huge variety out there and not everyone likes to stick to their own type. For example is Asians for Caucasian. 

 

This is the 21st century for goodness sake. People need to be more open-mind. Or maybe that applies to local Asians. 

 

WTF? It sounds good in principle but it's absolutely toad-trying-to-eat-a-swan in reality. It is always guys like you who make the gay world superficial. Yes yes, if you are gd looking you can go for any type and they may respond favourably. But say you're a chub who insists that everyone else like you too, or that you're into slim guys and so they should be into you too...how delusional. If they're into you why not? But if not, shut up and don't complain! It's not so much of "stick to your own type", but "stop insisting that others MUST like your type just because you like theirs". If someone not your type gets rejected and hates you for it, I think you'll be pretty pissed too. THINK with your brain and not your dick for just ONCE. 

[Guest banishstupidity]

8 hours ago, Guest said:

U r rite, so less complain and get a life, be more open like what u say

 

Ah, thank you....

[Guest boy]

8 hours ago, Guest Guest too shocked said:

Even when a 7 choose a 5, the 5 can be picky and reject u. I always felt that looks may not be that important and lowered my standards a lot. But still I am just rejected....Just want a loving loyal person but it seems a lot of people just want sex sex sex. Worse of all is they want to be in a relationship but can't commit. Morale of the story, there are still good looking people out there who will look for average or people "below" their standards. Because everyone reasonings and perspectives are different. And character still plays a part. 

 

That is just so true!! But you have to know that age and height makes a huge difference too...I mean generally, unless the guy you go for is not tall, then being too short will mean you'll have to be extra cute just to make up for that vast height difference. It sort of applies for age too, except for those guys with special age or height preferences. So that's generally. But no, there are very very few good looking people who are willing to go with avg looking people. Most of them are people who THINK they are goodlooking and are settling for less, but are simply one of those avg looking guys being very reluctant to like other avg looking guys. 

[Guest true]

11 hours ago, Guest true said:

 

I have not met an avg looking guy who thinks he's avg looking. In fact, I have not met any below avg guys who do not think they are abv avg. Not a single avg looking guy I met would settle for another avg looking guy. The 5 pointers want a 7 and surely would still go after an 8 or 9. The 7s rarely settle for 7s...they want a 9 or 10. As for the 9s and 10s, since they are at the top of e scale they have no choice but to go with the other 9s and 10s. It's an oversimplification because in real life the way people walk and talk have a bearing as well...

 

So technically, even if you're a 7, you're lucky to find another 7. 

 

True that! Going by this rationale, actually average and below average guys have higher expectations than good looking guys. A 7 at most wants 1 - 2 points more, but the 5s and 3s want 2 - 4 points more!! That's my experience at least. The 4 and 5 still go for 7 and 8. 

[Guest Stunned]

Self reflection in order? The guys you go after, are they honestly within your league or above. From what I've seen, many gay Singaporeans can't even tell what league they are. Like the poster somewhere above mentioned, 4-5 looking for #7-8 ... Why? It's like setting yourself up for disappointment. While it appears to be nice to have someone who is very good looking and has his shit together, it's going to be very hard to keep the relationship going. If you still can't figure out where u stand in terms of looks, send your picture over to those on the gay Apps- let them judge you. But don't be defensive .... 

 

If it's all too much work, just wait then for someone to come in to your life. May be a Long or short wait. No one can tell you 

 

 

 

[gameofthronesx]

19 hours ago, Guest thisoneend said:

Seems like most of the dates i went out didn't went very smoothly

 

most seems to express disinterest to me like saying i ain't their type .

 

But hey it's fine . I understand that everybody have their ideal type

 

So i don't really blame them..

 

I guess skinny people are out of the market @.@

Did u ask them why you are not their type? U assume it's cos you're skinny or they said that ?

Edited April 9, 2016 by gameofthronesx
Sentence

[Guest boy]

1 minute ago, Guest Stunned said:

Self reflection in order? The guys you go after, are they honestly within your league or above. From what I've seen, many gay Singaporeans can't even tell what league they are. Like the poster somewhere above mentioned, 4-5 looking for #7-8 ... Why? It's like setting yourself up for disappointment. While it appears to be nice to have someone who is very good looking and has his shit together, it's going to be very hard to keep the relationship going. If you still can't figure out where u stand in terms of looks, send your picture over to those on the gay Apps- let them judge you. But don't be defensive .... 

 

If it's all too much work, just wait then for someone to come in to your life. May be a Long or short wait. No one can tell you 

 

 

 

 

Exactly. But gays often have pictures that look better than reality. I find that for straight guys it tends to be the opposite. I'd say people on the apps are not fit for judging as they are those with super high expectations. I get a lot of messages on jackd but tbh most of them are so not in my "league". That's expected because those in my league, although they wouldn't mind getting to know me, they probably won't bother to initiate a chat to begin with. They are more eager to chat with those even better looking than themselves. Human nature? Or gay culture?

 

Yes when it comes to relationships DEFINITELY. I would never go for someone much better looking because I'll be insecure and will spend the whole time worrying and trying to remain close....so none of that nonsense for me...

[Guest Stunned]

Kind of a sad vicious cycle  . I rly feel for my friends who, well, are not the best looking? They are kind people no doubt, but they keep aiming for guys who are well beyond their league but CLAIM that they don't go for looks. Argh sometimes I just wanna smack them and tell them to wake up!!! . They are lovely people but they are aiming to complete a triathlon without knowing how to jog/swim ... (Ranting).  I show them pics of guys of their league (in my opinion only) and they go ... "Eee" -.- seriously?! 

[Guest boy]

10 minutes ago, Guest Stunned said:

Kind of a sad vicious cycle  . I rly feel for my friends who, well, are not the best looking? They are kind people no doubt, but they keep aiming for guys who are well beyond their league but CLAIM that they don't go for looks. Argh sometimes I just wanna smack them and tell them to wake up!!! . They are lovely people but they are aiming to complete a triathlon without knowing how to jog/swim ... (Ranting).  I show them pics of guys of their league (in my opinion only) and they go ... "Eee" -.- seriously?! 

 

OMG LMAO I feel like we are talking about the SAME people. LOL! Too many such people out there la...Just let them be lo they will have to wake up when they grow older and even less good looking, or if they happen to find someone not their type but eventually fall in love with them, just as it unwittingly happens to me, except that I fell in love with str8 guys -.-

 

And as for me, friend and friends of friends would say I'm handsome and all but once people get to know my annoying personality they tend to get their illusions shattered. I don't like trying to keep up with an image that my looks tend to portray...I want to have fun and be myself and not act cool simply because people look at me and imagine me to be this cool hot guy that I am not. I want to be unglam with my friends. In any case I don't have many gay friends and have no gay friends on facebook so I really don't have a chance to get to know other gays and vice versa. So it's quite sad too...People look and see but never do anything.

[Guest boy]

Not to mention that those very friends of mine would first hit on me, then when I'm totally not interested, they just happily go for other guys! They just keep on hunting! Their perseverance is amazing. I don't like them not because of their looks, but mainly because of their demeanor and personality. I think a hot personality would rock even an avg looking face and body. 

[SeannyShortcake]

20 hours ago, Guest Confused said:

Me too.  The guy I liked were too shy to admit he likes me. I have waited years for him to utter even a whisper to my years but he didn't. No sign of whether he likes me but he kept stalking me. It is very confusing whether he likes or don't like me.  But I really like him. Yup, it is more painful than not having found a partner but the struggle of not knowing the person you like, actually likes you.

 

 

Stalking has quite the negative connotation to it though..

 

So what are you waiting for? Can't you ask him out instead and tell him how you feel?

You're not a dainty little girl you know.

 

People can finish NS in two years. And you'll only need like two minutes.

[Guest ReplytoDumbass+Superficial]

6 hours ago, Guest banishstupidity said:

 

WTF? It sounds good in principle but it's absolutely toad-trying-to-eat-a-swan in reality. It is always guys like you who make the gay world superficial. Yes yes, if you are gd looking you can go for any type and they may respond favourably. But say you're a chub who insists that everyone else like you too, or that you're into slim guys and so they should be into you too...how delusional. If they're into you why not? But if not, shut up and don't complain! It's not so much of "stick to your own type", but "stop insisting that others MUST like your type just because you like theirs". If someone not your type gets rejected and hates you for it, I think you'll be pretty pissed too. THINK with your brain and not your dick for just ONCE. 

You are just one of the closed-minded ones that should use your brains to think before commenting.

 

So in your ideal gay love world,  only the handsome or muscular ones or those who are preceived to be more advantageous in the looks department can get to choose whoever they want.

So practical and non-superficial thinking indeed. This is sarcasm if your dumb brain can't interpret it! I think that it is the most naive and stupidest thing that I have seen so far in BW. 

 

And the chubs or ugly ones can't have the right to look for love. They need to be chosen by others.  So sad for your own superficial view of gay people in your tiny world of only looking at people on the surface and not skin deep. 

 

And those who are at a disadvantage in looks department are NOT always craving for more desirable gay people. There are gays that look for connection. And they do not need to be reassured or degrade themselves to be loved by more desirable gay people. 

 

At least not with dumbass and superficial gays like you, who only look for good looking and muscular guys. Pathetic typical superficial Asian gay! Using your own rod to measure everything! 

[PerfectXayne]

This is a cruel world -- either you do something about it or be lazy and don't even bother to change at all. If you don't even put in effort to encourage change in your life, why complain about not getting what you want?

[lonelyglobe]

very true....is like u walk into a clothing store, u won't try on every piece there, u will browse through and maybe select 2 or 3 items that u like to try on, then after trying, u ask for the right size that fits u.....maybe your first choice do not have the size u want, u either bear with the size they had, opt for the second or third choice or go home empty-handed.

[Guest Hot]

16 hours ago, Guest ReplytoDumbass+Superficial said:

You are just one of the closed-minded ones that should use your brains to think before commenting.

 

So in your ideal gay love world,  only the handsome or muscular ones or those who are preceived to be more advantageous in the looks department can get to choose whoever they want.

So practical and non-superficial thinking indeed. This is sarcasm if your dumb brain can't interpret it! I think that it is the most naive and stupidest thing that I have seen so far in BW. 

 

And the chubs or ugly ones can't have the right to look for love. They need to be chosen by others.  So sad for your own superficial view of gay people in your tiny world of only looking at people on the surface and not skin deep. 

 

And those who are at a disadvantage in looks department are NOT always craving for more desirable gay people. There are gays that look for connection. And they do not need to be reassured or degrade themselves to be loved by more desirable gay people. 

 

At least not with dumbass and superficial gays like you, who only look for good looking and muscular guys. Pathetic typical superficial Asian gay! Using your own rod to measure everything! 

 

Lol clearly another ugly or fat guy blaming everyone for not loving him and in the first place going after desirable guys. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the - wait, you don't own a mirror?! 

[Guest Hot]

16 hours ago, Guest ReplytoDumbass+Superficial said:

You are just one of the closed-minded ones that should use your brains to think before commenting.

 

So in your ideal gay love world,  only the handsome or muscular ones or those who are preceived to be more advantageous in the looks department can get to choose whoever they want.

So practical and non-superficial thinking indeed. This is sarcasm if your dumb brain can't interpret it! I think that it is the most naive and stupidest thing that I have seen so far in BW. 

 

And the chubs or ugly ones can't have the right to look for love. They need to be chosen by others.  So sad for your own superficial view of gay people in your tiny world of only looking at people on the surface and not skin deep. 

 

And those who are at a disadvantage in looks department are NOT always craving for more desirable gay people. There are gays that look for connection. And they do not need to be reassured or degrade themselves to be loved by more desirable gay people. 

 

At least not with dumbass and superficial gays like you, who only look for good looking and muscular guys. Pathetic typical superficial Asian gay! Using your own rod to measure everything! 

 

Your hypocritical nonsense can be deconstructed within this very passage. If you are looking for "connection" idk you'll be trying to meet so many people that makes u end up with this self-entitled "love me because I say so and because I look for "connection" and not appearance!" Attitude. I pity you...hey actually I don't!

[Guest Hot]

16 hours ago, Guest ReplytoDumbass+Superficial said:

You are just one of the closed-minded ones that should use your brains to think before commenting.

 

So in your ideal gay love world,  only the handsome or muscular ones or those who are preceived to be more advantageous in the looks department can get to choose whoever they want.

So practical and non-superficial thinking indeed. This is sarcasm if your dumb brain can't interpret it! I think that it is the most naive and stupidest thing that I have seen so far in BW. 

 

And the chubs or ugly ones can't have the right to look for love. They need to be chosen by others.  So sad for your own superficial view of gay people in your tiny world of only looking at people on the surface and not skin deep. 

 

And those who are at a disadvantage in looks department are NOT always craving for more desirable gay people. There are gays that look for connection. And they do not need to be reassured or degrade themselves to be loved by more desirable gay people. 

 

At least not with dumbass and superficial gays like you, who only look for good looking and muscular guys. Pathetic typical superficial Asian gay! Using your own rod to measure everything! 

 

and you know what? If this is in real life and we've just met, I bet my dick and balls you'd be hitting on me and trying your utmost best to force a "connection" with me. And aft I kindly and politely say no, you'll be making a huge fuss and perhaps developing an intense hatred for me and all other hot or handsome guys. On behalf of all of them I would say: some of us are nicer and much less superficial, but you won't get into our pants because first, we only accept 1 point lower and second, you don't have the personality to make up for e looks at all. 

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Guest Hot said:

 

and you know what? If this is in real life and we've just met, I bet my dick and balls you'd be hitting on me and trying your utmost best to force a "connection" with me. And aft I kindly and politely say no, you'll be making a huge fuss and perhaps developing an intense hatred for me and all other hot or handsome guys. On behalf of all of them I would say: some of us are nicer and much less superficial, but you won't get into our pants because first, we only accept 1 point lower and second, you don't have the personality to make up for e looks at all. 

3 hours ago, Guest Hot said:

 

Lol clearly another ugly or fat guy blaming everyone for not loving him and in the first place going after desirable guys. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the - wait, you don't own a mirror?! 

 

WELL SAID 

Sometimes we could know something is true from the way somebody talks. Kudos bro

[Guest]

19 hours ago, Guest ReplytoDumbass+Superficial said:

You are just one of the closed-minded ones that should use your brains to think before commenting.

 

So in your ideal gay love world,  only the handsome or muscular ones or those who are preceived to be more advantageous in the looks department can get to choose whoever they want.

So practical and non-superficial thinking indeed. This is sarcasm if your dumb brain can't interpret it! I think that it is the most naive and stupidest thing that I have seen so far in BW. 

 

And the chubs or ugly ones can't have the right to look for love. They need to be chosen by others.  So sad for your own superficial view of gay people in your tiny world of only looking at people on the surface and not skin deep. 

 

And those who are at a disadvantage in looks department are NOT always craving for more desirable gay people. There are gays that look for connection. And they do not need to be reassured or degrade themselves to be loved by more desirable gay people. 

 

At least not with dumbass and superficial gays like you, who only look for good looking and muscular guys. Pathetic typical superficial Asian gay! Using your own rod to measure everything! 

 

and you. You need to stop loving yourself so much and start accepting others. Live and LET LIVE. Seek, and let OTHERS seek.

[Guest LOL]

Just now, Guest said:

 

and you. You need to stop loving yourself so much and start accepting others. Live and LET LIVE. Seek, and let OTHERS seek.

 

Agreed. He will be shamed so much if he has an account. But let's cut him some slack, he must be shamed enough in his social life.

[Guest Onlooker]

3 hours ago, Guest Hot said:

 

Lol clearly another ugly or fat guy blaming everyone for not loving him and in the first place going after desirable guys. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the - wait, you don't own a mirror?! 

 

3 hours ago, Guest Hot said:

 

and you know what? If this is in real life and we've just met, I bet my dick and balls you'd be hitting on me and trying your utmost best to force a "connection" with me. And aft I kindly and politely say no, you'll be making a huge fuss and perhaps developing an intense hatred for me and all other hot or handsome guys. On behalf of all of them I would say: some of us are nicer and much less superficial, but you won't get into our pants because first, we only accept 1 point lower and second, you don't have the personality to make up for e looks at all. 

 

3 hours ago, Guest Hot said:

 

and you know what? If this is in real life and we've just met, I bet my dick and balls you'd be hitting on me and trying your utmost best to force a "connection" with me. And aft I kindly and politely say no, you'll be making a huge fuss and perhaps developing an intense hatred for me and all other hot or handsome guys. On behalf of all of them I would say: some of us are nicer and much less superficial, but you won't get into our pants because first, we only accept 1 point lower and second, you don't have the personality to make up for e looks at all. 

Clearly the same ugly or fat gay trying to defend himself over three replies just because he is burthurt. You are right that you are hot and handsome only in your own small mirror. Or lack if it. Have to vent angry over here, on mulitple  guest accounts is just PATHETIC. 

Ugly personality really do match ugly gays. A "1"  in the looks department  convincing hinself that he is hot and handsone. I doubt anyone will meet you real life with your ugly personality. You are truly out of everyone's league. People WON'T connect with you,  at least not for sex at the mininum.  

Continue to hide behind the guest accounts and  insult people and think highly superficially about youself.

 

A pathetic gay life that other gays shouldn't follow.  

[Guest]

1 minute ago, Guest Onlooker said:

 

 

Clearly the same ugly or fat gay trying to defend himself over three replies just because he is burthurt. You are right that you are hot and handsome only in your own small mirror. Or lack if it. Have to vent angry over here, on mulitple  guest accounts is just PATHETIC. 

Ugly personality really do match ugly gays. A "1"  in the looks department  convincing hinself that he is hot and handsone. I doubt anyone will meet you real life with your ugly personality. You are truly out of everyone's league. People WON'T connect with you,  at least not for sex at the mininum.  

Continue to hide behind the guest accounts and  insult people and think highly superficially about youself.

 

A pathetic gay life that other gays shouldn't follow.  

 

 

Just curious. Who's the one using multiple guest accounts and trying to defend himself by ranting about other people's preferences?

[Guest GraciousOnlooker]

39 minutes ago, Guest said:

 

WELL SAID 

Sometimes we could know something is true from the way somebody talks. Kudos bro

 

37 minutes ago, Guest said:

 

and you. You need to stop loving yourself so much and start accepting others. Live and LET LIVE. Seek, and let OTHERS seek.

 

35 minutes ago, Guest LOL said:

 

Agreed. He will be shamed so much if he has an account. But let's cut him some slack, he must be shamed enough in his social life.

All are Guest accounts within minutes apart. We can really know that one thing is true. You must have been shamed enough in your real social life to create multiple accounts to defend yourself online. Hahaha!!! Think too highly of yourself and encouraging oneself with oneself. LOL. I shall live and LET LIVE with your childish antics. Cut you some slack since people know that your life is pathetic from the things you say and do. Ignore this superficial and immature gay online from now. 

 

 

 

[Guest]

16 minutes ago, Guest GraciousOnlooker said:

 

 

All are Guest accounts within minutes apart. We can really know that one thing is true. You must have been shamed enough in your real social life to create multiple accounts to defend yourself online. Hahaha!!! Think too highly of yourself and encouraging oneself with oneself. LOL. I shall live and LET LIVE with your childish antics. Cut you some slack since people know that your life is pathetic from the things you say and do. Ignore this superficial and immature gay online from now. 

 

 

 

 

 

Hmm. I also commented right after you did....does that make us the same person? Not taking sides here lol.

 

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest GraciousOnlooker said:

 

 

All are Guest accounts within minutes apart. We can really know that one thing is true. You must have been shamed enough in your real social life to create multiple accounts to defend yourself online. Hahaha!!! Think too highly of yourself and encouraging oneself with oneself. LOL. I shall live and LET LIVE with your childish antics. Cut you some slack since people know that your life is pathetic from the things you say and do. Ignore this superficial and immature gay online from now. 

 

 

 

 

I am commenting an hour apart. So I am also the same person you are mentioning about? Lol

[fab]

So many egoistic replies.

 

Many seem to grade themselves higher than the persons they r interested in. Fact is if the other person choose to discont the dating, it means likewise n obvious who has higher grade. 

 

No wonder so many cant get attached 

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4 hours ago, fab said:

So many egoistic replies.

 

Many seem to grade themselves higher than the persons they r interested in. Fact is if the other person choose to discont the dating, it means likewise n obvious who has higher grade. 

 

No wonder so many cant get attached 

 

hahaha. It's quite sad that relationships have been reduced to such terms.