Coolbriz Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 Happy mom's day to all moms. This also extends to brothers who assume this noble role of taking care of the young ones be it nephews, nieces, God-sons or God-daughters http://v.qq.com/cover/o/okv2dn1xqxxku40.html?vid=b0153boagc5 Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cycle25 Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 Happy mom's day to all, especially the mom's who've given us bfs too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 sigh... i wish i could have a better relationship with my mother, but my gayness pisses her off and she still cannot accept it. finds fault with everything i do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teatree Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 15 minutes ago, camus said: sigh... i wish i could have a better relationship with my mother, but my gayness pisses her off and she still cannot accept it. finds fault with everything i do. In what way your "gayness" pisses her off? Whatever, the solution is, either you change her (which is hard) to accept your gayness or change yourself by acting less gayness. The bottom line is, as a mother, she still loves you dearly in her heart. Happy Mother Day to all mothers especially those who have gay sons. mate69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 I was about to ask the same qn too, can all our beloved mums accept us being "unique" ? but tea tree is fast and esp he ended with the last line! However, I felt tea tree is trying to mean "niang" /sissiness instead of gay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolbriz Posted May 8, 2016 Author Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 In the eyes of a mother, it is normal that she wants to see her son grows up, get married and have children. Rarely will a mother accept her son being a gay. As a son, I have not fulfilled the "filial piety" that she has yearned for. The only way I can compensate is to do more than what a straight son can do. Spending more time with her, taking care of her while she is still around and being with her when she is bored and in need of company. Right inside her heart, I know that she would rather see me get married and have my own family which translates to having lesser time with her. That's life, you can't get the best of both worlds but at least, she has accepted that I have not chosen the path of a married man. Treasure our mothers while they are still around. camus, mate69, thorzguy and 1 other 4 Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 Fortunately my mom is cafe free modern type so never really expect filial piety either. Happy mother's day!3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 As long as my mother is happy and healthy, everyday is Mother's Day. Arkham, mate69, Coolbriz and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teatree Posted May 8, 2016 Report Share Posted May 8, 2016 7 hours ago, lovehandle said: I was about to ask the same qn too, can all our beloved mums accept us being "unique" ? but tea tree is fast and esp he ended with the last line! However, I felt tea tree is trying to mean "niang" /sissiness instead of gay? Yep, when even mum can sense the "niangness" and get pissed off, you are a bit over the top. Just toned down a little and relationship can be back on track. 7 hours ago, Coolbriz said: In the eyes of a mother, it is normal that she wants to see her son grows up, get married and have children. Rarely will a mother accept her son being a gay. As a son, I have not fulfilled the "filial piety" that she has yearned for. The only way I can compensate is to do more than what a straight son can do. Spending more time with her, taking care of her while she is still around and being with her when she is bored and in need of company. Right inside her heart, I know that she would rather see me get married and have my own family which translates to having lesser time with her. That's life, you can't get the best of both worlds but at least, she has accepted that I have not chosen the path of a married man. Treasure our mothers while they are still around. You are a good son. The only person that Mum worried about right up to her last breath on death bed is her gay son. Because she will be no longer there to take care of him and because she knew that he will be living and fending all by himself. camus 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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