Fantasy with housemate

[Guylaroche]

I just moved in to new unit and had one housemate that i kinda like but too shy to try haha. Any suggestions how to test if he's ok to have some action?

Edited September 1, 2016 by Guylaroche

[KAXavion]

I would suggest dont do anything first.

plus you dont even know if is okay with AJ people.

maybe test his reaction.

[Guylaroche]

Sorry but do you mean of AJ?

[Guylaroche]

1 minute ago, KAXavion said:

I would suggest dont do anything first.

plus you dont even know if is okay with AJ people.

maybe test his reaction.

Sorry but what do you mean of AJ?

[KAXavion]

4 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Sorry but what do you mean of AJ?

I meant gay people

[KAXavion]

If I were you I wont do much. You cant do it fast. You have to take it slow. Cause I would want to see him and I would want him to be comfortable with being naked around gay people. Just be happy that you can see him

[Guylaroche]

12 minutes ago, KAXavion said:

If I were you I wont do much. You cant do it fast. You have to take it slow. Cause I would want to see him and I would want him to be comfortable with being naked around gay people. Just be happy that you can see him

Actually he's my friend since secondary and he's gay too. I'm just quiet hesitant though

[Guest CKW]

This account was shared with us by one of our colleagues. It shows what can go wrong in a one-sided attraction with a housemate that involved unwanted behaviour.

 

When my colleague first came to Singapore from China in his early 20s, he rented a room in a HDB flat that was near his workplace. His landlord was a widower in his late 40s.

 

Shortly after moving in, he noticed that he often woke up with a lot of cum in his urine, or an overall uncomfortable sensation in his cock. Several times, he even cummed in his sleep (he would only know when he got up in the morning). Sometimes he would have pain in his cock that lasted the whole day, making it hard for him to stay focused at work. As he has never had sex before, he had no idea what was causing all this. He even thought that maybe he was not drinking enough water!

 

Later on, an Indonesian girl moved in to rent a spare room in the same flat.

 

One day, the Indonesian girl told my colleague that one night she saw the landlord entering his room. Watching discreetly, she saw the landlord rubbing and squeezing my colleague's private parts through his shorts. The landlord also used his foot to press the younger guy's crotch for several minutes. My colleague apparently moved about a little but did not wake up. The landlord continued on for about 20 minutes before coming out of the room.

 

My colleague was shocked! He realised that this must have happened pretty often, because he had been having a lot of difficulty urinating as well as frequent pain in his private parts for about one and a half years.

 

Eventually, my colleague moved out but he is still traumatised by what the landlord did to him. He is straight and has a girlfriend now but he never told her about this. He still has pain when he urinates, and worries that he might not be able to have kids next time.

[KAXavion]

12 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Actually he's my friend since secondary and he's gay too. I'm just quiet hesitant though

In that case, den slowly test water lo.

[Guylaroche]

30 minutes ago, Guest CKW said:

This account was shared with us by one of our colleagues. It shows what can go wrong in a one-sided attraction with a housemate that involved unwanted behaviour.

 

When my colleague first came to Singapore from China in his early 20s, he rented a room in a HDB flat that was near his workplace. His landlord was a widower in his late 40s.

 

Shortly after moving in, he noticed that he often woke up with a lot of cum in his urine, or an overall uncomfortable sensation in his cock. Several times, he even cummed in his sleep (he would only know when he got up in the morning). Sometimes he would have pain in his cock that lasted the whole day, making it hard for him to stay focused at work. As he has never had sex before, he had no idea what was causing all this. He even thought that maybe he was not drinking enough water!

 

Later on, an Indonesian girl moved in to rent a spare room in the same flat.

 

One day, the Indonesian girl told my colleague that one night she saw the landlord entering his room. Watching discreetly, she saw the landlord rubbing and squeezing my colleague's private parts through his shorts. The landlord also used his foot to press the younger guy's crotch for several minutes. My colleague apparently moved about a little but did not wake up. The landlord continued on for about 20 minutes before coming out of the room.

 

My colleague was shocked! He realised that this must have happened pretty often, because he had been having a lot of difficulty urinating as well as frequent pain in his private parts for about one and a half years.

 

Eventually, my colleague moved out but he is still traumatised by what the landlord did to him. He is straight and has a girlfriend now but he never told her about this. He still has pain when he urinates, and worries that he might not be able to have kids next time.

Woah that's weird story. How come he didn't wake up when it was happening? 

But yeah landlord very silly and he doesn't lock his room too 

[Guylaroche]

22 minutes ago, KAXavion said:

In that case, den slowly test water lo.

Hmmm that would be good thanks!

[Guest Poolboy]

28 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Actually he's my friend since secondary and he's gay too. I'm just quiet hesitant though

 

I see. You'll still need to find out though, because not all gay guys are looking for the same thing.

 

I know one gay NSF who got posted into a unit where there was a regular gay sergeant.

 

Even though the NSF was not interested, the sergeant was very forceful and demanding. He threatened to out the NSF if he did not comply with his sexual demands.

 

In the end, the NSF submitted, and was violated by the sergeant until he nearly went insane. 

 

So don't be like that sergeant  

[KAXavion]

2 minutes ago, Guest Poolboy said:

 

I see. You'll still need to find out though, because not all gay guys are looking for the same thing.

 

I know one gay NSF who got posted into a unit where there was a regular gay sergeant.

 

Even though the NSF was not interested, the sergeant was very forceful and demanding. He threatened to out the NSF if he did not comply with his sexual demands.

 

In the end, the NSF submitted, and was violated by the sergeant until he nearly went insane. 

 

So don't be like that sergeant  

that sergeant is crazy and fucked up. Did you help him?? poor NSF

Edited September 1, 2016 by KAXavion
typo

[Guest CKW]

2 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Woah that's weird story. How come he didn't wake up when it was happening? 

But yeah landlord very silly and he doesn't lock his room too 

 

Think he's one of those heavy sleepers.

 

Probably he thought that since he's a guy so no need to lock the room to sleep  

 

[Guest Funny]

1 hour ago, Guylaroche said:

I just moved in to new unit and had one housemate that i kinda like but too shy to try haha. Any suggestions how to test if he's ok to have some action?

Never heard of male housemaid in Singapore.  Besides, why do you have a housemate that comes with the unit?  Unless, it is an office where the cleaner will come once in a bluemoon to discard the rubbish.  I suspect you just one to start a topic and cry out your imaginations?

[Guylaroche]

29 minutes ago, Guest Poolboy said:

 

I see. You'll still need to find out though, because not all gay guys are looking for the same thing.

 

I know one gay NSF who got posted into a unit where there was a regular gay sergeant.

 

Even though the NSF was not interested, the sergeant was very forceful and demanding. He threatened to out the NSF if he did not comply with his sexual demands.

 

In the end, the NSF submitted, and was violated by the sergeant until he nearly went insane. 

 

So don't be like that sergeant  

Apologies but what is NSF? Haha! 

 

[Guylaroche]

10 minutes ago, Guest Funny said:

Never heard of male housemaid in Singapore.  Besides, why do you have a housemate that comes with the unit?  Unless, it is an office where the cleaner will come once in a bluemoon to discard the rubbish.  I suspect you just one to start a topic and cry out your imaginations?

Brother, its housemate. Not maid

[KAXavion]

4 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Apologies but what is NSF? Haha! 

 

National Service Fulltime. in other words. army guys

[Guylaroche]

Just now, KAXavion said:

National Service Fulltime. in other words. army guys

Oh i see.

But that's harassment already right? I don't wanna do that. 

[Guest Weird]

I am very sensitive to sound and movement when I sleep at night since it is dead silence. To have someone touching and kicking him yet not knowing, I think something is wrong with the china man nervous system.

[Guylaroche]

11 minutes ago, Guest Weird said:

I am very sensitive to sound and movement when I sleep at night since it is dead silence. To have someone touching and kicking him yet not knowing, I think something is wrong with the china man nervous system.

I agree with you. Or maybe he likes it too and just mind who's doing it to him

[superflawless]

Could have been drugged. But while the case of sexual assault case regarding the Chinese national is deplorable, it has no bearings to the original poster. 

The OP had asked for suggestions on ways of testing if the object of his desire would be open for sexual activities together.

I personally do not suggest "shitting where you eat". It could be awkward or even more problematic later.

 

But that's not what asked. If you are 100% sure that you want to pursue this, then I would suggest, in your own room, playing the sounds of gay porn loudly. Then if the guy asks, say you were watching porn. Then ask if he would like to watch together. If he declines, then still pursue that topic by asking if he watches porn. Then the topic of sexual positions and protection can be broached. So on and so forth. This is one example. 

 

Or you can bring someone back for sexual liaison (if it's allowed) and then make sure this housemate knows.

 

Another way is to walk around, wearing something sexy. You do not have to naked. But maybe a revealing tanktop, showing glimpses of your nipple and public hair etc. If he objects, laugh it off and say "Hey we are all men. " that sort of thing and ignore him. But watch his reaction. 

 

Watch, observe and go in for the kill.

 

 

[Guylaroche]

4 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Do you sniff and lick his underwear, when he is out of unit? 

Ahaha! Yeah i did it actually lols

[Guest Guest]

Even the landlord is gay also doesn't mean you should have fun with him. Not all gays are desperate for having fun with any guys he meet.

[iamziz]

It is the same principle - you don't eat and shit at same place. Just imagine things don't work out one day or the honeymoon period over, it would be awkward still staying same place. Worst if it didn't end nicely. Loads of dramas to follow. Besides, it would be wise to respect the privacy of fellow tenants.

[Guylaroche]

1 hour ago, Guest Power Tongue said:

You should take his used briefs...hopefully white with skid shit marks on the ass...than when he comes back, make sure he see you sucking the shit out of his underwear while you massage your tits...you must moan like a slut....if he joins you, than he is ok for action.

 

All the best.

That's quite gross i think. I just sniff it actually not licked. 

[Guylaroche]

1 hour ago, superflawless said:

Could have been drugged. But while the case of sexual assault case regarding the Chinese national is deplorable, it has no bearings to the original poster. 

The OP had asked for suggestions on ways of testing if the object of his desire would be open for sexual activities together.

I personally do not suggest "shitting where you eat". It could be awkward or even more problematic later.

 

But that's not what asked. If you are 100% sure that you want to pursue this, then I would suggest, in your own room, playing the sounds of gay porn loudly. Then if the guy asks, say you were watching porn. Then ask if he would like to watch together. If he declines, then still pursue that topic by asking if he watches porn. Then the topic of sexual positions and protection can be broached. So on and so forth. This is one example. 

 

Or you can bring someone back for sexual liaison (if it's allowed) and then make sure this housemate knows.

 

Another way is to walk around, wearing something sexy. You do not have to naked. But maybe a revealing tanktop, showing glimpses of your nipple and public hair etc. If he objects, laugh it off and say "Hey we are all men. " that sort of thing and ignore him. But watch his reaction. 

 

Watch, observe and go in for the kill.

 

 

Oh these are good ideas bro. Thanks! Will try these haha. Esp watching gay porn hihi. Or also i can invite him for a drink and get drunk haha!

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[Guest dlover]

What's the update bro? Did it went well? 

[Guylaroche]

43 minutes ago, Guest dlover said:

What's the update bro? Did it went well? 

Haha! Well i tried but he refused. He said he cant do it with a friend

But was able to cuddle him though while we're watching tv

[Guest Smooch]

Haha cuddle only la. You hug? Did you kissed as well?

[Guylaroche]

50 minutes ago, Guest dlover said:

What's the update bro? Did it went well? 

Haha! Well i tried but he refused. He said he cant do it with a friend

But was able to cuddle him though while we're watching tv

2 minutes ago, Guest Smooch said:

Haha cuddle only la. You hug? Did you kissed as well?

We didn't hug. I just embrace his arms hihi. No kiss too

[Guest dlover]

17 minutes ago, Guylaroche said:

Haha! Well i tried but he refused. He said he cant do it with a friend

But was able to cuddle him though while we're watching tv

We didn't hug. I just embrace his arms hihi. No kiss too

 What's your next action now? Will you still trying again huh?

 

[iamziz]

Relevant in some manners - 

Man who lifted housemate's blanket while she was sleeping naked jailed for 12 weeks

 

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/man-who-lifted-housemates-blanket-while-she-was-sleeping-naked-jailed-for-12?utm_campaign=Echobox&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&xtor=CS1-10#link_time=1475567646

 

[KAXavion]

11 minutes ago, iamziz said:

Relevant in some manners - 

Man who lifted housemate's blanket while she was sleeping naked jailed for 12 weeks

 

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/man-who-lifted-housemates-blanket-while-she-was-sleeping-naked-jailed-for-12?utm_campaign=Echobox&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&xtor=CS1-10#link_time=1475567646

 

LOL blanket only can go jail. OMG because it was a female. but if it was guy. I dont think it matters

Edited October 4, 2016 by KAXavion

[Guest Fuwar]

1 hour ago, KAXavion said:

LOL blanket only can go jail. OMG because it was a female. but if it was guy. I dont think it matters

 

We should fight for gender equality then.

[Guest Bernie]

On 01/09/2016 at 2:13 PM, Guest CKW said:

This account was shared with us by one of our colleagues. It shows what can go wrong in a one-sided attraction with a housemate that involved unwanted behaviour.

 

When my colleague first came to Singapore from China in his early 20s, he rented a room in a HDB flat that was near his workplace. His landlord was a widower in his late 40s.

 

Shortly after moving in, he noticed that he often woke up with a lot of cum in his urine, or an overall uncomfortable sensation in his cock. Several times, he even cummed in his sleep (he would only know when he got up in the morning). Sometimes he would have pain in his cock that lasted the whole day, making it hard for him to stay focused at work. As he has never had sex before, he had no idea what was causing all this. He even thought that maybe he was not drinking enough water!

 

Later on, an Indonesian girl moved in to rent a spare room in the same flat.

 

One day, the Indonesian girl told my colleague that one night she saw the landlord entering his room. Watching discreetly, she saw the landlord rubbing and squeezing my colleague's private parts through his shorts. The landlord also used his foot to press the younger guy's crotch for several minutes. My colleague apparently moved about a little but did not wake up. The landlord continued on for about 20 minutes before coming out of the room.

 

My colleague was shocked! He realised that this must have happened pretty often, because he had been having a lot of difficulty urinating as well as frequent pain in his private parts for about one and a half years.

 

Eventually, my colleague moved out but he is still traumatised by what the landlord did to him. He is straight and has a girlfriend now but he never told her about this. He still has pain when he urinates, and worries that he might not be able to have kids next time.

Omg! Can he sue his lanlord?

[cutejack]

22 hours ago, Guest Bernie said:

Omg! Can he sue his lanlord?

Cant. No evidence. Got to show this story in court.lol

[Carpenter]

On 11/14/2017 at 11:51 PM, Guest Bernie said:

Omg! Can he sue his lanlord?

Can but lack of evidence since only the Indonesian girl saw but not recording it.