Guest Lol Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Been seeing alot of accounts in grindr and jackd claiming they are "mix", when they can only speak malay and look malay. Some would go on to explain their ancestors are chinese and have chinese blood. Is this the latest "in" thing to say among the malay gay community? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guessy Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Just that those self proclaimed "flexi" ended up ...... ahem ....... they are BOTTOM ! bluerunner 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 5 minutes ago, Guest Guessy said: Just that those self proclaimed "flexi" ended up ...... ahem ....... they are BOTTOM ! Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 7 minutes ago, Guest Guessy said: Teochew + Hokkien = mixed? enougn of hijacking the thread. Let's get back to proper discussion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 The whites call it bastards ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shinhao Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Actually "mongrels" or "half cast" and sometimes turn out to be from the Philippines. More importantly, why change ones roots? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest some truth Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Many of them want to be Chinese and be accepted as such, but since that is impossible and seriously unnecessary, they fail and oftentimes project their insecurity and hatred upon the very race they want to become. Hence all the uproar against what they perceive to be blatant racial discrimination. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Why bother to call yourself mixed when one's marketability is actually high? From the perspective of a white guy, a Malay guy (or a Pinoy) for that matter, is far more attractive than a Chinese. It is the facial features, really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest some truth Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 11 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: Why bother to call yourself mixed when one's marketability is actually high? From the perspective of a white guy, a Malay guy (or a Pinoy) for that matter, is far more attractive than a Chinese. It is the facial features, really. I wish more of them would think the way you do...then there will be less hating on the Chinese majority. sharkbaithoohaha 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hi all Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 wat is wrong with being mixed? have you not heard of inter racial marriages? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momopolare Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 I do know there are some who ain't mixed, but labeled themselves as one for whatever reasons. Quote Under your influence, you're the magic in my veins. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharkbaithoohaha Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 (edited) Didn't know being mixed blood means you have to speak both parents tongues. I'm assuming they can speak English too right ? To be honest, I have seen a lot of profiles like that, and most cases the mix goes way too down the line to even bother mentioning (my great great grandma come from Portugal!). Guess it makes you sound more exotic. Unfortunately, being biracial myself, people just expect you to be good looking, or look like one of those handsome Eurasian stereotypes. A lot of mix raced people end up looking Malay anyways, especially if they're not Caucasian mixes. This is why I just put myself as Asian so that people like op won't judge, lol. (Edit: Reread my post and just wanted to clear up the 'end up looking like Malay' part. Not implying in any way that looking Malay ain't desirable. Some of the best looking guys I know are pure Malay. Cheers) Edited October 19, 2016 by sharkbaithoohaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Again Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 7 hours ago, Guest some truth said: Many of them want to be Chinese and be accepted as such, but since that is impossible and seriously unnecessary, they fail and oftentimes project their insecurity and hatred upon the very race they want to become. Hence all the uproar against what they perceive to be blatant racial discrimination. since that is impossible and seriously unnecessary, they fail and oftentimes project their insecurity and hatred upon the very race they want to become. Hence all the uproar against what they perceive to be blatant racial discrimination. Why Chinese big fuck is it ? Majority with small dicks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 来了来了 hoseh liao~ You just stirred up the hornet's nest. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Abdu Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 5 hours ago, Guest Guest Again said: Why Chinese big fuck is it ? Majority with small dicks. You must be a "mixed". Haha cagedsissy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 23, 2016 Report Share Posted October 23, 2016 On 10/20/2016 at 6:43 AM, Guest Abdu said: You must be a "mixed". Haha *MONGREL. If look like shit, cross breed with anything also no use. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted October 23, 2016 Report Share Posted October 23, 2016 from my experience, a lot of them cannot come to accept they are Indians/malays? cos of previous rejection, hence they claimed they are mixed.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest doubleagree Posted October 23, 2016 Report Share Posted October 23, 2016 5 hours ago, -Ignored- said: from my experience, a lot of them cannot come to accept they are Indians/malays? cos of previous rejection, hence they claimed they are mixed.. Mmmmmm i agree on that lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suckcock Posted October 27, 2016 Report Share Posted October 27, 2016 This is so true! Im not racist but usually i will just ignore those type. I will only go for those who r proud of their own race. We r not stupid! We know if u r really "mix" or not! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I-NO-MIXED Posted October 27, 2016 Report Share Posted October 27, 2016 Yes...be proud of your own race. Whatever skin colour you are, we are still human being. For an example, I'm NO mixed. I'm "Pure Breed Malay" but strangers always talk to me in Chinese. Why?? Just because I can speak & look like one? Well, no matter what, as a Top am still high demand in the market to anyone (LOL). To some extend we are categorized by preference. Don't be racist people. Cheers!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 0_12 Posted October 4, 2017 Report Share Posted October 4, 2017 from my previous post: yes most them just want to say they are mix to get a date (mostly those malays who fancy chinese) or to get belong. But in real life they are not really mix. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taboo Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 I usually stop replying the moment I see the word "mixed". Happy to date a malay but never a terrible liar with low self esteem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Annoyed Posted October 23, 2017 Report Share Posted October 23, 2017 There are some 'mixed' people ... and that is fine if they are truly 'mixed' ... but lying about being 'mixed' is unacceptable. Your race is your race. Some people will like you due to your race, some won't care what race you are, and some will dislike you due to your race. Stop desperately chasing the last category and start looking for guys in the first two categories. Lying about being 'mixed' will only make things worse when the people you have tricked meet you. They won't be charmed by your personality. Just angered by your dishonesty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Late to the party Posted June 9, 2018 Report Share Posted June 9, 2018 Sometimes they really are mix but they just look like one race. Many Eurasians just look Malay. Chindians too. Sometimes they are mixed but from 4 or 5 generations ago. In that case, they should just put the race they look like the most on their profile. But other times, they are just lying because in Singapore, if they list themselves as pure Malay or Indian, they are likely to be rejected. So by putting 'mix', they think their chances of securing a catch is higher. If they did not face difficulty in the market, I dun think they will feel the need to lie and put 'mix'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted June 9, 2018 Report Share Posted June 9, 2018 perhaps this is : 人在江湖，身不由己 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rem Posted June 10, 2018 Report Share Posted June 10, 2018 Wouldnt there be no issues if they go after their own race? I dont think a malay would reject a fellow malay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted June 24, 2018 Report Share Posted June 24, 2018 On 6/11/2018 at 12:21 AM, Guest Rem said: Wouldnt there be no issues if they go after their own race? I dont think a malay would reject a fellow malay. Apparently quite a number of Malay guys don't pursue other Malays in Singapore. Some would even say they date only Chinese or white. Likely due to the media in Singapore since the advertisements usually feature Chinese or white models. I have seen Malay couples in Malaysia only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hiho Posted July 4, 2018 Report Share Posted July 4, 2018 On 6/24/2018 at 8:59 AM, repressednerd said: Apparently quite a number of Malay guys don't pursue other Malays in Singapore. Some would even say they date only Chinese or white. Likely due to the media in Singapore since the advertisements usually feature Chinese or white models. I have seen Malay couples in Malaysia only. this is true, i noticed malays fancy Chinese so much. they are so proud if they managed to hook up or date a Chinese i dont know why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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