Guest uptoyoutojudge Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 Anyone having such problem as per topic? I'm currently in a committed relationship for more than 2 years. However, there are still times whereby I'll go out and have little fun with my friends/ NSA/ guys that I had fun with in the past. Recently I realized it has been quite hard to get a solid erection and maintain it when having fun w/ other guys. *I do not have any physical erectile dysfunction problems, I still have rock hard erection in the morning* Guys now just can't seem to turn me on as high as before. But, whenever I watch porn, I'll still get horny and eventually an erection. My friends told me its probably something to do with the brain that I cant seem to figure out, or I am not attracted to guys anymore? P.S. Whenever I see a hot guy out there, I'll still want to make out and have hot sex with him. It felt like, my mind wants sex, but my dick doesn't? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winking.rabbit Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 You're watching too much porn! http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/erection-problems-this-habit-may-why/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 Just now, Guest uptoyoutojudge said: I'm currently in a committed relationship for more than 2 years. Elaborate on this... female or male? Are you having sex with just this person while thinking about the others and wanting to do them but when do with your significant other, you find it hard to do it. ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest uptoyoutojudge Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 1 minute ago, winking.rabbit said: You're watching too much porn! http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/erection-problems-this-habit-may-why/ Really? is there a solution for this? Just now, upshot said: Elaborate on this... female or male? Are you having sex with just this person while thinking about the others and wanting to do them but when do with your significant other, you find it hard to do it. Male. To answer your question, nope. I had problems when I'm having sex with both my partners and other guys outside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hocus Pocus Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 Your BF casted a spell on to your dick. iamziz and bluerunner 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 You long time had not exercised already ? go out and exercise . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winking.rabbit Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 3 minutes ago, Guest uptoyoutojudge said: Really? is there a solution for this? http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/health/are-you-watching-too-much-porn-20130821 Quote Stop watching porn and resist the urge to masturbate as much as possible. Within six to 12 weeks your brain will rebound to a more typical dopamine sensitivity (though recovery time varies). "Some people's brains reach homeostasis [or, physiological equilibrium] much quicker," Dr. Waterman explains. "Time is your best friend when it comes to reestablishing homeostasis in the brain." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest uptoyoutojudge Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 Just now, Kimochi said: You long time had not exercised already ? go out and exercise . If you meant literally work out I work out at least twice a week. If you meant going out to have sex I have been doing so lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted October 31, 2016 Report Share Posted October 31, 2016 Just now, Guest uptoyoutojudge said: Really? is there a solution for this? Male. To answer your question, nope. I had problems when I'm having sex with both my partners and other guys outside. In that case we all have what I call phases in our life.. be it stress, work and even biological we go thru period where we are not as high strung on sex all the time. We all have those time of our life where we can't get it up or half way doing it, we go soft. It happens. Start with stress. Are you over worked or have other things that is occupying our mind. Yes it can happen even when having sex and even more common if it is a regular partner. that's where wan the sex but you are not as sexually motivated heheh... It happens. Again how old are you? It can be an age thing. Also are you getting too bored with vanilla sex? What have you done that is difference to spice up your fun? Before we start to think we are having physical problems with our sexual organ in bed. Try to look at other parts of your life which might be effecting you with you even realizing it. If you are fucking and you can not keep it hard, it is more then about sex sometime. Give yourself some time. Sometime over thinking just add to the pressure and you get too mindful over it that you start to have stage anxiety that cause you to lose that sexy feeling heh. Don't jump too quick to conclusions. Take it one step at a time. Also watch how much porn you watch... there is such a thing as "Porn Dick" ... google it. See how it can effect some people who watch too much porn. ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Difference Posted November 1, 2016 Report Share Posted November 1, 2016 You are in a committed relationship because your commitment is to a person you like/love unlike porn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youngpunk Posted November 1, 2016 Report Share Posted November 1, 2016 On 31/10/2016 at 9:21 PM, Guest Hocus Pocus said: Your BF casted a spell on to your dick. HAHA! And the only way to break the spell is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustASinkie Posted November 1, 2016 Report Share Posted November 1, 2016 You could try rebooting - nofap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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