When did the gay in you came out? How Did You Turn Gay? (compiled)

[Tommy vietnam]

17 minutes ago, suckmegood said:

 

maybe you need to force lick a pussy. ROFL

 

I will try if i get a chance.

[upshot]

"TURN GAY" What there is a trigger? hahahahah...

 

2016 and internet googling. Sigh.

Edited December 16, 2016 by upshot
typos

[Guest Pacque]

"Turn Gay" in this case simply means how did you first realize you were gay or undergo your first gay sex experience.

[Guest Guest]

11 hours ago, upshot said:

"TURN GAY" What there is a trigger? hahahahah...

 

2016 and internet googling. Sigh.

 

I think this is one of your shortest comments

[upshot]

7 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

 

I think this is one of your shortest comments

Not to worry .... it is not habit forming..

[Guest Gay]

[oralb]

Sigh... Have you ever asked your straight friends "hey how did you turn straight?"

[Guest Guest]

Like this???

[Bdman]

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Edited June 10, 2018 by Bdman

[bennyboi]

3 hours ago, Bdman said:

I am like most pple. Born to be gay.

Since young age, i have the desire to look at guys i like. My first gay sex was with my regular barber. Those days where there are those male barber shop, with all the uncles who like to gather there for chit chat smoking session. And it just happen one fine day when my barber realise that the boy whom he had cut hair for years had grown up and is ready to have sex. Hahaha

Wow.... got detailed story? Sounds erotic

[Guest No Copy]

On 15/12/2016 at 2:10 AM, Guest On Fire said:

I tried to date girls in secondary school, but the ones I liked were not interested, and those who liked me were very unattractive. But besides that I always thought about boys when I wanked and only right before cumming would my fantasy switch to girls. I told myself it was just a phase but eventually experimented with a boy from another school several times. We drifted apart and I tried unsuccessfully to date girls again until graduating university. After starting work, I began hanging out socially with a mixed group that included gay guys and lesbians, and sometimes accompanied them to bars and clubs. This made me feel more comfortable in a gay environment and eventually I began to seek out guys on my own but generally remain closeted.

 

I am suspicious that the above text is a fake post acting as "Guest On Fire"

[Bdman]

On 12/19/2016 at 11:43 PM, bennyboi said:

Wow.... got detailed story? Sounds erotic

...

Edited June 10, 2018 by Bdman

[cutejack]

On Saturday, December 17, 2016 at 9:28 PM, Guest Guest said:

Like this???

What r they doing?travelling in a coach or train har?

[cutejack]

On Saturday, December 17, 2016 at 9:28 PM, Guest Guest said:

Like this???

What r they doing?travelling in a coach or train har?

[Guest Uranus]

I went to Uranus and loved licking it so much, I'm now gay! Yay! 

[bennyboi]

On 20/12/2016 at 7:58 AM, Bdman said:

Well, things happen one fine day when i finally agree to have a crewcut just like his, and he ask me to come on a friday which is the rest day of the shop, and will not be crowded like normal days with others uncle who is there for chit chat session. Yup, he is the boss, so he could open the doors for me during rest day. After haircut we chat and smoke in his salon, and he just took out his tools and ask me to touch it. From there, we started... .... 

So nice. hehehe

I kinda fantasize that he asked you to take off your clothes before putting the cover on your body and you were jerking, and he start sucking you.

Sorta like porn plot, but yours sounded more realistic and sweet

[Bdman]

On 12/21/2016 at 11:24 PM, bennyboi said:

So nice. hehehe

I kinda fantasize that he asked you to take off your clothes before putting the cover on your body and you were jerking, and he start sucking you.

Sorta like porn plot, but yours sounded more realistic and sweet

...

Edited June 10, 2018 by Bdman

[KAXavion]

I was Bi, till I drop my interest in girls after poly time. And realize I was attracted to guys. which is abit too late. Late bloomer me.

[Shoo]

On 11/26/2016 at 9:17 PM, AP1987 said:

Well.. I am always curious on how ppl becoming gay or turn sideways. horny or just attraction.. what's your story?

 

Let me start with my story.

 

I grew up sharing the same bed with my younger brother until late secondary school. My parents are not on good terms. Both have their own lovers. my first encounter was with my mum's bf...

Pls tell us more

[ThatLonelySGboy]

I remembered having crushes on girls in pri school - but im not sure if that was just coz it made me look cool infront of my classmates - you know, childish antics. Anyway, I moved from a co-ed pri school to an all boys sec school, and never really had any interest in girls from my teenage years onwards. 

 

While I started jacking off to straight porn, I somehow felt more comfortable looking at gay porn by the time I was in upper sec. Porn led to cam sex with ppl from the irc and trevvy etc. 

 

First encounter with a guy was when I was in poly - at a suana. Subsequently suppressed all my attraction to girls coz I thought that it wouldn't be fair to them if I got into any relationships. 

[Guest Neh Neh]

Superman turned me gay when I was a boy. I remember superman wearing that red sexy underwear and he looks so handsome. Ever since I dreamed having sex with superman. Oh my he so handsome, righteous and my hero.

anyone turned gay by Superman too?

[sgboy84]

I don't think I was born gay. The trauma of being molested by my guy classmate in primary 2 became the main trigger. I even remember his name till now. It was bad enough until my parents had to come down to talk to the teacher and him. In later years guys tend to initiate more with me and expressed their fondness more than girls. So as they say the rest is history...lol...

[fab]

 

[hdbguy]

It started when i went to watch str8 porn with an older neighbour. Me 10, him 12. When i felt kinda dizzy, he asked me to put on his sisters clothes and try to imitate the female character in the porn. And we tried to copy those acts we watched. Eventually, he spread words of it, and i began to be used sexually for 2 more of my older neighbours. It helped as they were more endowed and more experienced and used me for their satisfaction. It had to stop as they eventually got gfs, but i still had this scar, and also a liking of being used for mens pleasure. I still hope to be used by my 1st neighbour whom i really missed his dick, though he is aldy married. This is my true story..

[Guest Seafood allergy]

On 16/12/2016 at 10:49 AM, suckmegood said:

 

maybe you need to force lick a pussy. ROFL

 

Yucks, so raw and fishy. 

[Guest Beatty]

I was a primary 6 Student and it was recess time.  I saw a secondary student in white long pants leaning against the metal railings outside the classroom corridor. We were separated by the common fence and he was on the first floor  while I was on the ground floor.  What caught my attention  when looking up was that he was as if in his white underwear only.  His white long pants were almost translucent under the sunshine.  A school mate of mine saw my engrossment and tailed me all the way striking a conversation later.  At a quieter spot,  he initiated a challenge of strength like fighting spiders do.  Facing each other with hands held up high we started pushing. He was the muscular one and so had me pushed till my back leaned against the wall.  We looked like a couple in embrace and he was grinding his crotch against mine.  A short distance away was a boy teasing us whether were we trying to fuck?  We stopped immediately.  On a separate day this school mate asked me to enter a toilet cubicle with him during recess.  Over there he he showed me his erected cock which felt so feverish hot.  Then he pulled down my shorts and underwear to start rubbing cocks even rubbing my backside.  When he tucked his cock underneath my buttocks I got hooked forever by that heat emanating from his cock  and turned gay forever looking for cocks to play.

 

[yuquidam]

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Edited July 22, 2020 by yuquidam

[Guest Beatty]

22 hours ago, yuquidam said:

Hmmmm....from Beatty Sec? Wonder if i was that school mate of yours....?? Lol

 

Chance is usually slim. However since you also existed around that time I think quite likely you may have received the ripple effect I sort of produced after I turned gay.   Remember I wrote that I got hooked and started looking for playing partners?  During recess I would squat inside toilet cubicles to fish for them.  What's the bait?  Its my cock which seemed to begin maturing.  I heard some giving me a special comment and that is , my cock is 'tood hood' in teochew dialect. It means the glan head is half popping out of the tight foreskin hold. So many school mates had peeped at it from under the cubicle door which really had a wide gap - think its more than 6 inches a gap.  The braver ones would even request to see it and even touching it later.  This event became too hot that one particular male teacher started patrolling the place.  I can't remember that it stopped totally.but another form of such gay behavior started forming.  And that is many male pupils grinding their crotch against the butt of the student in front of themselves in the queue for buying food.  Frankly this wasn't started by me.  I found that out when I got squeezed by times.  Its rediculous!  They were buying food as if there is going to be a famine.  Hahaha so so voluptous how not to continue the gay journey.

[Guest Guest]

So one can TURN gay...so base on TS, one cam UnTurn gay? So TS, you think what the magician pastor say is true? 

[TwoChnBTMs]

in  camp....with officer @ weekend  

[Guest johnsonklt]

hahahah  so many interesting stories,  I had my 1st gay encounter when my cousin  stroke his cock on my ass 

and feeling shiok,  I just simply like it, that was when I was about 6yo.   Another encounter when I was in Pr.6

a classmate touched my cock when we were in the toilet but I did not like it,  dun know why.

Then when in NS a Sgt seem to had crust in me,   That was the 1st time being fuck by him and he made me

to suck his dick  &  swallow his sperm.   Of course 1st time did not like it,  eventually seem to like it  &  enjoy 

so much.  Automatically  I sometime went into his room fr there he taught me many kinky  things.  

That Sgt was my trainer  hahahaha. After NS nv  see him again.   I miss his training,  hehehehehe.

[upshot]

It's hard to say you TURN GAY. It is more about you DISCOVERING you are gay and like a light bulb just turn on when it happens. You can turn BI I guess in a way or be daring enough to experiment with sex with another male. You do not have gay sex or define your sexual fun with another guy as BEING GAY...on the sole act of that you have sex with a man.

 

You just have sex. And it so happen it is with another guy. Gays IS NOT ABOUT SEX ALONE.. it is about being in relation with another male person.. at a  level of attraction & intimacy which is on par with the way a male is attracted to a relationship with and/or marry a female to build a life together ... BUT WITH A MALE. That is being gay.

 

If all you think about is the sex part... you are not thinking about being gay, turning gay or even knowing what being gay is truly about....body and soul.

Edited September 17, 2017 by upshot
restructure for clarity

[Guest Ict]

7 hours ago, johnsonklt said:

hahahah  so many interesting stories,  I had my 1st gay encounter when my cousin  stroke his cock on my ass 

and feeling shiok,  I just simply like it, that was when I was about 6yo.   Another encounter when I was in Pr.6

a classmate touched my cock when we were in the toilet but I did not like it,  dun know why.

Then when in NS a Sgt seem to had crust in me,   That was the 1st time being fuck by him and he made me

to suck his dick  &  swallow his sperm.   Of course 1st time did not like it,  eventually seem to like it  &  enjoy 

so much.  Automatically  I sometime went into his room fr there he taught me many kinky  things.  

That Sgt was my trainer  hahahaha. After NS nv  see him again.   I miss his training,  hehehehehe.

 

Maybe he's in this BW forum, try connecting him for a rendezvous ICT.

[nicjude]

I wonder if all, or rather most, of you guys think the same way here. Might be the reason why most of us are here, primarily looking for sex and sexual partners.

 

To be frank, you don't turn gay, you basically are. It's a matter of whether you realise you're gay or not, whether you accept it or not, whether you act on it or not. I can tell you that sexual firsts aren't the only things that allow for one's sexual enlightenment. One can also be enlightened by so much as a crush or a romance that, at the time, may not have seemed like a good idea, but might have turned out to be an awakening of one's own pleasure in a sense. 

[Guest Woodie]

So many child abuse unreported

[kimlo777]

On 9/15/2012 at 8:24 PM, Guest straight said:

was seduce by a gay collegue while holiday with him. he make me hard than sit on me while i penetrate him. i begin to enjoy screwing man but i am straight want to settle down , marry and have a family.this happen few time he invite me to his place. can i dun turn gay but i beginning to enjoy penetrating man now more than fxxking gals.

 

don't worry too much about your sexuality ... if you happen to  be bi - that's great then you can enjoy the best of both worlds.

[tterrynick]

5 minutes ago, kimlo777 said:

 

don't worry too much about your sexuality ... if you happen to  be bi - that's great then you can enjoy the best of both worlds.

'Best of both worlds'.... EEEWWWWW.... I can't even think about that... exclusively gay!

[kimlo777]

I believe firmly that I am born the way I am.  From a very young age I was attracted to other men's penises - just love the sight of it and how from its flaccid state it can slowly grow larger and become firmly erect.  It was just so fascinating.  Then I had the chance to hold one in my tiny hands and from then, I just love the feel of a blood-engorged cock in my hand.  Then I was taught to stroke it and marvelled at how it would twitch in my hands and eventually shoot out sperm.  I was immediately addicted to the scent of sperm and a few weeks later swallowed my first dose of sperm and love it too.  Then from giving handjob, I graduated to sucking cock until when I was 12 or thereabout, I was finally deflowered by a school teacher.  It felt painful but the strange thing is I wanted it to happen again so I kept visiting that teacher at his flat and on each visit he would lead me to his bedroom and fuck me senseless.  That was almost 50 years ago and I still love getting fucked.  Does that make me gay?  On the other hand, I am happily married and have a grown up married son and a happy grandfather.

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, kimlo777 said:

I believe firmly that I am born the way I am.  From a very young age I was attracted to other men's penises - just love the sight of it and how from its flaccid state it can slowly grow larger and become firmly erect.  It was just so fascinating.  Then I had the chance to hold one in my tiny hands and from then, I just love the feel of a blood-engorged cock in my hand.  Then I was taught to stroke it and marvelled at how it would twitch in my hands and eventually shoot out sperm.  I was immediately addicted to the scent of sperm and a few weeks later swallowed my first dose of sperm and love it too.  Then from giving handjob, I graduated to sucking cock until when I was 12 or thereabout, I was finally deflowered by a school teacher.  It felt painful but the strange thing is I wanted it to happen again so I kept visiting that teacher at his flat and on each visit he would lead me to his bedroom and fuck me senseless.  That was almost 50 years ago and I still love getting fucked.  Does that make me gay?  On the other hand, I am happily married and have a grown up married son and a happy grandfather.

Huh!!! U r married kimlo? Thought u r single gay all along.OMG.

I get my water first....

[kimlo777]

4 hours ago, cutejack said:

Huh!!! U r married kimlo? Thought u r single gay all along.OMG.

I get my water first....

cutejack - don't choke hor!!!  Surprise surprise surprise.  But when I am with a man, I am a complete cock-sucker and bottom who loves to get fucked hard and fast.

[Leanmeat]

4 hours ago, cutejack said:

Huh!!! U r married kimlo? Thought u r single gay all along.OMG.

I get my water first....

 

Im surprise too

[Leanmeat]

6 hours ago, kimlo777 said:

I believe firmly that I am born the way I am.  From a very young age I was attracted to other men's penises - just love the sight of it and how from its flaccid state it can slowly grow larger and become firmly erect.  It was just so fascinating.  Then I had the chance to hold one in my tiny hands and from then, I just love the feel of a blood-engorged cock in my hand.  Then I was taught to stroke it and marvelled at how it would twitch in my hands and eventually shoot out sperm.  I was immediately addicted to the scent of sperm and a few weeks later swallowed my first dose of sperm and love it too.  Then from giving handjob, I graduated to sucking cock until when I was 12 or thereabout, I was finally deflowered by a school teacher.  It felt painful but the strange thing is I wanted it to happen again so I kept visiting that teacher at his flat and on each visit he would lead me to his bedroom and fuck me senseless.  That was almost 50 years ago and I still love getting fucked.  Does that make me gay?  On the other hand, I am happily married and have a grown up married son and a happy grandfather.

 

Seriosuly, if u enjoy guy sex so much from young, why did u even get married? Society pressure? And..can get hard w girls?

[cutejack]

5 minutes ago, Leanmeat said:

 

Seriosuly, if u enjoy guy sex so much from young, why did u even get married? Society pressure? And..can get hard w girls?

I wanted ask all this question too

KIMLO!!!

[kimlo777]

To all my dear friends,

 

I am not at all taken aback at your surprised reaction.  I really really enjoy sex with men and can never get enough of it and still yearn for more more and more even at 60 and luckily for me, there are some younger men who love daddies and grampies.

 

No I did not bent over because of societal demands.  But I did not have the heart to break my poor mum's heart.  She wanted so much to see me married to a nice girl and so that was what I did for her.  I married a nice girl-next-door sort of person who adores my mum and whom my mum doted on like her own daughter.  Since I married I had to fulfill my role as a husband so I had to produce babies and we had a wonderful son.  He is now 34 years old, married and has a lovely daughter.  They are trying for a son.

 

The question is can I even get hard with a woman and the miraculous thing is - yes I managed.  At 40 i had a serious case of diabetes which rendered me with difficulties getting my cock erect.  So that was my excuse for not being able to make love to my wife anymore and we stopped having sex since then.  But I had no problem having sex with men since I play the bottom's role. 

 

So guys, all's well that ends well.  But I had always been faithful to my wife as I had never strayed with another woman in my life - she was the only one.

[kimlo777]

Guys - now that I have bared my soul to all of you. Please don't flame me hor.  Rather it would be nice to have some gay friends who can understand and sympathise with me and continue to screw me lah!

[Guest 40yo gay]

kena molested by my neighbor (an uncle) at the age of 7 or so

he suck and stroke my little dick till i cum but at that age nothing shoot out.

since then i have a crush on older man, during sec school i like my teachers, now come out to work i like my elderly bosses

sometimes i think i am born gay, even without that neighbor i think i won't like girls

 

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, kimlo777 said:

Guys - now that I have bared my soul to all of you. Please don't flame me hor.  Rather it would be nice to have some gay friends who can understand and sympathise with me and continue to screw me lah!

Not at all.u have yr reason.

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, kimlo777 said:

To all my dear friends,

 

I am not at all taken aback at your surprised reaction.  I really really enjoy sex with men and can never get enough of it and still yearn for more more and more even at 60 and luckily for me, there are some younger men who love daddies and grampies.

 

No I did not bent over because of societal demands.  But I did not have the heart to break my poor mum's heart.  She wanted so much to see me married to a nice girl and so that was what I did for her.  I married a nice girl-next-door sort of person who adores my mum and whom my mum doted on like her own daughter.  Since I married I had to fulfill my role as a husband so I had to produce babies and we had a wonderful son.  He is now 34 years old, married and has a lovely daughter.  They are trying for a son.

 

The question is can I even get hard with a woman and the miraculous thing is - yes I managed.  At 40 i had a serious case of diabetes which rendered me with difficulties getting my cock erect.  So that was my excuse for not being able to make love to my wife anymore and we stopped having sex since then.  But I had no problem having sex with men since I play the bottom's role. 

 

So guys, all's well that ends well.  But I had always been faithful to my wife as I had never strayed with another woman in my life - she was the only one.

Oh having fun with guys is not straying n faithful to wife la.ok.noted.lol

[kimlo777]

8 minutes ago, cutejack said:

Oh having fun with guys is not straying n faithful to wife la.ok.noted.lol

I somehow psyche myself into believing that ... I feel better doing that.

[kimlo777]

10 minutes ago, cutejack said:

Not at all.u have yr reason.

Thanks cutejack.