A Question A Day / Getting To Know You

[Guest 72%dark]

A "Members' Lounge" in real life is a place where members can relax, chit chat, and get to know one another. On BW this happens indirectly, I suppose, when members post in the topical threads and reveal their viewpoints. It occurred to me one day that there isn't a thread that's more or less just for this purpose, is designed to elicit responses that are more personal, interesting and thought-provoking, and moreover can be continually updated to remain interesting. Not-so-small talk, I guess.

 

So I had the idea of starting a thread where every day I post a question of a general and personal nature, and any member is invited to post a reply if they find the question interesting, or reply to other members' answers, and take the conversation where it might lead. Then a new question the next day. (Of course, older questions always remain open for discussion; just quote the original question so others know what you're referring to.)

 

To give an idea of the kinds of topics/questions I had in mind, I'll provide a few questions (linked by a theme) in the first post.

If there's sufficient interest, I'll continue with a new/different topic/question tomorrow, and so on.

 

So here goes:

Edited December 12, 2016 by 72%dark

[Guest 72%dark]

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

[Guest 72%dark]

example answer:

 

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

1.

Since these questions are in the realm of imagination, one person I’d choose would be my first boyfriend (whom I don’t think it’s possible for me to find in the real world now). It would be enough just to hold his hand and say “Thank you” and “I’m sorry”.

2.

I’d probably want a meal with many courses, like a dégustation at El Bulli but not so esoteric, encompassing many different tastes, flavors and textures. But I’d want to end it off with a comforting dessert, like a warm bread pudding with vanilla sauce and a dusting of cinnamon.

3.

https://youtu.be/mC2vYfVUNTI

4.

If it was tomorrow: “At least he always tried his best.”
If it was after a long life: “The fruits of his labors and deeds may have been humble, but they touched the lives of some and made a difference; it was not all in vain.”

 

[wuyong]

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Edited April 4, 2018 by wuyong

[Guest 72%dark]

 

14 hours ago, hannibalism said:

1. i'm hoping my child(ren)/grandchild(ren): be brave, be kind.

 

I love this; but i don't think i'd wait to my deathbed to say it. 

 

13 hours ago, wuyong said:

 

4. "History will absolve him."

 

You're planning to do something very controversial? ;-)

 

[Guest 72%dark]

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

[iwannac]

22 hours ago, 72%dark said:

(Of course, older questions always remain open for discussion; just quote the original question so others know what you're referring to.)

 

Love the general idea of your thread! But I can see this becoming very messy. Why not just leave it to once a week or once every time you post a new question (and the old one ends after you've posted the new question)?

You can also change the format (font, size, etc.) or the way you write the questions. That way you can easily switch from moderator to a person who wants to give your opinions easily.

Just giving my two cents.

 

 

32 minutes ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

 

Anyways, VERY HARD QUESTION. But the top of my head just screamed Harry Potter.

Though, I would love to live in an FF universe.

 

I think I have a thing for magic.

[Guest Glyph]

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

To my future pet dog bff: "Phoenix, down."

 

2. What would your last meal be?

A home-cooked meal by a loved one. Preferably with orh nee as dessert, and some sour skittles.

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

An epitaph... hmm. "The light after rain."

[wuyong]

2 hours ago, 72%dark said:

 

 

 

You're planning to do something very controversial? ;-)

 

 

It will probably just end up as a footnote to my life which reflects my sociopolitical leanings more so than a call for radical action, lest I end up like what happened to Soh Lung in 1987 or even being forced into self-exile from this country I intend to remain in. 

[Guest 72%dark]

11 hours ago, iwannac said:

 

Love the general idea of your thread! But I can see this becoming very messy. Why not just leave it to once a week or once every time you post a new question (and the old one ends after you've posted the new question)?

You can also change the format (font, size, etc.) or the way you write the questions. That way you can easily switch from moderator to a person who wants to give your opinions easily.

 

Thanks for your suggestions!

 

Yes, the frequency of the questions could certainly be reduced; it doesn't have to be a daily thing. The important point is that it should be updated from time to time.

 

I didn't really intend to answer the questions myself, so there isn't a need for me to vary the font etc. I just answered the first set as an example.

[wilfgene]

During the last rite, the pastor asked if Voltaire condemned Devil.

"Dear friend, now is not the time to make new enemy."

[Salt&Pepper]

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

 

1. I wouldn't dare summon, but I'll call out to Amitabha and tell him "I'm ready, please take me with you to the Pureland."

 

2. Hopefully nothing.

 

3. Whatever song that will bring comfort to the people who attended my funeral.

 

4. Whatever that will bring comfort to the people who cremated me. If I had lived a long life, TS's rule still applies, less than 50-word please.

[Mroneonline]

Joining in the fun here. But my answers to the first set of questions are serious though.

1. Perhaps not summon my mum, rather prefer her to be by my side and seek her forgiveness. (Should I ever pass away before her)

 

2. Hopefully something to do with chicken. I live to eat chicken haha

 

3. Salam akhir by Sudirman - super tearjerking Malay ballad about leaving this world.

 

4. Probably some prayer.

 

This questions got me thinking hard for a while :/ Hope we will all live our lives with no regrets!

 

[EasleyLim]

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

1) No one, I think. I don't think I would be able to say anything coherent/meaningful at that point.

2) Grandma's 梅菜扣肉. That shit is the bomb.

3) 笑红尘

4) "They say your entire life flashes in front of your eyes the moment before you die. That might be true if you're terminally ill, or your parachute doesn't open but if death sneaks up on you, the only thing you have time to think is “Aw, shit.”"

 

On 12/13/2016 at 0:03 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

 

Hmm... nothing particularly holds my fancy. Maybe i'll take a short vacation rather than live in any one world. I assume all the different universes would become boring after a while.

Edited December 15, 2016 by EasleyLim

[melvinlam90]

On 12/12/2016 at 5:50 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

 

Let me see

 

1. this is a really tough question, and honestly, I do not have an answer right now (more of because there are too many people i need to summon)

 

2. Mixed vegetable rice (egg, tofu, chicken and hotdogs)

 

3. Bon Jovi - It's My Life

 

4. Remember, here's the guy who has tired to lose weight unsuccessfully for x years, probably that's why he's lying in there now. (well, if people came and happen to read my gravestone, i hope it will inspire them (or scare them) to lead a healthier lifestyle

 

 

Question 1 is really difficult hmm

[wuyong]

On 12/13/2016 at 0:03 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

 

Greg Egan's short story Closer.

[Guest 72%dark]

I love reading the replies and find the variety of different answers fascinating! Thanks everyone, keep 'em coming! 

 

(Will post a new question soon… )

[youngpunk]

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

 

1.  My current bff (he's straight).  Just to thank him for all the good memories, and for accepting me for who I am and kept it a secret.

2.  Whatever my mom cooks.  If she's not around, 水餃 for the win.

3.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egY8rUpxqcE

4.  "He had fun." or "He was always happy."

 

[Yaoi]

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

No one - Forever alone o(╥﹏╥)o

 

2. What would your last meal be?

Herbal Mutton Soup and Green tea latte/ Toffee Nut Latte from Starbucks

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

Ayumi Hamasaki - Miss(Understood)

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

At long last he was able to free himself from the shackles that bounded him when he was still alive...

[Gary Changg]

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

1. My Little Brother. "Continue your journey cause you're not alone. I'll be watching you and I love you like how mom and dad did." 

2. Anything nice cooked by my Mr.Right. 

3. 总在我身旁

4. "He'd be the brightest star up in the sky. He could not be seen during the day, but we know he'll always be there for us." 

[Guest 72%dark]

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

[Lemonjuice]

2 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

1. When i moved to Australia and left everything behind.

2. When i finally got the coveted Aussie citizenship and landed a dream job.

3. When i broke up the two year long distance relationship...

4. When my current bf family accepts me as part of his family (they know we are in a loving relationship)

5. When i realised that by living true to myself it means i would not bear a grandchild for my parents and fulfilling the duty as the first born and the only son.

6. When the above drama have passed and i looked back how i have gone through all these, stayed strong and kept a positive outlook of a free life...thank God

[wilfgene]

5 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

A female classmate from last century left with skin and bone.

7 hours later a good-looker showed me his hard-on.

On 12/13/2016 at 0:03 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

 Led by the above reply, "Windy City" with John Shea, Kate Capeshaw and Josh Mostel.

So, life goes on. 

[JYAG-sim]

10 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

On the evening of 4 Dec 2016 in Taiwan when I discovered my bf had cheated... And to think I've not cried in decades 

[Gary Changg]

13 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

30th Dec 2015. A year back. Lost my 4th aunt.

[thorzguy]

15 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

Thanks 72%dark for the this tread!

 

I teared on 14th Dec 2016, in the midst of my morning prayer. It just overwhelmed me suddenly as something has happened to a very closed friend of mine. Nope, he is still alive of course. Sorry I can't reveal the exact reason due to certain sensitivity issue. 

 

I was luckily to be home alone, but god knows.

[youngpunk]

15 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

10 years ago...when my grandma passed away.  haven't shed a tear since then...

[Guest 72%dark]

On 19/12/2016 at 4:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

To all who shared an answer to 19 Dec's question ... a hug...

 

All too often we're told or made to feel that to cry or to give in to sadness is a sign of weakness. But grieving is a way of coming to terms with life's tribulations.

[cycle25]

Thanks for opening this thread. I'll join in too!

 

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

 

1. My bf, our kids (if we have any) and our future Corgis. I'd tell them that I love them lots and to live and love the best they can be; not to hold any regrets and to live to the fullest.

2. Hands down my favourite meal - Nasi Lemak. The basic type which I grew up eating as a child in Malaysia, lemak rice, non-sweet sambal, ikan bilis, peanuts, hard boiled egg and cucumber.

3. My heart will go on - Celine Dion / We belong together - Mariah Carey

4. He was a blessing & encouragement to many. Loved by his family.

 

On 12/13/2016 at 0:03 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (13 DEC 2016)

 

If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be?

 

Ehh, this one is hard.. I enjoy reality TV but that wouldn't necessarily be the best to live in. So I guess I'd have to go with Transformers purely cause it'd be cool to see those robots transforming. *sheepish grin*

 

On 12/19/2016 at 4:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

17th December 2016 - because I have a scratch on my cornea due to dry eyes... But otherwise speaking, I believe in 2006 when my grandma passed away.

[Guest 72%dark]

ho ho ho! 'tis the season (of giving), so …

 

 

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (24 DEC 2016)

 

1. What's the best and the worse gift you've ever received (not necessarily a xmas present)?

 

2. What's the most precious gift you(*) could give someone?

(* "you" can mean specifically you as an individual, or it can mean people in general)

 

3. If you could choose to have one of Santa's powers/abilities, which would you choose?

[Gary Changg]

37 minutes ago, 72%dark said:

ho ho ho! 'tis the season (of giving), so …

 

 

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (24 DEC 2016)

 

1. What's the best and the worse gift you've ever received (not necessarily a xmas present)?

 

2. What's the most precious gift you(*) could give someone?

(* "you" can mean specifically you as an individual, or it can mean people in general)

 

3. If you could choose to have one of Santa's powers/abilities, which would you choose?

1. Best gift: A month trip to Canada. Worse gift is no gift at all! 

2. Precious gift that can't be seen but it's always there for someone is love; the one can be seen and will be there for sometime is anything hand-made. It doesn't need to be luxury items. 

3. Taking all sorts of sufferings from anyone this world and grant them with happiness and the cause to be happy. 

[Guest 72%dark]

On 24/12/2016 at 0:14 PM, 72%dark said:

ho ho ho! 'tis the season (of giving), so …

 

 

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (24 DEC 2016)

 

1. What's the best and the worse gift you've ever received (not necessarily a xmas present)?

 

2. What's the most precious gift you(*) could give someone?

(* "you" can mean specifically you as an individual, or it can mean people in general)

 

3. If you could choose to have one of Santa's powers/abilities, which would you choose?

 

 

2. Time, your/my time.

Something that we don't have a lot of, and moreover, unlike money and many other things, once it's gone it's well and truly gone, it can't be regained.

People tend to only realize this after they lose someone and it's too late, when their time together has run out.

If you treasure someone, give them your time.

 

Happy holidays everyone!

[thorzguy]

On 24/12/2016 at 0:14 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (24 DEC 2016)

 

1. What's the best and the worse gift you've ever received (not necessarily a xmas present)?

 

2. What's the most precious gift you(*) could give someone?

(* "you" can mean specifically you as an individual, or it can mean people in general)

 

3. If you could choose to have one of Santa's powers/abilities, which would you choose

 

1) Best gift - be able to wake up daily. (meaning I am alive!)

Worse gift -  a recycled gift from someone. That person probably didn't realized that there were hand written message on the wrapper. Haha...

 

2) Most precious gift for someone -  my care an concern. It maybe associate with 72%dark mentioned below - Time as well.

 

3) Does Santa have any powers? Haha..

 

 

4 hours ago, 72%dark said:

2. Time, your/my time.

Something that we don't have a lot of, and moreover, unlike money and many other things, once it's gone it's well and truly gone, it can't be regained.

People tend to only realize this after they lose someone and it's too late, when their time together has run out.

If you treasure someone, give them your time.

Very well said!!

 

 

[Guest 72%dark]

6 hours ago, thorzguy said:

3) Does Santa have any powers? Haha..

 

Haha, this question is just for fun of course. His 'powers' are, e.g. being able to travel the whole world in a single night, fly on a sleigh drawn by reindeer, fit enough presents for the children of the world on said sleigh, the ability to fit down a chimney (despite not being thin), having an army of elves to do his bidding, being able to tell if someone has been naughty or nice, being able to reward them with what they wish for (if they've been good)... etc... 

[thorzguy]

15 hours ago, 72%dark said:

 

Haha, this question is just for fun of course. His 'powers' are, e.g. being able to travel the whole world in a single night, fly on a sleigh drawn by reindeer, fit enough presents for the children of the world on said sleigh, the ability to fit down a chimney (despite not being thin), having an army of elves to do his bidding, being able to tell if someone has been naughty or nice, being able to reward them with what they wish for (if they've been good)... etc... 

In that case, I would hope to be able to grant wishes to many (really needy) people... Wait. I sound like fairy godmother now. Hahaha...

Or maybe to fly around by reindeer -  no need to pay ERP!

 

[thorzguy]

5 hours ago, hannibalism said:

4th gen ERP is satellite-based liao. bo beh zao!

Oh yah.. coming soon somemore! Damn... Lol

[Samuel Lim]

Edited December 27, 2016 by Samuel Lim

[Guest 72%dark]

On 19/12/2016 at 4:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

Today was the first time in years.

My heart hasn't felt so broken in so long.

[lovehandle]

On ‎19‎/‎12‎/‎2016 at 2:12 PM, JYAG-sim said:

 

On the evening of 4 Dec 2016 in Taiwan when I discovered my bf had cheated... And to think I've not cried in decades 

sad to hear this

[kimlo777]

On 12/12/2016 at 1:50 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY (12 DEC 2016)

 

1. If you were on your deathbed and could summon anyone to your bedside to hear your last words, who would you summon and what would you say?

 

2. What would your last meal be?

 

3. Pick one song/piece of music that you would want played at your funeral.

 

4. If you died tomorrow and someone had to write a short (less than 50-word) eulogy in your obituary or on your gravestone, what do you hope it would say? What about if you died after living a long life?

 

 

(P.S. These questions might seem morbid, but actually the point is not to ruminate on death; rather, it helps us to clarify the people or things we consider important in life. And remember that serious topics don't necessarily preclude the playful or funny sides of life.)

 

1.  a Catholic priest - to hear my last confession (may God have mercy on me).

2.  a simple meal of my fave comfort food like lontong, gado gado or laksa

3.  This is My Life by Shirley Bassey or The Greatest Performance of My Life by Nancy Wilson

4.  My eulogy should include the phrase "Kim is a free-spirited man who feared God but at the same time, enjoyed all of the corporeal pleasures that the world could offer.  He lived a life, struggling to be good but caving in to temptation once too many times.  "Deep down in his heart, he was certain of one thing - that he loves God and knows Him to be loving and merciful.

Edited January 5, 2017 by kimlo777

[Guest 72%dark]

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (30 DEC 2016)

 

1. What is one lesson you learned in 2016?

 

2. How will 2017 be different from 2016 for you?

[iwannac]

On 19/12/2016 at 4:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (19 DEC 2016)

 

When was the last time you cried due to a real-life event (i.e. not when watching a movie/show, reading a sad story, etc.) and what caused it?

 

Havent cried in quite awhile. Last time I remember crying was about 3 years ago. I cried a few days after i broke up with my (now ex) bf.

I remember it very clearly. The day i broke up with him, i was fine-ish. The following few days were the same. One day I was driving and then all of a sudden I just started sobbing lololol. It felt good to let it all out though!

 

 

32 minutes ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (30 DEC 2016)

 

1. What is one lesson you learned in 2016?

 

2. How will 2017 be different from 2016 for you?

 

1. I am very much a typical millennial and that kinda sucks for my future.

 

2. Not sure if it will happen but I'm working towards it. I'm hoping I can finally further my studies overseas by the end of next year! (Or at least apply and get into an institution)

Edited December 30, 2016 by iwannac

[lovehandle]

On ‎30‎/‎12‎/‎2016 at 5:13 PM, iwannac said:

 

Havent cried in quite awhile. Last time I remember crying was about 3 years ago. I cried a few days after i broke up with my (now ex) bf.

I remember it very clearly. The day i broke up with him, i was fine-ish. The following few days were the same. One day I was driving and then all of a sudden I just started sobbing lololol. It felt good to let it all out though!

 

 

 

1. I am very much a typical millennial and that kinda sucks for my future.

 

2. Not sure if it will happen but I'm working towards it. I'm hoping I can finally further my studies overseas by the end of next year! (Or at least apply and get into an institution)

all of u v strong don't cry easily???????? I watch  a movie or some you tubes or see those that are disabled, I can easily ......

[thorzguy]

On 30/12/2016 at 4:42 PM, 72%dark said:

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY (30 DEC 2016)

 

1. What is one lesson you learned in 2016?

 

2. How will 2017 be different from 2016 for you?

1) -  Anything can just happened to anybody. Cherish all the living moments!

 

2) - Learning to love more, especially to your special one. Learning to let go when necessary.

 

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

all of u v strong don't cry easily???????? I watch  a movie or some you tubes or see those that are disabled, I can easily ......

I seldom cry. A lot of people see me as a very "tough" fellow. This doesn't mean I don't and when I do, means I am very very hurt. Nope, no one has see me cry before.

[Guest 72%dark]

QUESTION OF THE DAY (6 JAN 2017)

 

1. If you had to pick an animal, plant, or inanimate object that best represents you, what would it be?

[thorzguy]

18 hours ago, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (6 JAN 2017)

 

1. If you had to pick an animal, plant, or inanimate object that best represents you, what would it be?

Cat. I think I am a cat, stuck in a human being. Meow.

[thorzguy]

21 minutes ago, hannibalism said:

why you copy me...?

Ever heard of copycat?

[Salt&Pepper]

Edited January 6, 2017 by Salt&Pepper

[Jak09]

On 1/6/2017 at 0:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (6 JAN 2017)

 

1. If you had to pick an animal, plant, or inanimate object that best represents you, what would it be?

 

I would want to be a sparrow. lol

To fly and soar in the sky. Small yet could fly high in the skies.

[kimlo777]

On 1/6/2017 at 0:09 AM, 72%dark said:

QUESTION OF THE DAY (6 JAN 2017)

 

1. If you had to pick an animal, plant, or inanimate object that best represents you, what would it be?

 

A chimpanzee - smart, clever, playful and highly intelligent.