Singapore Local News! + Crime & Punishment (Non Gay) (Compiled)

[Jefjef]

 

 

 

What a shame to SAF!

What a shame to LTC Thariyan! 

 

to be fair what he did have nothing to do with SAF

He is shame to be a human that all

he shame his wife his family his son his daughter 

[Guest BarackObama]

to be fair what he did have nothing to do with SAF

He is shame to be a human that all

he shame his wife his family his son his daughter 

A shame to his professionalism as a SAF LTC Officer.

[Jefjef]

A shame to his professionalism as a SAF LTC Officer.

it just a job 

teacher principal manager CEO top public service officer all have

 

this is nothing to do with job 

[blueoceanfloor]

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Edited February 13, 2022 by blueoceanfloor

[Jefjef]

yes does not link to a MBA or Scholar will not make silly mistake

they are human too 

 

just morally not right

[EasleyLim]

But for someone in leadership position, i.e someone with power, it does casts doubts on his integrity and, by proxy, his ability to do his job.

[bodybuildMLY]

it just a job 

teacher principal manager CEO top public service officer all have

 

this is nothing to do with job 

 

All the more you shouldn't get yourself ashamed if you are a teacher / principal. You must practise what you preach. 

[Jefjef]

But for someone in leadership position, i.e someone with power, it does casts doubts on his integrity and, by proxy, his ability to do his job.

he did not mis use his power to have sex with the ger

 

the ger is a cheap chicken

collect ton of money and get 51 men into shit

and the ger collect the money and enjoy her life

the law protect the chicken

 

she might be continue to on business now

All the more you shouldn't get yourself ashamed if you are a teacher / principal. You must practise what you preach. 

yes morally wrong

 

that does not mean a construction workers can find underage

[Exynos]

I think it's BECAUSE he's a LTC and in a military organization that such an act is shamed and criticized. as NSFs even, if you contract HIV during the serving period you will be legally charged too. it's probably a set of ethos that is attached to serving the country.

 

also how is having sex with underage peeps any right in the first place?

[Jefjef]

I think it's BECAUSE he's a LTC and in a military organization that such an act is shamed and criticized. as NSFs even, if you contract HIV during the serving period you will be legally charged too. it's probably a set of ethos that is attached to serving the country.

 

also how is having sex with underage peeps any right in the first place?

correct

 

as long as u underage with anyone is wrong

that does not in place base on yr job and appointment 

[Exynos]

he received more flak obviously because also of his career

[azimuth]

Indeed. Once you are in a form of leadership position in most organizations, the spotlight is thrown on you and more is expected out of you naturally. This is probably why he is penalized socially as well.

[EasleyLim]

he did not mis use his power to have sex with the ger

 

the ger is a cheap chicken

collect ton of money and get 51 men into shit

and the ger collect the money and enjoy her life

the law protect the chicken

I did not say he misused his power to have sex with an underage girl but someone of his position is expected to have more moral integrity than your average person. In other words, if I cannot expect him to keep his dick in his pants, who's to say he won't have other integrity issues? 

[evianguy]

If every top civil servant, political leader and leaders of private corporations are the moral compass for the rest of society, then we would be pointed to very many directions as their moral values are not identical.

[Guest In Jest]

I don't get it. Soldiers are supposed to be tough and rough.The army sings MACHO songs like Purple Light talking about "raping" woman. And they don't see anything wrong until civil society complains. We all in NS hear about the Regular Officers and Encik calling chicken when overseas.

 

So what does the LTC needs to be ashamed of ? Because he got caught and exposed and revealing that SAF regulars call chicks ? Breaking the army golden rule that you can do it but just don't get caught.

 

Note: In jest !

 

 

What a shame to SAF!
What a shame to LTC Thariyan! 

 
 

A shame to his professionalism as a SAF LTC Officer.

 
 

But for someone in leadership position, i.e someone with power, it does casts doubts on his integrity and, by proxy, his ability to do his job.

[Johnsontan]

I know I sound insensitive … are there any underage gay money boy?! Geez …. that will be … sigh sigh a sicker form of child porn already

 

[morphymonster]

Seriously, i dont think he has done anything wrong. Shameful to SAF? Did he betray SAF by selling info to another country? Or did he steal any info from us? NO, all he did was as human as any one would be, having sex with a Sweet Young Thing. Its all business... All the shame he bought was shame to his family... Thats all...

 

First, do you think one would have ask for any identification before stripping down his pants? I dont think anyone here would. Or would you ask for an identification in a sauna before stripping? I doubt you would...

 

Cheers to all who thinks he shame our nation or SAF!!! :=)

[thickhead79]

SINGAPORE - A 20-year-old youth, after going absent without leave from national service, tricked a 13-year-old girl to his flat, locked her in and tried all ways and means to get her to have sex with him.

He offered her money, pinned her down on the bed, punched her on the head and threatened her with a knife.

The girl finally relented when she felt she had no choice but to have sex with him so that she could go home.

On Friday, the youth pleaded guilty to aggravated rape, wrongful confinement, criminal intimidation and causing hurt to the girl.

He also pleaded guilty to three other charges of sex with a minor, which involved other girls, who were aged 13 and 14 at the time. One of the girls, who became pregnant and underwent an abortion, is still his girlfriend.

The prosecution asked for the youth to be sentenced to 12 years' jail and 12 strokes of the cane but his lawyer asked for him to be sent for reformative training, which can last for between 18 months and three years.

Sentencing was adjourned as the High Court called for a pre-sentencing report to determine if he was suitable for reformative training.

- See more at: http://www.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/courts-crime/story/youth-20-pleads-guilty-rape-wrongful-confinement-13-year-old-girl-#xtor=CS1-10

[Fiacla]

RIP

http://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/damai-sec-student-posted-about-his-suicide-plans-months-he-died

 

16 year-old Aloysius from Damai Secondary School committed suicide 3 nights ago in his family flat at Block 602, Bedok Reservoir Road, where he was discovered hanging from the ceiling by his distraught parents. Friends and relatives have all expressed shock at his suicide, with many wondering what drove him to desperation.

Yet some classmates and friends of Aloysius have been blaming themselves for not spotting the tell tale signs of Aloysius' plans for suicide.

According to a friend of Aloysius, the 16 year-old was not popular in school, although he had many friends outside of school. This is why Aloysius hated school and posted often on his twitter account about his feelings of loneliness in school.

Another unnamed friend of Aloysius said that since February this year, Aloysius had started showing signs of depression, which may have contributed to Aloysius' decision to end his life.

"His (Aloysius') tweets were extreme and he complained about his loneliness in school. He said that he felt alone and helpless, and asked his friends whether they could give them some of their happiness. He even said that there is nothing that he could be happy about in life."

His tweets became more desperate by March and April, as he began openly posting about his thoughts of suicide and searched for ways to kill himself online.

After 28th May, Aloysius suddenly stopped posting updates on his twitter.

However, on the night just before he committed suicide, he posted a cryptic message hinting that he would act on his plan soon: "My night is near"

Aloysius hanged himself the night after, the same date as his birthday.

- More at AllSingaporeStuff.comhttp://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/damai-sec-student-posted-about-his-suicide-plans-months-he-died
FB: http://fb.com/allsgstuff

Edited June 25, 2015 by Fiacla

[Fiacla]

It's not easy for been gay. Especially schooldays...

[Guest Guest]

Not really. Only If u are those obvious feminine type.

[Guest wozzit]

Every suicide is a tragedy, but that of a teenager is especially heart wrenching. In this case, it is even sadder that the tell-tale signs of major depression seem to have been evident to several of his friends n classmates. The moral surely is that when we spot such signs each one of us must act n try to reach out to those who r desperately in need of our emotional support.

[evianwater]

Not really. Only If u are those obvious feminine type.

 

Well, there are many who are born as you described - "those obvious feminine type". Not like they have a choice. If they had one, they wouldn't choose to be this way. These softer boys tend to get picked on, ostracised, and left alone. It's really sad. 

[lego]

regardless of the alleged reasons for his suicide, it's just a tragedy for somebody so young.

his family must be devastated for not knowing and being unable to offer support.

RIP

[Never again]

Well, there are many who are born as you described - "those obvious feminine type". Not like they have a choice. If they had one, they wouldn't choose to be this way. These softer boys tend to get picked on, ostracised, and left alone. It's really sad.

yeah, we feminine type even get bullied inside the gay circle, it is really sad.

[ouat1972]

This is the reason why I detest those advocating wear white or against pink dot as many are teaching their kids to discriminate and spreading hate.

[Guest Guest]

Human lives are more important than religious views. Priority of the state should be saving lives, instead of pleasing the so-called religious conservatives.

[evianwater]

This is the reason why I detest those advocating wear white or against pink dot as many are teaching their kids to discriminate and spreading hate.

 

Yes, I totally agree with that. 

Sigh. Seems like there's nth we can do about it  =(

Edited June 26, 2015 by evianwater

[Guest Guest]

It was mentioned by his "friends" that he was lonely and not popular in school and bullied. What type of friends a 16 year old had outside of school, and these friends did nothing when the boy openly posting thought of suicide.

 

Was he really bullied because he was gay and that drove him to commit suicide?  Was he even gay? There is something more to it than meet the eyes.

[Guest Glyph]

Does it even matter if he's gay or feminine or whatnot? He is human, like all of us.

 

Bullying needs to be stopped.

[Butterscotch]

This boy was from the secondary school as I was... really breaks my heart whenever I see posts about him on my news feed.

 

May his soul rest in peace. And yes, all forms of bullying has got to stop. People do not realise the implications of their words and actions until it is already too late.

[IkuTube]

Guys, unless there is a proof/confirmation that he is one of us, please avoid making assumptions.  Please avoid making associations of his tragedy to our way of life.  It is just not ethical to do so here.
 
As it is, it is a sad tragedy for a young man to end his life this way.  All that we need to do now is to "think" of him and send prayers that his soul is resting in peace.  And prayers to his family and his friends.
 
Depression has many facets and not many (in the case of the deceased, his classmates and friends) were not able to spot the tell tale signs.  This is so because sadness or downswings in mood are normal reactions to life’s struggles, setbacks, and disappointments.
 
Here in BW, one can click HERE should one needs a shoulder to cry on.
 

RIP, Aloysius.

[Guest 72%dark]

It was mentioned by his "friends" that he was lonely and not popular in school and bullied. What type of friends a 16 year old had outside of school, and these friends did nothing when the boy openly posting thought of suicide.

 

Well in the age of social media it's very easy to make a lot of Internet friends who may not know you in real life. If a friend of a friend added me on Facebook, for example, and I saw on my newsfeed a status from that person that seemed suicidal, I may not necessarily know how to react as I may not actually know that person well, and not in real life. I wouldn't be surprised if this boy was in a situation like that. At that age, one's main source of friends tends to come from school, so if you're ostracized at school...

I think it highlights the importance of real-world support networks.

[fab]

Guys, unless there is a proof/confirmation that he is one of us, please avoid making assumptions.  Please avoid making associations of his tragedy to our way of life.  It is just not ethical to do so here.

 

As it is, it is a sad tragedy for a young man to end his life this way.  All that we need to do now is to "think" of him and send prayers that his soul is resting in peace.  And prayers to his family and his friends.

 

Depression has many facets and not many (in the case of the deceased, his classmates and friends) were not able to spot the tell tale signs.  This is so because sadness or downswings in mood are normal reactions to life’s struggles, setbacks, and disappointments.

 

Here in BW, one can click HERE should one needs a shoulder to cry on.

 

RIP, Aloysius.

i was wondering where in the article did it mention that he is gay.

[iamziz]

i was wondering where in the article did it mention that he is gay.

 

The comment at the article http://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/damai-secondary-4-student-hangs-himself-flat-family-distraught 

Someone who met him mentioned that.

[IkuTube]

i was wondering where in the article did it mention that he is gay.

 

The comment at the article http://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/damai-secondary-4-student-hangs-himself-flat-family-distraught 

Someone who met him mentioned that.

 

Speculations hurt the people close to the deceased.

 

There is now this thing shown on that said website:

 

 

Hence, it should make an ethical sense that all labels about the deceased are not to be speculated.  Really, it does not help!

 

Anyway, just to reiterate, here in BW, all our members must be 18 and above.  The reason this thread is here is to remind ourselves that prolonged loneliness can have repercussions.  This thread is about civic consciousness for us to be reminded, to reach out etc.

[iamziz]

Yeap. Labels or no labels, he is gone. Let's do our bits for each other especially those bullied/depressed/troubled. It costs nothing to be kind.

[Oogachagacare]

Every death is painful for those left behind, the survivors. Let's avoid speculating about what happened or sensationalising the circumstances of the death. We know that the Singapore Police Force have specific protocols in place to offer support for the family members.

 

If anyone here is personally affected by news of this young person's death, feeling distressed themselves or worried about someone who may be suicidal, please get in touch for support:

 

Oogachaga (for LGBTQ individuals, couples & families)

http://www.oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/care

 

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) - 24h suicide prevention service

www.SOS.org.sg

 

For your information, there are international guidelines for media professionals on reporting suicide:

 

World Health Organization (WHO)

http://www.who.int/mental_health/prevention/suicide/resource_media.pdf

 

Samaritans

http://www.samaritans.org/media-centre/media-guidelines-reporting-suicide

 

Please take care & look out for each other, to prevent further suicides in our community.

[Guest Bonafide Gene]

[Guest midnightranter]

Every suicide is a tragedy, but that of a teenager is especially heart wrenching. In this case, it is even sadder that the tell-tale signs of major depression seem to have been evident to several of his friends n classmates. The moral surely is that when we spot such signs each one of us must act n try to reach out to those who r desperately in need of our emotional support.

The boy was 16. It is safe to assume most of his friends who follow him on social media or have interactions with him are about his age. Therefore, they may be too young to recognise his posts or behaviour as tell-tale signs of depression.

Not wanting to do a post-mortem on this specific case but in general, it is hoped that everyone can do a part by not bullying anyone for whatever reasons. They r somebody's son or brother.

They have been cases overseas where the bullied turned their backs on the bullies and gunned them down. Either way, whether the bullied take their own lives or take the lives of the bullies, it is tragic and no good will ever come out of it.

[Guest Guest]

Tell those local bullies who aren't savvy about international news or simply delighting in the fact that guns aren't allowed in this country. Even in places like the United States where guns are allowed, the bullies still aren't really deterred and history still repeats itself. Barbarians/hooligans/bullies can't really be stopped can they?

[Guest Guest]

Since bullies can cause suicide in others, why can't they be ordered by teachers or the police to either go for mandatory counselling or jail? They are the indirect murderers who always gets away with their ugly deeds. Yet people like Amos yee who speaks out for the bullied are incarcerated. What an injustice and total irony!

[Guest Guest]

Since bullies can cause suicide in others, why can't they be ordered by teachers or the police to either go for mandatory counselling or jail? They are the indirect murderers who always gets away with their ugly deeds. Yet people like Amos yee who speaks out for the bullied are incarcerated. What an injustice and total irony!

Some teachers can be bigot too..

[Guest Guest]

we have many bigots in our society

 

if i asked my friend, he would just say it's too bad the boy couldn't survive in this society, he's lucky that he ever lived because he would have been dead by now if he lived in the past

[Guest Glyph]

Closing this thread in respect of the one who has passed on.

[Guest Guest]

http://news.asiaone.com/news/singapore/maid-who-won-23m-lottery-accused-stealing-ticket

Maid who won $2.3m lottery accused of stealing ticket Len (not her real name), who has been working for her current employer for 14 years, intends to continue working for him. She shows a photocopy of the winning ticket which she has been accused of stealing.

 

Photo: The Straits Times

 

Maid who won $2.3m lottery accused of stealing ticket

 

 

[Guest Guest]

The title should be

 

"" Maid alleged to have stolen a Big Sweep ticket with first price winnings amounting to S$2.3 million dollars, investigations are on going, so far police do not suspect foul play.""

 

The issue is the big sweep ticket may have been stolen, not that she have physically stolen $2.3 million, but the money was trasfered to her bank account after singapore pools was presented with a winning ticket by her and after checking everything was above board , they released the money into her bank account.

[Guest Iol]

Some people just cannot take it.

Some people are that lucky, get over it.

[Guest Guest]

Now , she can employ maid already !

[Guest Human dignity]

新加坡人就这么糟糕吗？女家佣的雇主都替她说话。一个报案估且还能相信。两个人报案，可见两个都在捏造。穷不代表不诚实。人家安安分分打了十多年功，穷也穷的有志气。同胞们，我们是否可以不歧视这些外国劳工？