Love Of Mature Men aka Gerontophilia. Discussion Love for Mature, Uncle / Daddy / Older Men (Compiled)

[Guest Troy]

Friendship, like any other relationships in Spore is difficult. Not easily sustainable. Lack depth. Lack common platform. Selfishness where one tends to talk (not listen) and feel for himself.

In fact, this lack of bonding in relationship is typical in Spore. It is really, a national issue.

I even started to notice, at a dinner amongst family members, there is hardly conversation, what more emotional exchanges. If there is no bonding with family members whom are supposedly dearer to you, what more with friends.

Sporeans must learn the intangibles, of giving more in order to receive.

The education system, social condition, peer influence; these are all not helping.

Soon, no one really like befriending Sporeans as friends. In fact, these situation has already happened.

Even Sporeans cannot and do not want to befriend Sporeans anymore.

[luke84]

As a Singaporean, I find forming friendship is rather tough in the circle.

(i speak only for myself)

it's really weird to talk to stranger without any reasons, such as attending the same workshop, same class, partners in project, colleagues.

i'm those shy at first and will talk more after we get to know/meet each other a few more times.

so for people like me...

Finding a gay friend is like matchmaking.. if you can't perform in round 1, then you're out, condemned, blocked , deleted...

sigh..

"people who can talk well, talk intelligently, witty, humorous" is what nowadays many others are added in their "looking for" sections.

yes, we are getting less "superficial"... aren't we?

Edited October 20, 2012 by luke84

[Guest faynic]

I think it's hard to form friendships in Singapore, especially in the circle where looks and bodies came way before sincerity.

I always envied Malaysians who can form groups to go short trips. In Singapore, ask people out also difficult. Always get excuses like company gf/bf, no money, no leaves, no time, family, etc.

Knowing new friends are difficult, especially when Singaporeans are so prideful. We totally cannot be like westerners who can just chit chat even if they don't know one another.

I got a friend who do not have the looks or body (like me), he created two facebook accounts (1 with his pic & 1 with a cute guy pic). He only have me in the account with his pic, but he had a lot of people adding him in the account with a cute guy pic.

[G_M]

U have to be careful with 'mind to meet me' here as the moderators might take it as a personal ad! Send pm message to me or anyone instead.

:-p

Yes Iamziz, I had already sent him a friendly warning with regards to posting of Ads in the Main Forum and directed him to the Personal folder for his ad.

[Hop3]

Gm: sorry I dont know about it hehehe coz I use indonesian forum and that kind word is find to tell it in here. Thanks to remind me the rule, I will to do it by pm :-)

Well, I've never find it difficult when I am in indonesia. I mean when I say : lets meet each other, and we can meat each other in mall or plaza, do a chat and we can share our daily life. But I find it difficult in here even when I sent personal message, none of them answer it. So how I can start any relation as a friend?

All of your opinion are good, and I learn from it about gay life in singapore. Thats fine coz every country has its own characteristic to form a relation. Tomorrow is the day I will be back to Indo, and I learnt many thing from here and the reality also.

[Hop3]

Sorry... It is meet no meat. Lolz

[gammaray]

A friendship takes months to build, years to maintain and mins to destroy. Maybe it's me, making simple platonic friends with gay man seems more challenging than straight ones. Like there are some unspoken criteria, expectations or certain benefits to befriend another. I'm cool if that's the case. I just thought its easier knowing more aj friends since no lies to hide the closet identity. How ironic it is. Lol.

Fortunately, I've met some nice ones along the way having no threats or funny vibes. They gave their precious time to me as a friend (or bro) with no returns.

Someone once told me that a man's best friend is a dog bc it will love you more than itself.

[Slynn]

I have more faith in friendship with straight people than in friendship with gay people.

People develop friendship with certain expectations. In our initial circle at school or at work, we can't really choose who to befriend because the circle is rather small. We build friendship in order to develop a social circle where people help another or just to share woes and gossip.

But I believe most gays' definition of friendship bears the intention to develop a LTR or to have sex though. Thus it is likely that you will be strike off the list once you are deemed inadequate

Gays can just look for friends online with Grindr/Trevvy etc. Some site even allow you to type 'sex role, age limit, height limit' and voila. TADA!!! 2341 results shown. People have so much options that of course they can choose better ones to befriend. (Though what they chose may not match them emotionally)

Friends are good to have, but we can't really have a whole bunch of friends as well.

Imagine having 10 friends, and 10 of them message you telling you they feel sad they feel sian they blalbalblaba, or messaging you out for meal, VERY TIRING ONE LEH. /coughs. We've got no time to entertain them one by one. So I guess a person know more friends and then start to forget the older ones. This is sad, but it's reality.

Lastly for example, if we send a random message to a stranger on facebook befriending them, it is very likely that they won't reply at all. Unless you look like Brad Pitt. XD

Even so, the intention of friendship in this case seems rather suspicious in itself.

[Guest Giraffe]

Who have wild fetishes on those uncles in their 50s'?

[doncoin]

Someone with daddy issues?

[Guest Mature]

50s is middle age? Then 30-40 is teenager?

[abang]

Well I am 51 years old and I refuse to be labelled as "Silver thread/Senior Citizen/乐龄“

Yes, the body aint as beautiful as it used to be..

Yes, the face aint as clear and smooth as it used to be ..

Yes, the skin aint as taut as it used to be..

But

Yes, the personality is getting more mellow and tolerant.

Yes, sex is no longer a physical need but a mental/spiritual bonding.

我相信通过 适当的饮食， 谈吐， 礼仪， 个性和个人品位的穿着等等， 叔叔也会变成魅力哥哥的。

[Guest Mature]

Well I am 51 years old and I refuse to be labelled as "Silver thread/Senior Citizen/乐龄“

How abt Uncle?

[abang]

I accept uncle as a term of endearment...

I was already an uncle in my teens as my older relatives had their babies back in the 70s...

[Guest Mature]

I accept uncle as a term of endearment...

I was already an uncle in my teens as my older relatives had their babies back in the 70s...

We are all uncles, which doesn't matter.

As for "Silver thread/Senior Citizen/乐龄" u try to apply the senior citizen MRT card see what they say lol

Officially, we are uncles but once we hit 60s we are senior citizens.

[oralb]

Someone with daddy issues?

i wouldn't say there is an issue, it is almost like saying those that go after chubs or lean fit has weight issue.

It is just a preference.

[abang]

We are all uncles, which doesn't matter.

As for "Silver thread/Senior Citizen/乐龄" u try to apply the senior citizen MRT card see what they say lol

Officially, we are uncles but once we hit 60s we are senior citizens.

Seriously, I still cannot apply for Senior Citizen MRT as I am below 60 years old!

真的好气。。。。

[dannysuz]

I am uncle too but I try to live happily although I am jobless. Not sure why I like to talk to strangers and understand their problem. May be I am getting old and talk a lot but nobody interested.

[Guest curious]

anyone saw the recent tummy tuck advertisement? there's a very cute chub inside. anyone knows him?

[Hopeless]

I apologise if I'm writing on the wrong section of the forums. (if I am, please do relocate this topic)

 

Anyway, hi there! I came across Blowing Wind after googling 'gay singaporeans' and well, signed up and here I am. I turned 19 during june this year. Seeing a lot of gay singaporeans with similar interests as mine, I don't feel so left out anymore.

 

I'm 19/177/70 (I think this is the format?), BMI's in the healthy range but looks chubby, and my race is mixed chinese/malay. My skin colour's light brown if you're wondering. I'm a Muslim. I was raised knowing only English so that sorta explains why my way of typing seems very 'ang moh'. I'm very(and I mean very) attracted and turned on by asian old men (age 40+), be it indians, chinese or malay! Bonus points if you are in that age group AND have a hairy penis! I don't mean to offend anyone, but my turn offs are young people (aged 18-30) and muscular men. Also, size doesn't matter to me!

 

I believe that people are born gay! Take myself for example, I already knew that I was/want to be a gay ever since I was 6.

 

This is my first (somewhat gay) experience:

 

When I was 6, my dad used to take me and my younger brother out for swimming every weekend. My dad wears underwear briefs whenever he goes swimming. I wasn't sure why, but my eyes were glued to his bulge. I couldn't understand why, but I was attract to his bulge. After swimming(and staring at my dad's bulge) for about 2 hours, we all headed to the men's changing room to shower and change up. It was an open public bathroom, so there's no cubicles for you to change/shower. At that moment, I felt like I was in heaven. There were about 10-15 naked dads showering their kids. I'm not attracted to the kids, but the HOT DADDIES, holy crap. 35-45 year old men of various races and various penis sizes washing themselves and their kids. Flopping dicks everywhere! At that moment, I knew that I was attracted to men. My dad always showers with me and my younger brother. Everything I was showering, I would shower quick so that I could have more time looking at the naked daddies there. (I'm having a hard on just reminiscing about this memory)

 

That's about it. Thank you for reading!

Edited October 11, 2013 by Hopeless

[charvo87]

Welcome.

[Guest Guest]

notti boy, all daddies take turn to spank him on his buttock.

[G_M]

Yes, you had posted in the wrong section.

We do not allow Ads in the Main forum.

Please post your adverts in Personal folder for friends, hookups, etc. http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showforum=11

This post will remain here and the topic title will be changed to "Liking for Daddies / Mature Men"

[Hopeless]

Ads? I'm just introducing myself, that's all. But I'll keep that in mind, thank you.

[NiceBubbButt]

I luv mature stocky daddies too. Yum yum.

[Guest m1user]

Anyone here who prefers those middle aged men in their 40s to 50s more than young hunks here?

[mydontay]

this gp is also one of my preferred

[sendtoken82]

Hello -m1user-, r u in this age group??

[Guest Huncle]

Yes, i m fine with this category as long as they have maintained their looks n physique well, and do not behave and smell like low class uncles. Ok, something like Tom Cruise.

I do see a few goodlooking uncles in the gym and swimming pool.

I shall name them Huncles.

[PanPan]

Yes, i m fine with this category as long as they have maintained their looks n physique well, and do not behave and smell like low class uncles. Ok, something like Tom Cruise.

I do see a few goodlooking uncles in the gym and swimming pool.

I shall name them Huncles.

What a cute name

[lifeart]

Good to know there are people who like this category!  At least there is a glimmer of hope!  

[snowball]

我认为, uncles这个名称, 不代表任何意义, 而且是在有了比较后才产生的结果。

二十多岁的人也会被小孩称为uncle,

uncle的称呼, 可以是尊敬也可以带有贬意, 因人而异。

严格一点, 是要岁月的烙印留在脸上才能称之为"真正"的uncle,

但uncle也只是对熟男的总称, 并不意味着所有uncles都是同款同类型。

有品味有型的熟男并不会随着年龄的增长而身价大跌,

相反的, 经过岁月的"洗礼"后, 反而会越来越有魅力有性格。

到了一定的阶段, 会出现衰老, 体形向横发展, 开始脱发等迹象,

不同人对待老化现象有不同的处理方式, 也塑造了不同的"效果"。

虽说各有各的市场价值, 但受欢迎的程度, 足以断定你的"品质"。

Edited October 18, 2013 by snowball

[ronny]

Totally agree.... Without having to read the entire Chinese post

[snowball]

从求学时代就喜欢熟男, 但我不否认, 这也要看整体而言,

脸是一大武器, 不需英俊, 但起码要顺眼。

无需潇洒, 但不粗俗猥亵。

可这种人也不常遇见。

[G_M]

This post is meant to be a DISCUSSION. 

 

Please DO NOT post any ads looking for Uncles / Huncles or Whatever-cles.

 

Those who wants to post your look seeking Uncles / Huncles or Whatever-cles, please go to http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=22064

 

Anyone who post ads in the Main forum will face suspension and the ad removed.

 

Get on with the Discussion!

 

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P/s : Based on past experiences, I will be strict on this topic. For those who have nothing good to say about uncles, this discussion is not for you, kindly moved to the next discussion. 

[maturebtm]

Wish Singapore is like NE ASia - Japan, Taiwan and HK - where thee's a market for mature tops and btms, be it daddy, uncle or above 35! So s-exciting! 

Have to fly there for sex and fun! So layche! Altho Malaysia has a sizable market too!

[GachiMuchi]

Who says there isn't a mature market in Sg?

 

Just take a walk to any of the sauna like Shogun, Ten Men & Hercules or visit any popular toilets at MRT or swimming pools and you will see lots of mature uncles.

 

But if you want to compare with places like Malaysia's Sentral & Senses, Bangkok's GSM, Taiwan's Office sauna (which is closing down by Feb 2014) or Japan's 24Kaikan at Ueno, etc.

 

Those mature uncles in our sauna comes in all shapes and sizes and varied from good, bad, to not so appetising, as Singapore is a small country and we don't have a big populations compared to those overseas countries which gives us more options when choosing.

[yann74]

Mature man love them and adore them.

[naviiii22]

i love mature guys! They are such a turn on for me....

[darkflame]

Somehow, mature men kind of exudes this aura of manliness which is not really found in younger guys.

I really like this aura. Sometimes it borders on sexiness.

I always end up looking at a mature man more than a young guy.

 

One of the ideal mature men for me is Dirk Caber. 

 

 

I like his nerdy side more actually.

 

[Guest Chua Tian Xiang]

I likes those hokkien speaking uneducated lao uncle aged 50 and above! they all looks powerful in sex!

[Cube3]

lol uncle or ah peh? or ah gong?

[mamamia]

Anyone have a story to share ?

I do find some uncles really attractive especially the manly type , and still maintain a good physique. Some really can fuck smooth and long, and at their age , it seems that they don't cum so easily and can hold longer, even though their cock when hardened is not the steel rod type but good enough to penetrate and hence not causing their bottoms so much pain ;p

[dannyG]

men in their 50s are the best when they are still somewhat fit.

They are very sweet and caring and it is nice the way they fuck, slowly, gently and with confidence

 

Agree with mamamia its great to be bottom to such a man

[Guest Wolfson]

I am mature man in my late 40s, maybe I maintain well, looks early 40s.

Lately I've seen more guys in the 20s who really like me !

Never been so popular with guys in 20s when I was in 30s..

M I really lucky or ?

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

I am mature man in my late 40s, maybe I maintain well, looks early 40s.

Lately I've seen more guys in the 20s who really like me !

Never been so popular with guys in 20s when I was in 30s..

M I really lucky or ?

You strike gold loh.

I think this has less to do with biological age and more to do with your love luck (桃花运/劫)has finally come and visit you.

Or maybe they come for your money instead. Hah!

Edited January 5, 2014 by Raiden Alpha

[Guest Mature nature]

Wolfson,

Pardon me for saying this. You make no sense leh.

If the young chap likes you because you look younger than you look (cos you claim that u maintain your looks well), then it's nothing to do with you being a mature guy?!

Guys, regardless of age, who truly gets attracted to mature guys actually like silver hairs, wrinkles, and perhaps even a paunchy waistline.

Good for u that someone likes u. He likes u for what u r, nothing abt mature looks I guess.

[Blacque]

Looking mature and behaving in a mature manner are totally different things.

 

Just saying.

[dannyG]

 

My type!!

totally agree!

[Guest Guest]

Question is whether he will still be your type when

1. He's naked with skinny arms, flat chest and tummy

2. When his hair is unkempt.

3. He's a bottom

 

My type!!