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I am moved to reply regarding those posts lamenting the scarcity of uncles in their 60s and 70s who are sporty and fit. I agree it is a valid complaint. Too many mature gay men seem to think that they

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i am a submissive btm and always find mature tops in their business wear very sexy. i don't have daddy issues, and it is just a fetish of mine. i agree that the mental stimulation plays an important part of this.

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On Friday, January 04, 2013 at 4:39 PM, oralb said:

i wouldn't say there is an issue, it is almost like saying those that go after chubs or lean fit has weight issue.

It is just a preference.

 

It is so sad when people label a PREFERENCE for mature guys as a fetish. :-(

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16 minutes ago, puppyfart said:

not that there is anything wrong with fetishes either... just in case u 得罪 those with fetishes.

u know how bitchy we can get....

 

 

16 minutes ago, puppyfart said:

not that there is anything wrong with fetishes either... just in case u 得罪 those with fetishes.

u know how bitchy we can get....

 

 

Yes...i have fetish for muscular mature men above 50. Don't mention Zheng Ger Ping again.

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58 minutes ago, hannibalism said:

it really depends on your motivation when you go for mature guys. and yeah, what's wrong with fetishes? pfft.

 

True. Behind every fetish is an underlying motivating force that feed the fetish. My respect and admiration for muscular guys above 50 for their years of training and discipline drive my fetish for them.

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So obvious lah.... Young ones want old uncles as sugar daddies to buy them new clothes, give them pocket money and take them holiday. They will then cheat the old uncles behind their back with other young punks for sex. Young cocks need to release so often how can old uncles keep up! 

Nothing wrong what... Old uncles get to hold hard muscled bodies and suck ok hard Long and fat cocks in exchange for some material things that old uncles can afford lah... Fair deal.

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7 hours ago, puppyfart said:

not that there is anything wrong with fetishes either... just in case u 得罪 those with fetishes.

u know how bitchy we can get....

 

 

 

Usually fetish is linked with some form of oddity, eg. fetish for worn undies etc. 

So, by labelling the preference for mature guys as a fetish, don't you think it means that it is odd to go after mature guys?

 

Just my 2 cents.

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I am a 59+ uncle.  I have got msg (average 2 msg per week) from youngster age range from 20 to 35 from Grindr and Hornet.  Happy that I still can received msgs but also feel scared and worry becouse not sure what these youngster look for in a uncle double their age.  Of course there are some who are sincere in making friend with mature uncle.

 

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Young or old, fit or not fit, it's all about preference ... at least that's what I think.

Had my fair share of meeting people of all ages, shapes & sizes and frankly, i had my share of surprises :) 

So I would encourage everyone to just cast aside stereotypes and enjoy the process because life is just like a box of .... jelly beans??? LOL 

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47 minutes ago, Guest guest said:

me attached with bf when he was 39. now he is 53. I guess I'm happy to love a man from his prime till he is uncle. don't mind to hold his hand when he become senior citizen.

 

BTW me 10 years younger than him.

 

Tats nice. Mine was 39 too when I met him.. hope we not talking bout the same person. Lolz!!!

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14 hours ago, Ener said:

Tats nice. Mine was 39 too when I met him.. hope we not talking bout the same person. Lolz!!!

don't think we dating the same guy lor. me and bf live together for 14 years also. unless you only date him during office hours. otherwise all other times he was with me. lol.

 

ya 14 years together need a lot of efforts. but I count myself lucky as we didn't go through a lot of problem since the day we first met.

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On 10/6/2016 at 7:10 AM, Guest guest said:

don't think we dating the same guy lor. me and bf live together for 14 years also. unless you only date him during office hours. otherwise all other times he was with me. lol.

 

ya 14 years together need a lot of efforts. but I count myself lucky as we didn't go through a lot of problem since the day we first met.

I might be hiding in the closet or storeroom all this while leh. Hahaha!!!!

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4 hours ago, HectorC said:

Wish to know guys in their 40s to 50s.

 

Seek friend for chat,travel and movie.

 

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Gave you chance to allow you to post in the forum and yet you do that again. KNN never learn. 

 

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I dont like to be called old or even uncle when i reach 50. You try calling all the woman aunty and see how many react angrily lol. I refuse to be like many people thinking of how an uncle looks like or behave for example looks old, ugly, fat, lazy, dont want to move too much, wear old fashion shirt etc. My personality is hyper energetic and fun loving at whatever age can be. I refuse to grow fat even i already have extremely low metabolism. I every day eat extremely healthy low carb vegetarian food avoiding all fried food etc. I everyday exercise a bit although i dont go to the gym. It is more than enough for my body to look better than those average to unfit young guys. My face also hardly grow old making some of the young guys jealous and call me uncle in front of others lol. When playing Pokemon Go i still sprint with all the young guys out there never give in to age. Although i behave like a hyper energetic kid, all my years of experience is enough for me to be a very good life companion. I always try to read the minds of the people that are close to me thus trying to predict what sort of action need to be taken to have a more conducive environment and a win win situation. I even go further up and try to focus my mind and stand in the shoes of the animals in the slaughter house thats why now i am a vegetarian.

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I dont like to be called old or even uncle when i reach 50. You try calling all the woman aunty and see how many react angrily lol. I refuse to be like many people thinking of how an uncle looks like or behave for example looks old, ugly, fat, lazy, dont want to move too much, wear old fashion shirt etc. My personality is hyper energetic and fun loving at whatever age can be. I refuse to grow fat even i already have extremely low metabolism. I every day eat extremely healthy low carb vegetarian food avoiding all fried food etc. I everyday exercise a bit although i dont go to the gym. It is more than enough for my body to look better than those average to unfit young guys. My face also hardly grow old making some of the young guys jealous and call me uncle in front of others lol. When playing Pokemon Go i still sprint with all the young guys out there never give in to age. Although i behave like a hyper energetic kid, all my years of experience is enough for me to be a very good life companion. I always try to read the minds of the people that are close to me thus trying to predict what sort of action need to be taken to have a more conducive environment and a win win situation. I even go further up and try to focus my mind and stand in the shoes of the animals in the slaughter house thats why now i am a vegetarian.

 

Please lah, when u reach a certain age u are an uncle. Stop being delusional. Else what u want? Call u 小弟 at 50?

 

Just age gracefully and u will exude the manly confident charm. Of course, with ur hyper energetic personality, u cam be flamboyant and people call u Lao Hiao. Maybe u like ppl to call u Lao Hiao compared to uncle

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3 hours ago, Guest Haha said:

 

Please lah, when u reach a certain age u are an uncle. Stop being delusional. Else what u want? Call u 小弟 at 50?

 

Just age gracefully and u will exude the manly confident charm. Of course, with ur hyper energetic personality, u cam be flamboyant and people call u Lao Hiao. Maybe u like ppl to call u Lao Hiao compared to uncle

When u call your friends uncle or aunty u r being rude. In either gay or straight circle when we introduce ourself to make friends, we would introduce our name to them and i would expect friends to call me by my name. We would be calling our love ones honey or dear. When we have closer friends or we like them, we will try to praise call them in a positive way to make them happy like "Hi handsome" "Hi fit guy" etc. When a person dislike u or jealous of u, they will call u disrespectfully or rude name like "You this fatty or lazy or stupid or uncle or aunty or sissy of ah gua" etc. In army we would expect guys to be called sir and woman to be called madam and even waiter will call u this in the form of respect. In civilian world strangers will call u Mr for man or Ms for woman. If you always like to change and call other people name in this rude and disrespect manner, than you will always be treated by others like a 没家教 kid that dont even deserve a friendship. Learning to call strangers and friends is a very important skill, let others know how mentally mature you are, how well your communication skills is and also letting others know how mindful you are to make others happy or unhappy.

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On 17/02/2016 at 1:24 AM, Guest said:

So obvious lah.... Young ones want old uncles as sugar daddies to buy them new clothes, give them pocket money and take them holiday. They will then cheat the old uncles behind their back with other young punks for sex. Young cocks need to release so often how can old uncles keep up! 

Nothing wrong what... Old uncles get to hold hard muscled bodies and suck ok hard Long and fat cocks in exchange for some material things that old uncles can afford lah... Fair deal.

you will be surprise....is just an stereotype in those old movies.

 

now those sugar daddies getting more savy, why stay on to one young one whereby can afford more.Unless those mindset rigid, pretend to be traditional type. 

 

those young one do not have the sex stamina before 30 while those above 50 and 60 still screw like a pure top....suspect cock ring or viagra...

who dun greed for materialistic...not necessary the young one.

 

the point is....the game have change...not in routine style.

 

ps : late twenties graduate required viagra for sex due to job stress.

63 year old look like late 40 pumping a btm like no tommorrow.

 

yes, they are also my friends too....

 

 

 

 

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On 1/4/2013 at 0:34 PM, abang said:

Well I am 51 years old and I refuse to be labelled as "Silver thread/Senior Citizen/乐龄“

Yes, the body aint as beautiful as it used to be..

Yes, the face aint as clear and smooth as it used to be ..

Yes, the skin aint as taut as it used to be..

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Yes, the personality is getting more mellow and tolerant.

Yes, sex is no longer a physical need but a mental/spiritual bonding.

我相信通过 适当的饮食， 谈吐， 礼仪， 个性和个人品位的穿着等等， 叔叔也会变成魅力哥哥的。

Totally agreed. More mental/spiritual bondings. Sex adds as bonus.

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Yes I am 53 and my bf just turned 29, been togather for 8 years now and loving every minutes of it. And yes i prefer to be call Sir if you don mind. I have to agreed that Uncle is not very nice.. I call those older then me big brother or Sir. Young ppl i meet appreciate mostly my knowledge that i like to share and love to listen to my experience and some curious about our relationship. I eat well and always take care of my health and my bf. Life is meaningful only if you want it to be. The beauty of the heart is more important then the beauty of the face or body i would say. 

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Yes why not? Older men tend to be more understanding not like younger hot blooded ones. As for stamina, really depends on individual. I'm seeing this 50 year old guy who's more than twice my age but he still goes strong-- he screws me at least thrice a week and he can last relatively long. Sometimes it's not even about the stamina, it's more like our clashing work schedules!

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On ‎21‎/‎10‎/‎2016 at 5:31 PM, Friendly said:

Yes I am 53 and my bf just turned 29, been togather for 8 years now and loving every minutes of it. And yes i prefer to be call Sir if you don mind. I have to agreed that Uncle is not very nice.. I call those older then me big brother or Sir. Young ppl i meet appreciate mostly my knowledge that i like to share and love to listen to my experience and some curious about our relationship. I eat well and always take care of my health and my bf. Life is meaningful only if you want it to be. The beauty of the heart is more important then the beauty of the face or body i would say. 

frenly also dislike being called uncle

I m not sure wat s the age group that u can be accepted on senior fare or CC's snr citizen, if the age grp is 50yo, then all those who are abv 50, should be allowed to be called Uncle
40yo, not yet then

if the age grp is 60s, then so b it

many are already grandpas, at 55+

so long u r not at snr citizen privledge, u shdnt be called uncle (but if u r enjoying, then too bad)
I wish Friendly's bf can be interviewed and shared with us, what is so good to have a matured, we need the younger ones to speak up and to voice it
- I have heard from my straight girls and wives that cannot accept their partner goin for massages at all (this is the LAW w no compromise)

Not from the older partner, this s to ensure that we didn't 倚老卖老, we need to triangulate too

 


Some in 40s, really looked like an uncle, from the wear u dress, accessories and your thinking ...(age is old, but thinking can be selfish and immature)
- nearly every event dressed the same way confirmed that (I could be sloppy at home or around my flat, but not when I m out)
 

 

quoting from real life and in some ctries, "Uncles"" don't dress like the sg uncles at all...u don't need me to paste pics here right?

So long the matured can click w the younger ones, there is nothing wrong at all, apart from the wealth of knowledge about life, they can share common items

Fashion items to good music:
from the fav songs they quoted, u know they are from which era
and when I quoted this Rihanna, that beyonce , katy perry, Bruno mars, carrie underwood etc, it is all like unknowing to them , they quoted me very old songs of Sammi cheng etc (nothing wrong , I luv a pop singer of that era too)
As a matured, I knew all of those singers mentioned abv, how could they totally wont know, then it is a gap
Worst, that uncle attempted to lie to me that he s 12yrs younger than  me when we are born on the same year(looking younger doesn't give u a single priviledge of lying as there are karmas)not sure why is there the need to lie in the first place?I didn't put up any ad for match-making , I didn't state I need younger ones too
 

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if possible ,try to get those rich oversea uncles from Chima , Indonesia , etc, but anyhow , most of them can't stand the local  and full of themselves young ones here .... they prefer to find them in their own countries ! 

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