tinkero Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 Generally guys that top me are smaller sized than me.... .. Though i also prefer bigger (physically) tops, and i dont mean only their cocks.. What u guys think?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Submissive Bottom Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 Generally speaking, yes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 (edited) As a skinny dude (and yes a bottom, mostly) I'd definitely want my flex top guy to be definitely bigger size physically. But IMO most physically fit/big sized guys usually go for the same? (aren't u looking for fit ones too? ) Edited March 29, 2017 by sum1outhere_03 Quote Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkero Posted March 29, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 1 hour ago, sum1outhere_03 said: As a skinny dude (and yes a bottom, mostly) I'd definitely want my flex top guy to be definitely bigger size physically. But IMO most physically fit/big sized guys usually go for the same? (aren't u looking for fit ones too? ) Great.. and i intend to bulk up and gain 10kg more ...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 46 minutes ago, tinkero said: Great.. and i intend to bulk up and gain 10kg more ...lol haha why? your size is good enough <3 Quote Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bonfire Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 I find a top who has a big (but not too excessively huge) frame, i.e. broad shoulders, V torso, big arms, to be very attractive. Love grabbing onto his arms and shoulders when bottoming him. As for height, it doesn't matter. It is quite cute to hear a shorter top saying that he wishes to be taller than me (I'm of average asian height). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 Seems like most bottom looks bigger size than the top. Like muscular and toned guys, many of them might be bottom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 2 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Seems like most bottom looks bigger size than the top. Like muscular and toned guys, many of them might be bottom. You are right. Many muscular and fit guys are bottom. And many big cock tops are skinny and short guys. grocksdlostboy and mate69 1 1 Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snapplejacked2 Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 I very much prefer them smaller than me. Not necessarily shorter, just as long as I can wrap arms around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkero Posted March 30, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 22 hours ago, sum1outhere_03 said: As a skinny dude (and yes a bottom, mostly) I'd definitely want my flex top guy to be definitely bigger size physically. But IMO most physically fit/big sized guys usually go for the same? (aren't u looking for fit ones too? ) i dont only look for "fit tops" lei... but physically... i prefer then to be bigger, meatier than me lo.... Cannot be too small lei... else abbit weird lei... like what my friend said... a chihuahua fucking a husky... agil01 and boytomen 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynox Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 (edited) I don't think it matters though. I've seen lean tops fuck muscular bottoms. I think it's kinda hot Edited March 30, 2017 by dynox aedile1234 and lw_guy 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khanomjeen Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 i like meaty and stocky bottoms. especially if they look so straight. dynox, sum1outhere_03, dboy84 and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynox Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 11 hours ago, khanomjeen said: i like meaty and stocky bottoms. especially if they look so straight. Look, a unicorn.. Drakovinch 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 Must not be too big, if not you can't physically have fun much, just like ergonomic design of furniture or other designs, not too big and not too small ~ tinkero 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lw_guy Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 I like bigger bottoms hehe dboy84 and dynox 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 manly str8 acting is a must, no matter what is his role, follow by chemistry and character, is he selfish or dead fish on bed, size not really that important Kimochi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 Preference and reality doesn't usually equate well. Chemistry however plays an important aspect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heliumduck Posted March 31, 2017 Report Share Posted March 31, 2017 i like bigger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armitage Posted April 15, 2017 Report Share Posted April 15, 2017 hmm i would rather the top to be physically bigger than me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gabbyisbot Posted April 15, 2017 Report Share Posted April 15, 2017 i prefer bigger top Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Big g Posted April 15, 2017 Report Share Posted April 15, 2017 I'm a big sized bottom and that intimidates most men. It's really true that only men about my size or stronger than me dare to approach me. The rest think I'm a top. What to do? Have to go to the dark room and wait. I'll force myself not to get hard because the bottoms can still see in the dim light but when they touch and find my cock is small, they'll lose interest. Those smaller top then dare to touch me and go straight for my ass. It's best that we do this in the dark first so that we don't lose face if not clicked. I don't usually like smaller top but sometimes no choice. He sometimes got ego issues just like me. When we go to the room, people standing outside think he's the bottom, haha. I tend to be quite quiet when I let a smaller top fuck me because very awkward. He'll hammer me good good to make me accept my role. It's like I'm not kamwan. Sedap Pancut 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 16, 2017 Report Share Posted April 16, 2017 Honestly I had never thought about this before. But I consider that it looks somewhat ridiculous if the smaller guy fucks the bigger one.! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubseekbf Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 Hi i am a chubby btm. Anyone interested . Pls message me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 4, 2017 Report Share Posted May 4, 2017 On 30 March 2017 at 5:31 PM, LeanMature said: You are right. Many muscular and fit guys are bottom. And many big cock tops are skinny and short guys. It is a norm that most muscular and big size guys are bottom and top guys usually are smaller built or even skinny? Even in porn you can see such trend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Big g Posted May 4, 2017 Report Share Posted May 4, 2017 On 4/16/2017 at 0:03 PM, Steve5380 said: Honestly I had never thought about this before. But I consider that it looks somewhat ridiculous if the smaller guy fucks the bigger one.! That's why I prefer bigger masculine tops than me. It's really really awkward and humiliating when he's talking dirty talks at me like I'm some cheap whore when I'm the stronger one. It's even more awkward whether he should call me daddy or I call him daddy. That's why I tend to be quiet and difficult to handle. But no matter how I tried to act macho, I'll still automatically grunt out loud during the initial penetration because of the sharp stabbing pain. It sort of breaks the awkwardness a bit by confirming that my pride in broken in by his invading cock. Still I'll prefer doggy where I'm just offer my butt to him and bury my eyes away from his lustful eyes. Anything above the neck I don't want him to touch or kiss. Anything below the neck, he's free to use or abuse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfyp2 Posted May 5, 2017 Report Share Posted May 5, 2017 I've a big and tall guy, and I find that serving a shorter top is arousing. Haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazza1201 Posted May 10, 2017 Report Share Posted May 10, 2017 I prefer shorter smaller bottoms, because I find myself getting exhausted maneuvering a bigger, heavier bottom. I have had bottoms where once their legs were on my shoulders, it was like a gym workout just lifting the legs! If they ware shorter, I get to do a standing fuck, where I get to rest my head on their shoulders,while hugging him close to me with one hand, and pleasuring him with another while thrusting.... My favourite position, but requires a height differential that is just right!... fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Terence Posted September 2, 2018 Report Share Posted September 2, 2018 As top, I want smaller or equal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kkklaus Posted September 3, 2018 Report Share Posted September 3, 2018 As a btm, I love a tall, bigger frame top. Just give me the sense of dominance from him on bed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 i agree w the last 3 entries Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 1 minute ago, -Ignored- said: i agree w the last 3 entries but you are rather short as it is... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirfalas Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 yeah have to agree slightly smaller frame btms more fun for me as i can like position them around easier. Altho sometimes i get like bossy btms who like to ride on top haha for those a bit bigger is fun too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hahaha Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 i find twinkish, smaller frame, young boyish top that is not too tall quite sexy specially topping an older bigger frame daddy! there lots of jp videos on this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johndaniel Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 I like bigger frame guys. I like to be cuddle tight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted September 4, 2018 Report Share Posted September 4, 2018 If you look at the general population, it matches a normal distribution graph. So average Singapore male is at 170.6cm, consider your height and you will find taller/shorter than you mostly. All the guys I have fucked are taller than me, me being short to begin with. I do enjoy fucking taller/bigger men due to my dominant side but drawbacks are that it is harder than fucking a smaller guy due to physical limitations. Finding guys is already difficult. If have to add more criteria... you kinda make it difficult for yourself yah. p.s. It is harder to steal kisses when dating a taller guy. grocksdlostboy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted September 5, 2018 Report Share Posted September 5, 2018 Gay porn will almost always show a smaller frame guy being grabbed by the top while ramming him furiously. Love seeing the top moaning expression while bottom enduring the pain (or could it be pleasure?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted September 5, 2018 Report Share Posted September 5, 2018 I am 1.8m ... I can not be choosy hahahaha I take what I can get if come across one and he is willing to poke me up my notti orifice Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Harvey Posted October 28, 2019 Report Share Posted October 28, 2019 All guys I fucked are taller than me. I'm below 1.7m. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bottom Me Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 1 hour ago, Guest Harvey said: All guys I fucked are taller than me. I'm below 1.7m. Tall could be thin, short could be stocky. Bottom loves stocky man, not skinny or thin guy. As such, height is no longer an issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sam8899 Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 3 hours ago, Guest Bottom Me said: Tall could be thin, short could be stocky. Bottom loves stocky man, not skinny or thin guy. As such, height is no longer an issue. Big difference between 1.6m stocky guy (65-70kg) and a 1.8m stocky guy (90+kg) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Behrhunter Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 Ideally, I would like them bigger than me whichever role. But I do have to admit that given my size, it is very rare encounter for me. I only had it a handful of times where the bottom is bigger sized than me. And one more thing is when the bottom is bigger size the "maneuverability" will be limited mostly from me getting tired... old liao. As far as I am aware, I am an 'outlier' cos I like bears, cubs and such. Furthermore this conversation has appeared countless of times among all my friends and most tops prefer smaller bottoms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 I prefer my bottom to be about same size or smaller than me so can trigger their g spot and sex them jialat jialat ~ 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masc btm Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 4 hours ago, Behrhunter said: Ideally, I would like them bigger than me whichever role. But I do have to admit that given my size, it is very rare encounter for me. I only had it a handful of times where the bottom is bigger sized than me. And one more thing is when the bottom is bigger size the "maneuverability" will be limited mostly from me getting tired... old liao. As far as I am aware, I am an 'outlier' cos I like bears, cubs and such. Furthermore this conversation has appeared countless of times among all my friends and most tops prefer smaller bottoms. That's what I heard most people say bottoms are smaller and tops are bigger. That's why I always get the tsk tsk tsk, you so masculine, why you bottom so wasted. Train until so cham only to attract men to fuck me what for, so cham. But then bottoms like me are meant for a special type of tops who are more aggressive. These type don't care how big I am, they are always so horny they'll fuck anything with a juicy warm hole. Because of my high metabolic rate, they always tell me my hole is very warm and juicy inside. We are made for each other and it's a mixed blessing. It's a curse when I'm hooked, condemned to be a cheap bottom. A blessing because they can fuck me until I cry father cry mother, it's so worth it. Sometimes it's unbelievable how hard they can fuck, like energizer bunny. I'm so heavy and they can still treat me like a cheap fuck doll. Of course I have to try to make it easier for him letting him climb on top of me doggy style. In missionary style, even I have trouble keeping my legs up since they are thick and so heavy and I'm not as flexible down there as the smaller bottoms. Sometimes I even get muscle cramps when they force my legs wide open. Really bopian, who ask me to be bottom, consider that to be good stretching exercise for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 15 minutes ago, Guest Masc btm said: That's what I heard most people say bottoms are smaller and tops are bigger. That's why I always get the tsk tsk tsk, you so masculine, why you bottom so wasted. Train until so cham only to attract men to fuck me what for, so cham. But then bottoms like me are meant for a special type of tops who are more aggressive. These type don't care how big I am, they are always so horny they'll fuck anything with a juicy warm hole. Because of my high metabolic rate, they always tell me my hole is very warm and juicy inside. We are made for each other and it's a mixed blessing. It's a curse when I'm hooked, condemned to be a cheap bottom. A blessing because they can fuck me until I cry father cry mother, it's so worth it. Sometimes it's unbelievable how hard they can fuck, like energizer bunny. I'm so heavy and they can still treat me like a cheap fuck doll. Of course I have to try to make it easier for him letting him climb on top of me doggy style. In missionary style, even I have trouble keeping my legs up since they are thick and so heavy and I'm not as flexible down there as the smaller bottoms. Sometimes I even get muscle cramps when they force my legs wide open. Really bopian, who ask me to be bottom, consider that to be good stretching exercise for me. I never say no to a muscle bottom. I personally have a weakness for beefy asses 😎as they have a bounce when you pound them. Gozu and aftereightme 1 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenjikenji Posted October 29, 2019 Report Share Posted October 29, 2019 I guess I don’t have preference as long both are comfortable . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Behrhunter Posted November 1, 2019 Report Share Posted November 1, 2019 On 10/29/2019 at 10:00 PM, Guest Masc btm said: That's what I heard most people say bottoms are smaller and tops are bigger. That's why I always get the tsk tsk tsk, you so masculine, why you bottom so wasted. Train until so cham only to attract men to fuck me what for, so cham. But then bottoms like me are meant for a special type of tops who are more aggressive. These type don't care how big I am, they are always so horny they'll fuck anything with a juicy warm hole. Because of my high metabolic rate, they always tell me my hole is very warm and juicy inside. We are made for each other and it's a mixed blessing. It's a curse when I'm hooked, condemned to be a cheap bottom. A blessing because they can fuck me until I cry father cry mother, it's so worth it. Sometimes it's unbelievable how hard they can fuck, like energizer bunny. I'm so heavy and they can still treat me like a cheap fuck doll. Of course I have to try to make it easier for him letting him climb on top of me doggy style. In missionary style, even I have trouble keeping my legs up since they are thick and so heavy and I'm not as flexible down there as the smaller bottoms. Sometimes I even get muscle cramps when they force my legs wide open. Really bopian, who ask me to be bottom, consider that to be good stretching exercise for me. I still dont understand the logic of "being wasted". Although I have this strange attraction towards guys taller and bigger sized to me (I'm 177/90 now) which is difficult to get. Almost all my encounters and boyfriends are about my height. i think the shortest was 170 and bearish. One of my previous fb is also more muscular than me at my fittest point of my life and same height as me .. Sex was great actually .. just that sometimes he has to assist with supporting his own weight. But i am not an alpha or aggressive person though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious Posted October 20, 2023 Report Share Posted October 20, 2023 90% of the time, I get men who are less muscular than I am, more Twinkish, in fact, and they happily top me, while relishing and ravishing my body they claim is bigger and better than theirs. Most of the time in bathhouses, the more muscular the man, the more likely he is a bottom catch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted October 20, 2023 Report Share Posted October 20, 2023 Not sure if tops are bigger build, in general. What I noticed is those w nicer body/physique are more bottom. 🤐 asiandaddy, Maxxi, HungDudePinoy and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxxi Posted October 21, 2023 Report Share Posted October 21, 2023 1 hour ago, bluerunner said: Not sure if tops are bigger build, in general. What I noticed is those w nicer body/physique are more bottom. 🤐 Agreed 100% xD bluerunner 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post shooterjock Posted October 22, 2023 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 22, 2023 I’d happily fuck anyone with a nice-ish body but my wildest experiences have been with really small and lean twinks (like <165cm small) don’t ask me why just a personal fetish 🙂 Ann_Onn, bluerunner, mate69 and 3 others 2 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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