Do tops like their btms to be smaller sized physically? or btms... like their tops to be bigger

[Guest Guest]

On 10/21/2023 at 6:52 AM, bluerunner said:

Not sure if tops are bigger build, in general. What I noticed is those w nicer body/physique are more bottom. 🤐

Means btm needs to train up their body as muscular and nice as possible to attract top?

[Guest Curious]

44 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Means btm needs to train up their body as muscular and nice as possible to attract top?

You bet. They love knowing that they can grind a submissive bottom that's way more muscular than they. 

[mate69]

On 10/20/2023 at 6:37 PM, Maxxi said:

Agreed 100% xD

Yes totally

[mate69]

On 10/20/2023 at 7:54 AM, Guest Curious said:

90% of the time, I get men who are less muscular than I am, more Twinkish, in fact, and they happily top me, while relishing and ravishing my body they claim is bigger and better than theirs.

 

Most of the time in bathhouses, the more muscular the man, the more likely he is a bottom catch.

Absolutely true 

[chiPJ]

when i T, can be hot if i f another bigger guy... when I B, i also don't mind the top is smaller but with a bigger dick haha.

[earth_tone]

I prefer smaller. 

[Sky894]

Prefer slim fun-sized btm twinks...yng, smooth n fair skin drives me wild...😈

But chemistry more impt, though I admit tht as a 175cm top...anywhere near 190cm looks intimidating...a little awkward to manhandle too...😅

[evilR]

I’m always on the lookout for bottom guys that are tall and big/muscular. But then those guys are always looking for someone around the same as them, so… sigh 😌

[Guest Guest]

Personally, I'm a fan of so called big sub small top due to the implicit reverse power dynamics and all that.

 

I'm not the size and physique I am desiring as a bottom, but am training my way up there to fufill this desire of mine

[mly99]

On 10/25/2023 at 9:38 PM, Sky894 said:

Prefer slim fun-sized btm twinks...yng, smooth n fair skin drives me wild...😈

But chemistry more impt, though I admit tht as a 175cm top...anywhere near 190cm looks intimidating...a little awkward to manhandle too...😅

Im 24 165 42kg.... Sadly not fair skin 

[Xos]

To the contrary I do find it a huge turn on when:

1. The btm is bigger and more muscular which translates to

2. A bigger and more perky butt

3. Huge bonus for flipflopping 

[anxiousfriedtofu]

Yes, it makes sense to have a physically dominant top handle me. If they're not physically larger, then at least they must be more masculine than I am during the encounter. It just feels more intense when all you see is a large hunk of meat in front or behind you and you are literally at their mercy. At the same time, you know you'll make them feel superior by being the smaller one. Which makes for a more meaningful encounter. You happy, I happy.

Edited February 8, 2024 by anxiousfriedtofu
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