Guest Lossluv Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 We were dating, however we distant from each other. Some shit happen & we confronted the matter. He doesn't want to commit into a ltr at the moment however suggest we still can hang out. I ask him if he still has me in his heart, he replied "Yes." What am I to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 he is not ready to settle down yet, perhaps you not really the type of guy he is looking for, so he don't want to commit anything, do you believe his word or shit? you seem like a spare tyre Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Be strong Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 You have certain expectations. And so does he. Right now, it seems that they do not match. Talk to him. Make it clear to him who you are and what you are looking for. Can a solution be found? A reasonable compromise? How long can you wait? You can't wait forever. Is he serious about the relationship? Or are you just another guy for him to fuck? Do what you must. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just4fun Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 Not this shit again. Move on and get a life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 17 minutes ago, Just4fun said: Not this shit again. Move on and get a life! I hear you. Fortunately or unfortunately, people are going to continue falling in love with guys who cannot commit. It's not news, but to the person going through it the first time, it is new. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just4fun Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 There are just too many uncommitted and siao lang around. 1 moment say this, tge other moment say another things. Sometimes don't really know how to trust people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynox Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 For starters, you can let him go... i get that you love him and all that but he has made his stance clear. Is it heartbreaking? Yes I'm sure it is. Is it friendship ending? No.. not even close. You guys have the option of just staying friends - benefits or without that's up to you. Learn to accept things you can't change. He has his path and you have yours, maybe they will meet in the future. But just not now. Curl up in bed. Cry. Get angry. Vent. After all that emotion is out, you'll feel a lot better having not chase something with a nonexistent future. Learn. Grow. Change. It'll make you stronger. p.s. Him loving you isn't gonna mean much at this point. He values his freedom more than he does a relationship, which is understandable - im assuming you guys are pretty guy. not everyone is very to settle down. We just have to accept their decision and just be there for them. Maybe your presence can convince him otherwise. Be his friend. Not his boyfriend. Not some jealous ex. Be his friend. melvinlam90, blowmenow, looowpy and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 unless u r ok being his nsa fb, else move on. he's just not that into u. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Silly Posted May 1, 2017 Report Share Posted May 1, 2017 You should ask if you are the only one la. Anyway with apps like jackd and grindr its easy to meet other attractive guys with a press on the button. There is no "true love" in this community. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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